M66
Irreverence
March 15 2015
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RHP User
11 years ago
life can be shitty, and sometimes if you don't laugh you will cry. I choose to laugh because living with an attitude where you can't laugh at yourself or anyone else sounds pretty bloody miserable to me. I never for a second believed what Cavey wrote was true but my imagination went mad imagining it and that was funny. A lot of others chose to read it as a true story. It shits me to tears that I am being told what to think and how to react on an adult website, especially when I took it exactly how it was intended, yet those who took it out of context are the ones berating the rest of us for reading it how it should have been read!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Not so much the post that is funny (not overall funny) it's more about the way in witch people react and react in so many differnt ways... Like all the forums there are some I simply don't comment on yet still follow the posters... There are others that I feel like having a honest (some times funny) Input...
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RHP User
11 years ago
I totally agree that humour can be a fantastic coping mechanism in life, particuarly when life gets tough (and I know all about that subject personally). What I don't agree with is how you write that "A lot of others chose to read it as a true story" because I didn't actually choose to read it that way. Cavey presented the comment as if he actually had done what he wrote. There was never -any- inference of it being a joke when I read the comment, and clearly I wasn't alone in that (just as you aren't alone in thinking it was one). The only reason you read it as one is because you are obviously familiar with Cavey's style of humour, or that you know him on some personal level so you can justify that he never would actually do what he said he did. So on that thought - isn't it actually you who has taken the original comment out of context? With love, ~KK x
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RHP User
11 years ago
OP seems to be enjoying his moment in the spotlight. A whole thread devoted to justifying his 'joke' about an indecent assault. "Good onya's.... and.. from the amount of contributors.. AND the number of comments - this has APPARENTLY been a "Watched" post - THANK YOU all for that." I think it's pretty ordinary state of affairs, when the only way to get attention - which OP seem to be revelling in - is by being a character that makes light of sexual violence towards women. But bad publicity is better than no publicity - right? OP have you yet acknowledged the 'joke' action was a criminal act? It is nice to see lots of character witness's on your side. Even though it's fine to support the person, but abhor the act. Actually it's vital. And yeah I read the poem and where you added it - White Ribbon Day - a day about recognising the problem of male's violence towards women. Ironic? I can glean that horrible things happened to you, and happens towards all genders, and that should be recognised and dealt with. But why take away from the pandemic problem of violence towards women - is it just because they are getting the attention and headlines that the violence you encountered isn't? It's not one or the other - it can be both. And I get that making light of horrible things is a way of coping. But OP isn’t making light of things that happened to him – he seems to take that very seriously – he is making a joke about being the aggressor.Are women just easier targets, than the perpetrators of the crimes against you? I can’t see people telling others how to think – I see a lot of opinions, on a deliberately divisive & polarising topic. Because, you know, any kind of attention better than no attention.
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madotara69
11 years ago
We have been tossing shit around with cavey for a few years, a fair few of us and others longer and he has earned his respects, send him a message and have a conversation with him, or ask him to message you even, unless there is a problem. Don't think he will lose any friends from this, if he said it's humour why is it so important that the people who don't know him to make it happened. It's cavey's honesty, he has done some bad shit, but had no problem telling it and his manner of posting has been no different than this one, only the subject. I feel sorry for some of the friends divided on this, I worry for Miss Freya mostly, because she is right for her own reasons, I'd imagine cavey is worried for a few people too, but he has said it, put up the thread for it. What more is he supposed to do. Because his posts in here are no different than any others. Everyone who has got the shits with it have said it, some seem to keep saying it over and over, in hopes for what. It has to be true he did it to get some closure, I don't think one of his friends are asking for that. It's relentless methods of making it into a domestic violence matter. Well why don't someone go make their own topic of it, and burn yourselves into the ground stuck in the vibe for it. Even better if it's giving anyone to many head miles, fuck off for a while, it'll do em good. The world has turned to shit since John Wayne kicked the bucket.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Way back on page 1 - there was this: Quoting 'Meeka100'Quoting 'Elle67'I get that your post was 'tongue in 'cheek', 'irreverent' etc. What I don't get is how you don't seem to understand that your post would be considered highly offensive to people who have been on the receiving end of non-consensual sexual acts. And that those people are just as entitled to respond negatively as you were to post it in the first place. Okay, I am asking this in total seriousness. I don't understand why you see this as a non-consensual sex act. Is it because in this instance the person comes on the other? I have on a number of occasions been confronted by stranger wanking while I was in public places, earliest case was probably when I was ten years old. I have never considered myself to be a victim of sexual assault. So what is the difference, if one of those men threw their come on me would that make it different? Clearly it is a sexual offense and totally creepy and wrong but is it a sexual assault? I took offence to Meeka's comment, and made it clear that what she is talking about is indeed an assault. Meeka quickly realised her error and apologised, but the scene had been set. This is the sort of thing that people - obviously women and men - need to understand is wrong. Nobody should have to put up with unwanted sexual contact of any kind at any time. The responses to posts on the issue asking "what about the men" also annoyed me for reasons I have explained above. Being seen to justify assaults on women by talking about suffering men, no matter the intention, is not a good look and not good for either cause. I thought Cavey's original post nothing more than a bad joke in poor taste. I doubt I would have got involved at all had Meeka not made the comment above. I bowed out when it became obvious it was getting personal. Looking at the last few pages I think that was a good call. PS - look for some Jim Jeffries material if you want to see someone do incredibly offensive humour that's actually funny (IMHO of course).
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AnnieWhichway
11 years ago
In one way its given some an opportunity to vent. To release some frustration or anger on a topic that has become multi faceted. To everyone's credit it has remained mostly respectable to each other which is a good thing and perhaps healthy for all concerned. We are all different in our heads and as part of a healthy debate we can move on past this thread and remain able to post together and continue discussing in other threads. Cavey, you and I have something in common. It appears that all three of us were interfered with in our youth. Mine was by a minister of a church. Never forgotten and obviously changed my life for ever and put me on a different path that one that I may have travelled. I like to be light hearted as well, like the 2 of you. Did the comedy routine as a drag queen blah blah blah.But I can't get my head around the original basis of all this. To make a joke of that act. I could not imagine making jokes about the stuff that was done to me without consent. We have all made comments that we have regretted throughout our lives. Mostly I can man up(or tv up) and apologise for offending people if I have known that I have. I have trouble comprehending that Cavey has not done so. In fact he has defended his right to have done what he did rather than just say fucking SORRY I'm sorry for people having to read my posts, I'm not sure if I'm getting clarity in them of late. So I'm sorry to all. Annie xx
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madotara69
11 years ago
Quoting 'KindredKohl' From something I wrote on the thread earlier. And finally - just to breifly speak on the notion of irreverance for a second. The definiton is having or showing a lack of respect for someone or something that is usually treated with respect. Cavey shared with us a beautiful piece of writing about his personal experience with abuse at the hands of people in the church and his struggle in sharing this in regards to the law that stands in opposition against him. If I was to be irreverant about this topic, or make a joke about it (which I don't think I -ever- would regardless of the situation or context) how would that be percieved? Is that acceptable? Would it offend people? Is it even at the core, a subject that should be presented with humour or irreverance? Interesting to think about in the context of this conversation. So to Madotara and Cavey specifically - Judging by what you have written about comedy and jokes it is acceptable to be irreverant about one type of abuse but not the other? Would it have an impact on you if people were to to present your story of abuse as an irreverant joke? And just one other thing @Madotara; Then posts began with regular posters having a friendly mention, respectable folk amongst the forums I honestly couldn't care less if the 'respectable' regular's of the forum disagree with the contention I continue to make. I'm still entitled to write about it on a free platform (respectable, regular or not) and the assertion that you make continue to suggest that only some people's opinions are valid is quite frankly bullshit. With love, (the irregular and highly unrespected) Kallysta. x Kallysta They can use my story for dunny paper if would help them. Since you have suggested it, go ahead if you like. Question is could you bare hearing it. This thing here is troubling you enough and it's confetti on an elephants bum. One type of abuse, I don't know what is the other abuse ? I could muster something up about having my cock sucked or something like that, I don't give a flying fuck about the bloke who was sucking it. Unless we have save the paedophiles day, but I won't be there for that though, seriously doubt the screws would putrid fucker out of the bone-yard anyway. I'd have to tell a bit of a porky though change the age from 13 to 18 at least, leave the kiddies out of it surely. Do you see what is going on here, how do you release the nightmares, you make them OK, at the expense of trading off a bit of humour in doing so. Or would it be better off over all to hold on to the demons and carry their troubles with the wife and kids? Sometimes it's worth looking for the meanings of things, before stabbing in the dark trying to find something you'd trip over. I don't recall anything about anyone's opinions, only mine not welcome, careful if you try manipulating me, we will have a problem. Motivations perhaps. You are doing it again, I mentioned the respectable people I was referring to, know one was excluded. You have a habit of needing to place an insult when you are conversing, I noticed. It's not something I would feel a respectable way of introductions, just me though. We can be friends if you like. You would adore Tara, she is wonderful
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madotara69
11 years ago
Enjoy your posts Annie, especially when you get all feisty.
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RHP User
11 years ago
clearly transparent - although those who craftily wield these tools are adept at running from the metaphoric bomb they threw...however not so good when hit by their own metaphor - the old sharp hot shrapnel damages them as much as they have tried to damage others merely for their own elevation.... Disclaimer: this is a complete generalisation and not aimed at anyone.....just observations from other circles which sometimes can be used as a tool to dismantle the adept.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Not sure why you are concerned for me Mado...in fact I agree with Cavey that Tim Minchin.who by the way identifies as a feminist,and hence his song,is a super star...he is a true iconoclast xxFreya
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RHP User
11 years ago
You have a habit of needing to place an insult when you are conversing, I noticed. I'd be interested to hear where exactly in any of my posts you consider I have insulted someone. If that is the case, it was never my intention and please feel free to quote me directly because having read over them all I fail to see where you draw that from. Unless of course it is just because I have an opinion, which we all do, and as I've mentioned previously I don't believe any of us need to be apologetic for that (especially when the OP created a topic to discuss it). I don't think I have manipulated anything in this conversation or for any specific agenda, and I don't think your deductions about me or the way I post are accurate. I see the points you are trying to make and I appreciate them because they provide me with a deeper introspective outlook on the topic. I wonder, can you see mine? Or do the lines of friendship simply negate them? I'm sure Tara is wonderful, and I accept the hand of friendship wherever it is equally offered. With love and and curiosity. ~KK
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madotara69
11 years ago
Quoting 'Annie_Whichway' In one way its given some an opportunity to vent. To release some frustration or anger on a topic that has become multi faceted. To everyone's credit it has remained mostly respectable to each other which is a good thing and perhaps healthy for all concerned. We are all different in our heads and as part of a healthy debate we can move on past this thread and remain able to post together and continue discussing in other threads. Cavey, you and I have something in common. It appears that all three of us were interfered with in our youth. Mine was by a minister of a church. Never forgotten and obviously changed my life for ever and put me on a different path that one that I may have travelled. I like to be light hearted as well, like the 2 of you. Did the comedy routine as a drag queen blah blah blah.But I can't get my head around the original basis of all this. To make a joke of that act. I could not imagine making jokes about the stuff that was done to me without consent. We have all made comments that we have regretted throughout our lives. Mostly I can man up(or tv up) and apologise for offending people if I have known that I have. I have trouble comprehending that Cavey has not done so. In fact he has defended his right to have done what he did rather than just say fucking SORRY I'm sorry for people having to read my posts, I'm not sure if I'm getting clarity in them of late. So I'm sorry to all. Annie xx I don't have the heart to ask him. But cavey seems to have been out in the desert or off.. I have a hunch something about what he has said, Over in the Apache or Navajo Indians or one of the Pigmy's tribes and maybe spit painted some of his filthy fetish stories over their cave paintings or tattoo'd them onto the chiefs wives or something, because he can't go back and what else would he be doing? leads back to it every time. He is a hairy dirty fucker sounds like he has possibly spent lengthy stretches out bush avoiding any number of women he met once possibly armed, rare indeed would he find a partner for his kinky fetishes, maybe he never actually had a wife, I watched a program where there was a type of men that develop feelings (let's say), for mannequins and they have nice tits, interchangeable limbs even the teased hair styles and clothing they are designed for, dress up in all sexy underwear, or even naked and glue gingery hair all over them. And it makes sense that because she would not tell him how great Tim Minchin was, he might be reminiscing with some exaggeration as to the relationship and communication issues. He might still love her, it could be quite an emotional drain on him right now, sometimes patience is a virtue. But it seemed quite popular. A lot of times the answers are within the stories. Poor bugger is protecting her, you can ask him though if you like.
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madotara69
11 years ago
iconoclast, do you think developing a relationship of marriage with a plastic mannequin wife could be enjoyed by that term?
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RHP User
11 years ago
Could be said to be iconoclastic ....I think...not sure..
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madotara69
11 years ago
I'm sure Cavey would be no stranger of intent
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AnnieWhichway
11 years ago
No intention of asking him anything. I've said all that i wanted to say and reasonably happy the way l posted. Feel for all the brothers and sisters who have met with assault both sexually and other. We deal wth it in different ways. Just not a fan of people who have had that experience repeating those acts onto others and expecting acceptance. The vicous circle of offending must stop somewhere
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RHP User
11 years ago
AWW I really feel for you & any individual who has suffered like you describe. I'd im again that Words would never be able to describe the result within the person who was so badly wronged...as a father who adores his children the anger I feel towards individuals who could carry out such acts is probably not printable....so I'll just say to you, and anyone else in similar circumstances, there are also people in this world who DO NOT think that is right DO NOT think those pieces of shit who carry out such acts should be allowed to get away with it. I can tell you I am an individual who feels a need to defend those of you who have been so very wronged...It is beyond an unfair life blow. I am not going to say I'm sorry it happened that should be assumed, I am going to say thank god the govt had a royal commission. Your mate Aries.
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madotara69
11 years ago
Quoting 'KindredKohl' You have a habit of needing to place an insult when you are conversing, I noticed. I'd be interested to hear where exactly in any of my posts you consider I have insulted someone. If that is the case, it was never my intention and please feel free to quote me directly because having read over them all I fail to see where you draw that from. Unless of course it is just because I have an opinion, which we all do, and as I've mentioned previously I don't believe any of us need to be apologetic for that (especially when the OP created a topic to discuss it). I don't think I have manipulated anything in this conversation or for any specific agenda, and I don't think your deductions about me or the way I post are accurate. I see the points you are trying to make and I appreciate them because they provide me with a deeper introspective outlook on the topic. I wonder, can you see mine? Or do the lines of friendship simply negate them? I'm sure Tara is wonderful, and I accept the hand of friendship wherever it is equally offered. With love and and curiosity. ~KK Why you challenged who I had paid any respects to, was an insult. I don't negotiate terms of respect and you implying how I put meaning to respect, was wrong for starters and for my meanings of respect, it was disrespectful. Any further on that would need be a separate conversation and I would enjoy having that conversation because I think your curiosity is going to appreciate my meanings, you are hungry for communication, fair to say? I said if you are manipulating we would, twice. Some twist and turn things and present them as what I have said or meant, It happens in here often. Can I see yours?. All I have had to do is answer to you for a start, another conversation perhaps? You ask questions then go on to attempt to answer them and you got that wrong too. It's probably not worth trying to think how I think, well all of my personalities actually. You have some energy
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RHP User
11 years ago
Made you would certainly need to contact me privately if you had any personal queries or concerns pertaining to what I have written in the topic because to be honest I don't really understand what you have responded above. Always happy to clarify my intentions or the way in which I have presented my opinion to you personally - but as you allude to above this wouldn't be the appropriate place. With love, -KK x - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I wasn't sure if it was me or if everyone experienced the disconnect between their own feelings and those of the people around them....All these discrepancies.If only the world matched the inside of our brains,if only the insides of our brains matched the inside of other people's brains....Nikki French
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madotara69
11 years ago
That was a joke, it's ok, I will never ask you to do anything I would not do myself. If you knew that then... We have some differences with the schools You can ask him if you like Just after I said I wouldn't and if I actually asked something from you it would have a ? Yeah repeating those acts, some did still kids though. You know If I thought that were true here though, I would have completely different direction than this story in the makings. You girls really don't know Cavey and he will grow on you, I don't think you are privy as to his intelligence, he is an intellect and everything means something and he won't just tell you, you have to work it out and follow the clues. One word can have complex meaning that has to be reasoned for, or you will never know what was meant of that conversation. If you are sitting around like you are, then get involved, follow every single word of Miss Freya and learn it if you don't know it, she is a wealth of knowledge and if you had beeing paying attention, we have had a meaningful conversation, in the last few words. And I know your other you better than this you, unless this you is off colour. Somethings up Annie, maybe let go of this thing with Cavey a little, worrying about something before it has happened causes stress. And did you not find it a little odd, that Miss Freya was like all happy with cavey and all. She would not be if she was feeling like you are. Fuck being broke and not having messages sux, but we have finally after near two years now, settling on a matter, we have been on the bones of our arse Annie and on the edge of being homeless, stuck up here in the mountains, it's nice up here though, if you can ever get up here, there is a rock we could go and sit on for a while and feel the spirits af the Darug people that lived on it for the last fifty thousand years. Peacefully, my people are Yankanjara up by the boarder with Queensland.
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madotara69
11 years ago
Quoting 'KindredKohl' Made you would certainly need to contact me privately if you had any personal queries or concerns pertaining to what I have written in the topic because to be honest I don't really understand what you have responded above. Always happy to clarify my intentions or the way in which I have presented my opinion to you personally - but as you allude to above this wouldn't be the appropriate place. With love, -KK x - Posted from rhpmobile We will be back to financial members again shortly and have messaging again, sux without it. No malice with anything though, can't see the point of asking with friendship and then not treating you with values friendship means. Have a look at the likes i've had on this topic, cavey is a friend and well you just have to stand by a friend no matter at what ends, because you believe in them, if that does not change nothing changes. And you are not dope, you are a thinker, which is good because we are all thinking every minute here, and this whole thing been going on, could very well come down to not taking the time in the first moments to think. If the answer was there the whole time or in it's points of time, can't go blaming anyone else but ones self for blazey. Who knows what cavey is up to, well I bet it aint what you have been thinking. It's not what all that fuss was about though, glad that's over.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I have been raped. And I have told a joke about rape. I was molested as s child for most of my childhood. Raised in one if those homes. I am a witness for the royal commission into child abuse. I have made a joke about pedophiless I have been beaten black and blue and made a joke about it. Now think of what you guys watch in tv abd you do it for your entertainment. Yes you watch murder movies you watch movies on dv, you watch blood and guts and war and you sit eating your popcorn You laugh at black humour Tarrentino ring a bell. Sleeping with the enemy? Have a long at your selves. I lived my life and laughter is medicine for resilience . Every person deals with shit in their own way. Yes have your views but a few here have been preaching from the mount and i think cavey me and kk from the sound off it have been on the receiving end. Not as some have been crapping in about being an abuser. Get your bloody social work, anthropology ot psychology then you might get s broader view if a complex topic. live in the dark side instead of the popcorn set at the movies or the google intellectuals Not a single one if you had not enjoyed violence in a Vicarious fashion Not unless the only thing you watch is every body loved Raymond. Ever felt rage? Ever had those bad little thoughts? You know the ones where you want to punch a persons lights out? Or are we all saints? I think someone is now cutting and pasting google perls of wisdom about toxic people like me. Try to think up something original , insults are better served with original Witt. - Posted from rhpmobile
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madotara69
11 years ago
Shakespeare meets Orson Wells "The whole world is a stage......Coach"
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RHP User
11 years ago
Lady t is my singe profile. Just being trsnsparent so you don't think it's me my self and Ireen. 😁 - Posted from rhpmobile
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madotara69
11 years ago
Quoting 'Freya79' I wasn't sure if it was me or if everyone experienced the disconnect between their own feelings and those of the people around them....All these discrepancies.If only the world matched the inside of our brains,if only the insides of our brains matched the inside of other people's brains....Nikki French 90% we don't even use yet and that's where I spend most of my time too, the tranquillity. Spontaneous combustion would have taken place a few pages back if Nikki's if had it's way. I'm not sure who said it, the only universal certainty is absolute chaos. And there has been a couple of storms out in space above us right now too. And the Green Tara came in.
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RHP User
11 years ago
SOMETHING sure kicked this all in the guts again..Perish the thought that I would NEED 5 minutes fame... orNEED to justify myself..I have been in major TV around the world, including "History Channel"I have been on the logies.I have been on coronial enquiriesI have been in the supreme court.I have been to jail, hospital AND MeekatharraI have been shot, knifed, poisoned, bashed near to death, deserted out in the blazing sand plains and trapped underground in a flooding minefckd over, fckd up, fckd on, fckd off and fckd in general. AND.. MOST of them have been for standing up for my personal beliefs.. OR standing for someone who could NOT stand any longer for themselves..HELL yeah.. Want to know something....?There IS a woman watching this post this evening.. who's heart is heavy at some of your comments..probably not the comments ABOUT me... she PROBABLY believes most of them.. but more so.. the comments some FRIENDS are saying about each other.. (Maybe?? I dunno)Because on 3 occcasions.. I thought it was only two.. but she reminded me.. I walked into drug fckd dangerous situations.. threw her over my shoulder. and barged our way out.I have had husbands, boyfriends, brothers and jealous friends come after my sorry arse, armed, cunning and dangerous AND.. I STILL joke about it all.I can, I have, I do.. AND I will ..MAYBE one day, I will duck when I should have weaved, and someone will get me..Listen for that day eh.. Listen in the winds.. and you will hear my laughter :).Hey.. Honestly??"Don't take life TOO seriously eh.. NONE of us are getting out of it alive..."AND.. when you die.. you will shit yourself.. and piss yourself.. JUST like me..STOP getting fckd up over your friend's foibles eh!!!!!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'KindredKohl' I totally agree that humour can be a fantastic coping mechanism in life, particuarly when life gets tough (and I know all about that subject personally). What I don't agree with is how you write that "A lot of others chose to read it as a true story" because I didn't actually choose to read it that way. Cavey presented the comment as if he actually had done what he wrote. There was never -any- inference of it being a joke when I read the comment, and clearly I wasn't alone in that (just as you aren't alone in thinking it was one). The only reason you read it as one is because you are obviously familiar with Cavey's style of humour, or that you know him on some personal level so you can justify that he never would actually do what he said he did. So on that thought - isn't it actually you who has taken the original comment out of context? With love, ~KK x That I have seen enough of Caveys work to assume that it was a joke, but I actually think you would have to be a bloody idiot to post what he posted if it was done in all seriousness and I would assume it was a joke if anyone posted it. And in all honesty, I think you have been here long enough to have figured people out a bit also. I would like to give you a bit more credit for knowing a few of the forum locals as you aren't exactly new around here and clearly you aren't stupid. I think you are just being dramatic for arguments sake.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Don't know why you are bothering. Forget about it.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Come over and lets watch days of our lives together.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Tonight of Yesterday The evening slips you into it,has kept a place for youand those wildwood limbs that have already settled onthe morning. The words you have for it are flyblown nowas the dandelion you'll whistle tomorrow into a lighter air.But tonight, your sleep will be round as your mouth,berried with the story of sunlight finally run to ground.You are all about tomorrow. The moon has your namememorised: the curl of your back, your face, an open book. VONA GROARKE
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AnnieWhichway
11 years ago
Its now obvious to me that you are just mind fucking us. Taking us for a ride to see if we can self destruct. Well played sir. The most important point made is that friendship, or perceived friendship can sometimes overide what people should see as right or wrong.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Hi, I can see your point and partially agree with it. What I see is that he doesn't need to mind fuck us as others are happy to do it for him. If a new poster....like me for example had posted the same comment I wonder how well it would have been receieved. Mado talks about himself and Cavey being disrespected but I feel and hope my comments were not disrespectful just maybe not agreed with. I also see most otjers as strong but not disrespectful. There was plenty of disrespect at his defence though. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
You and I have never been friends,we have different points of view on most things..but I don't think we are enemies either..we have quite a few friends in common and most of them supported your point of view.for me it's so what,I am never going to always agree with all of my friends all of the time ..otherwise I would be living in a cave in Tibet 😃...The fora often inspire rigorous debate..indeed they would be dull and boring without it..kudos to the mods for not deleting this thread..XxFreya
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AnnieWhichway
11 years ago
I get that we should be able to laugh at ourselves, laugh at the bad shit that happens. It does help as mrs wickedtryst says above who put me in the sights. Always up for a good joke in the context it was designed. Putting aside any offensive attributes to Cavey's attempt of humour. In lost to see anything funny. But you see thats the thing. l've found that life is like an asian market. You see a gorgeous dress and its one size fits all So you buy it. Get back to your room to excitedly try it on. The realisation hits. I'm not part of the all.......... Life's a bitch.......so i became one.
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madotara69
11 years ago
Elevenbenevolentelephants
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madotara69
11 years ago
Avoid irreverent babble, for it will lead people into more and more ungodliness.
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madotara69
11 years ago
I'ts cool, If you are unsure by the point where you read it, I'd bet my left nut on it you tossed in your thoughts only
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RHP User
11 years ago
You and I will never agree on this but I think there is a significant difference about making a joke..black humour I presume...about terrible things that others have done to you...and making a joke about something illegal,sexual assault ,that you may or may not have done to someone else xxFreya from a very high horse.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I am a little confused, so is it cool to assault myself or not? Because I don't feel like being immoral, or for that matter take liberties I shouldn't indulge in haha - Posted from rhpmobile
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QLDtwo4fun
11 years ago
And Meeka, as a guy I am appalled by people wanking in public to get their own thrills. And I admire your attitude in dealing with them.
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madotara69
11 years ago
I told you what we got up to last night, I doubt any chance of explaining out of it. But it is true women do love big cocks. I remember one my very first posts and was talking about anal sex we had had, I said something of it that she screamed. I do love how the ladies won't let it fair pass without a mention. I copped it from all angles, a call went out i'm sure as the air thickened, earlier when I said it was only because Lily Allen had just sung it around the time I said it. No way, did not register, so I had to keep my calm and work my way out by the nature of it. As much there is to fight assault, accused of it without the paperwork is also an assault of the nature, innocent people are victimised enough that it's another page in the book. And it is getting old now that cavey called it a irreverent and addressed the forums by it. In his world, out there that is fighting words, if his word was not taken respectfully, men fighting men words, but one would have to distance himself from the verbal from any women, it's hurtful if there is nothing in it. It's going around in circles. "We don't need no force control No dark sarcasm in the class room All in all you're just another brick in the wall"
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'LoverOFBadSouls' I am a little confused, so is it cool to assault myself or not? Because I don't feel like being immoral, or for that matter take liberties I shouldn't indulge in haha - Posted from rhpmobile I just fisted bum in my sleep. Hurts like a bitch now
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RHP User
11 years ago
And I've managed to read a few of the replies. As a new person to this site and because I understand it is easy to misinterpret words without body language attached, I thought maybe it was a good question to ask because cavey's post was easy to take the wrong way. I just wanted a simple answer to a simple question. ...why was your story funny? However the answers go on and on. I'm still confused. I feel that there is a lot of anger attached to all the answers I've read so far. So well, ahem. Don't think my question worked afterall. Maybe I should crack the whip and read on... UUgh
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RHP User
11 years ago
Much further than this thread to get your answer. I disagreed and had some cyber tussles about it with others. I don't fancy starting it all again but here is my take on it in the simplest form. Yes I am making some big assumptions about others thoughts. 1. Cavey is a guy who has a unique style of humour and is not too worried what people think. He has been here a while and many get his humour and he has friends and peoples respect based on a lengthy time of posting. This is what I mean by going back further. 2. From the people who liked his origonal post/joke none believed he was actually being serious and took it as a 'cavey joke'. They simply clicked the like button as it made them chuckle and they didn't over think it. 3. From the people who 'defended' Cavey such as Mado, tuscan meeka off the top of my head, none of them ever belittled the seriousness of the subject but simply took it as a Cavey joke. 4. Some people were more offended by the post and irreverence than others, some were more vocal expressing this than others. Me included here. Though I can now see all sides to it. 5. We all have different personalities and senses of humour..... thank god! In fact I can personally admit my style of humour will vary depending on who I am with. Some 'riskier'jokes with people you are close to and know but that you wouldn't ever write on a public forum. Thats I think where Cavey is different...one style regardless (irreverent) We are all never going to agree on everything and this is one such topic and this was reflected in the way the discussion got heated and personal.....but thats life! I hope this makes some sense and doesn't reignite any major issues or offence, as I say they are just my assumptions and simplistic take on it. 😆 - Posted from rhpmobile
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madotara69
11 years ago
Posts underlined with the bit's and pieces intended on topic, besides the distractions in defending the essence by meanings expressed, bar one, it's not criminal to find higher meaning for Cavey's humour, directed "as in person I'm accused" . If so it would be conspiring with committing an illegal act. Cocky shit, read the OP, inciting affray is different than questioning it. End of that story. (I have a problem with abusive authority) I was meaning for this The Brothers house (says it) I copped some bad shit too ( brothers by nature, I understand what Christianity claimed, because authority and discipline was a thing held over me amongst others) Page 8 It's actually hard to find one post where you are not a dirty fucker. (says it a lot) So I suppose it must be true, you are a dirty fucker. *Shrugs* *chuckles* Done my bit, stop making it, this is personally against women Come back from supporting domestic violence against women Petition change.org Page 10 Tim Minchin comes about ...........Someone does irreverence (cool someone does it ,never doubted it). Page11 Google irreverence, find words associated blasphemous, impious, profane, sacrilegious (irreverence owns it) "I could not imagine making jokes about the stuff that was done to me without consent". (fuck Annie got me stumped) An epiphany Make the woman plastic and look for the joke? (Heavens to Betsy I sin in the face of Rod) It's the "wife" A T.V show flashes upon me, of men with their affections to plastic dolls. Why? Morels challenged...... Materialising woman and the "wife" a term of Christianity "iconoclast, do you think developing a relationship of "marriage" with a plastic mannequin "wife" could be enjoyed by that term? " (searching in the name of Irreverence) Research and findings by wisdoms of Irreverence Tim Minchin a genius at it, so some said. 'If you just close your eyes and block your ears to the accumulated knowledge of the last 2000 years, then morally, guess what? You're off the hook, just thank Christ you only have to read one book...' 'If you open your mind too much, your Brains will fall out' page 12 Off to an irreverence forum, everyone's taking the piss out of Mentions to Reasons 'Avoid irreverent babble, for it will lead people into more and more ungodliness'. So I had it, it's just as I thought in the first place. (Taking the piss out of things with higher meanings) Marriage is the bag Cavey,s irreverence, humour mostly it seems, the woman materialistic (only ever seen as that, not offended) All on topic, defending the right of expression, irreverence and meanings by wisdom found for humour, science a big contributor. Respectively to those who differ, Tara does not find this as personally offensive and never has,my heart goes to her always first. Still has the hot's for Cavey and all the work put into this thread as it goes off in the wind, it's doing it all together. If I am misunderstanding irreverence, well that above is why. Take the piss out of it, if you like.
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RHP User
11 years ago
...what is happening here is sating a need to be utterly self indulgent in a public forum.
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madotara69
11 years ago
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RHP User
11 years ago
Cavey you self righteous disgusting fart. To cum over someone's face and hair when they are sleeping because they didn't want sex with you.. YOUR GRATIFICATION YOUR SEXUAL RELEASE YOUR DISTURBING CONTROL YOUR CONTEMPT FOR YOUR PARTNER YOUR NEEDTO INFLICT HUMILIATION YOUR NEED TO MAKE IT A COMEDY Wow, that is F$&@ked up man....seek some meditation and humanity....you need to evolve a little more to get accepted by society.
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RHP User
11 years ago
*crickey*.You came to visit my profile once to see who I portray myself to be there.. then you post here.. then you return to double check on me?I take your comments onboard.As Mr De Bono would have it, those comments would be categorized as "Red hat"AND .. this is good.. over the last 13 pages, we have probably covered all 6 of the "Thinking hats"
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RHP User
11 years ago
Since when do you want to be accepted by society? At least your pic is of you, easy to tell the real person from the imposter. You're not the only snoop here, Boredgal. :-p
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RHP User
11 years ago
How did I end up here again? *Runs off *
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RHP User
11 years ago
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RHP User
11 years ago
Hey meander, lets do a nudie run on the way through. Whoohoo streakers!!!!
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RHP User
11 years ago
THAT would be a pretty GORGEOUS sight ...Willow and Meander
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' Since when do you want to be accepted by society? At least your pic is of you, easy to tell the real person from the imposter. You're not the only snoop here, Boredgal. :-p Inspector Meander the RHP sleuth gee i had to be real careful then not to drop the e or h I would run naked, but I have not been able to run out of sight on a dark night for quiet a few years now I will just go get the beer and make sure Cavey has a good seat for the run through.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I can't believe this excuse for a topic is still being bumped up. We get it... you can do whatever you want without any consideration of anyone else. Because you can. . Tut tut bored girl, have you ever heard of tineye. Seriously, while I think your post was totally over the top anyway... you only undermine what you are trying to say when you try to fake it in here. Telling a disgusting joke is far more accepted than using fake pics. :-( It is a nice one though. . "At least"... I tend to cringe when people start their sentences with, "at least". I mean, if that's your highest standard...
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RHP User
11 years ago
You know what annoys me, Mrs Peachy? People who say bitchy things, but then pretend they're just joking by padding them with happy emotions. Just own those barbs.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I JUST post here....Will it go to 14 pages?????
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'cavey50' I JUST post here....Will it go to 14 pages????? I will get behind ya, and and give it a nudge errrm sorry me hand slipped, honest injun drum rollllllll page 14 must be close at hand, along with your bum
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RHP User
11 years ago
Is this still going... *Yawns*
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RHP User
11 years ago
Thank you for the heads up
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