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It takes Two!
March 08 2013
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hope you don't mind if i do it in a nice way rather than kick your ass to the curb?? Quoting 'andreweagle' ladies please if I am a bad lover and dont hit the right button or tick the right ummm Box PLEASE tell me ,,,,,,,, and for the same equality IF I ever mention you are requiring a skill update then dont take offence its just how we learn most blokes ate usually the same just let us know and work out how to change or achieve mutual desire AE ,,, or have I missed the point here ???
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'inspirit'It is my opinion on how I read the post. If I can not express how I feel about something then seriously I am clearly wasting my time here!! I rarely have a problem with passionate opinions, just with the way they are expressed sometimes. If I sounded condescending, I apologise.
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Playful2looking
13 years ago
The day I stop learning about sex is the day i can hear the dirt landing on the lid of my coffin. I need to connect with the person in some way to enjoy the sex; i have to get to know them even if it is only briefly. for eample i need to know if they like their earlobes played with or whether they like their nipples pulled hard or soft. It all takes time Sex is an encounter not just a blow and go. The best sex we have with people is usually the second or third time we do it as we have learnt something about the other persons. Its hard to put a hot lap in without warming up first. there is always first date anxities on both sides
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'zu7bcv'I posted this on another forum post but I think this is better discussed here. Ok, I was with a girl who would have multiple orgasms and be done within 5 minutes. She did not want to get rid of me as she would come back for more at other times. Again, always done in 5 minutes. So, I know this must be a trade secret or something, but how can a guy know if it is a (multiple?) fake orgasms. Can women have multiple orgasms in 5 minutes?Yes they can! I have had multiples in 5 minutes but that dosen't happen always.
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RHP User
13 years ago
As always, showing your class and general all rounded awesomeness :)I you :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
....not sure how i earnt that....but awwwww that's sweet. Thankyou! Quoting '2GuysWithRespect' As always, showing your class and general all rounded awesomeness :)I you :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
I would & on one or two occasions been endullging in what adore most when it comes to the number 1 fave of faves. Problem I found was a woman seems to have trouble with orgasms becoming uncomfortable, even painful 8 a constant aching takes over. I thought that it would possibly be a type of muscle cramping, considering it was from memory orgasm number 16 within about 40 minutes. You wanna prevent cramping of your tongue? Just slow it down. Something every bloke should try doin, especially while giving his partner oral. I love the act of giving oral sex to my partner & I'm bloody good at it. We all seem to excel at the things we love to do.
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RHP User
13 years ago
This really is a difficult topic, at my age I would like to think that I have enough experience to make the night great for both. I mean it doesn't seem that difficult, one be attentive, two show respect, three listen, four find the areas that give the greatest response work them, if that doesn't seem to be generating sharp inatke of breath obligatry moans, and gentle sighs or the banshee screaming...then FFS ask. But having said that and my experience in this area is quite limited, to have mind blowing or even good sex on the first try can be, I feel, more good luck or timing than good management. Correct me if I'm wrong ladies but not every first encounter if any at all are mind blowingly awesome. But if the guy has his shit together it can be good enough for another go which can prove to be what we are looking for once the "first date" jitters are out of the way. Or am I just way off base here?
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RHP User
13 years ago
Disn't see your comment when I started my novel nailed it in one I feel.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'inspirit'maybe a to strong a word even so the disappointment I would see in their face and body language would make me feel like a cold hearted bitch. Sometimes you just can't. Men are very sensitive......more so than they lead us to believe. If you are going to keep seeing that person it can come up in the next encounter as you develop an understanding of how they perceive things and word your concerns accordingly. This would be how I approach it. Meeka... there are men out their that are selfish lovers..... you should here the conversations I've heard amongst blokes. They seriously don't give a fuck except to sew the oats. mind you it is always the under 30's. Clearly they have not reached sexual maturity. Freya "Why do we think that because someone is a crap lover with us,they are a crap lover with everyone.?" I don't think this at all...... My girlfriend had a fb and ditched him as she thought he was a crap lover. He turned out to be one of best I had ever had. I told him what I liked and he was keen to learn. NOPE... Tuscan I am not handing out his name :P hand it over sweet cheeks
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RHP User
13 years ago
I would have to agree, i've only every had one lover who was mindblowing from the first time, and the sex just got better and better. This is definitely NOT the normal, we were just a great match in every way. I't's the communication and learning that make 2nd and subsequent times better. Quoting 'Willedoo' This really is a difficult topic, at my age I would like to think that I have enough experience to make the night great for both. I mean it doesn't seem that difficult, one be attentive, two show respect, three listen, four find the areas that give the greatest response work them, if that doesn't seem to be generating sharp inatke of breath obligatry moans, and gentle sighs or the banshee screaming...then FFS ask. But having said that and my experience in this area is quite limited, to have mind blowing or even good sex on the first try can be, I feel, more good luck or timing than good management. Correct me if I'm wrong ladies but not every first encounter if any at all are mind blowingly awesome. But if the guy has his shit together it can be good enough for another go which can prove to be what we are looking for once the "first date" jitters are out of the way. Or am I just way off base here?
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RHP User
13 years ago
Norm and I had no problems telling each other what to do.We were both monarchists so lying there and thinking of England was just a doddle for me.Norm was just happy to find a hole to poke his pleasure rod in .I always orgasamed when he shouted,''God save the Queen''...just his little fantasy bless him...and I always loved to imagine that Norm was that good looking Greek chap. Thats why dear,it's best to turn off the lights.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hi! Karyn B Thanks for the Topic.. I don't tend to bag Guys On the Forum I've shared Sexual Encounters with, because that's not my style. Also I make it quite clear well beforehand that I adore oral and lots of Foreplay and return in kind . If however he hasn't quite got the moves to excite me during sex. Then I will direct him in a fun. casual way, how he'll be most affective in making me Orgasm. I expect him to do the same if he needs too. So we can both reap the benefits of sharing Sexy Fun.. Enjoy Lu :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
I think we're all responsible for our own orgasm. Whether we decide to persist with the partner or wait til he goes home and do it ourselves is our own choice. Some people can't follow clear instructions whether verbal or drawn out on a chart with crayons, that doesn't make them a bad fuck tho, just a bad listener.
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RHP User
13 years ago
This is the type of post that confronts, both genders.... I agree, woman who label guys as dud roots and guys who label girls as starfish probably need to have a good hard look at themselves. I would suggest both held higher expectations of what they feel should have been delivered to meet their own satisfaction. It's much easier to dump on the other person rather than take responsibility for the real reason and that's to accept ' it just was'nt that good on the day.... Own up and except the whole affair just didn't produce what you thought it would instead of dumping on the other party... Except that on any given day, you or the other person just wasn't into it . That's life, and that's just the way it happens. Don't crush the other person just to make yourself feel good.. If it's not good for you,.... Except it , and move on.... Jay....
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RHP User
13 years ago
Had a few relaxing drinks in my hotel room in Phuket, so if I repeated some things , I apologise . Jay...
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RHP User
13 years ago
Right on the money enduran
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RHP User
13 years ago
Men tend to talk to their mates about it, mainly to vent, but I agree totally in the idea that if you both aren't willing to discuss the situation then you both need to expect disappointing moments in the bedroom. There has to be a happy medium.We need to respect each other and consider each other, sit down and talk about what we like and what the other person likes, and not get stuck in bad habbits. The best sex you can have is when there is mutual consideration and appreciation. Directing your lover is a double edged sword whilst in the act, too much and you ruin the moment and subtly give off the idea that your partner is useless, do it too little and you are left unsatisfied. An experience I once had I ended up leaving after 5 mins because I was being instructed like I was in some bloody aerobics class "Up, Down, Left, Right, Hard , Soft, Touch me Here, now do this", and never went back despite the many messages that followed in the later weeks. I think if you are going to direct your partner, do it physically with little to no word prompting, but it will be interesting to see the others views on this.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I really like the OP, I think it highlights the need for greater communication and participation during the sex act for some people. I think one of the basic needs is to form a familiararity or comfort level with each other to feel that you can express enjoyment or dissatisfaction with something even in the most subtle way. A gentle thrust of the hips or a moan should get the message across that you are enjoying something and the other person should be tuned in in a perfect world but unfortunately it's not always a perfect world with perfect lovers and that's where a less subtle message needs to be sent. Body language is an intricate thing, not all men will get it when going down and a woman pulls away suddenly and gently moves her hips back to meaning "easy does it tiger not so hard/fast/long etc" and vice versa when a woman is peforming head on a guy. There's nothing wrong with telling someone you prefer faster or slower or making them aware you get over sensitive in a spot. Don't feel quirky we all have something we prefer or prefer not.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Why do u find out when it's too late! Why do people lie or exagerrate on profiles? Who hasn't done the same on thier resumes or when they are at a gathering meeting. NEw people! People have been doin it for 10000 of years! I would love to see a profile of someone who said I'm goin to be a rude selfish lover and leave ya wishing you'd not answered my advances! Everyone is a salesman at some point in there life!!!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hi u wanna play - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
Im feeling you there, must be a mutual hunger and effort... The best sex I've experienced is when both people are comfortable, turned on and eager but patient to please and know how to enjoy each other.. Ive slept with a few chicks that think a dick is like a dildo.... and have no idea how to make a cock grow to its full size, then complain... Or literally bounce up and down on it like their on a trampoline, And they ask why its gone soft. Makes me laugh...
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