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Instant turn offs.
January 10 2014
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hasn't been an issue to date but.... discovering skid marks would probably be a pretty solid turn off hahaha (see also.... Discovering any or a combination of the following....penis, Crustacea, and chastity belt)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Get over it! Sheesh if that is all you have to worry about, then you must be doing all right. 😬
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RHP User
12 years ago
People that never stop whinging.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I just mailed you a pair of my skid and come marked panties and it's addressed to Daddy in Mosman, so I assume you will get it. Don't worry, nothing "solid" in there. :p
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RHP User
12 years ago
Someone that can't laugh at themselves
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RHP User
12 years ago
At least your brakes work!!! :p - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Oh I wish I was like so many here and was the perfection you seem to be. It is most definitely a turn off to be just me, to make mistakes and have way too many flaws, when those around me have it all. I read the lists of so many turn offs and cant help but think, gee that's me. I guess I am, in at least someway, just a little bit lucky to be just me. So far from perfect, I am very free of all the expectations of perfect people around me. I am but human, I was born that way and try as I might I cant shake that blight. I tried to think of things that would turn me away, but its hard to find fault as then you would be as imperfect as me. How could I not like someone that's as flawed me. How do you all reconcile your turn offs if you turn them around and direct them towards your self, or is it true some of you are really as perfect as you expect others to be.
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MissBishere
12 years ago
Quoting 'Stir_it_alot' Is there another meaning to Yaw?? I only know as being the result of depressing the rudder pedal :) - Posted from rhpmobile From Urban Dictionary YawThe value of the angle between the tip of an erect penis and its neighboring testicles squared. When determining the adjusted penis size (or T.M.I.) one must use the following equation: (Length * Diameter)+(weight/girth)/(yaw) AND The angle of a male genetalia's "shaft". A main factor in the USA's proper penis measurement equation drafted by Randy Marsh from South Park, CO. The weight and girth of the penis is divided by the YAW of the shaft, thus equaling the adjusted penis size. *Note: for proper measurement, a scale and protractor must be used to find true yaw. Sure my flaccid schlong is only 4.1 inches when you measure it with a ruler, but when you factor in my YAW I'm a solid 5.9 inches of pure man steel.
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RHP User
12 years ago
A yaw is a vehicles tire mark (a skid mark actually) that curves in an arc. The speed of the vehicle that created the "yaw mark" can be determined by measuring between certain points on arc. There you go! Useless information, but information all the same.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Bahahahaha now you can understand why there is such a difference..... They've clearly been yawning while applying yaw to their cocks :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
at least you have a cute butt :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Beachlover1999' Just had a memory!!!! Yuck!!!! :((( Do tell!! My first serious boyfriend used to eat onions like an apple!!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Looking at profiles I found it hard not to discriminate against people who show pics of themselves where all their friends are oompa-loompa orange. One or two you could understand but all of them just seems to show poor judgement. xx Sarah
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RHP User
12 years ago
This utterly shits me up the wall. If you write things like dere instead of there (or worse yet instead of their or they're), bb instead of baby, c u instead of see you or dis instead of this, I will likely find you about as attractive as a rotting sandwich. (Yeah, I'm kind of snobby like that)
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RHP User
12 years ago
A Few more to add to My List :)1.Couples Pics where only the Female is Flashing her Breasts or even Private Parts .The Male is nowhere to be seen, yet they advertise and seek Sexual Partners as a Couple., They Generally aren't Seeking Men, so why do they have the Bait to Entice Males ie Her Breasts etc., rather than having a Pic of The Male or My Preference 1 of them Both Embracing, so we see who wants to attract me in this instance..2.Those who are Couples seeking a Playmate for their Partners. I understand it's done in good faith and I appreciate it. However I don't like that approach at all. I'm all about Connect with the main Individual and then their Partner on All Levels it's very Private Intimate so much more .If the Guy is serious about Connecting with Me in a Sexual way if there's Chemistry of course .Then He needs to approach Me I decide on the vibes I pick up from Him .. Not a Sexual advance from Her..3. Males who are around My Age I don't find them Sexually attractive Older No way YUK! that's My Opinion I don't expect all to agree. I prefer Younger Males because their Energies aren't as Negative so not as draining on Me. They Have a Zest for Life , eager to Please Me and look Good too:) On saying that , There's always Exceptions to the Rule so My options remain Open for that Special One to come say Hi! who is Mature..4.Turn Off! those Guys who don't take the time to enjoy Foreplay which begins with Conversation so they can Fire My Imagination Ignite My Passion.. Then Pleasuring Me to the Max as I do.They just do a quick Fingering and want to jump in So Selfish I may just as well be a Cup for all they care.. 5.Guys who seek a Wet Nurse I didn't Breast Feed My Child for reasons .So I'm not going to do that with a Stranger, Adult Babies who dress as such ..and some other Fettishes I respect their needs and Desires ,I hope they find someone who will enjoy that as much as they want it.But they're just don't do it for me.. That will do from Me....Enjoy Lu:)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hey Hun :0 My You have been busy with your Replies on this Thread he! he!.. True you are a Mere Mortal I know it from Meeting in Person he! he! But as you're aware from our Meeting ..Hun I'm Perfection Personified ha! ha! .Every Turn Off! I stated I wouldn't do and I treat My Partners, Friends with Respect, Care, Celebrating the Wonderful Unique Individuals they are..Cheers Lu:) x
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RHP User
12 years ago
Sweet Heart You don't need to be a Good Speller.. You have so much going for you that you don't even Realize.. You're a very Loving Compassionate Person ,Respectful of others needs, Desires. You make a Great Friend and Partner, because everyone in your Life knows how Reliable and dependable you are, when they need you to be there for them. You put all you have into your Life in All Areas including Work, Relationship and with Children in your Life .you're a Fun Person to be around with a little cheeky side added :) So See Yourself as I see You Hun, as The Wonderful Unique Person you are, without You in their Lives nothing would be the same. So Take Heart Hun those who are meant to be with you in whatever way and for however Long, will Cross your Path at the Right time .So just kick back, keep Replying to the Forums as you're seen by so many more People..Enjoy .. Good Luck! with your Search for those who want what you Offer..Kindest Regards Lu:)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hi! :) In Reply to your Post.. I guess I'm 1 of those you speak of to a Degree. in Your Terms However that's far from the Reality. I feel this site is Yes Predominantly Sexual Related, but it can also be Friendship Based..I've No issue Getting to the Sexual side of things but in the Right Time . There's such a thing as Style.I would no more appreciate a Guy in the Street coming up to Me and say wanna Fuck! Why should I like it in the 1st Contact MSG from a Virtual Stranger... It shows me they don't want to know me at all .They just want some where to squirt their seed. They can use a Foam cup if that's their need..I treat Others with Respect and I expect it in Return .I stated in My Profile quite clearly. If you want Sex Only Don't Bother, same with some other things I've mentioned as Turn Offs! So if they disregard that .Then they take the Chance to be Turned away ..Cheers Lu:)
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Cheekyarses
12 years ago
instant turnoffs - spitting - a man or a female who spits.... when you are in the company of others & a male or female starts putting their spouse or partner down.... someone who coughs over your food.... a man or woman who thinks that they are better then anyone else - they have a bigger house, or more expensive car, they work harder then anyone else on the planet, they look down on others, and they believe they are more important... my list could be endless....
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Missb72' the adjusted penis size (or T.M.I.) PMSL!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Smelling of cigarettes when your profile says you don't smoke. . Being more than ten minutes late without a text. . Being rude to the bartender/waiter (I walked out on someone for doing this once). . Talking about your ex. . Only talking about yourself. . Expecting more, then acting surprised, insulted, etc, when I decline. . (But luckily I have only encountered a couple of men like this, most have been great!)
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RHP User
12 years ago
To the one million and one females on here,,,,,,, HORNY IN NEED OF ATTENTION NOW.... If that was the case you would be to busy rooting, because of all the flirts and messages you would get on here. But we still see you on here every day.
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RHP User
12 years ago
That should have been posted in the gripe forum.
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JessicaRabbit
12 years ago
I've learnt of a few definite nos for me. On a first meet: - talking about how many strippers you've fucked and how they're more enthusiastic than regular girls - telling me how you have women who come to yours as soon as you call - saying that the reason the messages back and forth dropped off a few times was because you 'couldn't be bothered' as you don't need to pick up online - ending by asking if I want to come back to yours 'for a bit.'
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RHP User
12 years ago
Wow.....just wow.... - Posted from rhpmobile
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JessicaRabbit
12 years ago
Quoting 'Stir_it_alot' Wow.....just wow.... - Posted from rhpmobile That wasn't all of it, either, just some of the highlights. I do think it sounds worse written down here than it was in context as it wasn't as terrible meet overall, but still enough for me to not want to do a second meet.
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RHP User
12 years ago
To Jassica Rabbit, think I know who ( or one of the guys) you are talking about. Absolutely not impressed
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RHP User
12 years ago
Sorry, Jessica, before the grammar police call in
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RHP User
12 years ago
You win hands down!
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RHP User
12 years ago
I agree with Stir.. just wow... I mean what on earth possessed him to think that will even work.. Quoting 'JessicaRabbit' I've learnt of a few definite nos for me. On a first meet: - talking about how many strippers you've fucked and how they're more enthusiastic than regular girlsNot a problem.- telling me how you have women who come to yours as soon as you callNot a problem. - saying that the reason the messages back and forth dropped off a few times was because you 'couldn't be bothered' as you don't need to pick up onlineNot a problem - I always reply - I'm polite like that. - ending by asking if I want to come back to yours 'for a bit.' Hmm maybe a problem... Depends how it goes... Lets call it a half out of four... I did pretty well I think :P
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RHP User
12 years ago
'Middle aged fat bitches' and 'middle aged fat blokes' .Under- inflated ego's.Aggressive Stupidity.The Leyland P76
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JessicaRabbit
12 years ago
Quoting 'stonebudda' - ending by asking if I want to come back to yours 'for a bit.' Hmm maybe a problem... Depends how it goes... Lets call it a half out of four... I did pretty well I think :P My issue with this was more the implication behind what he actually meant when he offered going back to his 'for a bit' after being clear about what I do and don't do on a first meet. Hey, I may be wrong and maybe he wanted to have a coffee. I'll try and give him the benefit of the doubt on that one...Sort of. Add that to the list of instant turn-offs: people that disregard what I say I'm looking for and will/won't do. Especially when it comes to profile content and getting messages from people that clearly don't meet what I'm looking for then.
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RHP User
12 years ago
It's worse written?? Lol - Talking about "how many people you've fucked" in general is serving what purpose?? Is it supposed to elevate his/her sexual prowess?? Not with me it doesn't as everyone is different in their likes...lol bravo to him for implying he's somehow above you.... Next.... - Oooo he has on call women?? I bet they charge accordingly too :p - Messages stop because he couldn't be bothered replying?? Bahaha I bet there's a lot he can't be bothered doing either.....Namingly respecting your needs/desires/boundaries lol - lol asking to come back to his for a bit eh?? Lol for what?? Maybe he's having trouble powdering his nose and keeps slipping with the lippy :p Lmao Sorry JR....I doubt it COULD get worse when written lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Most of what others have said plus Bad breath Body odor Back and shoulder hair Untrimmed pubes (waxed or shaved is better!) Long toenails Bad spelling/grammar People who just want to meet for sex and don't want a conversation first Skype messages that only consist of a few words. Put some effort in! Profile pic cock shots Only cock shots in your galleries Thick necklaces on guys Anal
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davidex46x
12 years ago
Shallowness. Those who don't give people a fair go. In other words, those who "judge a book by its cover".
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RHP User
12 years ago
Even though I agree with some of the above , it's a worry when some posters seem to find it so easy to list so many gripes .? Makes me wonder why you bother to be here in the first place ?
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RHP User
12 years ago
We're all shallow mate.....otherwise we wouldn't have likes and dislikes.... Just that some people's likes aren't as broad as yours. Makes us all unique :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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davidex46x
12 years ago
Quoting 'Stir_it_alot' We're all shallow mate.....otherwise we wouldn't have likes and dislikes.... Just that some people's likes aren't as broad as yours. Makes us all unique :) - Posted from rhpmobile I don't think we are all shallow luckily. How could one possbily work out whether someone may or may not interest them based on a very first impression? (that's what I was alluding to by shallowness) It's not a matter of how broad your likes are in my opinion. It's more to do with giving people a chance. It is as simple as that. In some cases you might regret it big time if you didn't. My two cents worth. :)
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madotara69
12 years ago
Quoting 'Stir_it_alot' Not paying the electricity bill :p - Posted from rhpmobile And blackouts, when it's all on in the sandpit. Mado Tara xx
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RHP User
12 years ago
From people I've never heard of.
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RHP User
12 years ago
We make those judgements everyday in the most simplest of things. When we taste a new food...we either like it and want more or we don't. Reading a profile even....if you don't think you're going to like them why would you message them anyway? Dating is no different. There have been some truly disastrous stories on here when people have ignored their first impressions just to "give them a go." I'm not saying I'm right either, and I'm not saying your wrong. But what I am saying is that first impressions are a big factor in a lot of things. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Beachlover1999
12 years ago
Your currents FB's/FWB, girlfriend, last shag etc by name etc etc.........I am NOT interested, focus on MEEEEEEEE, general scenarios or funny stories fine, geeeeez us girls do enough thinking as it is!!!!!! FFS!!!!! PS Read the forums and learn what we want/ need............
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'davidex46x' Shallowness. Those who don't give people a fair go. In other words, those who "judge a book by its cover". What sort of a 'go' do you feel entitled to get from a stranger?
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davidex46x
12 years ago
Quoting 'MissSarahCurious'Quoting 'davidex46x' Shallowness. Those who don't give people a fair go. In other words, those who "judge a book by its cover". What sort of a 'go' do you feel entitled to get from a stranger? I don't feel entitled to get anything from anyone. That being said, I don't like it when for instance I take the time to send a message (I never use template nor do I send a one liner therefore I make an effort) and I don't even get a reply, not even a "thanks but no thanks" kind of message. I think that's just shallow and rude too. Cheers,Davide
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'JessicaRabbit' Quoting 'stonebudda' - ending by asking if I want to come back to yours 'for a bit.' Hmm maybe a problem... Depends how it goes...Lets call it a half out of four... I did pretty well I think :P My issue with this was more the implication behind what he actually meant when he offered going back to his 'for a bit' after being clear about what I do and don't do on a first meet. Hey, I may be wrong and maybe he wanted to have a coffee. I'll try and give him the benefit of the doubt on that one...Sort of.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Strongly agree with Findingmemo's list. Good manners go a long way and yes, typing 'lik dis' hurts my head too >_<
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RHP User
12 years ago
"Im in a bar having a drink you walk in we glance at each other you sit down at a tableyou come over to the bar to buy a drink I say hello how are you tonite you say good thankyou and your self I say I’m fine thx just out for a drink you ask if I would like to join youfor a drink that would be nice thankyou we go back to your table we start chatting about the day and things then you ask me if I would like to go back to your house for more drinks that would be nice as im new in town don’t know anyone yet so we leave to go to your car we arrive at your place we go inside and sit on the sofa we start kissing and kissingI start to undo you shirt and slowly kissing down your neck I start rubbing on your nipples getting the hard I slowly start to suck on them I put my hand on your thigh slowly rubbing up and down my hand goes into your skirt you have no nickers on and I slowly rub your clit softly as we keep kissing passionately you start to rub my hard shaft on the out side of my pants I pull you skirt up so I can see your nice wet pussy I go to the floor and start to lick and suck your clit putting my fingers in and out slowly you have your hands rubbing down my back moaning with pleasure.. I stand up in front of you, you can see my hard cock in my pants you look at me and start to undo my pant as your looking up at me you pull my hard throbbing cock out and start to lick the shaft up and down then your soft lips start to suck on my nob slowly taking more and more into you mouth suck it deeper and deeper I stop you and lay on the floor you and you lay on top in the 69erwe start the pleasure each other licking and sucking on your clit you sucking on my hard throbbing cock after a while you slowly slide down my chest and put my hard throbbing cock into your wet pussy slowly going down on my shaft you riding me reversecowgirl style your start to ride me hard and deeper into your wet pussy .You slowly begin to stand up sliding my throbbing cock out of your wet pussy I stand up and lie you on the sofa with your legs over my shoulders I slowly enter you going slow at first then get faster and deeper with every push I have one hand coursing you breast the other is rubbing your clit fast but softy as my throbbing cock is deeper and hard inside you as we both cum at the same time."
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RHP User
12 years ago
But the above message as a first message? Fcuk no. And I've received that exact message 4 times from 4 different guys. Which shows you boys are receiving it from and sending it to other dudes!
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RHP User
12 years ago
I've received that one ages ago, and many others. This one was particularly off-putting, is this man a virgin? ;-)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'ApolloThirteen' But the above message as a first message? Fcuk no. And I've received that exact message 4 times from 4 different guys. Which shows you boys are receiving it from and sending it to other dudes! That I listen to lurk and funlover ! They told me it always works for them... oh well, off to find another opening message... Hp xoBecause you're worth it...
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RHP User
12 years ago
It does..... When it comes from me :p - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
**Women that think that they are so attractive that it's all about the man proving himself to her. Looks are a great start, but if you have the maturity of a teenage girl then I don't care how attractive you think you are. **People with no photo's at all on their profile and expect you to take them for their word, despite 99% of those profiles being fake. **Women that have "all men are the same" on their profile, but then have "looking for a man". **Anyone that uses THAT term "YOLO". Say it one more time to me and you'll definitely only live once :) **Not being able to write on a forum without being taken out of context. **Males who act like teenage boys and don't take any time to appreciate the chase, and ruin it for the rest. **Females who think a male is incapable of appreciating a woman for her mind !
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MissBishere
12 years ago
that say Looks See My Photo and have a picture of a motorbike, or their cock, or some other object that does not show me what they look like.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'stonebudda' Quoting 'JessicaRabbit' Quoting 'stonebudda' - ending by asking if I want to come back to yours 'for a bit.' Hmm maybe a problem... Depends how it goes...Lets call it a half out of four... I did pretty well I think :P My issue with this was more the implication behind what he actually meant when he offered going back to his 'for a bit' after being clear about what I do and don't do on a first meet. Hey, I may be wrong and maybe he wanted to have a coffee. I'll try and give him the benefit of the doubt on that one...Sort of. I doubt you are wrong - he does sound like he has tickets on himself and expects every woman to fall at his feet in gratitude.. I need honesty, intellect and personality - can't stand those on here that lead you on or stand you up.. and I need interest or I don't see the point.. I know that's more of a turn on list.. but saying that boring, stupid liars turn me off is a bit much... Budda
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Chaucer
12 years ago
Why isn't there a Like button for comments like Mesmerised postedFrom my profile:"My turn offs: Complaining Ambiguity Gold jewellery Template profiles
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RHP User
12 years ago
Agreed!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Aren't You The Real Charmer!!! To the 1 who Posted this derogatory Crap.. The only Bitches around Here are one of You .I'm No Bitch so I don't take offense to that crap you're spewing forth.However some will .All I can say to that mindless Discriminating verbal runs is. We can shed weight, It's nearly Impossible for you to change your Personality and Character. Give it a Try ! Remember even you aren't perfect by Far. You just proved it by your Aggressive stupidity ... Lu
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RHP User
12 years ago
Madam Dragonfly
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'davidex46x' Quoting 'MissSarahCurious'Quoting 'davidex46x' Shallowness. Those who don't give people a fair go. In other words, those who "judge a book by its cover". What sort of a 'go' do you feel entitled to get from a stranger? I don't feel entitled to get anything from anyone. That being said, I don't like it when for instance I take the time to send a message (I never use template nor do I send a one liner therefore I make an effort) and I don't even get a reply, not even a "thanks but no thanks" kind of message. I think that's just shallow and rude too. Cheers,Davide Your original gripe was about a fair go and the 'judging a book' bit. Nothing to do with non-replies, so you didn't answer my question at all. What is this 'fair go' you speak of?
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RHP User
12 years ago
For me, a fair go is walking up to someone in a real life situation and being able to say hello without it being instantly mistaken as me hitting on them or being seen as anything more than just being friendly. I was taken aback by one particular response while I was at the bar waiting for a drink, I'd turned to the woman next to me and just said something like "hey, how are you? Are you having a good night" and I got a very very aggressive "fuck off I'm not interested" as a reply. It shocked me that I seemingly can't even say a random hello to someone. There was another night a few months later that I walked up to someone and said a similar hello, first thing out of her my mouth was "I have a boyfriend" so I replied "so do I" she looked really embarrassed. She actually apologised for being rude, In the end I told her I was single and straight and we had a bit of a laugh and a chat and went our separate ways which was my plan all along anyway. It defies belief that some women (and some men no doubt) consider themselves such hot property that they can't even say hi.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Missi123' Strongly agree with Findingmemo's list. Good manners go a long way and yes, typing 'lik dis' hurts my head too >_< I agree with you both, basic manners and gramma go along way. So does typing like a person that at the very least attended school to some degree.. (and kept the pants up and underwear as "under"wear not have as "showing" wear!!! hahahaha My two bob's worth.. Now back under my rock I go :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'ApolloThirteen' But the above message as a first message? Fcuk no. And I've received that exact message 4 times from 4 different guys. Which shows you boys are receiving it from and sending it to other dudes! Some sites have programs that dudes can do to teach them how to succeed with women online. It's obviously just a money spinner cos that shit doesn't seem too likely to be successful. xx Sarah
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MissBishere
12 years ago
just found my absolute biggest instant turn off.. men that get all antsy and send me cutting vicious messages when I call them on having a fake profile picture.. how does go fuck yourself sound loser. (yes he reads the forums, so while I wont mention your name, you will know this is for you) I am not be everyones wet dream but at least my pics are real and recent.
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davidex46x
12 years ago
Quoting 'MissSarahCurious'Your original gripe was about a fair go and the 'judging a book' bit. Nothing to do with non-replies, so you didn't answer my question at all. What is this 'fair go' you speak of?Well probably I didn't make myself understood properly (still a bit of a language barrier every now and then, sorry about it) Non-replies is the main point actually. By not replying "you" are kind of judging a book by its cover in my opinion. I mean exchanging a few messages is harmless (given the person you are chatting with is not rude) and that would give you a better idea whether a given person is worth being given a go or not, as opposed to just ignoring someone and don't even bother replying their messages, which is kind of rude too. Hope that makes sense xxxx
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RHP User
12 years ago
MsB72 , I'm dreaming and its wet, and I can't imagine any normal man not getting a little hot and bothered perving at you.And at the moment I'm horny and can't think of anything about a woman that would turn me off. Shallow perverted man I hear you say!
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RHP User
12 years ago
The fact that the hair is different, facial features arent even remotely the same and the body matches that of numerous photos on gay Latino homosexual websites - still you is it?? Love them.
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RHP User
12 years ago
It is very sad that some feel so down when the reply is not received, but when the individual in neglect turns the frustration of rejection and being ignored into name calling all sympathy is lost. What is more goading is the fact that you dare to then judge without so much as even sighting a cover and call the person rude and infer to them the attribute of shallowness. Time is precious and though you may think it is but a moments work to reply to you, it is a LOT of work to reply to everyone.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'ApolloThirteen'The fact that the hair is different, facial features arent even remotely the same and the body matches that of numerous photos on gay Latino homosexual websites - still you is it?? Love them. I love responding and calling them by the name of the model/actor/porn star/famous volleyball player they are pretending to be, with an "Is it really you???" added for fun. . Odd how I never hear back from them. I guess they don't have time to respond to all of their fans.
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RHP User
12 years ago
But I find when someone gushes on their profile about how their star sign plays a big part in their character - I'm quite turned off, whether they're Michele Pfieffer / Julia Roberts or the housewife next door. No need to be formally educated or nerdy, but being switched on and in tune with the world and people of it is sexy! If you really think that there are only a dozen classes of personality and that ga-squillion-zillion people born on this planet born on each of the different months all share the same strong primary personality traits, then I think there's mebbee a leeettle bit of a screw loose. Life and people are way more complicated that that. But maybe that's just me... runs and ducks for cover.
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RHP User
12 years ago
oops on grammar: 'born on each of' -> 'on'
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RHP User
12 years ago
and introducing themselves as I'm walking in the door ... not a good time, I need to pee and waiting for someone to break with the pack before you pounce is a bit creepy.
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RHP User
12 years ago
And staring continuously.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Too many to list but the biggest is assumptions....ArrogancePlayers (I"m not a notch on ur belt or another conquest)DisrespectLack of Communication
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madotara69
12 years ago
Quoting 'paint_me' and introducing themselves as I'm walking in the door ... not a good time, I need to pee and waiting for someone to break with the pack before you pounce is a bit creepy. It'd turn us off too, since we know you paint me, any time You've been breaking the pack and showing us those beautiful tits for a few seasons, some bugger in the way for personally escorting you to the ladies room. He would get in the way for both of us to get through the door together, Tara straight in, so the three of us could talk about what ever you like, while I have a perfectly good reason to admire those pouncin beauties, while you take a leak, then follow them wherever you go next. Mado Tara xx
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RHP User
12 years ago
I was recently asked by a man what star sign I am....the one beginning with Sag ,I replied
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RHP User
12 years ago
ah little dears,the perils of the prolific pulchritudinous poster
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Missb72' that say Looks See My Photo and have a picture of a motorbike, or their cock, or some other object that does not show me what they look like. ..It's hardly a pet hate, but when I see that "LOOKS See My Photo" plug on a Ladies' profile and all that's showing is a bit of leg, breast or a face from the mouth down…I'm a bit disappointed.I still believe the eyes are the windows of the soul and I'd like to see more of them.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Y'all know the ones.... Nasty. And guys who have their mobile number as their profile name. Seriously.
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RHP User
12 years ago
(1) Complaints (2) Lists (3) Irony.... Ok, so I posted this once before, but I still really like it ;-)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'ApolloThirteen'Y'all know the ones.... Nasty. And guys who have their mobile number as their profile name. Seriously. RHP, I'm surprised you approve this. Also wondering about the large number of private email accounts (lots of "catch me as ... at hot male" references) RHP is not noticing in profiles. . Another turn off: No main profile pic, so I'm looking at a Grey Ghost. Even if you don't want to be recognised, it shows a lack of effort and creativity to me. That goes for you too Memo. And welcome back.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hi everyone, I'm very new here **waves at all you sexy folk** My turn offs so far (noting I haven't met anyone from here yet) are; - men expecting a reply (sorry, I don't have time to reply to everyone as I'm trying to focus on the ones I am interested in. - men being pushy or wanting to meet up on the first message. - couples of attached men contacting me en I have requested only single men (first world problem but still c'mon!) - men turning rude when I politely have declined them (refer to dot point one...this is why we often don't reply if not interested men. It's not personal.) Please note, I only use men as I am not seeking women at all :-)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Findingmemo' For me, a fair go is walking up to someone in a real life situation and being able to say hello without it being instantly mistaken as me hitting on them or being seen as anything more than just being friendly. I was taken aback by one particular response while I was at the bar waiting for a drink, I'd turned to the woman next to me and just said something like "hey, how are you? Are you having a good night" and I got a very very aggressive "fuck off I'm not interested" as a reply. It shocked me that I seemingly can't even say a random hello to someone. There was another night a few months later that I walked up to someone and said a similar hello, first thing out of her my mouth was "I have a boyfriend" so I replied "so do I" she looked really embarrassed. She actually apologised for being rude, In the end I told her I was single and straight and we had a bit of a laugh and a chat and went our separate ways which was my plan all along anyway. It defies belief that some women (and some men no doubt) consider themselves such hot property that they can't even say hi. It's because some men can become a pest and will not go away. If you give them and inch they take a mile.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Jay_Me' Even though I agree with some of the above , it's a worry when some posters seem to find it so easy to list so many gripes .? Makes me wonder why you bother to be here in the first place ? Only for the forum Jay_Me. Only for the forum.
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RHP User
12 years ago
And so is being at a meet and greet and a man within 2 minutes of talking to you, turns around around and says "I am up for anything, if someone wanted to take me home and use a strapon on me I would be game".............. hint hint. I just don't think that it is appropriate. I know I am pretty out there I guess when talking about sex but that doesn't mean I want to deep throat any cock that comes up to me. I deliberately wore a very chaste dress... not even a hint of cleavage, with a hem to my knees... no stiletto come fuck me shoes and I still got that. I didn't pash anyone, I didn't say anything inappropriate to anyone.... I don't think. I pretty much behaved myself. Pretty disappointed... especially when I got the follow up email today.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Don't let one bad dick spoil the good ones x
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Qefenta2' I was recently asked by a man what star sign I am....the one beginning with Sag ,I replied Pyrex. I was a test tube baby
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RHP User
12 years ago
We are so open and honest about our sexuality on these forums. I love to see how women feel comfortable enough on here (with the added confidence of being behind a keyboard and having a glass of wine) to share their sexual journey's. Maybe we forget too that some men are also on their sexual awakenings and often lack the social graces to recognise that not all women appreciate such in your face approaches in person. Some women might actually like this approach who knows? It's a fucking minefield out there. Put your hard hat back on, put on your sexy frock and killer heels and tell 'em to fuck off. Your reaction will be added to his learning curve I'm sure.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Welcome Hornyhotready!
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madotara69
12 years ago
Quoting 'paint_me' We are so open and honest about our sexuality on these forums. I love to see how women feel comfortable enough on here (with the added confidence of being behind a keyboard and having a glass of wine) to share their sexual journey's. Same as IRL , it would be a shame to think you could not express your sexuality amongst others. The fellows need to know the difference with invitation to intrusion, unless he knows the difference play fair and be a gentleman, keep a safe distance to figure it all out. Mado Mado Tara xx
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RHP User
12 years ago
Am I missing something?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Ladies whos profile is 90% how much they hate men, instead of who they are and what they are like. but are still looking for men lol umm...not messaging you! You're way to cranky haha - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Coming....have you come yet...are you gonna come now...hm, if it was happening you'd know, it takes more than 30 seconds! Unfortunately, heard mostly from men my own age, so often a disappointment. Xx - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
There's bound to be confusion translating behavior here Vs behavior in "real life". Some admit they say things here that they never would in real life. And some claim to be exactly in real life as they are here. If you're very sexually foward here, I can understand how a guy who only knows a lady from here may assume it's a free - for - all. We should all be treated like ladies - until we tell you otherwise ;-)
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RHP User
12 years ago
I just received a message this morning ... "I would just like to skull fuck you" That was all it said.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I'm sorry......I forgot to say please :( :p - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
"I just received a message this morning ... "I would just like to skull fuck you" That was all it said." I feel like an idiot now... I forgot to include my number ;)
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RHP User
12 years ago
He wants to put his penis in your eye socket? How titillating.....
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RHP User
12 years ago
Apollo13... Funny. And I also agree that my openness and the way I speak does invite that sort of comment and behaviour and it doesn't usually worry me. Not sure if I am more disappointed in myself or just disappointed that some men can't see past the "Meeka" hype. I love to talk about sex, joke about it, etc but I want a man's respect as we all do. I guess some men don't get it.
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RHP User
12 years ago
That's a load of bull, just because your vibrant, honest and stimulating does not give anyone the right to ASSUME or have BAD MANNERS........ It's everyone's pet hate....... Although if you think about it, he most probably felt by ingratiating himself with you, he'd get in with the crowd?........ Or he could have been nervous and this was his cover up........ Oh I don't know and unfortunately in using that type of opening line, you don't want to care........ Darn, I'm going to have to start using a stump to get of my high horse soon ;)
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Lovinit28andKC72
12 years ago
I got one the other day that went into graphic detail of exactly what he wanted to do to me, and none of it was very pleasant at all..... - Posted from rhpmobile
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