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Guys?.... I'm curious
June 13 2013
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RHP User
12 years ago
user is gone? just another lurker
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RHP User
12 years ago
Just had some profile issues and needed to start again. That said, I'm with you! Thread is dead no-one seemed to understand or like it anyway nor understand my humor so I'm lost as to why people are still responding.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hey Miss,No lol, I don't believe I cause any stirring motions after a sexual encounter, only during :P But that could also just be in my head haha. In my experience, general consensus about an individual being able to separate emotions from sex and sexual acts is rare. For me? I have no issues with commitment, being a FB, the extra male to a couple or playing in a gangbang. If I found someone who had the spark, then sure I could move forward, but only if both parties were keen, and that's what they were wanting. I don't expect women to create feelings from sexual encounters, although socialising in public combined with sexual activities, that usually ends up with someone falling for the other... But on the odd occasion, you can meet someone who is secure about themselves, knows what they want AND has a great sexual skill set which could end up in grounded, orgasmically awesome fun :P No it's not a word, and no it's not in spell check... Some women can be trusted, as some men can. Unfortunately the only real way to find out is going for it!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Yeh, some of that could be true, lol, i s"pose. The same as some "ladies" are, nuthing more than "deceitful, lying, thieving, dishonest, take wot they can & steal the rest", type of lovelies. You know, the "take home to mother", "girl nex door" sorta crap. Lol. I don't have a problem with getting close to a woman, not at all. It's usually fun, lol. I don"t know any blokes that are, "scared" to commit to there girlfriends. Just the opposite. Are you sure you"v been dating/screwing men, & not teeny bopper boys ??? LOL. Only funin with ya, lol. Sounds like you just be meetin the wrong fella's. We"re all different, ya know. Any way, don't judge us all by, sum dropkiks you"v met. Lol, most of us are ok, it's the humans you need to look out for. See ya, & have a nice day.
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RHP User
12 years ago
The problem as usual is not one or the other, both sex's have people who are like this, I have been through it with a woman who was clearly intent on trapping me, the good old I forgot to take the pill trick, yes I have been paying maintenance for 15 years now, oh and yes she has 4 kids, 4 different fathers and doesn't work a day in her life. I have also seen the opposite when a woman clearly was not looking for anything other than the occasional bit of fun and the guy became obsessed with her. So to answer this question, just like almost every other sexist question it cuts both ways.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Really ?? Well it can be any way you want ... Seen all sorts of emotions play out ! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
to find someone with a similar outlook (inc. wants and needs) as oneself...the hard bit is finding someone who is honest enough with themselves and others so you know. Dishonesty is a waste of everyone's time. At least this has been my experience.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Thin guys just need to get the fact that us women to can think,be and act like them We r not all after commitment!!!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Follow em , Finger em, Fuck em, Forget em
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RHP User
12 years ago
At the end of the day if I was acting like that, I'm not that into ya, if we are happy being casual ect, we gotta be honest n communicate - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
As with 50zkool, no on all counts. However, there usually comes a point where one should "cut and run"... Atleast in my experience...- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
why does it seem that all the comments here from both male and female sides of things lump the whole other sex into one category. Ive come across people on both sides who are clingy, can't get emotionally involved or all sorts of scenarios. With the guys it's been from listening to stories and seeing people I know, with girls it's been from the above and from rels I've been in. Ive been in one fwb scenario which was awesome, as we where close friends, but due to life a rel wouldnt work. We did eventually lose contact when she moved overseas. I used ti have heaps of just female friends, but an ex was jealous and I lost contact with them all. I've read the signals from someone I was with wrong before and thought they wanted more which I woukld have been happy with so I acted on it and it cost me that rel, so yes that was my mistake she only wanted pure fb. Rather than saying all guys or girls do this or that, how about , oh I don't know, maybe taking each individual on their word. I do , as I'm a person that doesn't lie or have alterior motives, what I say is what I mean, so I presume everyone is the same, I have come unstuck often, but it's still the way I choose to live. If someone does something other than what they say, I just cut them. And thats a sexy arse meeka lol
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RHP User
12 years ago
I don't think women are like that, I had an experience where I was the one who fell for her, she wasn't interested and it didn't work out as I would have liked, I don't expect anything now when I meet someone, if however we talk about it, I'm open to the idea of developing a relationship, but generally any relationships I've been in that started with just sex don't last.
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RHP User
12 years ago
...I think decent human's, innocent, caring, The kind of guy/woman you'd want to be the opposing parent to your children are the ones who'll inevitably fall in love with you. Gender is illelevant.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Every woman is different. I believe feelings always evolve over time, some people can still walk away even if they do like the person just to prove a point. The more feelings, the more passionate the sex is
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RHP User
7 years ago
I completely get this. I posted something similar tonight.... Sex is more fun if you get to know someone’s likes and dislikes but I am too terrified to even ask for a meet before a fuck because the guy usually runs for the hills - that’s ‘dating’ ummm no, it’s friends, with benefits. And hopefully a bit of kink.... I have had one ‘friend’ now for 20 years. We still have lots of fun when we are both single at the same time. And when we are in committed relationships with others we are friends only, no jealousy, no snide remarks, no sneaky flirting, friends... neither of us want more than friendship with each other, but we know how to get each other off when needed.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Do you think it has something to do with the idea of being comfortable with having and enjoying sex with the same person consistently? Sex definitely gets better the more you understand the other person's cues and likes and noises. I think it's a really powerful thing to openly say I really like having sex, I like having sex with you, but I don't need you all the time, or around me all the time. It's like, you go and enjoy your life, I'll enjoy my life, and we'll meet and reconnect to enjoy each other at convenient times. I think if you mutually respect each other and what each other want, it's awesome.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Sex is definitely better with a regular partner; you both get to know each others unique bodies and are more in tune with their desires. This is a FWB, they are your friend just that you also happen to have sex with them. Like any friend there should be no expectation of anything beyond friendship and if there are signs of wanting more expectations need to be reset that your friends and this is all it will ever be. You care for all your friends but you never have an expectation that your future is going to be dependant on them. If they can't accept this then like with any friend that has a fundamental difference of opinion it is time for both of you to move on.
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BlazingSilverFox
7 years ago
I would really love that your scenario f just raw sax was enough but my previous life experience and even some very recent events within the new world of RHP and online dating in general has reinforced the thoughts that many NOT ALL are emotional creatures and if they enjoy time with you do become a bit attached. I had one date with a lady from POF, so not involving sex and she has got so dark on me that her obvious attraction was not reciprocated. This is honestly one of the reasons that I am so excited to find RHP, my hope is that I can build some friendships and relationships that involve great mutually enjoyed sex without the emotional rollercoaster that has followed m through most of my life. By no means am I am suggesting that any special but my track record over my 30 years of dating has a very solid trend. I hope this helps in some way.... :) Ian
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RHP User
7 years ago
After 15 yrs marrage, I thought I was doing the right thing, only to be put on the rubbish pile in the end. The point is both sexes are bad as each other. One thinking they are doing the relationship right their way, the other are thinking you're full of shit, and you should be be doing it this way. Basically no one wins in the end, and its usually the bloke is paying for it in the end.
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