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Forum flirting
March 08 2017
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RHP User
9 years ago
It's great fun, and if it leads somewhere and you both want it that's terrific! For me, that's the greatest thrill, the flirting that leads up to the shagging! It will probably never be as memorable as the first time, you're just getting so turned on and you'll have that memory always! I can flirt with guys, despite not having any gay inclinations, but the fun repartee when it's right, is very enjoyable! Never have I had the hard word put on me in that situation! I can flirt with old woman, gay women and if the connection is good it's harmless fun. Of course the definition of flirting is the words, and the eyes 👀 lingering touches, and really no sexual consequences. But hey, it's nice if there are! M_D4 Go on, dare you! - Posted from rhpmobile
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Seachange73
9 years ago
Yes. Many times. Some just end up just plain flirting but really didn't go anywhere. But I love it and just great fun. I remember the state by state Men threads started by MissB couple years back. There were some serious flirting there by lots of people. We women were spoilt with the men on here parading themselves for us. Yes we all had fun and sadly we don't do it as much. I.have had men flirt with me on the forums. some subtle some overt. Either way, we either contacted each other (when I.was a member and actively seeking for fwbs) or met at the meet and greet. We all do it, regardless of whether people think they don't. In the forum or in real life. but then again, I'm a real sociable and flirt in real life, but not overt. It can be less stressful for the newbies to approach people after the forum flirting. I know I was. Men flirted with me on the forums when I was new and we ended up meeting. Some ended in some bedroom frolicking. 😉 So people, chill and flirt. It's good for you. 😊
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Seachange73
9 years ago
Yes. Many times. Some just end up just plain flirting but really didn't go anywhere. But I love it and just great fun. I remember the state by state Men threads started by MissB couple years back. There were some serious flirting there by lots of people. We women were spoilt with the men on here parading themselves for us. Yes we all had fun and sadly we don't do it as much. I.have had men flirt with me on the forums. some subtle some overt. Either way, we either contacted each other (when I.was a member and actively seeking for fwbs) or met at the meet and greet. We all do it, regardless of whether people think they don't. In the forum or in real life. but then again, I'm a real sociable and flirt in real life, but not overt. It can be less stressful for the newbies to approach people after the forum flirting. I know I was. Men flirted with me on the forums when I was new and we ended up meeting. Some ended in some bedroom frolicking. 😉 So people, chill and flirt. It's good for you. 😊
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Seachange73
9 years ago
Sorry op
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AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
Never done it OP. I think your pics are hot though. Love to see more.... Doing much this weekend there sexy? Let's message up? I'll send some dic pics and we'll take it from there...... Xxxx
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RHP User
9 years ago
Is required when flirting on the forums. I often find its tedious and boring, even a real turnoff. People's style vary I understand that and I can appreciate a single comment, possibly two to get the juices flowing but beyond that 'get a room' lol 😂 I enjoy the fora but I don't want to be forced to watch people flirt. Have I met up with people off the fora, yes :) I like it when people genuinely read my comments and appreciate them and tell me so, without the 'expectation' that their positive comment will score them a date. BUT other than some minor innuendo, a slight hint, I don't do the overt flirting on the forums. Mary xx
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RHP User
9 years ago
Guilty as charged 😀😊
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RHP User
9 years ago
I'm such a woeful flirt. I seem to go from confused and cold, to feeling someone up, with my hand in their hair. So forum flirting makes me totally awks. There are definitely people (quite a few) I have wanted to meet (and have - woot), purely for their forum'ing, but not because of anything flirtatious between us. Not really into voyeurism of other's forum flirt game, tends to make me cringe - but whatever works for them
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RHP User
9 years ago
a few more I'd like to get my greasy little mitts on. Where are you langton? 😉 come hither 😀
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RHP User
9 years ago
I like watching everyone flirting on here. Its lighthearted and a bit of fun. Adds some humour and a bit of " will they wont they" to the mix. Im a bit of a flirt online myself....but in RL not so much. I leave it to the younger ones... :)
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RHP User
9 years ago
I haven't as yet but that would be because I haven't provided enough comments into forums at the moment. Might need to step it up a level ;-) - Posted from rhpmobile
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Seachange73
9 years ago
I see where you are coming from. I respect your point. However it's no different to others posting our medical or mental issues or relationship issues? You and every other person here have the choice to skip or read or comment on the posts. One comment could be enough for others to see it as cringe worthy or awkward. I think people react differently depending on who posts. Friendship comes into play. It can be open to being biased. I'm guilty of that and so are others whether they admit it or not. Just the nature of the forum. What constitutes as adequate for one is overkill for another. E&A is full of flirting between forumites and some have exchanged 'multiple' flirty messages. it's all there in writing. We read them. I did and thought their just a bit of fun between two people. If they're happy, why cap it? what is the acceptable number and who sets the standard? I won't as that would be censorship in my view. So if I don't feel like reading a post at that time , whether it be a series of flirts, medical/mental conditions or relationship issues, I just skip it.
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RHP User
9 years ago
LOL... Pepper, Meander and Lily? What's on for next weekend? Flirting is for amateurs... dive in head first!
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RHP User
9 years ago
Hey Eye Touch! What happened to Steak and BJ Day? Eye was looking forward to some blue steak, nice an rare and juicy, with blood on the plate, mixed in with my chips! I figured we could have lots of fun, afterwards, with that little boyish body laying across the cooling barbie, as I sit on the esky at perfect height to French kiss your sweet little mound! The only downside, is you look so like my wife did at 19!! M_D4 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Haha I got so frustrated trying to find, well all I wanted was a small group, although I left the numbers open, anywhere from 2-6 would have been great, I would have been very happy just with 2, but there were the usual contingent who, once pg opened, looked nothing like the main picture. That bloody shits me. I had decided not to only choose the perfect bodies but I had to be somewhat attracted, for the passion and intensity to play out the way I wanted it to. So struggled early on, then a few emerged who were seeming awesome. All good I thought, one in particular who was going to help me organize it, but he had something he was organizing, fell off the radar fair enough, but no contact over a series of days, that kind of sealed it for me. I spat the dummy and pulled the event. Some tyre kickers in there no doubt and perhaps viewed as not intimate enough by some guys. It's always intimate with me, it's just that I'm not shy and love numbers lol Anyway, I'm busy and decided to give it up as a bad joke. It did give me new respect for people who organize events. I was told by one such person to expect no shows etc. But the biggest problem was not guys I was attracted to, a few yes, but that has to come first. If I wouldn't normally hook up with them, then I wouldn't in a group thing either. And those that expected me to chase them for pictures 👎 I never do that. There's always a reason they don't show themselves. What I might do is try some threesomes in datefinder, start small and try to build a group. At least that way, respect and mutual attraction is already there. But the fakes, they spoil it for everyone 😏
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RHP User
9 years ago
Sorry op, off topic, as you were 😀😉
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RHP User
9 years ago
I've met up with a few forumites, both past and present. Sometimes it just amounts to lovely chattin', sometimes lively lovin'. I ain't naming any names though.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Come on Rick, you can't leave us hanging like that 😛
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RHP User
9 years ago
You went beyond the call! Maybe my attraction to you is deeper than sex and your uncanny resemblance to my 19 year old wife! I look forward to eventually meeting you and enjoying a light meal and your company, explore the fertile soils of your considerable intellect, and enjoying cerebral and bodily beauty. M_D4 PS the OP subject is flirting, right!! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Yeah, I must admit I flirted shamelessly with a wonderful guy on here my first time around ... lots of banter, which proceeded to messages, and then meeting up. He's a really good friend, even though I don't see him much. More recently, I flirted without expectation with the wonderful Ty ... I'm sure many of you know how that tuned out. ;-)
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Seachange73
9 years ago
Were told off to get a room or take it elsewhere? 😎 😊
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RHP User
9 years ago
have to admit, I have told Betty and Kool to get a room a few times 😍💑💏
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RHP User
9 years ago
Haven't seen Betty and Kool for a while 😎 maybe they have got a room 😝😊
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RHP User
9 years ago
One good reason I like flirting on the forums with someone I believe I know well enough to take some liberties, is because I enjoy being a bit cheeky at times. I'll do that in person too. I don't see any reason to hide that.It's a trust thing. And that means a lot.That they trust me...and that I trust them.We may never meet in person, but that's not important really.It's not all about getting laid.
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Seachange73
9 years ago
Exactly. I've seen you flirt incessantly. Ya flirt. Lol No harm just some light-hearted banter. We can't be hypocritical on imposing or perceived to be supporting the limitation of sending flirtatious messages when we do it ourselves. Live and let live.
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Lovinit28andKC72
9 years ago
Many moons ago.💋
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RHP User
9 years ago
People on the forums are from all over the country. You can flirt with many but the handful of locals may or may not be remotely interested. And it can also appear to people reading you have more non-platonic connections than you do, which for many people, could be little or none, yet it appears as if you are really popular in real life and therefore may turn some away from contacting you? But my jury is still out on this... In any case I do appreciate flirting aimed at myself as it is always a well needed confidence boost :) Likewise I tend to enjoy pet names too, for the same reason (feeling special), although when you realise that said person does it for everyone, it's less flattering, and sounds more like your Auntie than a potential suitor :p - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Yes, it's lead to some amazing experiences 😊👌 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Mmm... I don't remember you flirting with me... :p - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
The topic of any original post and its preamble gives readers the idea of whether they want to continue reading on. It's also the opportunity to decide whether I will contribute to the discussion by offering experiences or advice. To understand the flow of conversation, you do have to read all posts and it's often too late to stop reading when you've been captured in the net of a flirt between two posters. So no, I cant really avoid flirts in your 'normal' thread on the forums. The everything and anything thread by its very nature implies the topic is open to anything, this is were I raised my medical issues about my dastardly cyst, so I could garner some advice and experience from other posters. I do enter that particular thread 'at my own risk' of exposing myself to possibly cringe worthy flirts lol. Myself, whether you're my friend or not, doesn't determine whether I'm going to agree or disagree with a post or poster. Cringe is cringe, regardless of the person lol. It may be my 'bull at a gate' approach to most things but I still stand by my first post, the flirting is too much most of the time! What people think is subtle sexual innuendo or sexy banter makes me want to poke my eyes out with a blunt spoon lol. I have serious RSI of the eyes, I roll them that much when I encounter flirting in your seemingly everyday topics. My view is, if you like each other enough to blatantly flirt or find each other sexy etc. use messages and flirts on this site to tell each other so! And just because this is the flirting thread, Meander I'd bang ya ;) oh and I'd bang a few others too, but check your inbox for that sexy flirting :) Mary xx
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Seachange73
9 years ago
I do comprehend your point. I'm not putting you down for putting up any discussion regarding medical conditions or anything and I understand where you are coming from. I respect and admire your candour and openness in sharing medical issues like you have in E&A. It is definitely very helpful to many of us and it is most appreciated. What I'm saying is that we can, at our own volition, decide to switch off if we want to, from any topic or posting on the forum. I'm sure at some point, we can follow the train of thought or point of discussion of a topic between posters and have the choice to opt out at any time. akin to switching off watching some TV show that does not hold our interest, e.g. reality shows, before one suffers from brain aneurysm due to excessive eye rolling. My tolerance level is very high, normally, and I can let go of things, thoughts ideas that doesn't sit well with me, quite easily and I'm happy to track down my own trajectory. But happy to take your point and would respectfully disagree. Thank you for explaining further. Peace. Lily x
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RHP User
9 years ago
This was about sexy flirting and if it led to anything. Not a chance to have a go. Mary...you and a lot of the posters on here have posted explicit sexual posts in the past which some people may regard as cringeworthy. Its adult forums. We are all different and have our own agendas. If other people are happy here then good for them. Live and let live.
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RHP User
9 years ago
I was only kidding. Hope you don't think I was having a go at you, purely a light hearted comment, or 2 or 3 lol 😊 I will have to disagree about the getting laid part though. It is so all about getting laid for um some of us 😎
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RHP User
9 years ago
I pop out for half a day because I'm busy for a change, and people are talking about me. How about that.. 😁 By the way, it's the reverse psychology thing...or whatever...if I flirt with people on the other side of the country. Just because we'll probably never meet, the likely assumption is that my intentions are pure and innocent. Charm them from a safe distance.. 😁😉
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RHP User
9 years ago
All I know is I like my forum like I like my lemonade. Hard.
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madotara69
9 years ago
What an exciting thread championchestnuts Mado Mado Tara xx
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RHP User
9 years ago
Thank you...Im partial to nuts on my chest. Please excuse the innuedo style flrting... :)
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RHP User
9 years ago
Well that sounds awesome 😀 time to flip over to pm 😎 yeah me too btw 😊
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RHP User
9 years ago
a bit of banter with my buddies in here, as I'm sure you have noticed On the flip side, I can also find it a bit awkward when someone uses the forums to hit on me rather than messaging/sending a flirt directly. IMO there is a vast difference between banter and stalker. As for the cringe inducing pick up attempts of others - not my bag, happy to skip over. Kool, you think you're far enough away to be safe??
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RHP User
9 years ago
And shamelessly so lol Nowadays I just sit back and let my arse do the flirting, lazy bum that I am 😎 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
...being so far away, i figured i can always cut and run when my confidence evaporates 😉
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RHP User
9 years ago
You'll never be cutting and running then gorgeous 😜
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RHP User
9 years ago
I'm disappointed that my comments come across as 'having a go' BUT I was not having a go at anyone, merely supporting my original contention, which is on the topic of flirting on the forums. I still don't like it lol! I can appreciate the point you're making but I have no doubt any explicit posts of mine were topic related and even though I'll use euphemistic terms if I can, at times the only way to get a point acoss is explicitly :) I do pride myself on being a model citizen of well thought out and relevant responses to topics in a calm manner in things related to the fora! My posts on this topic were written in the same manner. Apologies to anyone I may have offended! Mary xx
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RHP User
9 years ago
I like you and your candid posts, you know that. But when banter turns to something else I cant see the point. Its an adult forum station. I know people rub each others backs up, i.e. myself and ITM2, but at the same time Id never wish any harm on anyone. Ive met Lily and she is a lovely lady, loves her kids and has a happy life. I myself now am happy and feel very blessed. Going by your posts you yourself are in a good place. Lets just let anyone post what they want on here without judgement. Maybe reply if its warranted? But in the end, we all have opinions and all like to put our 2 cents worth in without being ostracised. Banter, yes. But having a pop, ok unless it is at the same recipient time after time xx
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RHP User
9 years ago
Whatever I'm bribing you with, you deserve more..
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RHP User
9 years ago
That's great fun! And it can be pretty entertaining to watch too! :) I much prefer the light-hearted fooling around to snide remarks anytime, anyday! It's interesting - some peeps look away and ignore when they see something they dislike. Others grab a sledgehammer and try to change things. Methinks I much prefer the harmonious live and let live approach. Work and life already sap my energy and a lot of you as well. What's left should be reserved for sex and entertainment. =D I prefer the forums to be playful, lighthearted and fun! Let's bring on more topics about sex and everything sex-related! Countrytouch, you sexy thang! What have you been up to this long weekend? (There...have I boosted your ego a bit for today?) ;)
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RHP User
9 years ago
Good place to chat and meet up anyone interested? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Meander your hot hun!! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Female - I absolutely love to flirt but have no idea how to connect with women, guys are easier. I don't want to be flirting with men atm though because ideally we want to meet a lady or a couple. I want to watch my man have fun. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
You might want to speak for yourself there, thank you very much 😉
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RHP User
9 years ago
I wasn't aware opinions for and against couldn't be given? I think Mary gave her opinion, frank but articulate, as always. Perhaps if it's closed to supporting your op only, with no differing opinions, might be an idea to state that clearly in the original post 😃
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RHP User
9 years ago
I said " we all have opinions and like to put our 2 cents in without being ostracised" Meaning differing opinions are welcome....making it an excuse to pick on someone isnt. Perfectly capable of speaking for myself and saying how it is, thank you
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RHP User
9 years ago
Has anyone been fed such an outrageous line when flirting that it worked? :)
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compressor
9 years ago
to be honest no but sure wish ladies would message and chat with me. never know what could happen
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RHP User
9 years ago
I didn't see where Mary had a go at anyone, she was polite and stated her opinion in a reasonable manner. I'm also not too sure what people's personal circumstances or parenting abilities have to do with the topic. As to the topic, I don't mind a bit of flirty forum banter and engage in it myself, but when it gets to the point that people's flirting is taking over the topic and they're basically forum sexting I think that's when it gets tacky.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Not really noticed people flirting in the forums at all but think it would be cute to see some innocent banter that doesn't hurt anyone. Would make a nice change from the need for people to 'one up' each other. Flirting is fun 😉
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Seachange73
9 years ago
People. Just chill and let those who want to flirt online on here do as they wish without fear of incrimination. If.it doesn't suit your palate, tacky or not which is IMHO a subjective matter, look away. Self censorship of.harmless fun to suit the taste of a vocal few is akin to pleasing the forum police which we know we do dislike in the first place. Leave that to the mods. One should not acquiesce to others just because we do not measure up to your standards, as your standards may come short of others as well. Specially as light-hearted as forum flirting. Not worth stressing out nor making judgement of other people, is it? Live and let live.
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RHP User
9 years ago
In reply to Lily, Mary said her flirting in seemingly everyday topics gave her severe eye rolling. Or words to that effect. Ive never seen anything that bad on here. I mentioned Lily and what my thoughts are on her as a person because this is the second post in which she has been singled out and critisised by others. Which is unfair. But it will probably be my turn now after upsetting some of you. No problem I have pretty broad shoulders.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Very happy for you to speak for yourself, but don't be putting my name into your posts or throwing me into the same basket as yourself, when the point in question was nothing to do with me? This little topic was clearly started to support lily, carted over from another thread 😏 and predictably one eyed. I'm out, this is boring me anyway 😎
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RHP User
9 years ago
My last post on this derailed post. Thanks to the people who replied xx
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RHP User
9 years ago
It's a great, fun topic. Don't let anyone spoil your fun. ;) The forums will become dreadfully dull, monotonous and myopic if people start to leave or shut up because of personal attacks, sarcastic remarks, general insolence, narcissism, etc. Let's continue to build each other up and ignore any attempts to irritate / create discord / tear you down. We cannot stop peeps from saying what they want to say, but we can certainly choose to ignore and only spend time on constructive things and positive people. Really hate it whenever someone starts a new topic or a newbie posts a comment only to witness some smart alec making snide remarks. We can choose to communicate a thought / opinion in a more tactful and harmonious manner or with sarcastic, toxic and cynical undertones. Whether we are mindful of the sensitivities of others is a huge reflection of the state of our hearts and souls. If one is truly happy in life, one will have absolutely no pleasure in taunting or ridiculing others just to make oneself feel better. Besides, karma always bites back. Hopefully, we'll continue to view more diverse opinions here from more folks. It gets boring if the loud egocentric chatter of a handful drown out the whispers of everyone else. Too many are quietly observing and choosing to stay away from participating in the forums because of the bitching and cattiness that occurs here. We can and should rise above petty, trivial things like that, otherwise we are simply wasting our time and existence. OK... back to forum flirting! =D
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Seachange73
9 years ago
AMEN to that!! Well stated . Champagne, thank you for raising the topic. It just shows we all vary in our tastes and values, ad expected. Nothing wrong with that. it's a pity that this thread was derailed. who would have thought something as benign as forum flirting could elicit such strong if not, IMO distasteful response. 😎 Interesting.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Nothing wrong with a cheeky flirt or some banter within the forums if it's on topic and doesn't overtake the thread. Personally I don't flirt with anyone on the forum's that i sleep with. Unfortunately Op it is a few small minded people who have nothing better to do with there lives but to critique others and put them down to make themselves feel better or somehow more popular. And yes it happens way to much for my liking. What's the saying. If you have nothing good to say then fuck up ! But if your really serious send them a flirt or message. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
If there's anyone who should feel unjustly condemned and had their opinion belittled, it's me and my posts ... I'm sorry, I'm finding this holier than thou attitude is really grinding grinding my gears. I find the last couple of posts condescending at best and pious at their worst. The 'egocentricity' you accuse others of is hypocracy at its best from a handful of posters, who are in fact 'the loud ones here'. Look through all the posts, identify when they became 'personal' and by whom. An objective reflection will hopefully have you see what has really happened here on this topic! Some self reflection may lead to an apology ... where it's required. I'm not a unhappy sod who disagreed with a topic just to upset others ... it's an opinion! And like arseholes, we all have one!!!!! What was different for me is that I didn't subscribe to the utopian view I was expected to. I might suggest to the mods that they in fact add a section to the forum posts that we have a list of expected responses to chose from because differences of opinions are neither encouraged or supported here. Add a little ray of sunshine to all posts and we'll have the conformity required by some on here! A very disappointed Mary :(
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RHP User
9 years ago
AMEN to that! xx
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RHP User
9 years ago
xx
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RHP User
9 years ago
I initially wanted to respond to Pure_Peony's post only but then I read your post Mary, and I'm now feeling conflicted. Nevertheless I'm going to plow ahead and address both, because they resonated with me equally. Likely to offend somebody somewhere, somehow but hey, let's cross that bridge if it shows up. Pure_Peony... it's like you read my mind, took my thoughts and then articulated them far better than I could ever hope to have done. Over the last two weeks there have been several posts that I've gone to comment on. But after spending up to twenty minutes re-reading what I'd written, agonising over my choice of words and wondering if my meaning/intention could be misconstrued, I've given up. After a couple of attempts it gets too hard, and I end up saying nothing. I'm all for constructive debate and differing opinions, but when it becomes personal and targeted attacks, count me out. Mary, I personally do feel that you've been targeted unfairly for simply stating an opinion. However, my interpretation of Pure_Peony's post was that it was more or less in support of your position, while also being a comment in general about the recent behaviour in the forums. I could be wrong, and that would be a shining example of misreading/misinterpreting someone else's words. Bottom line, I'm totally with you on the holier than thou attitudes and the personal attacks of late. To the point where I'm regretting returning to RHP. So there you have it, a novel from me after a couple of weeks of silence. I shall now retreat back under my rock.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Aren't we all getting a bit touchy and letting things drag on...😱😵😯
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RHP User
9 years ago
I ain't apologising because I don't know what you are upset about and I truly don't have the time to read and re-read your posts in detail to unravel the mystery. I skip a lot of stuff and get distracted by what's happening IRL a lot so I don't focus 100% here. I don't know you, and I am not sure what your rant is about. Your rage shows and it isn't entirely polite either. Now you've got my attention. Fat lot of good throwing tantrums around will resolve anything. It is alright to have different opinions and that's what makes life interesting. But to voice ones opinion whilst making everyone else feel dumb and stupid about their preferences isn't playing nice. Again, not with reference to you because I don't follow the forums closely as I do get crazy busy with life and I have no impression of you prior to this, but in general, this forum is becoming disgustingly narrow-minded and pretty offensive. Some folks need to learn to coexist in peace - if someone starts a topic they dislike or disagree on, play nice and share opinions without scathing remarks that upset/insult others. Or if nothing nice can be said, then stay harmoniously silent. I'm sure we are all able to exercise tact and diplomacy and not resort to personal attacks. How we handle issues and conflicts all boomerangs back at us. Not in this thread, but I've seen threads where newbies are trying to participate and share their opinions only to be shot down and insulted. Or newbies start a new thread only to again get shot down and ridiculed. I'm sure we don't behave like that in our workplaces, or we'll soon find ourselves ostracised or fired for not being able to assimilate and be part of the team. Now, why does being online make appalling behaviour excusable? Again, comment isn't aimed at you, lest you decide to take offence again. Just me bunching a whole lot of ideas into one post. Recently, we've lost a few newbies due to attacks, some of which are ruthlessly personal. Really sickening to watch. A few posts are really tantamount to bullying and I hope no newbie is psychologically distressed over being "attacked" and/or insulted. Strange that some individuals appear to be advocates against bullying but who themselves become bullies in the blink of an eye towards unsuspecting newbies. Speak of derailment... light banter about forum flirting has turned into yet another conflict zone. Let's stop this craziness. Stop being so quick to pick up swords but rather, live and let live and smile at how colourfully diverse this world is. Be mindful that our responses, be they positive or negative, do affect our brains by physiologically altering it. If we choose to be critical and catty all the time, we are ingraining that negativity into a permanent state of being. It's so much better to constantly choose to be positive and constructive.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Hank 😉
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RHP User
9 years ago
Way too long for me to read. If you're so busy, how is it you have the time to write novels 😕
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RHP User
9 years ago
Don't let anyone stop you from sharing your opinions ever. I received a lot of brickbats in the beginning but here's how to survive that : 1) Put things in perspective. Whatever doesn't kill you, makes you stronger. ;) 2) It's just the forums. If you live a good, fulfilling life, your identity will be left intact and your confidence and self-esteem will be untouchable by whatever goes on in here. 3) Consider this as training ground for you to sharpen your communication skills and build your courage. When no one seems to support you, remember that there probably are silent supporters who agree with you but they are too frightened to step out lest they get mauled too. 4) It's not a popularity contest. Why would anyone want to be popular amongst toxic people anyway? :P 5) You learn to be more tactful and diplomatic and the more you practise, the better you get. Take heart and start posting! This forum needs a change. Newbies are very welcome!
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RHP User
9 years ago
A strong person will forgive. Not forget. ! A weak person will continue to abuse other's. A smart person has the intelligence to ignore. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Thanks for your response. I'm going to reply privately... don't want to derail this topic any further. Champagensunsets... apologies. Love you and love your work always xx
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RHP User
9 years ago
Thankyou ... There's only so much sanctimony and narrow mindedness I can deal with ... gracefully bowing out. Mary
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' Several times... @Meander I don't think I've seen you around the forums before. Where have you been hiding yourself?
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' You must be new here, I'm part of the furniture. 3 seat lounge with chaise?
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RHP User
9 years ago
Yes, I flirted with the devil, however flirting doesn't have to be sincere. One thing I am sincere about is my fondness for OP, she is one of the sweetest lady's I have met in sexy SocMed scene, and I'm sad she's had to cope with the crap 💩 she's had on this thread. Champagne just likes peeps to have a chat over lighthearted topics, not turn her bubbles into slithering poison. I wish the forum was monitored for relevance, rather than whatever obscure reason they do monitor the forum for. I suspect it's monitored by machines for keywords not real stuff. Get on with it, and stay relevant and amusing! M_D4 PS I still want to meet The Devil and find out what makes her tick. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Seachange73
9 years ago
Yep. Champagne is the real thing as you said. She's all class, warm, funny and real happy person. Champagne, stay as you are. 😉
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Seachange73
9 years ago
Cheeky ass, nice guns. 😏 Nice ass.... 😘 Hubba hubba 😊😉😘
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RHP User
9 years ago
Are you flirting with Moi ?? When you drop into Perth next look us up ,always nice to catch up for a drink and some light banter. 😉😉 Ooops I'm not supposed to flirt. 😂😂😂 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
"Flirtation, n. A game in which you do not want the other player's stake but stand to lose your own." c/- The Devil's Dictionary. Ambrose Bierce. (Just moments ago, and before reading this thread, I posted to the 'Word of the Day' thread. At that time, my entries there were not related to the course of this thread topic...)
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Seachange73
9 years ago
Drinks banter and more!! 😋👍 I'll try to sell the idea to my bosses to send this poor lass to Perth. Educating Lily. Not sure it's gonna fly. Haha
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RHP User
9 years ago
It better fly, it's a long way to walk !
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RHP User
9 years ago
Try time it for the first week in May... looks like that's when I'll be heading to the big smoke too 🙂 Drinks, banter and more with Cheekyass and yourself sounds like a root. I mean a hoot. Too flirty?
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RHP User
9 years ago
Mmmm girls would love to catch up with both of you at the same time. 😉😈 Can never get enough of quality intelligent company and who knows maybe tick off another fucking list. Oops bucket list. FFM anyone ?? 😂😂😂 - Posted from rhpmobile
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Seachange73
9 years ago
May...hmmm. I know I'm flying away again in June. So I'll see if I can pop into our Perth quarters. Maybe if I sabotage some projects out west, u will volunteer to get it sorted. Haha. Wishful thinking. Would be lovely to catch up tho with the Perth crowd. At anytime. We had a hoot, not root, 😛 of a time at a BBQ laughing away the afternoon til evening. great times in Perth Sail, haha. Yep long walk indeed. Ha
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RHP User
9 years ago
Well lady's if the moons align for you both i do have a lovley Park right next to my pad that has a bbq built in. I'll supply the sausage. Or two lol 😂😇 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Because you asked, here's your answer - I touch type at 130-140wpm, and my thoughts fly faster. I'm used to churning out long essays, articles, etc. Writing is a major part of my life and I have written manuals, policies and procedures in my career. What is typing a novel to you, is a prologue to me. And I said this week was going to be crazy-busy...note future tense, not past tense. The future being an estimated guess, things can and do change. Surely, that isn't surprising to someone of your experience? Have I answered your question? Love that curiosity but if I were more negative, I'd say it was sarcasm. What's the best way to destress after clocking in a 15-hr workday? Perving on the hot dudes here whilst enjoying an exotic liqueur on the rocks and participating in a hot sexting session in the background. Engaging in petty spats, features nowhere on my priority list. Bring the flirt fest on! Winter is coming! Lots of cuddlesome opportunities abound!
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Seachange73
9 years ago
I saw that!!! 😉 GoT fan are we? Lol
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RHP User
9 years ago
fly with me, come fly, come fly away 😊
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RHP User
9 years ago
Purel Pony. I wouldn't waste my breath on others who lack the grey matter to read a few paragraphs. Might i suggest a colouring in book and crayons or a Novel suited for age 5 years to 10. Look pretty pictures - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' Feel free to spread out on me and take a ehhh load off. a misstep at first, but got there in the end :p
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RHP User
9 years ago
Sorry for typos PurePeony. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Seachange73
9 years ago
Is such a bitch. Lol 😁 😎
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Seachange73
9 years ago
Elke and I may be tempted 😉 Who can turn down a snag from a SNAG? 😀 a picnic basket and a good Champagne 😋should be in order. 😜 hint hint (was she ever good?)
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RHP User
9 years ago
Well now that just has given me some inspiration to organise a meet and greet. Think I'll call it .... Picnic in the park where juices sausages will be served up in hot x buns. Easter is getting closer. 😉😉😉 Haven't had a house warming as yet and it would be a great way to meet other's. Oooh I'm 2 min from a train station and shops where champagne is always readly available and welcome. 😉 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
What a lovely profile to read and fantasies about! With this lady on my own, I'd feel like James Bond, "shaken not stirred"! There is everything there, beauty, high intellect, appreciation of the finer things in life, music, food, art, a deep love of history, and in the blink of an eye she will have you at the point of death with her finger placed strategically on your neck. See, to some they see a stunning lady, wheras she could be stunning others with her special forces, trainers training. High IQ honed, by exclusive European finishing school, high achiever at all sport and pastimes. She could have been a vet, a surgeon, a lawyer by the time she finished high school. And sex, the sex training is something no one knows about. All that is understood by the people who recruit people like her, is her orgasm must be perfect. She controls it, she controls you, she controls yours. She will always be perfect. There are those who affect greatness, there are those who will tell you how great there are, then there is perfection that just is.... From The Devil to a Goddess. I flirt with both. For I am but words... M_D4 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Yes! Yes! GoT! Winter is coming! Get those faux fur throws out to share with some cuddlesome hunk! Wonder what they called FWB's back then! :P No such thing then, I suppose. It was just Men and Whores. Time for role play! =D
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RHP User
9 years ago
I actually love adult colouring - I can make your vital organ blush many shades of crimson... :"D
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