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Anything Goes
January 18 2018
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RHP User
8 years ago
I personally feel "with all due respect" is much more polite/respectful terninology. It is all a matter of ones own opinion tho. 😊 - Posted from rhpmobile
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Seachange73
8 years ago
Slow day at home 😄😜 Not sure who you referring to wrt to victim mentality but I have seen you support some of your 'friends' displaying such behaviour. So what does that mean? PCKB. Maybe stop the passive aggressive attacks to this particular person. It's getting tiring. 😎
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RHP User
8 years ago
I posted to both PurePeony and Earthqueen what I posted to EartQueen has dissapeared. ?????? Quoting 'Rubi_Rose' I am going to post on the thread I started, I apologise but I am making that choice and have my reasons, for doing so it comes down to some timing of things, I hope you understand Peony.
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RHP User
8 years ago
I've always used that term when I've wandered off a particular topic of conversation and gone off on a tangent. The dictionary defines it as: 'to deviate or wander away from the main topic or purpose in speaking or writing; depart from the principal line of argument, plot, study, etc.' Inspirit, agree that 'with all due respect' means you are going to politely disagree with someone. However, I know that when I use it, I really mean 'I'm gunna be a cunt, so suck it up' 😁
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RHP User
8 years ago
It sounds like your post had a target judging by your last post as far as context goes, thus a 'victim' so to speak. Other than that, I can only speak for myself that I don't view the sight of "I digress" it the same as you and I certainly don't read sheeples in it. Peachy
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RHP User
8 years ago
We all have those that we use that another sees in a different light. The one I use a lot and try to pull myself up on is actually as I know this word over used pisses people off. I don't think anybody is having a dig just our own little pet peeves. And I know I will keep bugging someone each time I post. Shit I see many things I want to respond to but why bother it is only words.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Words and opinions seems to be getting referenced in posts. I would like to be clear about something. Someone meddled into something that was none of their business and because of that the ramifications caused gossip and people becoming wary of me. It was nothing to do with words or opinions it was to to with someones behaviours and believing they had the right to do what they did.
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RHP User
8 years ago
It's ok re posting in your thread. No biggie. 😉👍
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RHP User
8 years ago
Sorry, had to say it, it's one of mine too Pangolin. And Frankly. But I do give a damn. Peachy
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MsJonesy
8 years ago
I'm retreatng to bed with the fan...what an interesting bed partner! Instead of making me hot & bothered it does the opposite 🤣Still 28° at 11pm after a high of 37° .... Melbourne used to cool down at night. 😣
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RHP User
8 years ago
Yes I am thanks, the cooler weather is beautiful. Had an amazing day. Saw my daughter and bf and their two very cute dogs lol The 5 of us had a great time 😁 One is a Great Dane and cute beyond belief 😀
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RHP User
8 years ago
I've been here long enough to know already that I will be judged by my current behaviour by the majority. and I just happen to be the person who will talk to you straight out instead of behind your back. But I'll be reporting the following of me from thread to thread referencing my posts in future. It's not something I want to get involved in with anyone, with due respect to us all. I'll have a look in a minute to see who it was in particular that told me the Mystery mineral in my found piece of quartz is mica. The part of what he said that struck me in particular... Quoting 'Doubleup282'Sounds like a mica crystal and I think you’re right, it came to you when you needed it. The layers in Mica represent the co-existing layers of consciousness and self and it’s shiny surface represent a mirror to allow us to see our flaws in others. A great crystal for healing and self discovery! .There you go, copy and paste of Mr D's quote, thank you. I can see now how other people saw me in the forum at times. I wonder if it was because the lessons I had were so reliably negative that I learned how I didn't want to be. Amazing to see those words under the circumstances. Peachy
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RHP User
8 years ago
flowers bloom in the cooler weather peachy. Gotta watch those roses, the thorns ouch 😉
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RHP User
8 years ago
MsJonesy, I do feel for you! Not literally though, figuratively! Touch, that sounds like my sort of day if I have any choice in it. Similar here... good news for my young ones and I couldn't be happier! Hm, and to the above post, being the way I am I feel like I can relate to how other people might be feeling 'sometimes'. Some people, I just don't get.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' flowers bloom in the cooler weather peachy. Gotta watch those roses, the thorns ouch 😉 Don't talk to me about roses. I got a rose for my birthday last year, (haha nearly killed it in the heat in January), but the bloody thing is literally covered in thorns! It's lucky those blooms smell glorious. And they thought we might like to keep it next to one of the entries! Ah, no. All is good and I'm loving the rest from the heat outside. Peachy, loves her garden of roses...
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RHP User
8 years ago
Not at all and again I stress it was a term I have seen recently in the forums. To be brutually honest here and not digress bit rather with all due respect.... may I suggest you stop being so paranoid and over thinking I literally have NO idea about any shit canning going on in here NOR do I want too. Its none of my business anyway. I have been busy with my mum and her chemo along with all the other palliative needs, to assist my mother in my home, therefore I have my own struggles going on in life.. Calm.the fuck down ey and peace out. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I have swapped messages with you recently and did not dismiss you for being paranoid. I recognised your concern, and in my effort to understand how we got to where we were after more posts exchanged, worked out that the first misunderstanding had come from what you took out of what I had said. Misunderstandings are easy to solve when we make a bit of effort. Peachy
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RHP User
8 years ago
Thank you. Happy to let the ink dry, unlike some 😉
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RHP User
8 years ago
😀 Love this place
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RHP User
8 years ago
I dont recall being paranoid tho I do recall having a concern about a particular person having yet another crack at me. Peachy I am done with this. There is just no easy way to say anything anymore, with out being nit picked at for my generalised comments. Same thing happened before. Im not going in for a third round. Ill leave that up to you ladies. Please do not respond to my my posts thinking I am targeting you or anyone else. Ive made myself quite clear tonight. Be Well. - Posted from rhpmobile
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sweetgem
8 years ago
Is a gift, don’t take it for granted! Within two months of 2017 and 2018 (December - February), this is what has been happening around me: - Two people I know personally and have great respect for, are battling cancers! - Four people I knew personally had passed away (yep, there was another one after my former post about funerals) and I just attended another funeral yesterday (as now is after midnight)! Now I am handling losses like that fine, much better than last year actually, because I have learned to accept that death is not always a bad thing to have happened. Instead, it can be a blessing for some people in certain circumstances, as it means that the deceased would be suffering no more of whatever they were suffering from before their times were done. It can be a blessing for the living ones too, as it would mean that they can move on with their life. So, with this understanding and acceptance, I am now able to handle grief better as well as looking at things differently, and be kinder to my emotions 😊 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I don’t want to be unfair because Ive read like 1% of this thread. But FMD. Some of you need to get out there and get a hobby. This thread is like ,... probably important comments in here somewhere and I am sure the the contributors to this thread read each other’s comments, but you’d be the only ones. I click in occasionally to see if there are any interesting entries, and immediatley log back out really. YEah, yeah, if I’m not interested move along. But 26 pages of $h*^! Come on already. Jeebus!
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RHP User
8 years ago
Is we start a new thread.
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RHP User
8 years ago
I am.sorry to hear of your losses. Grief is never easy. Knowing a loved one is dying and you are doing your best to help them get through it, is soul destroying. You are right tho, it certainly changes you for life. I dont ecpect to be here much more in light of my earlier out burst. So I wish you all the best. 😊 - Posted from rhpmobile
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sweetgem
8 years ago
For your kind words and best wishes 🙏🏼🙏🏼 Likewise, I wish you all the best and well, as you have a lot going on, going by one of your posts. Hope you do have a good network of supports in real life to help you get through your challenges 🙏🏼🙏🏼 It is very soul destroying to witness your loved one dying bit by bit on daily basis! Which I am currently experiencing! But I’ll be strong 💪🏼 and remind myself the purpose of what will be happening at home one day. Take care Inspirit, may the strength of the Universe be with you 🙏🏼🌷 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
You should stay, JMO of course but you have friends here and the place can be a support as you can see, I've seen that light in a lot of lot of posters over time, it's a beautiful thing. I had no intention to say you were paranoid literally, I'm sorry for that. And... I, for one, never held an outburst against anyone... Did I Touch? I hope you know me enough to know I mean that genuinely. Peachy
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RHP User
8 years ago
Yawn so tired.
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RHP User
8 years ago
And hot :(
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RHP User
8 years ago
Love and Light to you to 🌼🌼🌼 I hope your back pain has settled.
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RHP User
8 years ago
You have so much going on, I just want to send my warmest wishes and as Sweetgem said I hope you have a good support network to help get you through this. 🌼Love and Light to You 🌼
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RHP User
8 years ago
gaslighting. Manipulating by way of planting the initial seed, selectively removing responding comments, then planting negative opinions about the person being gaslit 😉 who of course is then accused of being the gaslighter, then comes deflection, denial, and finally playing the victim and popping that halo on 👎 Confusing isn't it, by design, not by accident. Anyone who knows me knows I don't operate like that, I don't cart baggage around, I'm a happy well adjusted person loving life, simply wouldn't have the time nor the inclination to invest time in such childish behavior. If you have unsettled business, discuss it with me like a grown up and leave my responses in print. I will NOT cower to you, no matter how much you insist on continuing this
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RHP User
8 years ago
Of course, I'm not paranoid either. And overthinking, I know when I hit the happy spot... Peachy
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'ElkeM' I've always used that term when I've wandered off a particular topic of conversation and gone off on a tangent. The dictionary defines it as: 'to deviate or wander away from the main topic or purpose in speaking or writing; depart from the principal line of argument, plot, study, etc.' Inspirit, agree that 'with all due respect' means you are going to politely disagree with someone. However, I know that when I use it, I really mean 'I'm gunna be a cunt, so suck it up' 😁 Me too. But, in a politely cuntish sort of way. Like, I don't want to offend...but I'm going to be a cunt .
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RHP User
8 years ago
What's so good about being a cunt or should I say having one? ----- couldn't resist
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RHP User
8 years ago
it's better being one
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RHP User
8 years ago
Or maybe Quoting 'Rubi_Rose'you are better at being one after all
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madotara69
8 years ago
Quoting 'Koolgrey' Quoting 'ElkeM' I've always used that term when I've wandered off a particular topic of conversation and gone off on a tangent. The dictionary defines it as: 'to deviate or wander away from the main topic or purpose in speaking or writing; depart from the principal line of argument, plot, study, etc.' Inspirit, agree that 'with all due respect' means you are going to politely disagree with someone. However, I know that when I use it, I really mean 'I'm gunna be a cunt, so suck it up' 😁 Me too. But, in a politely cuntish sort of way. Like, I don't want to offend...but I'm going to be a cunt .
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madotara69
8 years ago
With all due respect, Koolgrey
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RHP User
8 years ago
I digress To deviate from the original topic of conversation, to go off topic. Typically one says this phrase when they realized they have gone off topic and decide to return to the original point. Another definition is to return to an original point.Man1: Yes yes I know I'm a slacker and an asshole, but I digress. We need to come up with a plan now. (bad example sorry) George was doing so well with getting his grades up but he's digressed into that bad behavior of drinking and partying all night and not doing any work.#off-topic#deviate#ramble#stick to the point#returnby cloudsgrl October 27, 2010 Urban dictionary
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RHP User
8 years ago
Nice to see you 😀 have been expecting you. Looking forward to reading your inciteful comments 😯
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AnnieWhichway
8 years ago
The legal out....
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RHP User
8 years ago
prejudice
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RHP User
8 years ago
With all due respect, surely you can't even believe that
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RHP User
8 years ago
it's cute I mean
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RHP User
8 years ago
You ladies go at each other about the weirdest shit.
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RHP User
8 years ago
With all due respect...I sometimes say and post things just to wind someone up a bit. A little poking of the bear, a tightening of the screws...testing their load-bearing potential. Just saying.. 😉
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RHP User
8 years ago
I knew what you were saying, your standard thing now it seems
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RHP User
8 years ago
😉
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sweetgem
8 years ago
How are you today? Thanks for your regards, my back pain is like a clingy child, comes easy but won’t go away easy 😅 but I’m a tough “mother”, so I’ll survive 😜 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
beautiful day in paradise/Perth 👍
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EarthQueen
8 years ago
Quoting 'Koolgrey' Quoting 'ElkeM' I've always used that term when I've wandered off a particular topic of conversation and gone off on a tangent. The dictionary defines it as: 'to deviate or wander away from the main topic or purpose in speaking or writing; depart from the principal line of argument, plot, study, etc.' Inspirit, agree that 'with all due respect' means you are going to politely disagree with someone. However, I know that when I use it, I really mean 'I'm gunna be a cunt, so suck it up' 😁 Me too. But, in a politely cuntish sort of way. Like, I don't want to offend...but I'm going to be a cunt .Cunning Stunts! Or is it the other way around?
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sweetgem
8 years ago
I believe, we are all strong in our own way 💪🏼 Wish you well and good health 🌹 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
That stung! Nah...just kidding. It didn't. At all. 🙄 There's far to much seriousness around here at times, for a website that's all about fun and having a good time. I dont pay my $18/month just to reassure peoples ego's and to have mine stroked in return. I have Facebook for that...and it's free. ☺
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RHP User
8 years ago
. 5 out of 5 for an AWESOME (capitals because I know this word pisses lots off ) post and much fun and less seriousness to one and all
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' Inspirit and sweetgem, you are some of the strongest people here, in my opinion. Patch, good to see you back! Thanks Meander and you too, however I am going to be a strong cunt in a minute ;-)
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MsJonesy
8 years ago
Seriousness indeed Kool. Also, too many posts which allude to scurrilous behaviour, deleted posts, gaslighting, personal affronts, sneaky backhanders and every other dubious move known to online platforms. Too many posts which do.not.make.sense to the rest of us. I've been here for over 5 years, and I have certainly seen it before but probably not such a sustained campaign by so many. Yes I can stop reading them, but they seem to be on every second forum, so they are becoming difficult to avoid. Why dont you create a new thread call "Abuse the shit out of each other" and get it all off your chest in there. Hmm...I shall start one now for you. You're welcome. 😁
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RHP User
8 years ago
I tried to but it wasn't accepted sadly. Be nice to have a place where they can let fly, of course with some form of monitoring.
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bonefide
8 years ago
Ha Ha that's a bazinger if ever I seen one.
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bonefide
8 years ago
testing their load-bearing potential. Is this formulated on the amount of ???? One person can take 😆
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MsJonesy
8 years ago
But have low (AKA no) hopes of it being approved. Here are the rules...for a bit of shit & giggles. Rules: - Any crack at another person must be be backed by evidence. Cold hard evidence such as direct quotes of their posts, including the forum title, for verification purposes. - NO attacks on the person. Only on their online public posts (in other words, no quoting of personal messages). I don't care if you think someone is a prat, it's their posting which is the issue. - Be current. In other words a quote dated from 4th July 1889 is not allowed. The date is not a typo. I believe some forumites would indeed go back that far to find evidence 🤣 - You must be able to take as good as you get. - Obtuse posts will be instantly shamed. Indulge me, I have a love of clear, direct and unambiguous language. - Right of reply is allowed - but ONE POST ONLY. Make it count folks! No back & fowards like a Federer tennis match. My tolerance level is low. - And remember the RHP rule "Do not post anything that defames or villifies". More rules can and will be posted purely at my own whim. Suck it up and deal with that (an example of clear, direct and unambiguous language 😜).
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RHP User
8 years ago
the term suck it up.I will not suck up anyone else's shit when they fling it at me.I have had enough lived experiences to know most times that term is full of shit. I don't use either suck it up or suck it up princessI find often they get used inappropriately and don't help and can leave a person feeling like shit if they don't.
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MsJonesy
8 years ago
I know...there are 2 chances of it being approved 🤣
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RHP User
8 years ago
Why would the word, "awesome" be objectionable? 🤔❓ People are seriously too free and idle if they take offence to little things like that. 😛 The world doesn't revolve around them and their little idiosyncrasies. 😛 Your post is awesome! You are awesome! Sweetpea is awesome! Midnightblue's return is awesome!
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RHP User
8 years ago
Nice rules there. But I hope that when it comes to the crunch, you will call out people from your own tight clique who may have flouted those rules as well. It has to work both ways, eh? Old forumite or new forumite, no one owns this public fora although several act like queens in here. I've called out about pack attacks before and it's really apparent sometimes - piss off just one in the group and before you know it, the private network / support group gets notified privately and the usual suspects end up banding together. Predictable. Same ol' same ol'. Because I'm unpopular due to my controversial thoughhe and decision to stand alone, attacks on me are usually nullified, including harrassing behaviour and downright bullying of the petty playground sort. *rolls eyes. But if someone in your clique gets their feathers ruffled, you can be sure things will be turned upside down because the entire tribe in full force will be there. I'm not new to forums but in terms of bad culture, there's some massive cleaning up to do in this fora. Your rules sound lovely; just don't make it a one-sided affair. To your credit, you do play fair and you are often level-headed. If it was someone else bringing this up, I wouldn't even engage. I just feel you can be fair because when others went for my jugular in the past, you remained rational and sensible, and I appreciate that.
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bonefide
8 years ago
Looks like great event
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RHP User
8 years ago
Crossing my fingers it gets approved... although I don't like the chances lol. And agree with your comments regarding scurrilous, vague, sniping posts etc. Time to give it a rest, or take it offline
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RHP User
8 years ago
Awesome post! Awesome is one of my favourite words, and a word I'm totally guilty of overusing. Sorry Pangolin 😘 A lot of us use it at work, but spelled 'oresome' because, well, we work with (iron) ore every day 😁
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'Koolgrey' That stung! Nah...just kidding. It didn't. At all. 🙄 There's far to much seriousness around here at times, for a website that's all about fun and having a good time. I dont pay my $18/month just to reassure peoples ego's and to have mine stroked in return. I have Facebook for that...and it's free. I hear the word 'fun' tossed around a lot but I don't see the fun on the last couple of pages pretty much. Just more people wanting things their own way. Deriding other people instead of seeking any understanding about where they are coming from. I can't say that's my idea of fun. Then there's your suggestion of Winding people up who may well not be able to cope with it, which is not my idea of fun. Poking sleeping bears is not going to engender fun. And the forum is free, there is plenty of ego stroking, it's a shame that clarifying something someone said is looked at as such a sin. It's supposed to be an adult forum but with all the grudge holders and the know better than yous, it's not a lot of fun a lot of the time. Mainly it reminds me of the world where people live with their heads in the sand as long as nothing bothers them. The let's not get involved people. I'm not one of those people and I'm okay with that until I come here and read how differently I should be behaving. Meander, I think my actions should be plain to you that I got over any issue we might have had the last week or so. It was plain to me that you had accepted that and we'd moved on. I took your post that I liked further back as taking the piss out of yourself, because I know you say 'just saying' a lot. I sought to understand that because I felt I knew you well enough and without our previous acrimony, I was happy to accept that. But I do feel put on the spot with your post though I'm sure you didn't mean it that way. Just saying... Posititvity is not the be all and end all, we are made up of many different parts and negativity is part of that. Not that I think many, if any, will read what I have said because I'm all the things I've been reading about myself these last many years in other people's minds. Rather than being an imperfect human being, the same as the rest of you.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Its been a little confusing lately. Yes, I realise this is the Anything Goes thread and everyone has the right to post whatever. I am empathetic and have compassion to those I know and love. I can appreciate a one or two off tale of how hard you life is right now...at some stage in our lives, nearly everyone will suffer the loss of a loved one 2 or 4 legged, watching them fight their last battle. At some stage most of us will have and injury, surgery, illness, mental issues, abuse problems, ...hardship. I get it. Its cathartic to get it off your chest....try to remember many who read the forums are total strangers to you and most of them just dont care you are Just Here For The Forums. Reading it time after time on thread after thread is depressing. I dont come here for depressing, I doubt many folk do. This aint Facebook.
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