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January 15 2010
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RHP User
16 years ago
Only because she was asleep, and i wouldn't have woken her to ask. I have been allowed to play on my own in the past.This other girl wasn't drunk/stoned was she?Thats dangerous territory, and personally i wont be party to playing with women who aren't in control of their faculties.I am sure we have all heard of the later rape allegations that can come from that, and no sex is worth that.If she is genuinely keen, it can still happen at a later date.Cheers Nev
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RHP User
16 years ago
I think your partner was perfectly lovely to say that it would have been alright with her if you'd gone. It demonstrates her trust and love.I think your judgment was perfectly right not to have gone. Obviously at the time it was the right decision for you. And that's all that counts.
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RHP User
16 years ago
You thought it would be cheaing and you said no! You're a good man - not everyone would be that strong:)xx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Trust is hard to find. I can not tell you the amount of times we have seen people disagreeing at swingers clubs , many times it appears to us its about trust! What you did was demonstrate that you could be trusted by your partner. Well done! (apologies if there is an over patronising tone ) Even in the swinging world trust can be in short supply at times. You set rules , you followed them! Really nice! Yes next time you go out you may find your rules have changed between you and your partner. Our rules have changed over time. The way we started out is now very different to how we are now. I believe part of this is because our trust levels have changed. I can honestly say I believe our relationship is now stronger than when we started this journey 2 and a bit years ago. Yes in fact our trust has grown. I would have done exactly the same as you for the record a little time ago. In fact would have still to today. But I do in fact NOW also play alone , which was sugggested and in fact encouraged by my partner. Having the trust of your partner to be sent in the room to "wake someone up" is devine. The difference to today is , in your situation, she would tell me to get on the phone the next morning and arrange another date sometime, just the other gal and I. Trust and better relationships for all sexy swingers xx Brae
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RHP User
16 years ago
you showed you are a man with strength of character...and respect for your girlfriend...and believe it or not...also respect for the other girl as well...cheersjose...
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RHP User
16 years ago
Your a good strong man mxxxmbut did it cross your mind to invite her back to yours and give your gf a nice surprise?
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RHP User
16 years ago
Wouldn't this be classed as cheating? I don't get swinging...you're with someone,whom you have a sexual relationship with,but you have sex with other people.Apparently it's not cheating if your partner knows about it,but if you don't tell them it is cheating??!?!! I'm seriously confused and a lil pissed us single guys are missing out and you're double dipping.....
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RHP User
16 years ago
I think it's truly wonderful that your girlfriend trusts you and your relationship enough to have told you you should have gone, but I have to commend you for making the right decision here. What rubs me up the wrong way though, is that it was made fairly clear during the night that you were looking for a female playmate either as a couple or for your girlfriend to play with alone. I cannot believe she then had the hide to call insisting that YOU go and play alone knowing full well that your girlfriend was asleep - effectively stabbing another woman in the back.
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Wanna73
16 years ago
Good on you for not going, the other chic knew the story but by the sounds of it only wanted you. Your girlfriend said you should have gone when you told her the next morning. I could have been a completely different story with your gf if you had told her the next morning you had gone and fucked someone else while she was sleeping. Why didn't the chic just go home with you both?
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RHP User
16 years ago
I read the posts and was thinking the same thing myself. There are far too few people that show little or no respect for others wishes/relationships etc etc and only care about what it is they can get from a situation. This is perfectly clear in thise situation. Id not have gone either and also would have told my partner and would hope that a mutual decision would be arrived at that this is not a person we would play with. Respect for people above all else I say ..........
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RHP User
16 years ago
I agree with everyone (except whitehawk)... Mr Sassy would never have gone without asking first, and wouldn't have woken me to do so... so massive cudo points there! You showed not only strength but respect. Also Sonsie raised the real issue... you made it perefectly clear what you were after and she still tried to cut ur girlfriends grass by inviting you only... low move on her part IMO. Inviting her back to ur house would have been a good idea, a tastey treat for both of you to enjoy! Hope you get that fun in the near future anyway... with someone who does respect what the two of you are after! Mrs Sassy
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RHP User
16 years ago
Some swingers have an agreement that they can play with others solo but I would think the meaning of an open relationship is that it is OPEN.....that things are agreed to.....mutually and everything is out in the open......I respect that although this girl offered herslf to you on a plate and even though you are obviously both pretty open minded, if not swingers, you kept your cool and declined the offer.....I think your girl has a nice, respectful fella on her hands and I suspect hat you and her will enjoy LOTS of fun, sexy times in the future because you have shown mutual respect for each other and your relationship.....the same can not be said for the other young lady.... Having said that....I would appreciate you forwarding the said young lady's phone number to me so that I can give her a damm good seeing....um...talking to !! Very Bad Dog.
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RHP User
16 years ago
ahhh would have gone.ahhh dude what were u thinking>?????? wussy
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RHP User
16 years ago
I'm sorry to have painted the wrong picture about our random, lets call her miss x( its more respectful.) Lets make 1 thing clear, miss x was so comfortable with us both that she knew it was ok to ask. 4nicake: I can't believe that i am such a stupid bastard and that i didn't even think to ask miss x to cum over our place.LOL Anyway since then we have all played together with no problems, what a fantastic night. With any luck it can happen again. mxxxm
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RHP User
16 years ago
mxxm your not so stupid after all you lucky barstard nnnnnnn
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1975mysteryman10
16 years ago
Happens to me all the time. My phone rings off the hook. NOT!!!!! Good to see you have RESPECT for your girl
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RHP User
16 years ago
If I was in that situation whilst out at a club with a girlfriend and after telling her your partners wishes and she started kissing you both...I wouldnt have waited untill 5am to leave the place, I would have left straight away with them both and like you said I would have been more than happy to watch or join in !!!!
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RHP User
16 years ago
There's no way I would have gone. I mean, I really enjoy sex but I totally love sleeping if I can. :p I've been woken up in teh middle of the night for one of those sleepy passionate vigourous sessions where I hardly open my eyes..go crazy wild... and fall back to sleep... wake up sex... that's truly excellent sex... but to have to get out of bed.. drive half way across town... because someone has made a booty call... absolutely no way.. jeese.... meet for a decent breakfast and let's fuk then... hehe. Booty calls in the middle of the night? No thanks... my phone is on the charger on silent anyway. Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hey Ellarnsback, Dude can't msg ya, try my hot mail account. just my name in front!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hey Ellarnsback, Dude can't msg ya, try my hot mail account. just my name in front!
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