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reality vs internet
March 16 2010
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RHP User
16 years ago
IN my oppinion....wether your BBW or Taut and Tiny......Sexy is Not a Look ...Its an Attitude.....!Attitudes are contagious....But in todays superficial fast pased world the message is lost in translation all too often
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RHP User
16 years ago
Not sure of the answer sexyme..some people maybe more brave behind the keyboard ?
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RHP User
16 years ago
Nudie is so on the money with that comment. Sexy is an attitude. In a crowded pub where no-one can hear each other... it's can be difficult to shine.. .so people go on first impressions.. get home and realise they've got themselves a dud... lolz.. Ok... that's the hypothesis.... so... now to put it to the test. lolz... who wants to come to the pub... or who would rather just get naked at the next opportunistic event? Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
16 years ago
It maybe easier for them to appraach women through here than they would in reality. Something about confidence/courage/fear of rejection/embarrassments.If you get my drift.I agree with Nudie Rudie. Its not the look. its the attitude.
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RHP User
16 years ago
As a bbw I was not considered dating material. Not so much as a passing glance came my way. When I look back at old photos I see a 42 yo frump with no self confidence. No wonder!! 50 kgs lighter later....... I like what I see in my photos. No frump, very sexy. My clothes and my bearing reflect that. Passing glances galore! I think guys like a woman with curves and confidence. One of my guys said to me that there is nothing more arousing than a woman who knows she is sexy. I think we gain a bit of confidence from the anonymity of being online and thats why you are more successful here. Just have fun and see what happens. Good luck with it!
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RHP User
16 years ago
i never really thought about it that way. just seen cousins and friends do pub scene shack up with a guy a and it has worked out,so im guessing thats a very small majority then right stalky and Nudie.
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RHP User
16 years ago
In pub situations guys are with their mates, and there's a HUGE stigma attached to hitting on the "fat chick". Even guys who like big women, will struggle on that kind of peer pressure. I have a friend who for years thought he must have been gay because he just didn't find attractive the girls his school friends were lusting after.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Polar Bear Girl has just smashed the nail fair on the head. Men, in particular young men, are more in fear of peer perception than anything else to the point they die in car wrecks and in misadventures trying to impress their mates and gain acceptance. Now at my age I see mates who are less inhibited about dating bigger girls because the social group is more accepting of all things now we're grown ups.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Firstly, this is not directed at sexyme nor any particular woman here, it is just my thoughts and my observations.Of course all women will be popular on a site like this. Firstly it is purely a numbers thing, just too few ladies to go around. But mainly it is the men here. For some, this is their only contact with women, and they can talk sex, damn they are in heaven. For some guys, the way they treat women here, even the type of women they chat to here, is far far removed from how they would act in real life. If there is a chance of a flash of boobs, the access to a private gallery, some guys here will say anything to anyone. How many times have you seen some guy declare his undying love for someone in a chat room?Luckily most women see straight thru the shit feed to them but for a small number, it becomes reality. Unfortunately they begin to believe all the things some guys say to them and then run smack bang into the reality wall when they expect the same type of adulation in real life.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Exactamundo Duuuude! I find myself cheering Mooka yet again! Watch out mate...this could rapidly turn into the very type of thing you describe in the latter part of your thread...lol
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