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Correct ages on profiles

July 30 2019

Do people intentionally lie about their age ? It’s very disappointing when you meet people and they’re obviously much older than their profile says. Does the age on profiles automatically change each year ?

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  • Tall74nHard9

    Tall74nHard9

    6 years ago

    Yes, the ages change automatically upon each persons stated birthday. Why do some lie about their age ? How many answers would you like ? For the most part it is the insecurity of the individual involved.But it is also a mechanism to keep them in other peoples search criteria. Most people have a particular cut-off point (around 45 seems to be popular), so some people will keep on adjusting their age to keep inside this point. The other possibilities are endless.... Tall

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    It shits me too. I'm honest about my age but a large percentage of men, women and couples lie about their age. One woman I started communicating with off here, privately, was indicating she was menopausal and I said you're young to be going into menopause. She laughed and said "I'm older than you". I wasn't laughing. I hate liars. Plenty of others permanently keep their age under 45 to get into searches, others under 65 who I believe are older than that. The women don't need to lie, they'll get action anyway,but it is very disappointing when those very people will be on here giving advice about how people should be honest and up front. Eye roll

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    how old are you really? 😉 How is it you don't know how to clock your age over on your birthday?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    But you can always change it in your settings. I dont know why people have to be dishonest about their age. It only causes suspicion and disappointment when you meet .

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Some people just look really old so don’t automatically assume you’re being lied to. I was getting hit on by a dude once & was considering it, thinking we were the same age...turns out he was 10 years younger than me! 😳

  • Freaky_Fun

    Freaky_Fun

    6 years ago

    Bit like why do people use fake photos 🤷‍♀️

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    ...I thought maybe you were telling everyone to dash back and drop their age, you know just to seem to look older than "that" if you do happen to meet? The real answer is some do, some don't, some will and some won't...kind of like the rest of the things that can happen if you hang around sites like this? Sooner or later it does become a reality bite and sometimes reality is a vampire...it really sucks! Yes, your age is supposed to change automatically each year as part of your profile but can be reset to suit. I am 39, really I am! I just fib upwards to attract younger women who like older men. Love your outfit and sure it will fit you for several more of your annual 40th birthday bashups! Best........... ʗɱ

  • boobsandbusted

    boobsandbusted

    6 years ago

    Some Own there age with pride and proud of it and how they look and feel some don’t and think fudgng the age thing will make them more attractive ,personally I’d rather a great older person than a young not great person ,but its all horses for courses ,some will have a line in the sand and mentally think anything over a certain age is too old and some won’t age numbers or a funny thing ,can also work against people for being too young , Mr b

  • boobsandbusted

    boobsandbusted

    6 years ago

    Also personally I’d rather get a response like on Saturday night at a meet and greet ,get out of here ,no way are you 53 ,wow ,than damn you look old for 48 eesh Mr b

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Age, weight, cock size, easygoing, down to earth, non judgmental. So many lies/delusions. Comes with the territory.

  • Freaky_Fun

    Freaky_Fun

    6 years ago

    Is everyones friend 😊

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    I don't have to worry about being too young, unless one of the 100 yr olds thinks I am lol

  • boobsandbusted

    boobsandbusted

    6 years ago

    Freaky ,I still can’t do that on my iPhone ,lol,

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Quoting 'Freaky_Fun' Is everyones friend 😊 I looked at the thumbnail for OP and thought ''yeah right''...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    I have lied about my age..but only a little bit..I am actually 99years and 11 months:). Getting younger every year..I call the Buttoning affect..I think it's just in some people's genes and or jeans. Hugs Q

  • Haleakala

    Haleakala

    6 years ago

    Mine isn't correct but only by a month or so. I don't put my date of birth on any forms that don't absolutely require it. Just a paranoid habit about providing too much detail and identity theft. Probably a complete waste of time given google has all my personal data.

  • DynamicCouple36

    DynamicCouple36

    6 years ago

    OP Yet your one an only profile photo has been “borrowed” from the internet ? It is clearly not your photo. How did you manage to verify your profile ?

  • Freaky_Fun

    Freaky_Fun

    6 years ago

    That's why l don't buy into the verification thing, anyone can hold a piece of paper up then put other photos on their profiles.

  • luvsilver

    luvsilver

    6 years ago

    Thinking the same thing Dynamic.Maybe they did the correct thing for verification then added the fake and deleted their original (real) pic.Freaky is on to it though. Mr Luvsilver

  • FeistyFatty

    FeistyFatty

    6 years ago

    This is LuckyKims second attempt with her fake pic .... she got pinged a few months ago under a different username.

  • boobsandbusted

    boobsandbusted

    6 years ago

    Maybe lucky Kim isn’t so lucky but closely related to lucky Phil ,poor old lucky Phil ,lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    So much for verification being the best way to sort the sticks from the chaff eh?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    FAT I’ve never had another user name. The image is me, from my modeling days. I don’t own the license for the image Nasty comment borne from jealousy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    😁 yet the picture is gone

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Time for a Jager Bomb... the green machine drop shot in a Heineken. Kick back, put my boots up on the table and wait...watch...and wonder...or not. ʗɱ

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Add 10 to specified and you may be on the mark😉

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    The three little pigs had the same problem...it was only the one who chose the bricks ,(rejecting the sticks and straw..) who successfully avoided the wolf. An RHP metaphor me thinks. Hugs Q

  • bonefide

    bonefide

    6 years ago

    That found the OPs response to funfiesty down right rude/disrespectful?????

  • Tall74nHard9

    Tall74nHard9

    6 years ago

    the image was from your modelling days, how old was the image ? 2 years ago - 5 years ago - 20 years ago. Isn't that in the same vein as lying about your age ? Tall

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Q, that was beautifully done 👌 a very apt metaphor indeed.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Lol Q... The three little pigs had a verified profile?? 😂😂

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Back on topic, a few commenting on this topic have neglected to say if their ages are correct? And take particular note of the conveniently absent 😉

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    What about when there age is different to where they put it into the about me section. Just shows profiles aren't updated for years at a time. Pictures are my biggest gripe. Profile pic is old and then updated ones in gallery. I try to be as honest as I can be regarding age which is true. Pics with and without makeup on. The only thing I won't do is with more undressed pics is show my face and body together. Dressed pics no problem. Would hate to meet someone and see the look of dissapointment because I didnt represent myself honestly.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Well,,, I have a birthday coming up soon ,,,,, let’s see if I tick over another number ha

  • 3SM_Events

    3SM_Events

    6 years ago

    I know soooooo many people who lie about their age on here its pretty much a given I assume. Lots lie to put their age under 40 to chase those younger than themselves cos they “don’t think they look or feel their age” whatever that means. Others over 50 do it to get invited to events where the cutoff mark is 50. But then again the vast majority of people stretch the truth on here to get their foot in the door wherever they have to. Vanity...it’s a curse lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Arrogant too, because of the assumption of jealousy.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Ms_Silk I have noticed the same as you, one age on their profile and different in the info section Then there’s the camera guy who says he’s 44 when he’s not long celebrated his 49th birthday Probably because his fuck buddy is younger and they can’t get into the under 45 gigs if he’s honest You learn a lot about people’s behavior on RHP If you have nothing to hide........ why lie

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    6 years ago

    Does getting closer to 50 mean I have to start lying about my age and Benjamin Buttoning?!?!?!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Yep,but they weren't a group..only one had a happy ending..There are a few wolves here amongst the sheep. Hugs Q

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Fess up.I am sure that you were 100 years old when we chatted last, a few years ago.I can just image you dating a 101 year old gent and him being devastated to find out that you are actually older than he is.Sheesh.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Same here.My age should go up Aug 1st.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    We've had the same issues on multiple occasions where it is very evident in person that someone has been less than truthful about their age. Mine (Mr ROF) will tick over tonight at midnight......Happy Birthday to me! Quite happy to be ageing gracefully and don't see any need to lie about my 38yrs of life experience. The way I see it, I may be getting a year closer to death but I managed to cheat it so far, lol.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Everything on our profile is correct. No point in lying as people around here seem very picky so may as well not waste anyone's time.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    I don't really care if someone lies about their age.What matters most is what you look like NOW. Some people are young but look much older.Have worked with many that I thought were older than me and was shocked to learn that they were 10+ years younger.Conversely, there 60+ that look better than most 40 year olds. Age is a number and often a poor representative of a person.For example, a few weeks ago, I went to an AC/DC tribute show and rock it full on.There were a couple of really young guys that tried to match me, but they had no hope.No-one in the room came close to keeping up with me and I will be 53 in 2 days.At the Ravo Blues Fest, one guy actually grabbed me and asked me to stop because he thought that I surely would drop dead any second.I replied "You are not as old as you feel. You are as old as you act"PS: Just to clarify....There were No Drugs involved. Back on photos.I dig that many create profiles and years later their pics haven't been updated.I was the same...Not intentional...time just passes.Personally, I addressed this issue by annotating most of my pics with the date that it was taken. You say that your pic was taken when you were modelling...Fine.As Tall said, WHEN was that pic taken?Everyone claims to be honest and trustworthy, but that needs to be evidenced that in your profile.Otherwise, you have just shot yourself in the foot. I just uploaded a pic to my profile to illustrate the point (needs to be reviewed before it gets added)Outdated pics are OK, as long as you are honest and upfront about them.Otherwise, either keep our pics current (within 6 months) or date stamp them.IMHO

  • joanne1991

    joanne1991

    6 years ago

    Honestly, I’m proud to say I’m 57, my pics are about 12 months old and I love it when I’m told I can’t be that old. I’m proud to display my age and couldn’t give a shit trying to fit in with a younger crowd if they aren’t looking for someone like me. Same goes for pictures in profiles that are over 5 years old, cmon everyone changes in 5 years, be honest if a meet is organised there will be disappointment unless you somehow look better than yourself now than 5 years or more ago.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    People lie about a lot of things, age , name, location, attached or unattached. Thing is people are horny and just want to have fun, they are maybe afraid of the commitment, or just dont want to give away too much info. There are a few creepers so I understand their reasoning. End of the day, if you get what you want and no one is hurt, I see no problem who they say they are or arent

  • redhotozz

    redhotozz

    6 years ago

    If you are worried about age instead of chemistry, attration, sense of fun, just buy porn. You'll always find faults if you focus on age. Couldnt care less about it.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    we get guys lying about there ages weekly,about hosting and also smoking as well they say non smoker then stink like only a smoker does, and then say oh i didnt smoke for 3 weeks when i signed up? sorry , sometimes by up to 10 tears LoL.

  • CherrySnickers

    CherrySnickers

    6 years ago

    New to the site and have already noticed that.. I had assumed profiles mustn’t be ticking over on birthdays... ? But hey - why not be honest people - isn’t it fabulous to be alive and celebrate that every year... and to be on this site to be enjoying life to the fullest... x

  • DaddyRP

    DaddyRP

    6 years ago

    I personally dont get it. You're only going to get found out anyway so why bother ? And if you keep fit, for the most part you don't have any need to feel that insecure

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    I lied on my profile when I first joined - I was only 19 and bumped it up a few years so we weren't told that I was 'too young.' I met a guy off here who was in his early 40s and shaved off a few years to get in with those women who had an under 40 cut off. Saw him from a few months and the number didn't bother me, he admitted it on the first meet, my profile was more about weeding out the majority that didn't fit what I was after at the time outside of that age group. Miss Little xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    On the inside. 🙄

  • bonefide

    bonefide

    6 years ago

    Mmm that i take it, is a hint its your birthday. Happy birthday I guess.

  • usnow

    usnow

    6 years ago

    Doesn't everyone's change on the 1st of their birthday month .Those who's age doesn't change deliberately go in and change it , sad isn't it .

  • Tall74nHard9

    Tall74nHard9

    6 years ago

    Quoting 'usnow' Doesn't everyone's change on the 1st of their birthday month .Those who's age doesn't change deliberately go in and change it , sad isn't it . It actually changes on your actual birthday...(or the one you put down) Tall

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Is a 69 year old Dutchman who went to court to try and legally lower his age by 20 years He claimed that he was discriminated against on dating sites such as Tinder. The court rejected his claim. Perhaps that's the mindset of more than a few people here:) Hugs Q.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Meet people??? What’s that all about??

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    I was surprised to see that my age didn't go up on my birthday, 1st Aug, but it did on the 2nd.Maybe because I didn't go to bed until about 3am (next day) Hmm

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Same as photo shopping pictures to look 10 years younger. Instagram has that filter as you seem to know.🤷‍♂️

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    If people choose to be dishonest at the outset, what is one to expect when you meet? More of the same....? People lying about their age just adds another filter for us...😊

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Almost as pathetic as heavily manipulated facebook profile pics!!!

  • Freaky_Fun

    Freaky_Fun

    6 years ago

    Beautiful profile pic 2in2pleasure 😊

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Why do you put filters on your main photo so it appears to smooth out your skin? No one would know what you really look like... That is just as bad... altering a photo.🙄 I’m my stated age even though I am constantly told I look at least 5 years younger... I know why people do it.... I just never would... 💋😻

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    lucky Kim back? ☺

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Our age is spot on We can provide birth certificates as well🤦‍♂️

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    This annoys me. My mum is definitely lying about her age on her profile - by a good ten years. It's when she sends me flirts that really shits me though

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Some of us don't lie....... 😳

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Not I lol, but yes dudes rldo. They don't want to date the okd birds, and know the young birds have age limits lololol

  • Kitii

    Kitii

    6 years ago

    It’s terrible!! I had a guy that was “30” & saw his pics... 30 in dog years maybe :( I get frustrated when seriously older people try even though I’ve clearly stated an age preference, I just delete them now without even bothering as they clearly didn’t bother to read my profile 🤷‍♀️

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    The old birds aren't interested in them either lolol 😉

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Your upper age limit is older than mind 😁 lmao

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    I can't understand the need to do this myself. If your goal is to meet up with the person, clearly they are going to see you and know that you have been lying to them. Who would want anything to do with them? I think I'm lucky to look younger than my age, but I still keep it as it is, cause who knows

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Mine I meant

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Lol I just read my reply and I'm like what the fuck was I saying. Drunk typing haha So many dudes lie about their age. But contrary to the gramps thinking it's just a number to me, it's not. I have logically come to a point where I know that no one over my age limit has been attractive to me. So you can put 39,but if you look 49 you're still not going to pique my interest.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    I think anything correct is a bonus. A bloke tried to impersonate a service person to me the other day, when i caught him out he didn't really want to talk about it. Its illegal

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    No idea why people would lie, when it comes to the actual meeting most are good judges. I state my age (30) on my profile but many comment they thought I was in my early 20s which I take as a compliment. My philosophy is honesty, so everyone knows everyone is who they say they are...

  • EarthQueen

    EarthQueen

    6 years ago

    Quoting 'bridget71' I think anything correct is a bonus. A bloke tried to impersonate a service person to me the other day, when i caught him out he didn't really want to talk about it. Its illegal Ha a guy I dated briefly also said this to me. He was military intelligence though. Still can't work out if it was true. He had a lot of conspiracy theories. The spy who shagged me ??? Who knows.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    but after the tick of age 45 the events and parties start to exclude or discriminate on the basis of age. Yeah they do. So I can see why 'some' would feel the need to gild the lily. Mwah SNW

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Ive always lied about my age :p In real life people wouldnt believe me if I told them the truth. Ive always looked, acted and felt way younger than actually I am. I found it more beneficial in real life to "up" my age by a bit as I would be complimented. IE Me: Hi howyadoin?Her: Not too bad, hows yaself? Me: Feeling horny. You? Her: Yeah same. Is it fucking pension day or something? Me: Why? Her: Well look around, all I see is wrinkly tired old fat bastards. Me: Well Im probably older than most of them. Her: Bullshit! Me No its true Im 69 tomorrow (or tonight if Im lucky) :D Her: you cheeky lying cunt!

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    6 years ago

    The old age thing. You put the number to the picIf you been around the block a few times, you're gonna look a bit older than what you so people will judge that number and call bullshitIf you look great for your age, had bit of a soft life pushing a pen across some paper, people will judge you have an old pic. People will judge you by the visual in case people bullshit.They say it's just a number but that's based on how you look and perform. Judgy fuckers everyone of us.I had fuck buddy that took 10 years of. Said he was 58 but had to be 68. Outside my preference but performance, body and attitude made him one of the best. Don't focus on the number. Focus on your feeling for the person

  • MsJonesy

    MsJonesy

    6 years ago

    If someone really has a job related to intelligence, whether it be military or civil service, they're not likely to reveal that. More likely a wanna be.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    People lying about their age are deluded. Everybody looks their age. Some might look good for their age, but going by the profiles I've viewed, following a message or flirt, a large percentage lie about their age, some by a good decade or two. As someone said here, it doesn't get them anywhere because we know what we're attracted to anyway. Annie, I 100% disagree that age is just a number. No it's not, it's a timeline that can have a significant effect on experience, I'll get back to that in a minute, energy, exuberance, baggage, sexual performance, body shape/fitness, a whole list of things that can be relevant to age, young or old. I base my age criteria on my experiences and communications, but mostly actual meets. I could list at least 10 reasons,but I would just get slammed again for those reasons. But I don't care if I upset older men for ruling them out, because I have my reasons and know what I want. Didn't you say before you lied about your age? Can I ask why that is?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Ive always lied about my age :p In real life people wouldnt believe me if I told them the truth. Ive always looked, acted and felt way younger than I actually am. I found it more beneficial in real life to "up" my age by a bit as I would be complimented. IE OFFLINE Me: Hi howyadoin?Her: Not too bad, hows yaself? Me: Feeling horny. You? Her: Yeah same. Is it fucking pension day or something? Me: Why? Her: Well look around, all I see is wrinkly tired old fat bastards. Me: Well Im probably older than most of them. Her: Bullshit! Me No its true Im 69 tomorrow (or tonight if Im lucky) :D Her: you cheeky lying cunt! ONLINE The relentless sounds of crickets chirping.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Getting back to experience, I like modern experience, modern oral skills, modern interest in learning and pleasing a woman. I haven't yet encountered an older man who has even come close to some of my young ones. A man who has been married for 20 or 30 years, doesn't have the experience I want. So an older age doesn't equal experience. Sex and women's sexuality has changed dramatically in that time. Unfortunately, men haven't changed

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    6 years ago

    Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' People lying about their age are deluded. Everybody looks their age. Some might look good for their age, but going by the profiles I've viewed, following a message or flirt, a large percentage lie about their age, some by a good decade or two. As someone said here, it doesn't get them anywhere because we know what we're attracted to anyway. Annie, I 100% disagree that age is just a number. No it's not, it's a timeline that can have a significant effect on experience, I'll get back to that in a minute, energy, exuberance, baggage, sexual performance, body shape/fitness, a whole list of things that can be relevant to age, young or old. I base my age criteria on my experiences and communications, but mostly actual meets. I could list at least 10 reasons,but I would just get slammed again for those reasons. But I don't care if I upset older men for ruling them out, because I have my reasons and know what I want. Didn't you say before you lied about your age? Can I ask why that is? Yeah, I'm 71. Because if l told the truth l wouldn't be hit up because I'd be out of everyone's preference range.And they would miss out on an experience of a lifetime. And how would l feel knowing so many people missed out on the best sex of their lives. So l lie, just for their benefit. Not because I'm an old cunt

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    As it happens I do have to ask... Why, is there so tub thumping?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Gonna thump 🙄🙄🙄

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Yes it's disappointing that people will lie about their age. In the end, they will be found out. Yes, the age clock does change on here every year, providing you put your birth date on here correctly. And yes, this is my age on here.

  • Brass_Monkey

    Brass_Monkey

    6 years ago

    You are only as old, as the woman you feel! Haha

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Its no different to people using filters in reality

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    I honestly dont get what all the fuss is over age. Christ its not a fucking contagious disease hahah Shouldnt people be judged on how they look, act and perform and not on the year they were born? (unless it was the year of the rat or something haha) If you see what you like and like what you see would you honestly not take it further if that person was over your specified age range? Where and why do you draw the line?I can honestly say that Ive never asked a woman in real life how old she was before deciding if I wanted to go further. I can also say that Ive never been rejected in real life because of my age and if anything, looking younger than my years has only resulted in a positive outcome and being complimented on how good I looked for my age. Is this age based bias confined to only online hookups? How many women here really ask for proof of age before fucking in real life?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Your perception of yourself,is just that.Your life experience cultural references all impact on who you are. Some people only want someone from the same generation,some want older,some want younger. When someone lies about their age,posts old pics,in my view the are deluding themselves as well as duping others I posted about the Dutch man who went to court to legally lower his age by ten years because he was being rejected on Tinder because of his real age,Indeed in his pic he looked way younger but the court rejected his claim. Hugs Q Ps people are always amazed when they meet me as I look thirty years younger than my age stated here:) Hugs Q

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Yeah I agree. I met this guy one day who told me it was his birthday. I said happy birthday but he wasn't happy at all. To give some insight, he was a gym junkie and good looking, he looked great but when he started talking, I felt sorry for him because he seemed to be trying too hard to look and act young, said he didn't feel that old. Hello, none of us do! But because he was so self absorbed, he missed my initial lust lol That left though soon enough because I found him a bit immature and vacant. My 50's have been the best years of my life. I wouldn't swap them for anything. I find it hard enough trying to look good 'for my age'. I seriously couldn't be bothered trying to look younger. Who wants that sort of pressure?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Good Guy The pic from my modeling days was 3 years ago, physically I’m still the same. I’m a really lousy photographer My profile pic is only a month old

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    There is delusional where you kid yourself and no one else. There is illusional where you kid yourself and everyone else. (make-up, botox, silicone, face lifts, etc)There are the lucky ones, good genetics and lifestyle. Then there are the rest. Anyone can lie.I know what category i fall into. (would I lie) haha :p Hmm now where have my beer goggles gone? Fun fact #18Using MRI brain scans, researchers recently found that elderly people who feel younger than their actual age in fact show far fewer signs of brain aging than those who feel their age or feel older than their actual age. Who woulda thunk it. Now off to the sandpit to play with my lego :D

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    oz melb couple filters used for privacy dissapointing comment, but not unexpected there are couples who dont like knock backs better just ot accept the knock back and just move on

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Being newbies to this space we've been surprised by the 'ages' of some people. Either they've had a REALLY hard life, or they're quite a bit older than their pictures indicate. We wondered if we needed to reduce our age by 5-10yrs so that we're in the 'correct' age bracket for our look ;) - Alex.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Quoting 'Alex4Margo' Being newbies to this space we've been surprised by the 'ages' of some people. Either they've had a REALLY hard life, or they're quite a bit older than their pictures indicate. We wondered if we needed to reduce our age by 5-10yrs so that we're in the 'correct' age bracket for our look ;) - Alex. They probably have had a hard life, I mean life wasnt meant to be easy was it? hahahah My best guess is the guys who have lowered their age are "cougar" hunters.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Searched this topic out after questioning a woman's age, 47 and she looks older than me? Any wonder she's not here commenting, She seems so perfect in every other way lol

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    6 years ago

    People age differently, some more some less. To find the age of a tree, you cut it down and count the rings. Too late then, destroying a wonderful piece of nature unless it was dying or dead. Up to then, it served wonderfully as a superb bit of landscape or a great piece of shade on a hot day. A habitat for some fauna. A person looks how they look. Maybe they look too old for you, too young or maybe you find them attractive and hot. Age being a number beside that pic immediately influences your perception does it not? Of course, it is a problem when they post outdated pics that do not represent the real them. That just fucks it all. When you meet cold in real life, there is no balloon floating above their head with their age on it. You engage purely what is there in front of you. Later on after maybe sex or just a great chat and drink the age is revealed and it is often then irrelevant because emotion may have impinge on the senses. I have said previously, age IS just a number except online when it needs to fit within someone's preferences to be accepted. I guess it's the era we find ourselves. Experience has taught me those that have unnegiotable age preferences are just fooling themselves a little. They have become cold and hard in the online world, forgetting about the previous years when we just took people at face value.

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