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PROFESSIONALS
October 22 2009
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RHP User
16 years ago
Actually I'm pretty certain abc's post was not directed at desserts..... ahem. And at least I thought it was whitty even if it was a tad acidic. vilified? Gaz
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Ringleader
16 years ago
I go to great lengths to seperate my social life, and my career. As a professional human cannonball, it comes with the territory. Under no circumstances will there be conjical visits in my muzzle! No. I won't bring my cannon over to your place. Don't even think about lighting my wick! I will let you join me in my safety net. And I will leave my crash helmet on if you desire it.
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RHP User
16 years ago
My mind kept thinking working girls... Also mulling over Dominant Professionals as compared to submissive professionals. After all there are professional subs and Dommes too. You don't just want anybody nailing your ball sack to the floorboards...
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RHP User
16 years ago
So do some of the comments made, also relate to ppl who state they do not show pics for professional reasons? I do not take offence from people that state "Professional", well yup unless the rest of the profile is pompous. I actually do not think it is so much the person on here, more of the circles that they move in, and how they interpret a sex site. Sort of more ethical behaviour and discretion, then brains. Yanno no matter what the occupation, the person act in a professional manner, not text every 5 mins while they are in meetings, then turning up at your place of work screaming at the person 3 hours later when they get out for not returning the text/call, or spy you walking through town with an important client, or the local ladies from the church choir for that matter, and come running over and say how did that foursome go last weekend, I hear the Missus has great tits. Just another slant on the interpretation and use of the term Professional. Just me couple cents in the pot. xx Miss Honey xx <<< had to come in here and find out what all the excitement was about hehe.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I don’t recall anywhere where I said I looked down on professionals. And as I have been a mum for 15 years and I haven’t just stayed home and cleaned the floors either, then there has been a few years between leaving school and having kids. I guess all the TAFE certificates don’t count for much. They systems analyst qualifications or what I have done with any of that. I never at any point said I didn’t have any qualifications. I just thought it was a bit stupid for the guy to imply that unless I was a professional then I couldn’t have an intelligent conversation. And I wonder what on earth the senior economics professor saw in me?? Or the doctor or the pilot?? It must have been very boring for them to hook up with me week in week out over the years!!!!!!!!!!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'Abcynthia' Lol, I love the quality of people on this site.Personally, I think if you've spent 13 years or so studying to become a 'professional' you're really not going to have much in topic with say a house wife (desserts?). There really isn't medium of conversation topics there....Yes, this is a sex site, but I think most people have a little class to actually have a chat with someone rather than jump straight into bed. I just find it rather annoying when people look down on 'professionals' as you say because they seem snobish and rude. It's also very hypocritical, you can't tell me there's no one you look down on desserts. Like attracts like :)P.s.... high school maths.... enough said. wow, a feisty one, "lol i love the quality of the people on this site"...hmmm.......U do?...woohoo, cos i do as well..."a medium of conversation topics"...ya mean can i bore the piss out of ya before havin a root?...or the trigonometrical radius of a pie shaped thimble when balanced between a monkey's ears?...Seeme ta me a bit of da old pot calling da kettle black in this post...ah find your post a trifle ho-hum...professionally speaking!,?";:"" in an unprofessional way...and ah just frew in sum punktuation marks so that ya know i can do dem...hehecheers and looking forward ta more of ya around here...jose...
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RHP User
16 years ago
I think it is a bit silly to go off topic and criticise someone you don't know, when all I was trying to do was discuss something. I haven't criticised professionals nor anyone else for that matter. You may not like the quality of people on here, but that then leads me to ask why you are here, if the people here are that bad. You may not understand why i am here but i don't understand why you are, nor anyone else who is young and single, but I haven't criticised or judged anyone for it. Life is not always black and white and it rarely turns out the way anyone plans. My choice not to work now is simply that, my choice. It does not mean I am an idiot. I do not get supported by anyone, my choice, so therefore I must have some sort of income from somewhere. People do not always have to actually go out to a 9-5 job each day to get an income. Not that any of that should matter here either. And besides, I have yet to come across anyone in any walk of life who wants to constantly talk about their work. There are many many other things. Travel, hobbies, politics. For all you know I could be involved in some political party. You know nothing about me, and therefore can not judge.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I think like lovebitten said a fair while ago in this post...its a descriptive term, it can be used by wankers, but so can the term tradie, or business owner... Any just like puppy confirmed herself, what you do will tell part of your story...Her dad was a very intelligent man who worked as a bus driver...Theres a story there, and its an interesting story. So knowing that hes a bus driver tells part of his story. Me saying I'm a professional tells you part of my story...I went to uni and I work in an office job that requires technical skill and training. I don't think most people who use the term are being complete snobs. There are plenty of people who describe themselves as tradies but as pointed out, no one bags them. I grew up in a single parent family in a western suburb of sydney but I'm a professional. I went to public schools and our family lived on welfare when my parents split up. I'm friendly and don't judge anyone. So I feel I'm just a regular Joe, no better than anyone else and I would consider anyone with a brain and a good heart as a potential partner.But of all the girls I've dated, almost all where similarly professionals. Not because I think people who don't have degrees don't count, but because becoming a professional generally entails a certain path and to head down that certain path, generally requires a certain focus and attitude and gives you certain life experiences. And it just so happens that if you are both professionals, you are more likelly find a connection and common interests. It doesn't preclude you from being attracted to someone from a different background and only snobs would take that view. But it does make it more likely that you will find attraction in another professional. I think many people from non-professional backgrounds judge professionals and vice versa, that is life. But at the practical level, what you do, tells part of your story and if you are from a similar working background, odds are you will be more compatible. Feel free to shoot me down, but as a professional, I know I'm write and you peasants are misguided :)
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RHP User
16 years ago
You can be 'write' all you like, but I think I might be right in saying you are misguided... Cheers... Mrs P :-D
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RHP User
16 years ago
ummmm, I have been a soldier for ten years. during my time in the military, I have held three different specializations, and am now in the midst of completing an apprenticeship as a heavy desiel mechanic. based on previous salvos fired in this string, I am now a tradie. I must profess that I have for ten years considered soldiering to be my profession, and it has been my very great honour to strive to be professional at it. (lol, couldn't resist) my two cents is that everyone is different, and its a bloody good thing too, otherwise life would get very boring. how about embracing yoour differences, instead of using them as a method of proving to yourself that you're better than anyone else.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Im qualified in my profession (i dont state it on my profile, only what i do)..I enjoy conversing on any topic.and i have plenty of blonde moments....lol ...Who doesnt ! it doesnt define you has a person!! its the persons substance!!Thus i tend to think so what is stating that ones a professional got to with connecting with someone for just the sexual experience.?...therefore one can connect through any radom topic and/ interests.I want to connect mentaly with the person by being able to chat and because of who they and how the'yd treat me. are not what they do for a career.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Nice reply beetwo, damn you'll be damned for good for that typo, surely forgivable since you once were a westie ;)GPexpress, right on, embracing differences is the way to goJose, take that tool belt off and give that tight ass a good self-spanking would you! Oh and take pics of it and post please haha
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RHP User
16 years ago
*Pulls puppy's hair* Me want spankies first
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RHP User
16 years ago
Like so many others on here you have gone off topic. I am on this site to have adult fun only. That does not include, dinners, movies or anything else. All I will be doing is meeting someone on a semi-regular basis for a couple of hours. Probably for about a quarter of that time, i wont be able to say much anyway as i will probably have something in my mouth, and for about as much time I will just be lying back and enjoying myself!! That person, like myself is married, and as such jobs just don't come into it. I'm not trying to set up house with anyone. And had I been a "professional" person and I had still been asked by that man the question that he asked, I would still have been annoyed as it really is not relative and I would have thought that the average person in their 40's could have an intelligent conversation irrespective of their careers. I was never criticising professionals or anyone else for that matter.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Strangely enough people on this site don't seem to read the posts any more thoroughly than the profiles...lol
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RHP User
16 years ago
What does it matter it's not their business to know anyway. I think people ask for way too much out of a root!
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RHP User
16 years ago
I couldn't agree more. They should be happy i turn up to meet them!!!!!!!!!! Stuff the job.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Once apon a time I culdnt spell proffeshonul, now I are won.
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RHP User
16 years ago
If I ask someone what they do for a living, it's not because It's going to form a positive or negative about them, it's just to make conversation and see what stems from it. Some of the most interesing conversations can begin with talking about our jobs, and also, it could lead to opportunities for you. Whether it's an opportunity for a new job, or if you meet a builder and they can sort you out some cheap materials, or do the job for you saving you $$ because they're a friend.I met a butcher the other day who doesn't eat meat and he's allowed to take a certain amount of meat home a week as part of his pay. He doesn't eat meat, I go through it like mad, and now I'm going to pay him cash for food he gets for free at a discounted price. Win-win situation for us both, plus, I used to be a part-time butcher when I was studying at school to earn some money, so we had a conversation about that.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Abcynthia's comments disappeared. A but like the disappearing threads!!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Should have said "bit"
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RHP User
16 years ago
Desserts... Not sure what happened there but you can actually ask for a post you've made to be deleted. I did exactly that today... I posted a comment and being absent minded because I was on the phone at the time... I signed off with my full name.. hehe. I reported myself for abuse! Hugs Gazza
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RHP User
16 years ago
I confess that "What do you do?" is in my top ten questions whenever i speak to people i am interested in knowing. To some people it could be the wrong question to ask but in my case it has not really been received negatively. I guess it is in the manner of delivery and the timing as well. I used to go out with a bunch of architects in Sydney and gets invited to parties wherein 80% of the attendees are all architects and project managers (in both private and government projects). And when I get the same question reciprocated I always say that my work involves putting stickers on apples and oranges for one of those big supermarket chains. For myself, the question is an ice-breaker - a means to remove an invisible barrier pertaining to profession or social status. So what if they were better than me? In my experience most professionals would not care about the job that I say I have but rather would remember me as a guy who gets invited to parties because of my sense of humour. In saying this, not most uni educated people are judgemental as I have met a lot who are really down to earth people. What I am saying is that there are bad ones in both sides of the fence but it is the good ones that count. I have joined this adult social network to meet good people whom i can have a very good shag with and if it so happens that we get to shag a lot then I will make sure that I get to know the person as well... I would also be happy to tell you what I honestly do for a living if you'd ask.----anybody here knows anyone in scotland at the moment? I need someone to warm my bed with whilst on my holidays.
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RHP User
16 years ago
This question brought back some memories of responses I received after giving a simple answer to the question. I thought I'd share. The responses to my answer varied from "boring" to further questions. I like what I do, it keeps me interested most of the time, it pays the bills and allows me to do some of the things I want to do. My roles in the past have varied between labouring to solving some difficult/complex problems. No matter what I've done it has always become just a job and a means to an end. I've got more than one piece of paper from one of the group of 8 and am about to get another. It will enhance my employability, increase my options, should make life a little easier and allow me to do some more of the things I want to do. After all, isn't that what we like our jobs to do for us? As for the term "professional", with the advent of important sounding job titles no matter the role being performed, it is now misused by many and has just about lost the meaning (the one Gaz explained was what I understood it to be and why the term was coined) it had some 10 or 20 years ago. More to the point of the initial question, it really depends on the person. I have friends who would be classed as professional using the definition Gaz provided and other friends who wouldn't be. We're all people and we all talk to each other and have fun together. The person who asked if you were a professional probably needed to be asked what exactly they meant and what previous experiences they had to feel the need to ask the question since some things mean different things to different people. That may have given you some understanding of their point of view when using that term or may have confirmed that they are an "I'm better than you" type of person (they exist out there). That's my point of view on it.
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