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Is age just a number?
May 10 2015
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Tall74nHard9
11 years ago
Or perhaps foolish ?Don't make mention of a man's age on here once you've passed, say, 45. You are eternally damned by the 'younger' women on this site - as in not being good enough for anything, least of all SEX. Age IS just a number for those of us who are actually wise enough to appreciate that, but not so much for those who wish to be blind about 'numbers'. Take (great) take, my friend. Tall
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Tall74nHard9
11 years ago
Take (great) care... Tall
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RHP User
11 years ago
"OK"
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Tall74nHard9
11 years ago
Certainly don't just take my word for that, of course. Just ask ANY of the 'younger' female experts on site here, who have never met you and certainly do not know your personality, about your potential sexual prowess once you have passed that magical age. Will definitely do wonders for you... Tall
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RHP User
11 years ago
It's a life experience and many body battle scars, dags and wrinkles. Can't blame a young person for not wanting to get with someone old enough to be his grandparent.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Dags should read sags.
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RHP User
11 years ago
i think that some people age well - physically emotionally and sexually - others don't
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RHP User
11 years ago
What I want to be when I grow up, minus the very young guys. The odd exception aside, I just don't go for under 25 year-olds. More often than not I get the "but I'm really mature and experienced for my age" response, which I find rather tedious. When it comes to older guys my cut-off depends on different things. I find that a lot of men over 50 will be looking (according to their profiles anyway) for "a lady to spoil and treat like a princess" and other terms that make me cringe. Sometimes they'll remind me of sugar daddies or even my own dad. Not sexy. Thinking about it, I think it's the generation gap that doesn't do it for me. That's just me of course.
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RHP User
11 years ago
yes there is a generation gap factor but i think thats far less than it was but sexual relationships are different from full on relationships and - in my experience - physical attraction can extend over quite wide age groups but the no go land on RHP seems to be married men 30-55 who are all hot to trot for a foursome and then the wife is suddenly away or ill - happened too many times i agree - hate the 'sugar daddy' thing
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RHP User
11 years ago
meander, you said a very interesting thing 'when i grow up' perhaps the most intriguing people are those people of what ever age who say the same thing to themslevws!
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RHP User
11 years ago
how good sex can truly be when you just let yourself enjoy it without hangups or judgment. Not always, but many females hit 40ish and have a sexual awakening...not sure about the stats, just something I have noticed. My preference would be women over 35. I guess ahe is just a number, but the bigger it gets the more experience and understanding of self and others evolves. Just my thoughts - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
i have always believed in honesty
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RHP User
11 years ago
prowess is not a very good word - it reeks of testosterone - sexuality is more than this
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RHP User
11 years ago
You can't argue against free choice, if people don't rate you, they don't rate you, simple. Jumping up and down about it changes nothing, other than making you unhappy. As you get older you just have to accept, that most won't be interested in you, no matterhow good a game you talk.Let it go and move on. Cheers, N
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Tall_n_Hard' Or perhaps foolish ?Don't make mention of a man's age on here once you've passed, say, 45. You are eternally damned by the 'younger' women on this site - as in not being good enough for anything, least of all SEX. Age IS just a number for those of us who are actually wise enough to appreciate that, but not so much for those who wish to be blind about 'numbers'. Take (great) take, my friend. Tall Evil women..... don't want to play with Daddy.
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RHP User
11 years ago
That you are even interested in men on your profile OP,and yet you say that your partner is interested in much younger men.I think she will find that there are much younger men that are interested in having sex with much,much older women..there are a couple of recent threads about this.xxFreya
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RHP User
11 years ago
Why do you seek eighteen year olds,that is just creepy,and a bit hypocritical of you whinging about younger women not being interested in you.when your cut off age is 55.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I think age is just a number as people are just people. It all depends on ones experience in life and who we are. I do find it amusing though that in sexual terms that there is a distinct difference in males and females with this issue. There are far more younger men interested in older women than young women interested in older men.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Duuuuuude... (said like a 20yo).... to me, its sounds like you're having a bit of a rant because the "younger women" on this site, just don't want to buy what you're selling. And in the catalogue of goodies on show in here, why would an 18yo woman look at a 58yo man?!!!! But ..... its the hypocrisy of your comment, in light of your own preferences... that I find most intriguing. I don't see your own age preferences going out to include the 70's & 80's.....Nooooo.... you draw your upper age line 3 years younger than yourself. These just may be great women..... (paraphrase) who you have never met and certainly do not know THEIR personality, or about THEIR potential sexual prowess... ....older, significantly older than you. Age and preferences.... Funny how they work together.
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RHP User
11 years ago
"Don't make mention of a man's age on here once you've passed, say, 45. You are eternally damned by the 'younger' women on this site“ Do you still feel that being turned down was because of your age? I can't speak for anyone else, but I stand by the fact that any man who reminds me of my dad (overbearing, pushy and with his sense of humour) turn me off completely. That's personality, not a number, and just my personal taste. Btw did you get younger?
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RHP User
11 years ago
About the growing up comment, Since I've been here I've said I want to be Freya when I grow up vs Inthekiss when I don't grow up. :-p
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RHP User
11 years ago
i have little interest in much younger women at all
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RHP User
11 years ago
Seriously, I just don't think women are after sex the same way men are. You could not have paid me enough to sleep with someone over 50 when I was in my early 20's. I think young women are after the strongest and fittest... call it 'instinct' or whatever. In the back of our minds is marriage and families at some point when you are young, finding someone who will be a good father. Not someone old enough to be our father or grandfather.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I completely understand that aspect. Probably did not expect to see it so much on a site like this. And as a more of a gentleman I just find it a little strange. Always interesting to read your comments. Cheers
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AnnieWhichway
11 years ago
They say age is like a cheese, the older the better. Its true. But i dont like moldy cheese. And cheese can go moldy quite young. So you cant go on age number, its how it tastes and sometimes you just have to sample to find out. If you dont, you can miss out on some great vintages. I've had guys in their 60's that can out perform 30 year olds. There is no way to know until you go there. And women in the same 60's that can give the greatest night versus the best starfish of the 20 & 30 somethings. Try and then......next
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RHP User
11 years ago
why do so many posts on this topic assume i want younger women? my post was very much 'in praise of older women' please explain
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'TisonlyI' I completely understand that aspect. Probably did not expect to see it so much on a site like this. And as a more of a gentleman I just find it a little strange. Always interesting to read your comments. Cheers I think for young women it is there. They are looking at fit bodies and looks. I think it is more important to younger people, maybe a subconscious thing? And who can blame them? They are all young and gorgeous with that beautiful skin.... let them enjoy their looks and fuck each other senseless. To me, most men are here to get their end wet and their standards are very flexible whereas women, even if they are only looking for a sexual encounter, are still wanting to have that connection and to be with someone that impresses them in some way. I do know some women that are happy to meet random dudes in the park but I assume they are not the norm? As for older dudes complaining that younger women are not into them, I don't know. Sometimes it is more about the fact that some blokes punch way above their weight and then get the shits when it doesn't work for them. IT sucks, but on RHP women have the power here and can get blokes that they probably wouldn't be able to get in their normal day to day.
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AnnieWhichway
11 years ago
Quoting 'TisonlyI' I think age is just a number as people are just people. It all depends on ones experience in life and who we are. I do find it amusing though that in sexual terms that there is a distinct difference in males and females with this issue. There are far more younger men interested in older women than young women interested in older men. I agree with your post. At least to me.But why is it that women always have the view that their husbands will likely run off with a younger woman. And they are often right!Love to know the percentages.
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RHP User
11 years ago
i dont understand why the focus is on younger women when my initial post was very much 'in praise of older women'?
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RHP User
11 years ago
And i dont think that is all to do with sex
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RHP User
11 years ago
Not sure. Maybe young women are more superficial and are after the gorgeous young guys. Again I can't blame them for that. And it has to be said........ when a woman is looking for hot sex she is probably looking for different things and attributes than when she is looking for a parnter / BF / husband, etc. So you may fall for an older man who can look after you (ooh the women are going to cane me for that one) but she may not necessarily want an older man for hot senseless monkey slam me against the wall sex if she can get a hotter younger dude. Isn't that the same for men? I did read that women go for different types of men depending on their cycle. When they are ovulating they are after a more square jawed rugged man and other times they go for men with a kinder face that might be a better life partner.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I just think too many think with that 'wrong head'. I played sports for most of my life and you hear and see the ugliest of guys. Can't blame women for thinking the worst as sadly it happens so often. One of the funniest things I ever saw was a guy who was spouting typical chauvinistic crap about him and his wife and then became a little meek mouse when she turned up to pick him up. Love seeing that. Yeah power to you girls.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Mature man stamps his feet and pouts like a child denied a sweetie. Because (gasp, shock) women ( of all ages) have their own preferences.
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Seachange73
11 years ago
to you OP. wonderful thing to hear specially for her. to a certain degree, we are similar in the trajectory with your female partner in terms of sexual exploration and discovery. although i have not delve into areas she has, fisting, et al. however, all i can say is more power to you two. with regards to meeting younger men, i really did nbot come here to seek men within a specific age range but given I want a connection with a man to be enticed into his arms, I believe maturity and smarts comes into play. most of these via life experiences. I find that after chatting with a lot of men on here, I have more in common with men in 30+yo. hence my preferred age range. otherwise, there is a danger I could drown in my bowl of cereal on our first meet with men too young for me. with regards to older men, i have set it at 55 or even 56. My last longterm boyfriend before joining this site was 55. but he was fashionable, kind, elegant and fit like a man in his early 40s. great attitude in life. so I have no problem with seeing older men. however, i find that with older men they also has to be physically attractive to me just as any man has to be. i have met a couple of men over 50s for a coffee and i have to say that, in my experience, they were pushy and our sense of humour were not in line. one man commented that 'You're a good girl'. That gave me the creeps. however, I will keep my mind open to meeting nice, smart and funny sexy men of all ages. it is about finding that fun common ground for both parties. connection will occur more easily and the experiece more worthwhile. IMO.
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aussian43
11 years ago
The number of years someone has lived is a very imprecise method to judge them. Some people mature young, some never grow up. Some of the older ladies on this site have fantastic bodies (or are using 20 year old photos). I had an encounter with a lady 12 years my senior, the age difference did not make one bit of difference, we had a wonderful time together. I use age as a rough guide but don't let it limit me.
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RHP User
11 years ago
This is a very personal discussion - it is definitely an individual's choice what type of person they either fancy or is fancied by. Age is largely irrelevant. It is dating in a way as people have pre-defined perceptions of what a certain aged person is like. I've met many younger than me and older than me who are at the opposite ends of the spectrum from where they actually are. Its wonderful that people have the mindset of a much younger person - I'm one of those - and if they desire younger flesh then that's their call. It might be a little harder to achieve but good luck to them!! As we age we tend to start appreciating others for more than just softer skin and firmer tone...The personality, maturity, and experience isn't something that should be overlooked. Personally I enjoy the physicality of younger women, however I have been with some older than me who have completely blown me away! Little bit of advice for people....don't stare too long at the number beside the name.
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AnnieWhichway
11 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' I did read that women go for different types of men depending on their cycle. When they are ovulating they are after a more square jawed rugged man and other times they go for men with a kinder face that might be a better life partner. What part of the cycle do they go for an old tranny? (Listens with anticipation...........)
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RHP User
11 years ago
It was Helen Fisher who said that women looking for casual sex go for the rugged face but when looking for a life partner a more rounded kinder looking face,as to age I don't know that she mentions that...my old mum used to say..."better an old man's darling,than a young man's slave "...didnt really work for her though 😣..xxFreya
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RHP User
11 years ago
Guys younger than me, or close to the same age. I like clean shaven, beards are a no no for me. I like broad shoulders, prefer muscle definition, but not essential. Guy has to be average looking or better and have all his own teeth. Showering at least once a day and before any meetings is essential. I don't like skinny guys. I don't like guys shorter than me. I don't like long hair on guys. I have a loooong list of preferences. It's just how I am programmed and what makes me go weak at the knees. It's not a dig at people that don't fit that criteria, it's my criteria and I'll make it to suit me and no one else. So in this case, yes age is just a number, but it will certainly define whether I take the time to meet up with a person or not, but then that's my right to decide that one. I think we just need to accept that we can't change our age or other people preferences and move on. Hence why I'm banging the hot young guys while I still can!! I can't see me pulling the 20 something's when I'm 80 with such ease, but then I accept that and will just deal with it when that time comes. Anywho, I'm going Back to trawling RHP for the young ones....any takers?
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RHP User
11 years ago
May not be considered old (not in this thread anyway), but I'm very happy to be in my forties. I'm neither a milf nor a cougar though. I don't have kids and choose not to sleep with guys if I'm old enough to be their mother. :-)
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highwaychile
11 years ago
And jail is just a room :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
And size seem to be never-ending topics of discussion and the questions as to why people think other people don't respond/reply/approach/find desirable/ behave in a given way. What do I think about the older woman you are with being horny and wanting to try younger men . . . . good for her . . . and its none of my business. As for myself, I have sons and the thought of having sex with someone younger than them is a bit challenging for me. I also don't entertain the idea of having sex with a much older man and that's because I was molested by an older man when I was 11. I get very annoyed by some older men and their sense of entitlement and their patronising language. Women are not property! That law was dropped years ago. Meanwhile, have fun, stay safe and remember safe, sane and consensual.
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RHP User
11 years ago
My preferred age range is probably between 40 and 50, but Ive met younger guys and we hit it off, so I just think as long as there is some sort of rapport and good conversation and company as well as sex, then yes, age is just a number.
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RHP User
11 years ago
All I can say is that I was feeling a little age concious when first joining, however I pushed myself to do so, I can tell you one thing is that it has been amazing. I've recently turned 50, and things at home have been putting it mildly, less than satisfying, but feeling and looking younger than ever, I decided to give it a go. I can certainly say if you look good, fit and healthy I don't think age is a barrier at all... However some men in my age bracket can be a little arrogant and self serving, hence my issues at home, some unenlightened men in this group think they are perfect, and we should be lucky to score them. So maybe if you blew away some cobwebs the young chickys would want you. If you don't look after yourself and present yourself well, why would anyone, let alone a cutie want to look after you If you don't look after yourself. I didn't hold out much hope for myself, however young and old I have been playing with everyone I felt a connection with. And I can tell you it has been fun with a capital F. I feel and look younger than I ever have, but not only younger but BETTER.. xxxxxx
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compressor
11 years ago
yes age is just a number and does not define you as a sex partner at all
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RHP User
11 years ago
I am probably going to get crucified for saying this however some women age like wine, are smooth, robust and absolutely delicious... whereas some women age like milk and just become lumpy and sour. I have been with women much younger than me and also much older than me. In my opinion a lot of it comes down to personality. Looks will reel a person in... personality keeps them around... Superficial maybe... realistic yes... Some women can be irritating and annoying and you just want them to leave immediately however I find that the women you can make a connection with and find intriguing and want to talk with much more appealing.
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Tall74nHard9
11 years ago
To see all the personal comments aimed in my direction, when all I did was answer the OP's question. Shows a lot of guilty consciences, perhaps ?? If you read the topic subject, Mr VEC makes quite clear his age, and it bought me back to a similar topic not too long ago brought forward by Mr Mooka, who was of a similar vintage to Mr VEC (and who has since sailed his ship away). If memory serves me well enough, the age of oldest 'acceptance' for a guy was indeed around the 45 mark, which I simply nominated in my piece. Mooka got plenty of sympathy by all concerned, but apparently nothing much else transpired afterwards. And it appears nothing has changed in the interim. All those questions from sooo many concerned - simply overwhelming !! I'll try and address them for you all. Why am I 'interested' in younger girls / 18 yr olds etc. All of us have our desires as to what we may wish for in any partnership, whether it be by body shape, height, age ( as most have in their profiles), intellect, or whatever else may take our fancy. I have in the past, both here (mainly in chatrooms) and on other sites, had very good relationships with younger females - if you check out my profile 'friends' you will see a few of them. Not all nationalities are so age obsessed either. For example, in nearly all of the former CIS block countries, girls from 18 - their mid 20's actively seek out men from around the 50 mark up to and including 65 -70. So I am merely leaving the door open to anyone of that age range that might be interested in contact - pure and simple. And just for the record, before I got married, all of my girlfriends were actually older than myself - the largest gap being 15 years. Even my former wife was/is older, but only by a matter of months, not years. Why is my own profile stated up to 55 ? That is just an easy round number for the ladies to consider. Just like us men, some of the older ladies ( as in older than myself) are quite willing to contact men in my age group, and I am quite willing to consider them should they happen to be interested. Having checked through the search listings, though, there aren't really many ladies that happen to be older than the 55yr mark in the Sydney area - so it is just a convenient number to use. Yes, it is indeed funny how age and preference do work together ML. It's a shame , though, that so many people here who consider themselves intelligent, have such narrow areas of focus, and don't often enough put their brains into gear before trying to delve into others personalities and the broader perspective. It is obvious a few of you like to try and 'push my buttons' - but all it does is really reflect on yourselves. Meander, I'm not quite sure of what you mean by your last comment of "Btw did you get younger" as it does not seem to integrate with any of your other comments. But I did get a younger lady who I am currently in the process of getting to know. She is currently 45, and has no issues at all regarding the difference, and we are quite good company for one another. Any other personal attacks you wish to try out ??? Tall
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RHP User
11 years ago
As I predicted, I certainly don't get as many messages these days now I've slipped into the 'Over 45' age bracket! Funny that. On the inside I don't feel any older than 20, aside from the fact that my experiences on RHP have left me with enough cynicism to pack into two lifetimes!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Supply and Demand works here as in other areas of our lives. RHP and other sex dating sites have huge male memberships while the female membership is comparatively thin on the ground. The income generated by the site relies on this. To have any success on these sites a male must either stand out as something special or have youth on his side. For those women looking this site and others offers the chance to punch above their weight like no other time in history and to dip into the insatiable pool of younger men while for many of them their partners tag along to watch. The idea that men have always succeeded in wooing much younger women is a myth that is proven by the very few men of celebrity status or of great personal power. Like a bees nest, the reality is that a majority of men are simply drones and worker bees and this is becoming more obvious through the opening up of our lives via social media. Many of the older men paying for a subscription here would be better off going to a brothel or playing the numbers of traditional dating. Women are realising quickly that they have all the cards in modern communication. As for age, those who quote that 50 is the new 40 or some other cliché - it's usually the older person making the claim or someone who has something to gain by flattery or hope!! Of course time is an illusion as everything happens right now and only now but we have all been indoctrinated through belief and that's the way it is until it's not.
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RHP User
11 years ago
When the magazine 'new woman' was launched back in the 1990s its slogan ' it not an age its an attitude' and the tv ad had rousuing sensual music from the gypsy kings many of these posts above raise this issue some 30 or 40 yrs olds seem older than me whereas some 50 and 60 yr olds are like a breath of fresh air someone mentioned 'good company' as being key to good sex and that can span quite wide age groups so,perahps, ' its not an age its an attitude' is spot on in this forum
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Seachange73
11 years ago
Quoting '40DeeD' As I predicted, I certainly don't get as many messages these days now I've slipped into the 'Over 45' age bracket! Funny that. On the inside I don't feel any older than 20, aside from the fact that my experiences on RHP have left me with enough cynicism to pack into two lifetimes! Interesting. Not good at all. I am a few years shy of 45. so my time is numbered? but like I have seen in some profiles of some men and women in RHP, they seem to be 'buttoning' (borrowed from Freya), i,e. getting younger. Or they close their current profile and open a new one with a couple years younger. I know of a regular poster whose age will swing 2-4 years between her multiple profiles. But hey, if it works for her, and even for you, go for it. At the end of the day, if you are ok with that and nobody gets hurt and both you and your partner/s get the fun experience you are after, the means justify the end. Be well.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Personally as a 25 year old. I find every woman of every age interesting because we compare if they look younger than they really are. And its a mental game for myself to adore and explore every inch of them so i can see every bump knook and cranny so to speak. For women age plays a big part in deciding yes or no as to whether its sex or none. Simpky because each woman knows roughly what age they have had the best sexual partner at but for males it varies generally 3 to 4 sets(4 years) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I'm very lucky in that I still look (and act) much younger than my age. However, it is the experience that has made me a better lover. One of my partners is in her 40s and just had a 23yo... who lasted 2 minutes. Great body but no idea how to use it or how to please his woman. On the other hand, I have been very pleased to enjoy several 20+ girls who told me they had never experienced such intense orgasms before. When it comes to sex... don't base it n the numbers...
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RHP User
11 years ago
i do not think that anyone is attacking you
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RHP User
11 years ago
your comments are articulate but also offensive - go to a brothel! do you? sex is not just about sex
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RHP User
11 years ago
I don't think anybody has had a go at you personally. Just pointed out that your original post had a slight hypocrisy to it with your age preference. As for CIS block countries many women there find it hard to find a decent husband or lover that treats them well as I have spoken to many while spending a couple of months in Russia and speaking with many from different countries before embarking on my trip. I was propositioned by a 21 year old Ukranian in St petersburg and became her friend helping her in any way I could, I was forty at the time. Sadly she had a very sad life and wanted to escape that as many do. And actually those in the age bracket you speak of generally are not after someone more than twenty years older. I found that statement quite strange as those I have spoken to that live here do not seem to feel the same way and have had some crap experiences with the men that brought them here. Perhaps you need to try some of the sites that are designed to meet those women. Just my thoughts and not having a go at you in any way. Cheers
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RHP User
11 years ago
Well, my lover, girlfriend, partner whatever is 15 years younger, no one gives a shit, least of all us. Some of you people are your own worst enemy.
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RHP User
11 years ago
What I meant was that from memory you were older before. I thought you'd made yourself younger, but I could be wrong of course. If that's a personal attack to you, then I think you're a bit over-sensitive.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I have a preference to age....it's stated on my profile. Is it flexible?? Not really. Yep I'd be a bit insecure about dating someone old enough to be my grandmother....social programming ?? Possibly; but it is what it is. My choice..... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
It's refreshing to see a cpl like yourselves, I viewed your friends, it appears you have ppl of all ages and sizes. Yes it's definately about "attitude". Enjoy. Cheers P.L.
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Tall74nHard9
11 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' What I meant was that from memory you were older before. I thought you'd made yourself younger, but I could be wrong of course. If that's a personal attack to you, then I think you're a bit over-sensitive. I have never varied my birthdate on this site, nor any other. I have indeed just turned 58 a few weeks ago, and it has been the natural progression of my ages before such. You must be getting older yourself, as your memory seems to be failing you a little - I'm not 'over-sensitive' to that comment, but it is well known that you don't mind having a dig at my expense whenever the opportunity arises. Just sayin'... Tall
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Tall74nHard9
11 years ago
Quoting 'TisonlyI' I don't think anybody has had a go at you personally. Just pointed out that your original post had a slight hypocrisy to it with your age preference. As for CIS block countries many women there find it hard to find a decent husband or lover that treats them well as I have spoken to many while spending a couple of months in Russia and speaking with many from different countries before embarking on my trip. I was propositioned by a 21 year old Ukranian in St petersburg and became her friend helping her in any way I could, I was forty at the time. Sadly she had a very sad life and wanted to escape that as many do. And actually those in the age bracket you speak of generally are not after someone more than twenty years older. I found that statement quite strange as those I have spoken to that live here do not seem to feel the same way and have had some crap experiences with the men that brought them here. Perhaps you need to try some of the sites that are designed to meet those women. Just my thoughts and not having a go at you in any way. Cheers Mate, been there also, and know the general circumstances quite well. Appreciate your thoughts. Tall
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RHP User
11 years ago
Age is not a number at all... it's just a 3 letter word... 😂 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
😝 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
not true
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RHP User
11 years ago
honestly do not understand what this comment of yrs means I have never varied my birthdate on this site, nor any other. I have indeed just turned 58 a few weeks ago, and it has been the natural progression of my ages before such. but, as someone pointed out earlier, men in their 50s can get somewhat arrogant and self obsessed it happens to some of us and i can tell you its a real turn off for everyone so apart from saying that 'men always went younger women' whats your point? older, younger, who cares its the connection that counts as i said, its an age not an attitude so i guess that explains it
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RHP User
11 years ago
above post refers to tall's previous comment
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RHP User
11 years ago
I called a 58 year old woman on here last week who mentioned dating 22 and 23 year old boys a dirty old woman. She didn't like it either. To me it's a bit pervy, a bit dirty that someone who is so in their "prime" would not just sleep with someone so young but they would actually view some of that age as an adult. To me most of the time I just see kids. So to me its pretty gross really. Just my opinion.
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RHP User
11 years ago
But it is attitude ..I have friends in all age groups,I am curious about many things and because I work in classrooms in a high school I am learning fascinating things every day..Although I have a preference for men over fifty I am rarely contacted by them,and if I am they are usually married or attached.I have had a few much younger lovers mainly because they contact me ...One gorgeous man has been in my life for nearly two years ..xxFreya
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting '40DeeD' As I predicted, I certainly don't get as many messages these days now I've slipped into the 'Over 45' age bracket! Funny that. On the inside I don't feel any older than 20, aside from the fact that my experiences on RHP have left me with enough cynicism to pack into two lifetimes! Yeah. I am pretty sure that when people hit 50 the messages reduce even further. I have noticed it a lot. Profiles that have clicked over to 50.... don't say 50 for long, they usually turn back the clock to 47 - 48.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I love being a grown up ! I've had by far the best and most prolific sex post 50. I have no desire whatsoever to be 20, 30, or 40, the mere thought makes me cringe ! Younger lovers, sure if it works, but it's not how I measure myself. Your life is your life get into it.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Surprise, surprise, Im getting more messages now than I was last year. Thank, you lovely guys,,,,, And name calling ( especially about the same person) is not attractive at any age.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Koko. I don't even remember who the person was it is pretty irrelevant to how I feel about it.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Its only a number when you think of it As today through business meeting with a couple from South African , ever well spoken at a guess I would say the lady (wife) was about early to mid fifties , it was the nice summer dress she wore with mactching shoes mimamal make up ,sporting a great set of legs beautiful blue eye like the ocean a sweet and cheeky smile and after the meetings ending , she had me thinking if only she was single so no age is only a number if someone does it for you they do it for you
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precious142
11 years ago
Here she is........and because she has a very low tolerance to the stupidity that seems to flow freely in these chat rooms, all she will say to Meeka darling and the others that have such a crap outlook on their own and seemingly other peoples lives....... Live, love and laugh!!!!!!! PS Meeka darling - lets you and I meet up when you are 58.......love to compare notes with you!!!!!!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Yes it is - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Tall_n_Hard' I'm not 'over-sensitive' to that comment, but it is well known that you don't mind having a dig at my expense whenever the opportunity arises. Just sayin'... Given the full page reply to... everyone....... Im inclined to believe thats not.... quite... true. And you STILL have yet to acknowledge that your own preferences, are very clearly defined by age. Just sayin
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RHP User
11 years ago
Age is not just a number in my opinion. I feel comfortable with years younger/older. That's about my limit. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I think you're getting more msg's because of your "smokin" pic's. What do others think? Cheers P.L.
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Tall74nHard9
11 years ago
Quoting 'VeryEroticCouple' above post refers to tall's previous comment As you may have noted sometimes the commentary gets a little shuffled around - could you please enlighten as to what you were referring to ?? Tall
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Tall74nHard9
11 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' Quoting 'Tall_n_Hard' I'm not 'over-sensitive' to that comment, but it is well known that you don't mind having a dig at my expense whenever the opportunity arises. Just sayin'... Given the full page reply to... everyone....... Im inclined to believe thats not.... quite... true. And you STILL have yet to acknowledge that your own preferences, are very clearly defined by age. Just sayin Do I especially have to spell out everything for you in a way that a Kinder would understand - I believe that I have adequately and simply answered your query. If you do have trouble understanding, then perhaps you should refrain from commenting. No doubt another smart -arse reply will be on the way from you... can't help yourself again ??Tall
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Tall74nHard9
11 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' I called a 58 year old woman on here last week who mentioned dating 22 and 23 year old boys a dirty old woman. She didn't like it either. To me it's a bit pervy, a bit dirty that someone who is so in their "prime" would not just sleep with someone so young but they would actually view some of that age as an adult. To me most of the time I just see kids. So to me its pretty gross really. Just my opinion. All I can say is "different strokes for different folks". As you would well have seen over time is that we all have differing viewpoints/ opinions on aspects of life - what works for some won't work for others - just the way we are. Quite respect your viewpoint though. Tall
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RHP User
11 years ago
it is just a number but also "area" code Some will never leave there postcode Others are well travelled "Very erotic couple" No offence but sounds like u never leave Your suburb but always look for new rentals
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Seachange73
11 years ago
Quoting 'Kokoflamingo' Surprise, surprise, Im getting more messages now than I was last year. Thank, you lovely guys,,,,, And name calling ( especially about the same person) is not attractive at any age. is it such a surprise? you look after yourself very well, physically fit, sexy and well presented. and you have smoking hot pics. now i could learn a thing or two from you in the selfie stakes. and you are very friendly, kind, accepting and funny. what a great combo. no wonder men on both sides of the continent hit on you... well done chicka.
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RHP User
11 years ago
'Sexy is a state of mind' it says on yr profile. That just about sums it up in a mere six words!
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abcplus1
11 years ago
We have a preference, why would we not expect others too? And while we probably notice somewhat less interest in our profile now that we are over the 45 mark, that's life. If / when we find that next special person to be with, she will be in our age preference and we will no doubt be in hers. It is always funny to see someone (in our case females) who are our age or similar with profiles that have an age cut off way below us, but again, if that's what they want just accept it and move on.
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RHP User
11 years ago
... on more than years lived. Or, are we really talking about the difference between being older or old? Being older IS a number and, despite all that temporal physics has achieved thus far, cannot be altered. I'm 55, that's simply a fact. (50 on my profile opens the 'search range'). If that limits others on RHP, so be it. Life's too short and exists in the real world as well this one. Being (or getting) old is more of an attitude, in my opinion. A week ago I met 98 year old childhood friend of my 83 year old Dad who literally blew my mind. Engaging, well dressed, whip smart, still driving (fast I'm told) and full of life, she could have been any 30 something but for her years. Older, for sure, but not old.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Im an old bird....but thank you so much lovely Lily.....hope you can make it over to the Perth meet and greet in October. xxx (Im sure we can squeeze in a cocktail at Andaluz)
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Seachange73
11 years ago
Quoting 'Kokoflamingo' Im an old bird....but thank you so much lovely Lily.....hope you can make it over to the Perth meet and greet in October. xxx (Im sure we can squeeze in a cocktail at Andaluz) just tell me when and if I am available i will make it there. cocktail or no cocktail in Andaluz (Bubbles maybe? staying away form boats to spare you from losing your mobile or yourself overboard. i can only dogpaddle) to meet all the rocking Perth crowd. Seems like a lovely crazy bunch.... I should be there indeed. any spare beds?.
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AnnieWhichway
11 years ago
Quoting 'VeryEroticCouple' 'Sexy is a state of mind' it says on yr profile. That just about sums it up in a mere six words! not to be on Lily's blocked list...................
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RHP User
11 years ago
Yes, spare room here.......No boats..... and its an ageist free party! xxxxxxxx
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RHP User
11 years ago
The next 20 something to turn her nose up at you.... will not be her last. Just as you turn your nose up at women 55 and up. There really is no mystery there. Your preferencesVersusYou being outside of the preferences of the person you want to get inside of. The "just give me a chance, you might learn something" is irrelevant if they.... just... dont... want to. Thats all there is to it.
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Seachange73
11 years ago
Quoting 'Any_Whichway' Quoting 'VeryEroticCouple' 'Sexy is a state of mind' it says on yr profile. That just about sums it up in a mere six words! not to be on Lily's blocked list................... you are not in my block list. reviewed half of it this morn and took you off. so you can abuse me now babe. hahaha
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Seachange73
11 years ago
Quoting 'Kokoflamingo' Yes, spare room here.......No boats..... and its an ageist free party! xxxxxxxx must buy sexy heels for the party then.... something impractical yet sexy...
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RHP User
11 years ago
Age is a factor. Same as being fat is a factor. Same as being ugly is a factor. Good looking, physically fit, young people will naturally want to sleep with good looking, physically fit, young people. RHP is just like the real world, why people expect anything different here is beyond me. Good looking girls will naturally have the pick of the bunch, much as they do in everyday situations. Good looking men will attract the good looking girls. Most young women I know like to go out to nightclubs, party with their friends and the like. Why would they want to take a 50 year old man along with them? I find its mostly the people with any of the above charateristics mentioned is always the person fishing for some sort of validation. It's your lot in life, deal with it or you're gonna be miserable. I've learnt to just make do with what I have. RHP isn't some sort of magical place where the laws of attraction are somehow suspended. Anyway, I'm back off to work on my beergut. Later folks
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RHP User
11 years ago
and forget your age
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RHP User
11 years ago
I appreciate that. I think my concerns are absolutely valid and that is it a bit pervy really. I wouldn't date a 22 year old now so I certainly won't be dating one when I am 58 Precious.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Having passed around the sun two score and a bit times I think I've learned a little about what I like. We have witnessed an information revolution over the last 20yrs, with mainstream availability to the internet around 10-15yrs old now. It has seen massive changes in access to information, including music and pop culture, art, social and political ideas, and of course communication tools like this one. There are many my age, including quite a few long term friends, who have simply let it pass them by. There's only a little over half a decade between me and the 50yr olds, but that may as well be a millennium. They were well into their 30's when the internet became mainstream, and it was too late for most. A renewed focus on exercise and health is also lost on many, creating a huge variance in body types an other personal upkeep. The result is a generation gap like nothing seen before. In general, I know I have significantly more in common with 30yr olds than with 50yr olds despite double the age gap, and little if anything in common with 60yr olds. My own age group is hit and miss, with the majority probably closer to 50 than 30 in their attitudes. There are obviously exceptions, including an interesting bunch here. Bodies and looks are also an issue. Each to their own of course, but my preference is reasonably clear. Younger than 25yrs just seem too young looking to me now. Most women older than about 45 tend to have a look I'm not into - I think of it as "suburban housewife". "Stylish business woman" does it for me, but tattooed and creative definitely works too :-P Again, there are many exceptions here. I'm also into a fitter body type (with a preference for "not quite committed" over marathon runner or body-builder). In general that's also going to limit the age range, because as I'm certainly aware, it gets harder to maintain with each of those revolutions around the sun. For me then the sweet spot tends to be between 30 and 45, but it really does depend on attitude more than anything. No rules, but age does provide some useful guidelines.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Oh dear. Suburban house wife in a housecoat hey.
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precious142
11 years ago
Just so you know.........I am NOT dating anyone , let alone a 22yo.The 23 and 24 year olds were a one off play, which was enjoyed both ways.....and I am so glad I had the chance to experience them.Maybe over east every guy under 30 is a fuck - knuckle but trust me.........the ones I have met here have indeed had a mature connection....may be a hard concept for you to grasp but according to many other "dirty old women" it is indeed true.And - it was a fantastic experience...........and one I am not going to overthink - just enjoy!! Like a DOW said - we will die happy DOW's with a smile on our faces........
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