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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  You love her, and thinks that she loves you? What is the problem..tell her...talk to her..COMMUNICATE!! Don't second guess what is wrong or what is going on...just simply ask. I was in love with a man after having been with him for six months and could never forget him (I also had a daughter to him). I rang his number a few times just to hear his voice on his voicemail, but never had the guts to talk! He lived in the USA so a bit hard to stalk him lol. Well, 4 years ago I googled his name and found that he had been shot multiple times (one of those random drive by's)...it devastated me...What kept going through my head was What if I? What If I?...I spoke to his parents after that day (and we still chat on msn and on the phone) and found out that he had spoken of me often and even the day before he died..he asked his Step-Mum..What if I?? We were both so afraid of rejection...we did not communicate our feelings and now I have to live with that all my life. My point is...if you really love this person, don't let time or life slip by to tell them how you feel. If she does not feel the same way...at least you know and can start the healing process. If she returns your feelings...won't you feel great for the rest of your life for having spoken to her? Rejection is really not a big deal...we get rejected in life every day by inanimate objects that we want...so why should we be affected by someone that we love? Its just an ego thing. I wish you all the best in the world and keep positive xox

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  the 2 of you really need to sit down and talk...find out where you both stand roxxy xxx

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  Call her back in three days. Hugs Gaz

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  Mate don't make assumptions....we all know they are the mother of all fuck ups! I can think of a dozen reasons that have nothing to do with you.Send her a text, and ask her if she is OK.Good Luck Fella!Cheers Nev

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  Leave the poor woman alone! I'm sure she's not intentionally trying to annoy you, why are you trying to annoy her? Seriously, I'm sure she's busy or just needs some alone time, and it will all be fine. People have lives and commitments outside of their relationships - you should chill out some, why assume the worst? If you obsess about it you'll just drive yourself crazy and her away. Shiny

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