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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  and be yourself.   Depends on your preference, you can either frolick in here with the rest of us (don't worry, we don't bite too hard) or go straight to webcam chat, say hi and have your say in there. If you populate both sections, you may find a few familiar names in both sections of this site.   Or, if you prefer private chats, just look at a few profiles and just say hi to those who fit what you're looking for (and make sure you fit what their profiles state they're looking for too). Go for a little originality and give them a reason to want to reply.   Most importantly, remember to bring your sense of humour when entering, be yourself and have fun!

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  If some of that doesn't quite make sense, blame the current time and my brain being sozzled due to having gone through the 574 songs on my itunes and a slight hyperness as Thursday gets closer (woohoo!!!).

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Hey B, Look around at the private parties and swingers clubs as they are a great way to network with people. Also jump in the chat room, as you can mingle and get to know ppl...

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Welcome,   No matter what u do on here always stay respectful and be honest in your profile.   That seems to work.

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Here's what I think about showing photos to other members:The general rule,: I think that males who have paid for a membership should put all their full-frontal photos in their private gallery. Accordingly, they present themselves as an interested person in their first message and only offer to show more risque pictures if the recipient expresses an interest in taking things further. This shows you are respectful and non-aggressive, and that you are prepared to let the other person set the pace, as opposed to not caring about the other person's reality and coming across as a horny, desperate sex fiend (unless you want to portray yourself as a nympho sleazebag). The exception:I see you describe yourself as 'experimental'. I don't know much about how males approach males, but I suspect the more direct approach is appreciated. Thus, when contacting guys or people with more bold/daring profiles, perhaps revealing your naughty photos on first contact is a good idea, accompanied with an upfront comment about your sexual needs.Ultimately, people are different and you should read profiles properly and let this information guide your actions. Some require a more sociable approach and want to get a sense of you, whereas others are more interested in arranging the where and when if they see someone they like the look of. One more thing about paying attention to profile wording. This is a good idea so you can avoid contacting people who have seeking criteria that don't match your personal characteristics. Nobody likes rejection.

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Check peoples 'looking for' if they're only looking for women DON'T hit on them. Send a basic message with a greeting and hold back on what you want to do to them. Be genuine. Meet before play: or you might wind up alone in a hotel with nothing to do except watch porn. Sell yourself well. Don't promise what you can't deliver. Keep your profile pic cute but neutral: you're doing well now!   Check their bodysize before you meet up, (only if you don't want a certain size) You'd be surprised how many people's photos are about 30kg ago!

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Depending on where you are these can be held fairly regularly. They are a great way of socialising and checking people out before you take things further. Like others have said, get into the chat rooms and let people see you are a thinking and considerate human being. If you are witty without being rude that can attract very positive attention. Have fun.

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Hello B_ret, I am sure everyone will give you good advice, all I wanted to say was you are much better off going out to the events and parties to meet people than online. Also this forum or the chat room are both good places to strike up a friendship with like minded people. Maybe someone to go out to the parties with perhaps. I have met and formed friendships with quite a lot of people from this forum. :D M

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  QLDtwo4fun

  13 years ago

  Being a single guy is tough, there are so many of them here. Read people's profiles, are they looking for you is the question. If you only message people who are looking for someone like you it has got to reduce the knock backs.

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Hi! b-ret182 :) Thanks for your topic ..Welcomr to RHP Hun ..I read your Profile to check if it could be improved upon ..I found it Sincere Genuine informative ..You're a very nice guy and No you don't come across as Desperate or weird.. You came to the right place to seek Advice ..The People in the Forums are always so very helpful .Everything they've suggested has been worthwhile .I can't really add to what's been suggested other than .. 1.If you're a Guest Buy some MGSs..The Only way you'll get replies that will go anywhere is if you do unless you Luck Out have a Female Full Member most of us are Guests. No amount of winks shared will really go beyond that .. 2. 1st Contact MSG is very Important so share your Name.. let them know why you're attracted to them . Why you want to know them more.. 3. Most Importantly just Kick Back Chill..Have a fun Time..because .What's yours will come to You .. That's true in everything ..So The Women Who Are Meant To be in Your Life you for What ever Reason will cross Your Path You'll Enjoy Eachother..:) Good Luck Hun Cheers Lu :)

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