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Confident Men
January 09 2018
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RHP User
8 years ago
I don't like any man touching me unless invited to do so. There's such a thing as invading personal space whether half naked in a club or fully clothed in public Confidence I do like. I'm confident and love men the same, touching will happen when both are comfortable but to just waltz up and slap my arse, no hell no
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sweetgem
8 years ago
I quit clubbing at 18, because those so called confident men at the clubs disrespected me by randomly grabbing my arse when I walked pass them! And when I turned to confront them, they laughed so loudly to make me feel more embarrassed! Their actions were disrespectful and daunting for an 18 year old girl! And this arse grabbing crap still happening occasionally at the pubs, when I go there to socialise with work people! Hence, I disagree with your view on women apparently love confident men in the adult scene or environment. At least I am not one of those women anyway. However, I do like a confident man in a non-swingers, or clubbing, or pub, environment, whom can hold a smart and respectful conversation just about anything and everything, but wont lose his respect for me as a woman. To answer your question OP, and I only speak for my own liking and/or experiences.....no, I do not think that being a bit reserved and less forward would put a man at a disadvantage. I would be more attracted to a man being confident in that way and sense, as it would mean that he cares to learn what I like in a man first, then makes his moves at the right time, and that to me is respect! 😊 PS. I can’t stop laughing at your line about you would probably get slapped, or punched, or thrown or if you were to slap a girl’s bottom, so funny the way you put it 😄😄 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
But depending on how confident you are, how much power you hold and how much popularity you command among a group it can drastically change what is defined as sexual harrassment and what is flirting.Generally as a rule more assertive and confident men perform better however this is not always the case.I was once on a works do in town (I work in an entirely male environment) and our group got chatting to two young women. I watched as all my colleagues were loud and dominant while I stood back and only said a few words. As my colleagues got bored, distracted and eventually gave up trying to impress I noticed that one of the ladies had gravitated towards me.We got chatting and to cut a long story short I wound up back in her hotel room.During the after sex conversation she told me how she'd been watching me and loved the way how instead of trying to prove I had the biggest dick I'd hung back and been confident in my own skin. I think to conclude I think everyone is different, assertive might work on some people but laid back and chilled might work on others
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RHP User
8 years ago
You’re confusing confidence with douchebag.... Just sayin... - Posted from rhpmobile
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FredAndGinger2
8 years ago
A couples perspective: That "confident" guy who goes around slapping arses and perhaps throwing around cheesy pick-up lines is just playing the numbers game. A percentage of the finer sex might go for that but I'd be surprised if that is very many. Some of us seek a connection, some common interests or attraction. Some depth of interesting character. Ignoring personal space, disrespecting the woman and/or the couple is a sure way to disengage many and perhaps even turn that couple away from the club / sex club / party scene. I'm sure that guy who uses those techniques is also the reason so many couples profiles say "no single guys" - it's left a bad impression in the couples swinging scene. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I wasn't condoning the caveman mentality in some men, it was an observation. One the reasons we stopped attending clubs was the same as yours. Mrs NE being treated like a piece of meat. I was attempting to highlight the eggshells men are now going to have to walk on at events etc. It might tone down their behaviour and they'll show the respect you ladies deserve. But will this also deter guys from being confident and show the forwardness some ladies prefer? - Posted from rhpmobile
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Tall74nHard9
8 years ago
a 'confident' man is someone who can mingle with the other guests at a venue with reasonable ease and earn the respect of those present, enough for them to easily interact with that person. In my book, confidence does not equal arse-grabbing at any apparent opportunity, but to be able to engage the lady so that she feels comfortable with the man to pay her attention, possibly leading up to some quiet attention when she may be ready for it. A confident man does not overstep any boundaries - he waits until he is re-asssured he is given appropriate permission, either expressly or subtly. Tall
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RHP User
8 years ago
A good friend of mine is very confident with women, always very popular with them, and it had nothing to do whatsoever with grabbing them on the arse and all that malarkey. He just makes them laugh, makes them feel at ease, makes them feel like it is all about them (which was really funny, because it is actually all about him the whole time). I am amazed that your friend gets away with that in this day and age, I dare suspect he cops a lot more abuse and a few slaps to the face than you see.
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Freaky_Fun
8 years ago
Would more than likely get put on his arse if that happened to me. Just saying. Totally agree with Tall and Anti. Big difference between confidence and douchebag. I must of missed the bit where it says he was one of those 'dreaded single males'. Because the male of a couple would never do that 🙄
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RHP User
8 years ago
Confidence has NOTHING to do with assuming liberties over other people, especially in the self absorbed examples given in the opening topic That is arrogance, not confidence. I would go as far to say that his exhibition was more borne from insecurity and a compulsion to put on a public show, to seek validation that smokescreens over his frailties, than any semblance of confidence. Confidence can in my view be simply described as an attitude that no matter what situation or circumstance a person is presented with, that person has the mindset of being capable of accepting, dealing with and handling it. That's it. That may overstep some people's boundaries because capable people are generally take-action people, and those less capable can sometimes see some 'lesser' people's toesfeel stepped on. And note that confidence.... is not gender specific or limited. DG
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SassyRascal
8 years ago
Confident, arrogant or just plain dumb....... Hitting anyone is not on!!
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RHP User
8 years ago
You’re referring to a sex party. I assume your friend observes first the women who are being very touchy feely with others, and perhaps has caught her eye a few times ... prior to him going in for the pash? I agree with above. I don’t like men to just come up and squeeze my tits, even if I am sitting naked in the spa with them for instances. I fight married older men (50’s) are the worst! Agree with DG. A confident guy is different. For instance, my boyfriend who is much older than me, always has shop assistants and waitress and waiters (much younger ones too) flirting outrageously with him while I sit there !! It’s so bizarre. He must give off a sent or something! Haha
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RHP User
8 years ago
My arse has been grabbed in a pub by girls, when I've turned around there's a group standing there grinning and the 'perp' wouldn't own up ..... dammit - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Maybe it was Harvey the celebrity hunter?? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
In my experience the men at a non sexual swingers club think it is funny to be antisocial. Simply put, many do play the numbers game. Because it is not a local place and the crowd will change constantly. Example at the casino, it may be a last attempt to try to pickup with the extra Sharpe cheese aged lines. Put the same person in a swingers club, and many of the patrons in the past, in my experience themselves weed out that type of behavior. In other wards men like that make other gentlemen look bad in a sex club. I guess some of the men that behave that way perhaps may not "get it" or "get the scene" in understanding the rules of swingers clubs. That maybe the first at last attempt at at a sex club For thrm. Because their right to entry may be refused or revoked on the night or in the future by a host or fellow patrons. Some donkies can be stubborn, and arrogance can be blinding. Invasion of personal space without consent is disrespectful. But the actions of a few should not be viewed to disadvantage the respectful ones. Confidence and cocky arrogance is always observed. Not just in men but in many men and women. From what I have seen in my experience is that women feel more comfortable in a swingers club than at the local club or pub. That is way a sex club can be for some women and couples a refreshing change and difference in atmosphere.
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Sawadee
8 years ago
...between confidence and being a serial pest. Confidence is being yourself and knowing how to send the right signals.. The rest slap arse's and send dic pics... ?
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RHP User
8 years ago
Nowhere did I say it was a 'friend'. My phraseology could have better when I said slap. Maybe a pat was more accurate. Confidence and being forward travel together. Some take liberties and push the boundaries. I cringe at their behaviour and how they taint the reputations of the male species. I would never do what I have observed. If anything I hold back too much which might give the wrong impression. My wife and have been affected by the bad behavior. She's reluctant to attend a club and I don't want to labeled amongst the bad just because I make a small effort to show I'm attracted to someone. So I'm polite and a gentleman. I love confident women. It's nice when approached first by a lady. Even men want to feel attractive. But women it seem like men to make the first move because they find confidence attractive. Agree with Mischievous some men display arrogance not confidence and that has no place in the swinging scene. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Sawadee
8 years ago
I'll vouch for that.. Same senario , you get your arse pinched and when you turn around there's lots of smiles and giggles , but no one looks you in the eye... I take it as a compliment, but I guess it's different for females ?
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RHP User
8 years ago
Yes, men are more confident than women because we have managed to manipulate the world to appear to be superior for some time, but every person on this planet should be equal but that will never happen. The third world doesn’t have hope for some ladies, the first world is slowly moving to equality. More women are working and getting higher up the corporate ladder but maintained and managed by other concerned men. The OLD SCHOOL tie lot. I can assure you, there should be many more woman in some of those top jobs because they best qualitied and limited because she is a mother, wife and woman. The quote “It’s a man world should be its OUR World” A mindset problem. These men are confident that they can stem this tide of advancement and equality plus continue to maintain this status quo. So, they believe they can continue on the path of a chauvinist nature and get away with things as a norm. This is wrong as it does allow men to get away with degrading women. We need them more they need us. My father taught me an important lesson @ 17, he said to mingle first at parties, banter and chat to lots of ladies and when got off with my mates for a drink. If they were interested they would come to you so it would be mutual for both parties. Simple respect and holy shit it worked for years. Times are changing with the recent actresses’ protests, actors caught out and movie directors who control power as to who works, then the dumb Americans voting in Trump then complain, plus the church and its hidden problems. What if Jesus was called Juliet and god was a woman. OMG. No fear, ladies, the tide is rising and some of us men are going to be in lots of trouble. Rxxx
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RHP User
8 years ago
So if they were not known to you, perhaps that “Guy” knew the women in question. It’s possible. There are always regulars at clubs and parties that know each other.
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sweetgem
8 years ago
Let’s put it this way, a true confident man will always have class and intelligence at the same time as he shows confidence! Because confidence comes from within and one who is truly confident wouldn’t want to be sleazy or disrespectful. Therefore, this eggshells environment that you mentioned would not deter men, who have the real IQ and EQ, from being confident as well as showing the forwardness that some women prefer ☺️ in another word, real confident men are smart and will not make themselves look sleazy and cheap! 😊 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
That is an extremely VALID point. No one has raised that question. What if they were regulars in a club that knew each other. Perhaps it goes to the saying if previously there was a spark it may have lead to fire. Perhaps they were not witness to the spark?
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gazpacho
8 years ago
I’m basically a Benny Hill understudy when it turns to sexual innuendo... except in the workplace. There is no room for workplace romances. They lead to someone losing their job, or being unable to perform the job. There’s simply no room for introducing conduct related to sex to the workplace... unless of course, you operate a brothel. Even there, there is a line for employers/employees which should not be traversed. I must be one of few men who is paid to attend a brothel, but when there, making sexual advances is furtherest from my mind. Draw a line between work and socialising. Men can do that. I’m still going to own the slut I am. Hugs G - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
with the majority on this one. If the line is so fine that slapping a complete strangers ass without consent can be labeled as nothing more than the innocent act of a confident man then we have problems. What if an incredibly handsome confident gay man came up to you and grabbed your junk in front of your mates? Would you simply laugh it off and say "wow, there goes a confident man, Im flattered that he chose me!" Or would you be more inclined to feel as though it was completely inappropriate? I wouldn't think a confident gentleman would feel he has any entitlement to do something that is in fact illegal just because he feels he is more likely to get away with it than your average Joe. Having said that, it could very well be that they knew each other or had a history together... My point is that consent is everything regardless of time, place or the individual in question. I'm all for a good ass slapping but you wont catch me doing it at my local to a stranger - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
There's stupidly asked questions.
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RHP User
8 years ago
I agree buddha men are culturally conditioned to behave a certain way. Men in groups and alone behave differently. OP, if man is afraid of anything, including a confident one, that would be a woman laughing at him.(Ms)
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RHP User
8 years ago
Buddha1, nice little male feminist manifesto there. Even had a Trump reference, ticked all the boxes. We truly are shit aren't we? Anyway, I found the bit about the ''fatherly advice'' you received interesting. You received advice from your old man about picking up chicks, which you found invaluable, is basically go parade in front of the women, don't give them too much and then kick back and let them come to you. I know you bundled this up as respect and all that, but it could also be seen as ''let the women come to you, let them do all the work'', which could be interpreted as a subservient view of women. Sorry, but male feminists shit me, usually because when you strip away the layers they have much the same attitude as any man - they just cloak it well - usually to get chicks. There are many different types of men, a broad scale of them - not everyone likes to pat women on the arse and think they should just stay in the kitchen etc etc - all the stuff you describe. I happen to be one of those that thinks you treat others as you would like to be treated. I don't trumpet from the rooftops what a feminist I am though.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Is within thyself, it's a state of mind! In mature behaviour by slapping girls arses merely reeks of insecurities! It's an attempt to prove your prowess to your mates which most women will find repulsive. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Is when you're at a bar and all your mates are cracking on to anything that has a pulse while you sit back waiting for a classy confident woman to approach you because she is intrigued why you aren't pursuing her! 👌 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Agree with the above, however..... What nobody wants to discuss is that women have a role in that conditioning too and that is the mammoth in the room everybody studiously ignores it seems quite the norm to just blame male toxicity or some other label. We are all part of the solutions if we recognise that we all contribute to the problems. Until then it will be the usual spite at 50 paces. Just bangin my drum. 🤪
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RHP User
8 years ago
From my personal point of view I agree with Pommyfucker. I'm not the macho type. Confidence is holding your own sense of self in any given situation. It does not mean walking around grabbing or leering at women, that's crass behavior to me & completely unacceptable. If its flirting between friends, for fun and foreplay, I wouldn't, and don't, have an issue. If you have an inability to LISTEN and converse, well, that's not confidence either, just makes you a dick. Sometimes you can see the agitation on women's faces with those types. Clearly there's a percentage of women who love it though. I never thought of myself as having either confidence nor charisma until I started having fun on RHP. I can easily walk up to women now, introduce myself and have a conversation. Would I still be nervous, hell yes, because she's probably expecting one of those other "confident" guys to appear and is armed with a multitude of rejection lines. You ladies can see our sexy agenda miles away if it's on show. Funnily enough, most of the time I just like to chat, well, I did say most of the time.... BB
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RHP User
8 years ago
Put the drum down and go back to playing cards.
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RHP User
8 years ago
I don’t play cards, and there’s no cricket on, the kids are home so pornography is out. Besides, I like the noise. Look at me Look at me. 😜😂😎🤪
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RHP User
8 years ago
I guess you were falsely accused of playing a certain card. 😈
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RHP User
8 years ago
I don't believe any women would approach you as a result of intrigue about you being different to the rest, and NOT hitting on them/not trying to touch them while out and about. In my experience going out (alone), I think I end up appearing the "no friends Nigel" type as opposed to the strong respectful type. :p - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Women are in no position of power. Unless I am a policewoman and you are on your knees.(Ms)
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RHP User
8 years ago
Thats kinda the point, ever heard of "the power of the pussy" ? but off topic.Another time.
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RHP User
8 years ago
...I can't bring myself to approach a man. 😛 Well... except for one... Mr Legendary "please fuck me blind" cock! 😜😶 OK, I've thoroughly embarrassed myself by swooning again! 🤣
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RHP User
8 years ago
... a confidence thing to smack or pinch any stranger's parts unless there's consent or the overt flirting moves are returned. Otherwise, that's not confidence but molestation. I hate being touched by strangers and people I don't particularly like. I don't want any bad mojo transferred to me! 😛 Woo-woo schtuff. 😁
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RHP User
8 years ago
I shave my head, so occasionally in public it gets “groped” usually by a female. “I just wanted to see what it felt like” lol. Maybe I should use that excuse to fondle their breasts. It’s true confident has got fuck all to do with it, it’s arrogant entitlement.
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RHP User
8 years ago
I don’t understand what you mean. How do women condition men to touch them uninvited? Or have I misunderstood? Serious question.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Misunderstood. I was referring to cat in the hatters post referring to Buddhas post.
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RHP User
8 years ago
If you're not rich or famous it doesn't matter...lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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Freaky_Fun
8 years ago
🙄
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RHP User
8 years ago
how does this qualify as a topic? its not quantum physics...either you are invited to progress or you are not...signals can be confusing but simple courtesy and respect demand you don't act until its not confusing...recent events dont change this simple decency surely?
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jamhunter
8 years ago
I’m a confident fella, but I don’t pat girls on the arse or grope them. This is generally the modus operandi of a mysoginistic, sexually predatorial being that give decent men a bad name! If you ask me, the “me too” movement will hopefully eradicate this unacceptable and illegal behaviour! My only regret is that I have not admonished this behaviour of friends when I have seen it in the past. But that’s what New Years resolutions are all about... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I am actually quite shy and find it hard to approach women , awkward even .However , I am extremely sexually confident . Dominant . Sort of a catch 22 . Have not had many contacts from this site , even when payed up except from some couples which was enjoyable but directed by the male even if it interrupted the ladies flow . Have had a little success with locanto because of the messaging situatiin . Women do find me attractive , I am a fan of Alan Piese through business 😉 Perhaps the best solution os to never judge a book by its' cover but primally the Alpha always wins , even if he is hung like a gnat . - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Confidence and self assuredness radiates like energy from those who have it. Having to talk loudly, make jokes, slap bums and generally postulate at being an alpha male may fool some for a short time but most people soon discover the truth, that they are little boys trying to live up to an image they have in their heads of what a real man is. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Correct me if I’m wrong but walking up and groping or kissing someone without permission isn’t confidence, it’s crude seedy, sleazy behaviour. Confidence is when you can walk straight up to a woman, look her in the eyes and tell her she is the most beautiful creature you have seen, and ask her to sit and have a drink with you. That’s confidence, even in a swingers club 😘 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
There’s a massive difference between confidence and disrespect. Groping a woman unsolicited is just disrespectful. And you might just end up with a (warranted) black eye! Confidence comes from inside you, and if you are confident? You have a presence and everyone notices without speaking a word. And women will be drawn to you anyway. And then if you are respectful? They will appreciate it and be more likely to stay. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Regardless of the level of comfidence ...limits must be respected. When a lady don't like it it's a no, and when it's a no then who ever the confident guy is...he MUST stop. Whether that lady is ur girl friend, a sex worker or even ur own wife....When she says NO it's a NO. - Posted from rhpmobile
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SydneySteve
8 years ago
Hi Not much in this post If you touch grab fondle a women without the women’s consent it is WRONG if mutually you are both up for it Great - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Boys will be boys by Stella Donelly - Posted from rhpmobile
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Dryphuz
8 years ago
have any guys here ever felt harassed in this way. I never have. The only time i've ever pinched a butt in public was as a result of having mine grabbed earlier in the night. Led to some casual conversation, but we didn't hit it off so it went no further. But i didn't particularly mind. If anything it gave me an unmistakable sign that there was a possibility. Considering how bad i normally am at reading signals it was kind of good. So long as I'm not completely surrounded by people grabbing at me i'm not gonna be unsettled. Maybe i just like having my butt grabbed .
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RHP User
8 years ago
Hey Tall - you forgot the last option you often use to get "permission" geronimo!!!!!! Inhibitions can be so bothersome..... And what is with your "old man" look? you're meant to be 60 and look 80 and sound....let me see now....45? i'm thinking people relax more thinking you're old, let their guard down so to speak. is this why you've portrayed yourself as this old cretin that is meant to be leaning against the car but isn't quite making contact? it was actually a wall that you were leaning against wasn't it? oh well, i'll leave you to your fun and games. the cyber world.....where anyone can be.......anyone lol
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Tall74nHard9
8 years ago
Well, you defintely have the "Crazy" part correct in your profile name !!! What's got into your bonnet ? To the best of my knowledge we haven't had any prior contact, and you're having a go at me about things unrelated to the topic ? What has leaning against my car got to do with anything ??? Who the fuck are you, and what is your bloody problem ? Tall
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RHP User
8 years ago
🍿 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
To be honest, a lot of the time a slap or pinch on the bum is done by guys who are in a group. Showing off to the mates pehaps? But personally, It often feels quite threatening and feels as if they guy wants you to feel like a worthless slag, the butt of a group joke or at best very uncomfortable. It’s awful behavior, and any men in the goup who laugh or say nothing add to the fear of it all.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Are you saying with your trash talk to Tall that that is not a real car ? I have been in that car thousands of times. I know for sur that Tall has had nothing to do with you ever. I know he is 60 because I gave him the best 60th birthday of his life. I see him every day and he looks damn good for his age. Check your facts and make sure you've got the right person before you start slinging mud - yu've got the wrong person. I'm disgusted. I'm outta here. Red PS this is Red because I used a dictionary
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RHP User
8 years ago
But I just can't. Your vilification of the lofty one is a bit on the nose.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Excellent bluster Tall and Soft oops I'm sorry Tall and Hard. Very typical response from the man i know is Tall and Hard - well babe, crazy is way better than pretending to be nearly 20 years older. And as for the back up support of your crony.....lol......he is obviously (and now i whisper - a shhhhh a fake profile) much like your own (said in a normal tone of voice lol) i've seen that car too! parks opposite you. i took the photo, so i should know and anyone with even poor eyesight can see you are not using that car to prop yourself up. soooooooo, interesting that you decided to come out fighting and insult me at the same time. Really, when you've got nothing to back up your ludicrous claim of who you are, is it really a good idea to bring even more attention to yourself? Me? I lurve attention. Good. Bad (what is bad i say!) I love it all! And i'm never lost for words and can often string one or two very interesting sentences together - surprising considering how C R A Z Y i am #Hot_n_WildCrazy
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RHP User
8 years ago
Turn on your spellcheck function Then you won’t have to make so many errors when typing as you 😉 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Shit, some dirty laundry here? 😕 Probably best to take it up privately rather than on the forum 👎
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RHP User
8 years ago
thanks but i did try spell right look like i got it wrong again and iam not a fake but a women were did you meet tall i do think you got the wrong guy and were did you take that pic what town
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Tall74nHard9
8 years ago
Quoting 'Hot_n_CrazyWild' Excellent bluster Tall and Soft oops I'm sorry Tall and Hard. Very typical response from the man i know is Tall and Hard - well babe, crazy is way better than pretending to be nearly 20 years older. And as for the back up support of your crony.....lol......he is obviously (and now i whisper - a shhhhh a fake profile) much like your own (said in a normal tone of voice lol) i've seen that car too! parks opposite you. i took the photo, so i should know and anyone with even poor eyesight can see you are not using that car to prop yourself up. soooooooo, interesting that you decided to come out fighting and insult me at the same time. Really, when you've got nothing to back up your ludicrous claim of who you are, is it really a good idea to bring even more attention to yourself? Me? I lurve attention. Good. Bad (what is bad i say!) I love it all! And i'm never lost for words and can often string one or two very interesting sentences together - surprising considering how C R A Z Y i am #Hot_n_WildCrazy You REALLY, REALLY, REALLY, have me confused with someone else. I don't know who the Hell you are, or why you are lambasting me. But I think you have in part answered your own question. You OBVIOUSLY do have poor eyesight - I am actually leaning on MY car. And your poor eyesight is confusing me with someone else you appear to have come across previously, and obviously not left on good terms with. I hope you are enjoying the attention you may be getting - because you are making a complete arse of yourself. And in the process proving beyond doubt that you are indeed CRAZY ! My 'crony' is not any fake profile but indeed a lovely woman who knows me and has done so for a period of time. She has been on site for many years and has been a contributor here also for some time. You owe her a BIG apology. As you do ME. You say you can often string together one or two very interesting sentences together - but it appears you have trouble getting them past your brain (if you have one). I will give you a chance to redeem yourself. If I send you a PM would you be able to answer it truthfully and without getting your knickers in a knot. As I said, I don't know who the hell you are, and you obviously have me mistaken for someone else. Once you have found out you have made a mistake, would you then promise to come back to the forum here and admit wrong-doing ? Tall
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Tall74nHard9
8 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' Turn on your spellcheck function Then you won’t have to make so many errors when typing as you 😉 - Posted from rhpmobile As usual you have nothing constructive to put down. Why don't you stick to making out with your dinosaur - at least it can't understand you. Red's keyboard has a number of characters that don't come through unless they are pressed very hard, and if you don't check as you go along it looks like you have missed half the alphabet when typing. Nothing to do with spellcheck or anything else - just a keyboard issue. Catches me out too when I'm using her laptop on occasion.
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Tall74nHard9
8 years ago
Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' Shit, some dirty laundry here? 😕 Probably best to take it up privately rather than on the forum 👎 Sorry but no dirty laundry to be found - not on my behalf anyway. Tall
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'Hot_n_CrazyWild'And as for the back up support of your crony.....lol......he is obviously (and now i whisper - a shhhhh a fake profile) much like your own (said in a normal tone of voice lol) RedHot is a real female profile, I have met her at a social Meet and Greet event I organised. But I'm sure you will now think I am also a fake profile too.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Sorry OP, you’ve got your wires crossed. Confidence isn’t slapping an arse. Confident is going up to the guy who is slapping arses and put him in his place. Sorry if this offends - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I think ML was genuinely trying to be helpful. By the way, auto correct can be a huge pain! Didn’t realise there was spell check on the forum? Is there, if so that would be good. Tall, I think the Crazy one is implying that you are sitting on your car.... which you’re clearly you’re not in the photo which kind of confuses the eye.
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gazpacho
8 years ago
I want all the gossip mate, so fess up. Who’s crazy, who’s tall and who’s 80??? Btw, that photo of you in front of a car is weird as fuck. Cut. Paste. Shadow of head on carport roof like a picture of me with Donald Trump cardboard cutout. Where’s the dick pic. That’s what I want to see! Hugs Gaz
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RHP User
8 years ago
This is some Jerry Springer shit!!! Cue the midget that’s been having an affair with their cousin!!! 😂😂 Couldn’t even script this stuff !! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Perhaps I read this all wrong 🤔
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RHP User
8 years ago
Man...... I thought Christmas was over 😄 Disclaimer: Only I have access to this profile and I only ever comment as myself.... complete with any accidental or deliberate spelling errors 😜 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Fuck the popcorn. Pass the Froot Loops.
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Tall74nHard9
8 years ago
Quoting 'CandyDelicious' I think ML was genuinely trying to be helpful. By the way, auto correct can be a huge pain! Didn’t realise there was spell check on the forum? Is there, if so that would be good. Tall, I think the Crazy one is implying that you are sitting on your car.... which you’re clearly you’re not in the photo which kind of confuses the eye. but ML is NEVER genuinely trying to help anyone, except for himself when he thinks he can make mountains out of molehills. Once a dick, always .... Tall
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Tall74nHard9
8 years ago
Quoting 'Sailbadthesinner' Fuck the popcorn. Pass the Froot Loops. All the 'Froot Loops' have already been claimed by a few greedy others, so ya gotta find something else.... Tall
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Tall74nHard9
8 years ago
Quoting 'gazpacho51' Btw, that photo of you in front of a car is weird as fuck. Cut. Paste. Shadow of head on carport roof like a picture of me with Donald Trump cardboard cutout. Where’s the dick pic. That’s what I want to see! Hugs Gaz I don't know what you're trying to read into the pic, but it is the genuine article. No photoshop or any other weird effects.As for the dic pic, I suggest you take a look at one of the other MaLignant contributors for such. Tall
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'Dryphuz' have any guys here ever felt harassed in this way. I never have. The only time i've ever pinched a butt in public was as a result of having mine grabbed earlier in the night. Led to some casual conversation, but we didn't hit it off so it went no further. But i didn't particularly mind. If anything it gave me an unmistakable sign that there was a possibility. Considering how bad i normally am at reading signals it was kind of good. So long as I'm not completely surrounded by people grabbing at me i'm not gonna be unsettled. Maybe i just like having my butt grabbed . My husband, when we visited Deltas. He said no, the women persisted anyway. That's part of the reason we never went again. The men didn't lay so much as a finger on me... though they were all eyes, and I had a 'following'. Peachy
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RHP User
8 years ago
Sounds like they were arrogantly assuming ALL men would come running when they snapped their fingers, and further to that got carried away and acted with disrespect. Interesting though, that women can get pushy like that. Pretty off in my opinion
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'Philacrocorax' But I just can't. Your vilification of the lofty one is a bit on the nose. It was aimed at Short_n_Crazy.It also meant to say that I'd like to welcome you back.Truth is I can't do that...
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RHP User
8 years ago
Exactly Touch. No one says anything about that though do they? I have seen it in another RHP woman who was so drunk and kept harassing some poor guy at the pub who wasn't part of our group even though we kept trying to steal her back and tell her off. She just didn't get that he wasn't at all interested and was actually put off our lifestyle by this behaviour. We finally persuaded her to head home in a taxi. :-) Tall, I guess everyone's missing the many more photos on your profile. ;-) More in reply to the OP... the first thing that popped to mind when I read the OP was Donald Trump. Instant ew. An old memory from my early 20s that Touch might recall me telling in the fora before, is about a guy who introduced himself to me by slinging his arm around my shoulder. I bit him, hard, it was instinct. No confusion about messages there, ever. There are heaps of great posts here about respect... and as someone posted earlier today... It's a 2 way street or there's no balance. Peachy
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Tall74nHard9
8 years ago
I'm sorry that your forum has been unfortunately hijacked and taken off track - obviously not my intended desire for such. I did post a genuine response to your posting on the first page which I would have been than pleased to have let be. However someone has decided it was an opportune time to let out some of their past frustrations, without doing adequate checking of their facts. I do apologize for this de-railing of your topic. Tall
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RHP User
8 years ago
Me too! The serious reply post, I mean...... not the sexual harassment bandwagon hashtagging kind. Disclaimer; It’s me again. *(Autocorrect spellcheck function was used in the drafting of this message. Any spelling errors are a deliberate tactic by the sole author of this profile). - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
You could have stopped your post at "kind". Would have been perfectly adequate for the OP. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Well...... I’ve always been .... more.... than adequate 😄
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Tall74nHard9
8 years ago
at who can't stop digging a hole for themself. Keep on going, you are in so deep now, you'll soon reach the other side of the planet. Can't wait for you to get there (and stay there). Tall
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Tall74nHard9
8 years ago
You've logged in a few times now and had ample opportunity to come back with some form of response. So what is it to be - you going to try and sling more mud around, or have you woken up to the fact that you are actually WRONG ? I'm still willing to send you a PM to check things out for yourself. So what is it to be ? Tall
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RHP User
8 years ago
Maybe it's a sense of inadequacy? Makes me think of arrogant fools smacking arses to build up their ego. 🍑
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Tall74nHard9
8 years ago
Like it. Tall
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RHP User
8 years ago
Deliberate misspelling I find it ironic the loud ego chest thumping going on...... in a topic about confidence Sense of humour genes deactivated 👆 😎 Just keep digging Just keep digging That’s what we do We dig, dig dig Can ya dig it?! 😄 😄
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RHP User
8 years ago
You knew she was barking up the wrong tree.... Why even bark back?? Seems you weren’t so confident that she was at the wrong tree eh?? ;) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Guess it won't be around for long now... But who cares as long as the men get to beat their chest about how right they are, about everything. That's why you'd never make mod The. ☁☁☁☁☁☁☁⚡ ☁☁☁☁☁☁⚡☁ ☁☁☁☁☁⚡⚡☁ ☁☁☁☁⚡⚡☁☁ ☁☁☁⚡⚡☁☁☁ ☁☁⚡⚡⚡☁☁☁ ☁⚡⚡⚡☁☁☁☁ ⚡⚡⚡⚡⚡⚡⚡⚡ ⚡⚡⚡⚡⚡⚡⚡⚡ ☁☁☁☁⚡⚡⚡☁ ☁☁☁⚡⚡⚡☁☁ ☁☁☁⚡⚡☁☁☁ ☁☁⚡⚡☁☁☁☁ ☁⚡⚡☁☁☁☁☁ ☁⚡☁☁☁☁☁☁ ⚡☁☁☁☁☁☁🍑
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RHP User
8 years ago
Not much changes around here, poor things 😉
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madotara69
8 years ago
Bahahahaha Hey DG, you've found my celebrity status, you're good. My end of primary school dramatical production, as the curtains drew open an endless sea of cheering faces an audience indeed, the star of attractions, I played the leading role out of all the trees. Theatrical stage play The Deeper You Dig Oh yeah, I remember too DG OP, this certainly applies as being on topic Some folk are so entrenched in their own self interests they appear confident to suit the intensions of those interests, blind to the realities all other see in the world around their little bubble Known as Psycho-babble bubblewrap. Great topic, reminds me of another in the past.....oh, speaking with a plum in his mouth, upsetting so many women was a thing so incredibly similar, almost a synchronicity. Mado Mado Tara xx
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RHP User
8 years ago
You think RHP will care when they torch this thread. When you get proof, it won't be vilification. If you have proof, report it. Otherwise you're all killing a perfectly good thread, again.
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RHP User
8 years ago
It's the same as what used to be thrown at me. There is no hope of reply to satisfy the suspicious. Though I tried, and still cop the effects to this day. 🍑
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Tall74nHard9
8 years ago
Quoting 'the_antichrist' You knew she was barking up the wrong tree.... Why even bark back?? Seems you weren’t so confident that she was at the wrong tree eh?? ;) - Posted from rhpmobile I knew she was barking up the wrong tree, but the rest of the people did not. Seems fairly obvious as to why reply, I would have thought. Or, perhaps, not so obvious to some ? I was confident enough.... Tall
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RHP User
8 years ago
thanks for that btw, such a shame.Quoting 'PeachyPearL' It's the same as what used to be thrown at me. There is no hope of reply to satisfy the suspicious. Though I tried, and still cop the effects to this day. 🍑
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RHP User
8 years ago
I think you have a good point about getting the balance right and I guess it would depend on the individual/s and the timing of the situation and what people are ok with, hence not always getting the balance right.
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