RHP

RHP User

M52

tough site

July 24 2013

Wow this site is tough seems like unless you have been on steroids and covered in tats you just don't get any interest and not many reply's to emails got me wondering if I fit in here at all

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Yep yep people can certainly be superficial and pretentious on this site...   My advice is to be true to yourself, be genuine and if you connect or establish anything further at least you are with a shot of finding what your seeking :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Would you just like to be reassured? I read you profile, and I must say that your lack of punctuation is concerning. Also, if you cannot be bothered writing "people" instead of "ppl", how will I believe you'll take your time with me?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Works well for me :) Daxx effort get reward mate

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Well, yes there are bunch of very,very fit boyz on here but i believe not every girls are looking for those type of men anyway ..some like their men less muscular too , so i think your words are very important , for example when a hot guy with hot bod with his perfect Torso sending me trashy message , i can guaranteed you he is not gonna win me and i dont care how perfect his body is , so there you go words are very , very important to win a woman's heart , its proven. good luck !

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I don't mind the ppl........... but some full stops dude!! It is hard to read. Where does one sentence start and the other end? If your profile isn't working have you tried changing a few things? Possibly a few more photo instead of just an arm. A nice picture of your face smiling is always good, although I know not everyone likes to have them in the public views. Also, and I am not sure if this is true, but having experimental and up for anything implies that you are into men as well. Not sure if you are or not, but that not appeal to a lot of women. I might consider changing the "up for anything" because I bet you .......... I am sure I could probably suggest some things you wouldn't be up for. So be careful what you say there. M

  • Cheekyarses

    Cheekyarses

    12 years ago

    Well I disagree! I have met ppl of all shapes n sizes with or without tats

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Of course this site is tough, men far outnumber the women here, and any single man has to compete with not only other single men but (it seems most of the women), couples and other women after them as well.   If you don't have a Chippendale body you have to rely on something to stand out, whether it be a well written profile, good profile pics or be noticed in the chatroom and/or forums.   Remember it only takes one or two things wrong with your profile to give the woman an excuse to close it and go to the next guy on the list.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    However, I won't meet smokers and sometimes dude, an hour is all I've got.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    But you need more pics. Go creative. One of my all time favourites was a guy showing his body off while fucking a watermelon. It was a classic and I was instantly drawn to him.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Personally I like someone to cuddle, and am not into tats at all........

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Your profile is heaps better than a lot I have read. For myself, I like a clean skinned man. No tats = ok in my book.

  • wingman2014

    wingman2014

    12 years ago

    It's no different to any other part of the mating game. It's a jungle out there. Lots of men competing for the attention of a limited number of interested females. Thousands of similar profiles , so you have to try to stand out from the crowd . Highlight your profile with details of what you really like and want don't just make it generic.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    we women like words. Men who can spinn a yarn or two, write poetry and show a smiley face are just so sexy.I am for instance in older men more towards my age. The body doesn't mean anything to me, when you get older we just dont look like "the body " anymore, the interaction with me means a lot.Is he funny when we chat, can he write back and get my punches? All this is attractive to me, and some men got it and others don't. You will find it takes a while to find the right words on your profile, and the right connections with people, give it time don't give up it will happen. But don't be an arsh when you write to women and they don't write back or say no. Accept it and learn from it. cheers and good luck. L

  • sweetgem

    sweetgem

    12 years ago

    I am curious to know what makes you think that women in the RHP land are only into muscular men with tattoos? Not every man I had met was muscular or covered in tats, it was the way they presented themselves in the public, the way they spoke, and the way they treated a lady that attracted me. In fact, I would run away if a man has too many tats. So, if you haven't had many success on this site, I think you would need to check on your behaviour and attitude first, though it's easier to blame the others.- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I agree with sweetgem. I don't get ladies because of muscles or tats as I am average build...

  • 1playfulcpl

    1playfulcpl

    12 years ago

    not everything happens at once an the best maybe waitng for like mr an mrs cheeky we have met ppl a long time after first contact so things will happen

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Daxxx, sorry buddy but think you may be chasing the wrong tail then. The men I have enjoyed exchanging messages with most on here didn't even have a photo that wasn't in a private gallery. They may not look like Adonis, but they have clearly gotten one concept... While the way to a man's heart may be through his stomach, the way to a woman's is through her brain. Be genuine, ask us a question that shows you are interested in more than our cup size and see if your luck changes.- Posted from rhpmobile

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    12 years ago

    Put in a little extra effort and who knows what's around the corner. Personally a six IMHO is best shared with your mates....usually around a BBQ. (Shrugs) but that's just me. As for tuffy stickers, that is also personal preference. Put a bit more effort into your marketing strategy and watch the women flock to you. Lol :) Indy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    That's just the thing ,I have not asked about cup size or gone in all sleazy, just tried to make conversation (maybe im too boring ) find a connection. Guess im just loosing confidence with the lack of interest or tyring to talk with the wrong ppl and seems like there is not many single lady's around my area ...Thanks to all for your advice ,I will try some new things and see how I go

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Maybe you need a watermelon in the picture I had not thought of that one Maybe you need to be in a onse, one of those animal suits you could pickup an animal lover- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Mr and I are on here to fulfil our fantasies. We're not interested in doing that with people we're not sexually attracted too. We're also not about to lower our standards because 'they might be really nice people'. We're able to, and going to be, picky.I am also very much aware that everyone has different tastes and there are people out there who do not like people who are ripped or muscular. There are many someone's for everyone.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    They're all tough!All of the sites I frequent are like this.Being able to stand out in this crowd is hard. Just need to be unique and creative.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'chevtrek' I agree with sweetgem. I don't get ladies because of muscles or tats as I am average build... According to your other posts you get heaps !

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I don't think it is hard to meet people on this site. But you have to keep in mind there is a male:female ratio of like 66 billion guys to 10 women. (slight exaggeration).Don't be like every other idiot and show how you are different - what you can offer, that no-one else can. I bet more than half the messages women get on this site sound the same, so to conclude - make the effort and you will stand out.Be honest and stay away from coming off as stupid.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Yeah i know where your coming from you read the profiles and it states friends with benefits so you reply and you rather dont get a reply or its your not what ime looking for I just dont get it whats the harm in chating to find out what the person is like before passing judgment who agrees.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    1. Go into a chat room and make a goose of yourself.. it works for me2.Go to social drinks when they are on,great way to meet people in a safe environment3.Post in forums so people see what type of person you are.4.Join the RHP UNION ,where men look out for one another!5.Cock shots ,plenty of cock shots bwahahha ! that's all i have in my album! 6.Tell women you want em to use a strap on ,on you ...7.Don't take this place to serious or expect anything from here!

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    12 years ago

    Just stick to what works, Kizza will see you right there daxxx! Simplicity.Mado

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting '50zkool' Quoting 'chevtrek' I agree with sweetgem. I don't get ladies because of muscles or tats as I am average build... According to your other posts you get heaps ! hahah read it again Kool, you've taken it the wrong way, (which is easy to do)...he is saying he doesnt get the ladies because he has muscles and tats, its for other reasons

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Kizza1973' 1. Go into a chat room and make a goose of yourself.. it works for me2.Go to social drinks when they are on,great way to meet people in a safe environment3.Post in forums so people see what type of person you are.4.Join the RHP UNION ,where men look out for one another!5.Cock shots ,plenty of cock shots bwahahha ! that's all i have in my album! 6.Tell women you want em to use a strap on ,on you ...7.Don't take this place to serious or expect anything from here!Totally agree with all your points Kizza, especially number 6. You naughty devil. I have met probably close to 100 men and women from RHP by attending events and from getting to know people through this forum. It's a good way of meeting people.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'mike1961' Yeah i know where your coming from you read the profiles and it states friends with benefits so you reply and you rather dont get a reply or its your not what ime looking for I just dont get it whats the harm in chating to find out what the person is like before passing judgment who agrees. Yes but Mike, some women get lots and lots of messages. It's like a full time job answering them. So, unfortunately women have the luxury of being very picky on RHP. It's all about the limited supply and very high demand. Like Kizza has said, and I also mentioned it on your thread too. Go out there and meet people. Don't rely on online dating.

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Kizza1973'1. Go into a chat room and make a goose of yourself.. it works for me 2.Go to social drinks when they are on,great way to meet people in a safe environment 3.Post in forums so people see what type of person you are. 4.Join the RHP UNION ,where men look out for one another! 5.Cock shots ,plenty of cock shots bwahahha ! that's all i have in my album! 6.Tell women you want em to use a strap on ,on you ... 7.Don't take this place to serious or expect anything from here! So now there's no excuse for anyone in Brisbane to have this whinge!! Come along and have a chat, it's the perfect opportunity to put faces to names and have a laugh in a no pressure social environment. Chat with myself or Submissivegal or even Superfoxy if you like. Indagine

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    like LoveCurvie and and the birds will pay more attention

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    ...a great many of the 'roid monsters are photo shopped.