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why won't he??

March 10 2012

Ok so I understand that a lot of guys like going down on their girl & I have been lucky enough to have always have had partners that have delighted me with their tounges & quite frankly I love it so my questions is this.. my new partner whom I have been sleeping with for about 2 & a half months just doesn't do it :( it has literally happened twice in the whole time we have been sleeping together which has been on average about 5 - 8 times a week. The 2 times that he has he seemed to really enjoy it & enjoyed that it got me off. Now I feel I am quite receptive. In all other regards he is a fantastic lover, very snuggly, we kiss a lot & I have gone down on him many timesI am not scared of asking for what I want in the bedroom but surely after hinting at it before the first time & enjoying it SO much that he could clearly tell I was in ecstasy why won't he do it more???It is frustrating the hell out of me coz I have never experienced this before & I don't know how to approach the topic so guys is there any reason he just won't go there? I am totally clean, gorgeous & shaven!!

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Well now. Maybe you haven't earned your reward? hehe. Turn it into a role play game of course. Hugs Stalky

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I cant imagine anyone not wanting to go down end enjoy giving oral, just doesnt compute!

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Push him down on the bed, straddle his chest (it's all about the angle) and tease his cock with your mouth. Waggle your butt/cunt in his face and, assuming he just doesn't like the taste of you, he should just dive in. Once he starts, rewards his efforts with sucking. If he stops, then you stop. Pavlov.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    He figures he has put in the hard yards, in that respect. Clearly If he was really enjoying himself....he would still be doing it.Just a show pony.Felonius

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  • erotictouch4u

    erotictouch4u

    14 years ago

    Maybe while he is doing it he is not actually understanding what it is doing to you ? If you make the same sounds and motions during normal sex and foreplay then why would he want to change ? You can always invite a 3rd to show him exactly how much it gets you off and what it really does to you. Then he will understand and might want to a bit more. ET xox

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Mr InAdditionTo reckons that shaved ones can be a bit uncomfortable (pash rash) - and prefers a nice Brazilian wax job, or natural (with hair) over shaved as it is much kinder on his skin . Just his thoughts....

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Well now Im really surprised Stalky didnt beat me to the punch line here, but have you ever thought of pinning that boy to the bed, walking up his body on your knees and straddling his head, reach down to grab his hair , and say......"I want you to lick me like you did before, it drives me insane" He might just need a bit of encouragement, or he might want you to make him do it find out the fun way

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    ...although I like what DGT said. Just tell him how much you like it and see what happens...sometimes guys, even after a couple of months, need a little encouragement and are still at that awkward stage where they are still trying to figure out what you like and what you really like. Wait until his motor is revving like a Grand Prix race car then whisper it his ear...that should do it. We also come equipped with an auto-pilot...I just hope his works well, it should get him right over the runway and you ready to take off. | Just talk about it...that's a great form of oral sex too.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    By now he should be going down on you freely! Although he seemed to enjoy it with you before, I think he probably had a bad run in with someone else in the past and isn't normally into it nowadays. I suggest being being open and honest about what you want. Don't be afraid to tell him!

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I love it when you talk dirty DGT! Hugs Stalky

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    where tf did all those other posts come from Cripes RHP quit with the delayed postings already, it confuses my pussy ummmm head . Stalky, stop that...you know I love it when you call me a bitch grrrrowwwlll

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    still confused as hell but think honesty is the best policy cheers & hugs xx

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    who was reticent about giving oral because caught something from doing that once ...he didn't tell me until I asked, but when he told me and we talked about it, it didn't change his reticence. He was just really nervous about it ...

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Tell him you will not blow him unless he reciprocates.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'jensman1903' Tell him you will not blow him unless he reciprocates. or rope. Or both? :Dxx Sarah

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I knew of a man that did not like to receive fellatio...but loved to give cunnilingus...Some women would of loved that situation..... .....It drove me spare ...Crazy as it seems....all kinds shape a world...perhaps he is just not your kind....

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    i certainly feel your pain mizzjane! i'm going through the same experience myself at the moment but have only been seeing him a couple of weeks! its hard to know whether to say anything - and what for the matter, for fear of insulting the poor guy! perhaps the other ladies are right, its about positioning your body! good luck friend!

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Maybe he likes creampie and is too scared to say so.. maybe lots of things..   have him on his back whilst you are straddled on him.... and ask him straight out why he doesn't do it. do it while you have playfully nipping his skin with your teeth.. or digging into him with nails...   Oh hang on.. i was getting into my own fantasies there...   Just ASK!!!!!!!! can't do any harm can it?   caveman.... a caveman's logic!!   xx

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    its time ta talk

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Talking about cream pies. Angelic2011 I think someone threw a pie in your face. :D

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    whats his fave food? appropriate food that is , dont let him eat it until he eats it off you/out of you , or just reach over and spray that whipped cream or choc sauce or whatever on it nonchalantly without saying a word... bon appetit , lucky cunt isnt he?

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'Nudierudie2' I knew of a man that did not like to receive fellatio...but loved to give cunnilingus...Some women would of loved that situation..... .....It drove me spare ...Crazy as it seems....all kinds shape a world...perhaps he is just not your kind.... Absolute dealbreaker for me.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Both of you pleasure each other simultaneously .. An option? Talk first, maybe it's something else. Still, 69 it's the way this Latino would go ;) Td&h

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