M56
Unattached !!!
January 17 2017
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sweetgem
9 years ago
Dear 2017bringsmeback RHP is what you want to make of it, for you only! Not for everyone else! 🙃 It is a sex hook up site to you and that's how you see it, but not how everyone else sees it! 😊 May I ask, have you been to a brothel, or a swinger's club, or sex parties, before? I ask because I was told (many times) that even people at those places could refuse sex if they did not want to do it! So why should people on RHP be not having any conditions to their hook up? 😊 People in here are real people, we all have our own standards and likes. Just because some members want to meet other members who are unattached, does it mean that they are seeking a life partner? Who says so? 😜 going by your post/confusion, you obviously don't know what some women have encountered from hooking up with men who are attached! Even with those who claimed to be in an open relationship! RHP is full of varieties! There are plenty of people who don't care about one's relationship status. Search for those like minded people only and don't get confused by others who want unattached people! 😊 there's no need to be confused OP! Cyber world is really no difference to the real world! People have standards and want what's best for them! 😊 As for the "want NSA fun" part.....us women see that phrase regularly in many men's profiles. Perhaps those gentlemen can give you an insight of why they would say or want that? 😝 then you could get a rough idea for why some people would put that down in their profiles 😁 Good luck 2017bringsmeback, enjoy your journey on here and remember to search for those like minded people only, not those who aren't into attached men! 🙃 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
A lot of women don't want to be used as disposable sex objects. Surprisingly we like to form some sort of friendship, albeit casual, with guys we meet. Usually mpossible with attached guys whose partners dont know they are on here.You are just an encounter to them. And I actually met my current partner on line - not on RHP but not on a conventional dating site either. We have minds of our own as well as sexual urges, and choose who we want to meet.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Not ME....I mean.. I AM....BUT... I do NOT care who ELSE is..If I want to fck them.. and they want to fck me..Then it is "Game on"If the partner wants to get personal and hunt me down. all the better...As a Living organism on this planet, I have TWO Mandates!!1) Self survival (Fighting for that)2) Survival of my species (Fucking for that)I have always said.. "Fighting and fucking - Fucking and Fighting... I don't care WHAT order it comes in.. IF I get them BOTH one night.. THAT is a good night"Just sayin'.....
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RHP User
9 years ago
Looked at your profile...and blow me sideways you are attached! Everyone has such busy lives nowdays did you ever think that maybe some of us that are looking for unattached could be as we don't want to be stood up when wifey says you gotta stay home...not all people on here that are attached are in open relationships so why should us single gals waste our time working around the wife and kids???
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RHP User
9 years ago
Are you asking why some of us won't sleep with attached people? I'm one of the women on here who is single and only looking for unattached men. I do NOT want to be with a man who is cheating on his wife/girlfriend. I will not be that woman. That's not for me, because I think of how I would feel if I was the wife and my man was being a cheating fucker. So while I can't stop a guy cheating, I won't enable him to do it. I don't want any part of that. Its not nice, plain and simple. Plus, if he is so comfortable lying to his partner about his sexual activities, how do I know he's not lying to me about things? While I'm after NSA fun, I also expect to be treated respectfully and with honesty, no BS. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
And when a single guy has in his profile that he's attached, but under "Safe Sex"he has "If required", there's no way I'd be interested in any way. That tells me he's probably having unprotected sex with more than 2 people, and possibly one is his partner who doesn't even know. But I could be wrong...... doubt it though 😂 - Posted from rhpmobile
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AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
Well doesn't bother me if they are married so much. Their life and the reasons they do it are varied so l don't judge. But totally understand why it can be off limits to many. Many here have had life partners cheat on them and that hurts. And that bothers me because the damage can last the test of their life. It's not all about you OP. Respect those that want to play with you, respect those that don't. And strap in, there could be turbulence ahead on this flight........
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RHP User
9 years ago
The damage a cheating partner can do to his/her partner can be huge, and it can cause problems for the innocent party for years and years. Every future relationship, and beyond. Agree with the turbulence too, hahaha! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I simply will not be party to someone else getting hurt by a betrayal that included me. II have had an affair with a married man, I struggled with it because of this factor. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Lovinit28andKC72
9 years ago
Ok I'm going to be lazy and not even bother to read your profile, but I'm guessing you are married and you're not having a great deal of luck in here. The thing is, we as humans get to make our own choices, we get to decide who we actually want to fuck and some people don't like the drama/restrictions/bullshit that could come with fucking someone that is already attached. Oh and by the way just because we are on this site in particular certainly doesn't mean we are not looking for life partner. So, what would your suggestion be, to join RSVP, EHarmony and end up with someone that we're not sexually compatible with, live a lie and end up here looking for hook ups, then complain when it's not working for you. Hmmmmm, yeah ok, that makes sense....NOT 💋
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RHP User
9 years ago
agree with what sweetgem, kisskiss & annie have said. Everyone's reasons for whether they will or won't meet/play with attached people are their own. I have no judgement or opinion on anyone else's choices. Each to their own.But as someone who WAS cheated on in marriage, I won't be a party to doing that to another woman. It's a shit feeling when you find out.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Being married and looking does not automatically make you a cheat...I realise that some will never ever accept that.
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DynamicCouple36
9 years ago
Who goes to a swingers club, pays the entry fee, and then expects / demands to get sex? Who treats the women like sluts, just because they happen to be at the swingers club? And when they tell you, that they are not interested in having sex with you, your reply is that they should not be in the club in the first place and should rather be on eHarmony?? It's called feeling entitled!! There is no guarantee of anything on RHP. Not everyone is here to have sex with you. Not everyone wants to have sex with a married/attached person. Not everyone likes to cheat. Perhaps you would be better off going to a brothel and paying for a full service. At least that way you would get the sex that you feel you are entitled to ?? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Your profile: 1) Safe sex: If Required 2) Orientation: Experimental 3) Sexual Interests: Anal Sex (Giving & Receiving) I think the problem is, with those unhealthy variables, you've got less than 1% of members on here that would dare risk a date with you.
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RHP User
9 years ago
This is not just a hook up site from what I can tell. So no. You are not right in saying that. A lot of people are looking for ongoing fun which means meeting up sometimes for a drink or meal perhaps. That's a lot more problematic to achieve with someone who's attached. Also the assumption is that attached guys just want to fuck in a back alley somewhere and that's all. No niceties at all. You will have to really search for other people who are into that too. I personally don't know many women who would do that on a regular basis. Heaps of guys would tho. Are you into guys?
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RHP User
9 years ago
I'm ok with attached. I'm NOT ok with dishonest. I've met a number of people on here who are attached, and have enjoyed their company, but I draw the line at being someone's dirty little secret. So, if someone is attached but their partner isn't aware of their participation on here, or any potential meet ups we might have, whether that be just for dinner and drinks or something more, that's an immediate no from me. Just because I'm not looking for the future Mr Patchwork, doesn't mean I'm obliged to accept any offer for company that comes along without questioning whether that relationship is something I want to get involved with. My biggest beef is with attached people who get offended when I respectfully indicate I'm not interested in meeting up with them or getting involved in any way if their partner doesn't know. Whilst I've got all due respect for the many and varied reasons people find themselves here, and given my own history I'm not in a position to judge, I have no interest In getting in the middle of that kind of situation. And the whole "sex hookup" site thing is old. A quick search of the forums, and people's profiles, will reveal that for every person who is here for NSA sex with anyone who moves, there are many others who are here to meet people for non-traditional relationships, or to expand their horizons, or to find new friends, or to chat on the forums. If you have a fixed idea about what you're going to find on here, you will either be disappointed, or pleasantly surprised, when the reality doesn't match up.
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RHP User
9 years ago
*Doffs hate* Nicely done and thank you. 😙 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Have a gorgeous hubby and boyfriend .... lucky me :) I'm happy that my BF didn't mind playing with someone who was attached, but he openly knew that, transparency right from the start :) I'm hazarding a guess here but your version of NSA really means 'I'm only available to meet at really ridiculous hours (Mrs can't ever know), I can't really host coz I'll get caught, I'll use every other medium than my phone to communicate with you (can't get caught) and I'll even be as brazen and ask for a quick fuck anywhere I can, coz I'm really only trying to get my rocks off ... oh and bareback too because I can't keep my dick hard with a condom on because I haven't used one for years' ... There isn't a woman on here who hasn't experienced that guy ... they're a dime a dozen here. You see, there's always strings attached, we just fail to see them :) Your strings are an unknowing partner, otherwise as said above, the partner is included either in the play or the discussions prior to a play :) As for this being a sex site, I have met the most incredible people here. My BF is on this site, my best friend is on the site, I even met her at a party organised by someone on this site ... I suppose I'm about people, yes it meant fucking some delicious people and being fucked over by others ... I'm much better now and telling the difference between the two :) Mary xx
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RHP User
9 years ago
As everyone so far has mentioned on your topic it's about honesty and having morals, Yes this is a hook up site but that doesn't mean the people in it can't decide who they sleep with. I personally don't or never will be with someone who is attracted. (Unless there partner knows and joins in.) I have had ex wives/girlfriend's fuck behind my back, so I know the feeling of bertrayl. I've even noted that in my profile. Who is to say that you can't find true love here on rhp opposed to RSVP or any other dating site. I will say this I've personally met a beautiful couple who were single on this site prior to getting married so that comment doesn't wash well with me at all. I'd like to know your if your single or attached and if so does your partner know ? Please reply for all on this thread to confirm your status. - Posted from rhpmobile
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aussian43
9 years ago
Aside from the whole potentially cheating issue, other concerns I have seen include availability - may not be free for all the booty calls required due to other demands on time. Plus could be the need to be discreet, might not be able to do things as friends, happy to go into a motel, but not out to dinner. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Looking at your profile, I'm guessing that you are brand spanking new to the wonderful world of Pie. It can take a while to even start conversations on here, let alone actually meeting someone - patience grasshopper! I'm also going to suggest a few other reasons you may not be getting positive responses. 1. You don't have any photos in your public gallery, not even a body shot 2. You have put little to no effort into your profile 3. You smoke (cuts out a lot of the non smoking population) 4. Your byline is negative "It should be fun" indicates to me that it isn't fun... To answer your question, I am happy with attached, but, like many others, only if that person is playing with permission and there is transparency. I have enough to manage between my partner, kids friends (many of whom I met on here) and other ongoing lovers. The last thing I want or need is the added complication of an attached guy who has limited availability and I can't be seen in public with. The term NSA makes my vagina dry up instantly, just sayin! No judgement from me on being attached, we are all here for our own reasons. However, you're kinda being a dick in your post. You have made assumptions about this site, the people on it and then suggested that others should leave and look elsewhere. Here's a tip... that ^ isn't going to get your inbox flooded 🙄 May I suggest that you invest some time in reading past forum threads, any which may interest you, in order to gain better insight about RHP, and the many different ways it can be used by a huge variety of people? Open your mind and who knows what opportunities might come your way. Good luck with your adventures :)
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RHP User
9 years ago
I'm falling in love with you, post by post 😉 Sorry, off topic - as you were!
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RHP User
9 years ago
but sex means many different things to different people. It seems to me that one of the positives and strengths of rhp is that it acknowledges that sex (in its myriad of guises and forms) is a factor in relationships, friendships hook ups and even some marriages, long term or otherwise. There may be all sorts of people with all sorts of ethics and morals on here but the one thing all rhp users have in common is an interest in sex! But may be not with you.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Women are such bitches aren't they?? I mean all you're after is a bit of quick action that leaves you satisfied.... I have no idea what their issue is with attached people....bitches should be more grateful that they're getting attention eh?? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Everyone who takes the time to create a profile and join RHP has their reasons for doing so. There are no guarantees on here just as there are no guarantees in life. If a woman says she only wants someone unattached then that's what she wants and has every right to say that. It's all about respect and fun otherwise what's the point? xx P.S. Stirry......love your work!! lol
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RHP User
9 years ago
Stirry oh so mean but oh so true. of course it's all about me....😂😂😂 Op give you a little insight with NSA If a women states that in her profile it usually means there looking for fun not a relationship. If a guy says that women think your attached. Certainly take on board Betty's advice on your profile, No public pic's, smoker and a lack lusted profile won't get you far on the pie. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
lmao. Ok so your attached and also state your looking for NSA 😂😂😂 Does your partner know.? Not everyone in here are just looking for a booty call or want to get caught with a cheating partner 😉😂 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I wont meet attached guys because I know of the hurt it can do to a family. Yes I want nsa but i can get that from a single guy at anytime of the day or night and any day. But with attached guys it is so hard to contact them and never on a mobile just email please lol. No! why should I go on Eharmony to meet a guy, I want a great sexual connection and I doubt I will find that on there. I also want a fwb that I can meet regularly and have great sex with and also do things with nsa. I doubt very much I can have that with an attached guy. Not meaning attached guys who have permission 😊 - Posted from rhpmobile
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aussian43
9 years ago
It would be nice if the "looking for me" checkbox also looked at the attached/unattached criteria as well. It can be frustrating to see a lovely pair of boobs, but when opening the profile, seeing that unattached requirement. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I think is the caption on the front page of rhp when you log in. If you choose to read it as a "Sex Hook up site" thats up to you. Its be said many times in the past and I am sure it will be said many times in the future that rhp means something different to many people. Personally, I have zilch-zero-nada-no interest at all in attached or married guys . I am not here to fit into someones elses schedule of availabiltity according to their other half. I am not interested in you sneaking out at lunch time, having to cancel a catch up because the wife wants you to do something. I am not interested in eating at home allllll the time because you dont wont to be sprung out somewhere with someone who you are not meant to be with... Plus safe sex "If required"....pftt, to me, it reads that you are selfish, thinking of your own pleasure, not my sexual health or your partners. Why would I be interested in attached-married men and all the restrictions that may come with them over a single guy ? Hope that helps to clear up some of the confusion you are experiencing :)
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Sawadee
9 years ago
some women have too many bullet points , by the time you jump every hoop , you've lost interest. I believe chemistry is far more important and if that happens to be that of a married woman , who am I to judge why she's here ? Whatever her reason , she wants to scratch that itch just like everyone else. So the OP is right. This is a sex site where you're likely to meet likeminded people for whatever it is that brings you here. If something more developes , that's a bonus . But I don't see that as the reason RHP provides this site. Truth is , if I start reading a profile full of bullet points , that is not the type I want to be friends with. In my opinion and I could be wrong , she's that's way for a reason.. Baggage maybe .?
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RHP User
9 years ago
Again I'm another one that doesn't mind playing with another attached person as long as they are in an open relationship. Why? Hosting, communication, making arrangements and I like transparency. My life is complicated enough without adding in a potentially volatile situation. There are reasons people decide to explore without their better half knowing and that's their prerogative. Just as it's mine to choose what situations will work with my situation. And I'm another one who cringes at the NSA mention. Apart from that - you've offered nothing in your profile apart from where you can meet. You don't say anything about yourself or what you can offer anyone. Theres being mysterious and then there's a template profile that holds no interest.
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RHP User
9 years ago
I've done the whole attached thing but ONLY when the partner is aware and okay with it. Honestly , its a pain in the butt having to work around when wifey says he can come out to play - plans can be cancelled at the last minute because he is needed at home etc... so I only did it for ones that were worth it.
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RHP User
9 years ago
I don't knkw but seems to me lots of people are just copies what the others do thinking that may work for them too. Either way its a casual sex dating site. Get fun or a good time with others without any drama. I m very unlucky so far as since I joined i have no interests at all. - Posted from rhpmobile
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SassyRascal
9 years ago
Go to the bank Get the cash out Then go to a brothel Problem solved Just saying
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RHP User
9 years ago
Sex sites are the perfect place to be told to get fucked :p - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I shouldn't even entertain responses to basic or empty profiles.... but...... Mr 2017.... I have two options for you to consider. (a) you have your own preferences in who you like (tall, short, thin, large, older, younger etc) (b) you will hump anything with a heartbeat If your answer was (a)..... you're the same as all of the people who's preferences you didn't match up to. If you don't meet other peoples preferences, for whatever reason they have chosen them..... thats not their issue.Its just the way it goes. This isn't Fight (Fuck) Club just for your convenience.... and neither is the world beyond RHP... but perhaps that what you're expecting in here because the world out there isn't delivering for you 2c .
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RHP User
9 years ago
First I find it each to their own. If a women doesn't wanna meet a married guy. That's her choice What I don't get. When you message a women. You meet all her criteria, reading her profile. So ya think to yourself. Hey I might hear back from this lady. Yet they can't be fucked. Now in saying that. I also understand, their index must be full. With way to many messages, so many guys on the hunt. But ladies please. Just a simple. Sorry mate. I've found some hot dude with a six pack and muscles. Or my dream guy. Surely that's not hard. To the very very very few ladies who do reply. I can't speak for all guys. But it is appreciated. I find couples are best to at least reply GB
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RHP User
9 years ago
In your profile you state you prefer to play in Sydney. Could you please explain why ? Are you concerned of getting caught out? I'm certainly no detective but I smell something fishy going on here. If I was attached and in a open relationship why would I go interstate. ?? Answer. I wouldn't. Man the fuck up and be honest with your partner and us. If your worried she would leave you if your caught out then there is your answer. Most of the attached people within rhp & this forum will only play if there is openness and transparency. Tip of the day. Cheaper to go and have a toss then be a cheating wanker.
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AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
Quoting 'WittySex' Your profile: 1) Safe sex: If Required 2) Orientation: Experimental 3) Sexual Interests: Anal Sex (Giving & Receiving) I think the problem is, with those unhealthy variables, you've got less than 1% of members on here that would dare risk a date with you. Agree with item 1, but enlighten me in regard to what items 2&3 have got to do with unhealthy variables? Especially considering your profile has the anal items ticked and the Ms is bi curious?
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RHP User
9 years ago
Ulrich is standing in the queue at the cool lounge that just opened in Melbourne. It's $20 to get in, but he's brought no money. Ulrich wonders why he can't get in? Why can't he have fun? In past years as a single lad, I've had loads of luck on RHP in meeting cool people. But, you gotta pay up. Like... do a search on Melbourne women that suit your style - how many are paid up? 5? 6? Those are the only possibilities you have as a Guest member. Also, get some photos in your private collection... you have none but two that might be stolen / fake? They might not. Traditionally, men by the first drink for that lady at the bar... so, men should send the first email. You can only do that if you pay up. Go on then Mr. Kangaroo Arms... reach for that wallet. Good luck.
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RHP User
9 years ago
I am attached (married) but hubby is on here too and we are open. My preference, although I do make exceptions, is for unattached guys, or guys in open relationships as I don't want to be the hussy potentially causing a break up on relationship. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Annie... after watching a Chem Sex doco on Vice not too long ago and speaking to a Dr at St. Vincents about the goings on... if you're a man having hook up / unprotected anal sex in the gay scene these days, you're entering a whole different level of risk. His profile indicates he's open to just that. Just a thought. Did you watch that on Vice? Worth a look. Shocking / scary cultural phenomenon.
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Haleakala
9 years ago
It's a little ambiguous. This has come up before in the forums. It can be interpreted as safe sex if the partner requires it, or it can be interpreted as safe sex if the act requires it or it could mean unprotected with primary partner but always with other partners. Many who say safe sex always are happy not to use safe sex for oral, so not always. Always best to ask what people mean rather than assume, particularly if you're about to accuse someone of being risky. - Posted from rhpmobile
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EarthQueen
9 years ago
and apart from everything else that everyone has already covered, if you were messaging me and replied to a message in that tone, I wouldn't be answering again. Life's to short to listen to entitled people. Especially when you have had one cheat on you and mansplain why he had to do it. Why would you put yourself through that voluntarily. Yawn.
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RHP User
9 years ago
We all know problems can come with strings. Emotions are real, fantasies aren't. The problem is when emotions come in from any parties involved. Dat shit gets crazy... jealousy makes people go apeshit. Messes with their hearts and stuff. In extreme cases, can even be life/death situations... no thank you :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Why get so catty? OP wants to get laid, and wants a chick who's happy to lay with him. Judge him rightly or wrongly, if his technique is bad, he won't get the results he needs. If I want to be wee'd on, have hooks put in me and tied up, or team up with 10 more guys and wank myself silly over some chick who gets off on Bukkaki. I can easily tick a box to show what I'm into. I can't look for anyone who likes eating out, going to the beach with their dog or indulge in nude yoga. Neither can I tick a box to have my profile matched to woman who don't give two hoots to the fact a man is seeking something that his wife, at that time doesn't want to do. So he want's to find a NICE woman who he can CONNECT with on whatever level they are going to be happy with. Yup, I'm a cheater too. Wifey is wracked with pain, and depressed, and doesn't feel like making love, or talking about alternatives to making love. Otherwise she's a fantastic lady and we're great mates. Still, I want another NICE lady, not a hooker, to put her arms around me, stroke my skin, kiss me, want to feel my wanting for her. Wants to pull my member into her pussy and play the sex game. She may not look like a mode, may not squirt may have a few stretch marks, but she want's my body close to hers for a while, and afterwards ask me to fix her broken cupboard door. I thought just uni students had this soft focus, rose coloured glasses on a black and white world, where they critically judge people for example, growing genetically modified canola, when they happily ingest chystal meth, cooked in some outside shithole, with dodgy ingredients, made by people who haven't washed their hands. So, what's needed are more basic boxes to tick, not boxes as to if you enjoy fisting or rimming. Please, resume. Andy
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RHP User
9 years ago
Perhaps the question should be "As an attached person living in Melbourne but wanting NSA sex in Sydney what do I have to offer?".. Certainly only limited availability,which it seems to me would not lead to anything other than a purely physical connection.Nothing wrong with that ,but it does limit your options here. I wonder just what you were expecting when you joined OP? Obviously not what you are currently getting. Q
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MsJonesy
9 years ago
May see you leave again. A sex hook up site? And you are attached? And you prefer to play in a city you don't live in (but make no effort to explain that, nor how often you are in Sydney). All that usually means you want to meet in a hotel, have sex, wipe your cock on a towel (or curtains) and then piss off to the bar where your work colleagues are waiting for you....where after much blokey questioning, and many drinks, you give your mates a wink which is full of innuendo and you get slapped on the back with praise and they all think you are a legend. And after a time...the next day or week or month, one of them privately asks you about it and then you think its a great idea to pass the woman's contact details on to your mate...cos she'll be right with it, she's up for sex hook ups....no need to check with her about it (and yes ALL OF THAT has happened to me....many years ago before I banned NSA from my life). See how attractive you make it appear? See how attractive what you offer makes you appear? I will say this as respectfully as I can..... Don't presume this is a sex hook up site Don't assume everyone has the same morals as you Don't assume everyone is looking to be a piece of NSA Don't assume that playing with protection is ever okay Don't.....oh fuck it. Just don't. Just adjust your expectations and assumptions.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Wow what a charmer.Good luck you're going to need it.I loved the comments I read.Totally agree.Thank you.
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MsJonesy
9 years ago
Don't assume that playing WITHOUT protection is ever okay. (Note to self...don't type whilst annoyed).
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RHP User
9 years ago
In my opinion no it is not a sex hook up site, that would be a brothel. This is a site where people have different wants to what is called on here vanilla people. It is not a smorgasbord. Participants I here still have choices
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'AnnieWhichway' Quoting 'WittySex' Your profile: 1) Safe sex: If Required 2) Orientation: Experimental 3) Sexual Interests: Anal Sex (Giving & Receiving) I think the problem is, with those unhealthy variables, you've got less than 1% of members on here that would dare risk a date with you. Agree with item 1, but enlighten me in regard to what items 2&3 have got to do with unhealthy variables? Especially considering your profile has the anal items ticked and the Ms is bi curious? Assuming is bad, I know! BUT.. I think Witty meant the combination of those 3 variables. A guy, indulging in anal bareback sex with men and women, is a pretty unhealthy variable IMHO. Please don't shoot me if I'm wrong, but that's how I read that comment. Shutting up now
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sweetgem
9 years ago
That was awful and what a scumbag could one be to do things like that to a woman! 👎🏼😡 and here we are that some men just cannot understand why women need to be extra cautious, when coming online and hooking up with people whom aren't their long term friends to begin with! 🙄 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
i have meet a married guy befor but i through he was single and one day i had the wife on my door step making a big seen that i was taking her man it got really bad so i just try really hard to make sure the guy is so single and would like to be freinds to but that just me and why can you not find the one for you on here
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EarthQueen
9 years ago
Seeing as there are no replies
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RHP User
9 years ago
I think it's time to say goodbye to getting a quick fuck in 2017. Your profile makes you seem like the total dickhead you probably are. Good luck getting anywhere on RHP. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
As RHP is more a SocMed site for sexually active adults, OP would possibly be better with the more explicit named sites, such as Slutty Sheilas or Roots Near Me, (Or You) whichever it is. I've gotta say it leaves little to the imagination, and a lot of these sites are all linked together, so I presume ladies are logging in another door labelled "Mr Darcy" or A Little On The Side" or "Secret Affair" Surely any self respecting chick would be horrified to find she's a Slutty Sheila or even labelled as a "root"! Andy
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RHP User
9 years ago
Yes but that is your baggage. You shouldn't really just apply this to every attached person with a wide brush. YOu tell him not to assume this, and don't you assume that. You should probably also take some of that advice too. I think your comment was pretty insulting, you could have made the same point differently.
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RHP User
9 years ago
I disagree with LibbyLou. I can't assume from a few sentences that you are dickhead the same way I can't assume LibbyLou is a bitch from one sentence. Or can I? Hmm. Lol
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RHP User
9 years ago
Ive met Libby and she is a lovely lady. Simply voicing her opinion like the rest of us?
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AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
Hope you strapped in when l told you. Think we're about to hit light speed and disappear.....
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'sweetfrangapani' Go to the bank Get the cash out Then go to a brothel Problem solved Just saying If only it was that simple some of those working girls are as boring as bat shit and one hour is all over too quickly a couple of screws and into the shower and out the door.Compare that to five or six hours with a friend naked and together, chatting , kissing, cuddling and enjoying the intimacy of skin on skin. Of course there's the ultimate conclusion to all that as well a happy ending for two
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RHP User
9 years ago
As per Hotwives_Inc I am very happily married and am in love with my wife, we have a great life and sex life but due to certain challenges we have faced, we made the decision to give each freedom and flexibility to explore life further. We always maintain our priorities are each other but when you need time to be you and enjoy the company of others we can. I admit not everyone I have spoken with accept our lifestyle but no stress-mind you some have told me in no uncertain terms ha ha. The key with anything is honesty and expectation setting from the start regardless of being attached or unattached-bi straight or whatever. The numbers and stats of open marriages being more acceptable today are comforting and reassuring and I must say since we have been open our marriage is in the best shape emotionally and physically than it has been in years! Who does not get a kick out of the little flutter of excitement you get meeting and touching someone for the first time-addictive. My final thought- you can have your cake and eat it too-just dont bite of more than you can chew!! Lee - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'aussian43' It would be nice if the "looking for me" checkbox also looked at the attached/unattached criteria as well. It can be frustrating to see a lovely pair of boobs, but when opening the profile, seeing that unattached requirement. - Posted from rhpmobile Absolutely it would be great but I won't hold my breath. A while ago I thought it would be fun to contact women who RHP claimed "were looking for me" and tell them how wrong I thought RHP was and why. I only did it once and the woman concerned got somewhat hot and bothered about it and abused me. It didn't end well...Now when I click on the "looking for me's" and find them to be so far out my league and/or vice versa I just shrug and think oh well that's RHP for you
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MsJonesy
9 years ago
Thanks for your feedback. It was offered as an example, not assuming the OP would do the same. Read it how you like, because that's what we all do, thats how our brains work.😊
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RHP User
9 years ago
Just telling it like I read it.. I think he needs a brothel not RHP. Sorry if I offended you. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
There are so many issues wrapping up in the OP's position and the subsequent responses, but two of the main themes touch on the morals of infidelity and its impact. There is an interesting presentation Alaine de Botton did in Brisbane called Is love an Illusion and there is an ABC Big Ideas podcast / download of it that is easily searchable and which is really interesting - he happens to be hilarious as well. The other philosophical / researcher that comes to mind is Esther Perel who talks on the the causes and ramifications of infidelity that is available via a TED talk call Rethinking Infidelity and she also has a really interesting book called Mating in Captivity. To be clear - I have NO desire to defend the OP's position, which I find rather entitled and narcissistic. I just like to bring some philosophy to the Colosseum of opinion. So roast me if you choose, but do your research first!RJ
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RHP User
9 years ago
Why put NSA if you are seeking unattached? I think that's been answered tho perhaps not in the most pleasant of ways. Some people just want NSA but not with attached cheating people. Also some people want fun with unattached others so IF they do hit it off then maybe something more has the freedom to develop. :-). .... and yes RHP is just a sex site to many, just not all. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Hi im kano hi hot wives - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Hi whatcha up 2 hun - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I'm currently in bed furiously flicking my bean. What r u up to?
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RHP User
9 years ago
All OP hs to remember is that it is a free world. Men and women have choices in the online world as well as the real world. I make choices here - or on any other site - informed by what I read/see in a profile. Just as men make a choice to contact me by what they read in mine ....well sometimes they read my profile!!!
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RHP User
9 years ago
RichardJohns... kinda glad your interstate or I'd have to ask the mods to delete my earlier comment about not going after attached guys 😉
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AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
Quoting 'WittySex' Annie... after watching a Chem Sex doco on Vice not too long ago and speaking to a Dr at St. Vincents about the goings on... if you're a man having hook up / unprotected anal sex in the gay scene these days, you're entering a whole different level of risk. His profile indicates he's open to just that. Just a thought. Did you watch that on Vice? Worth a look. Shocking / scary cultural phenomenon. I don't get the inference that he's gay. It seems to an assumption on your behalf. Anal play has nothing to do with being gay or bi. Experimental means that he is willing to consider some same sex contact if the mood is there etc.Hardly indicative of a raging gay guy down the saunas having unprotected anal sex.Don't think it warrants the bonfire and white sheet brigade.Get your point with the documentary. But.......Stay calm. Use a condom
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McNuggett
9 years ago
In my opinion people can do whatever they choose and with whomever they choose...we all have that right. However, regardless of what past experiences people may have had...please don't pass dispersions on every attached guy who says he is in an Open Relationship. There are the few that are completely truthful and have partners willing to verify. Yes we do actually exist. Happy hunting 😉 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Complicated
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RHP User
9 years ago
While we're on this. Im a married man whos doing the dirty, however from what ive read my profile is completely different to this guy. Im not just looking for sex, i actually want to build a connection with the person(s) first. The only trouble im slightly having is women arent fully reading my profile where it says multiple times that im a married man, and when they find out after talking to me they shy away and say they cant do that. My question is, why do you think people dont actually read profiles? I thoroughly read profiles before making any sort of contact with the person(s) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
??? Your profile says you are a non-smoker??? Just saying OP - back on topic/ Yes it is just you...of course BTW I have come across more "sexual predators" on so called vanilla sites. At least here we are able to be open about what we want and don't want. I was friends with a married woman a few years ago who was here just for a quick fuck in the car at lunch time. Not my style but it was what she wanted and what she got. I didn't judge her for what she was looking for and she didn't judge me for my choices. You just need to keep searching and you might find what you want. And...I fucking hate the whole "this is a sex site". FFS people who believe that please show me where it is advertised as such. I have been here a long time and have never been in trouble with the mods for not fucking everyone who contacts me.
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RHP User
9 years ago
While I agree,everyone has a right to choose,I do disagree with how some women will use any excuse to attack and abuse a male.There is always a nice way of put your feelings across.Yes I'm married etc but I do have a hell of a lot of respect for people.And ladies,I have been abused by women who were attached but believed I was bad being on site married and doing exactly what they were doing,hmmmm,double standards??I have been horribly stood up but a single lady who asked me for the meets,twice now.Attached women wanting unattached males,met one,said it was an open marriage/hubby ok with it but we had to be discreet??I'm not trying to take sides but people are people and they don't always tell you the truth even a lot of ladies.Most of my success has been with single ladies asking me,but everyone's different.Oh,why I want to meet a married lady,cos she understands being discreet,great sex is a two way thing and how best to find it,and if she's on site looking for me,she understands where we are both at and that it really isn't all about banging our brains senseless in a motel bed.But guys it's about respect and being polite.Shoot me down now if you like 😳👍
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RHP User
9 years ago
How do you clarify unsafe sex, Having sex without condoms is a personal choice and every female I have met on this site has requested it. Doesn't mean its unsafe just increases the risk and even using condoms you can still catch things doing oral sex and kissing is the most likely thing you will catch something.You obviously shower with a raincoat on?
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RHP User
9 years ago
There are lots of married women out there who are happy their man is fucking someone else and just don't want it pushed in their face, most likely because they are lazy and are not interested
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RHP User
9 years ago
Personally I'd rather an unattached man, I don't want to be fucking someone whose wife or girlfriend is at home completely clueless to what he's doing. I've been in that situation twice with two very different out comes. One went completely psycho at me the other was great and I've become friends with her. I've also been on the receiving end of an ex-fiancé being on a site like this not just once but multiple times which lead to the relationship failing. I don't want to be the reason for a relationship or marriage to break down
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RHP User
9 years ago
Women ♀ might want to be caught up in a discreet affair or they want to be intermittent with a married man - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I'm beginning to think your username is an antiphrasis. I get a flu shot knowing it doesn't guarantee me against the flu. But I'd rather take precautions. As far as your other comment, there may well be. But remember men are over their sexual prime much earlier in life than women.....so there's just as many horny housewives and even women seeking sex outside of their marriage because their husbands aren't interested.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Can't say I'm surprised you left. Be well. Peachy
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RHP User
9 years ago
Hm, a pain the owner feels when somebody likes his belonging while the owner didnt pay an attention to that belonging. So slavery is still ok :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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Sawadee
9 years ago
I have to agree with Candy.. If I were you , I'd rethink why you're here and wether this site is right for your needs. With that much anger , I'm sure many guys would take a wide berth... Doesn't matter who it is , if it's not a happy hunting ground , best to find somewhere where it is ..
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RHP User
9 years ago
Every woman you have met has requested sex without a condom? I call BS on that. What numbers of women are we talking about here. More than one? I would also be interested to know the age group. Thanks!
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MsJonesy
9 years ago
I am touched you are concerned about my success rate. Thanks for thinking about me, truly is a blessing. And trust me, if I hadn't experienced continuing success at any time over the last three years I would have moved on. Summer...I know right? If the men don't meet the needs the women sure do 😂
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RHP User
9 years ago
Just lol, youre one of the most 'chill' people I've ever met ... nothing wrong with you sista. Love you xx Mary xx
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RHP User
9 years ago
Yep, exactly what I was thinking Mary - be hard to find many people less angry than Jonesy! Jayme and Candy, passive aggressive much? Summer
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RHP User
9 years ago
Someone please explain to Betty what passive aggressive means. V funny. Good old Betty always coming to the party late. Hahaha Betty, there was nothing at all passive aggressive about my comment. It was direct and to the point and expressed exactly what I thought. I would love to say more about what you have said but it wouldn't fly under the radars. What a shame, eh. Now was that passive aggressive? 🤣
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RHP User
9 years ago
This is all good stuff. I appreciate all the comments. My wife walked out on me (no I was not "seeing" someone else) so I guess I am now "unattached". They don't have a category for "abandoned but not yet divorced"...I guess if they did it would put off a lot of browsers. The thing is, after 2 months on the site I have not scored a single friend (one exception there - she was weird and unfriended me after about 24 hours). Is there something I'm doing wrong! I put lots of pics up and left all the steamy ones in the private section. The last site I was on had fake profiles. This one was supposed to be better. I'm starting to have my doubts. Any observations?
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Sawadee
9 years ago
Passive aggression ? That's BS... If you want aggression , go back and read Jonesy rant. , i don't know the lady only what she wrote.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'loverofcurves' While we're on this. Im a married man whos doing the dirty, however from what ive read my profile is completely different to this guy. Im not just looking for sex, i actually want to build a connection with the person(s) first. The only trouble im slightly having is women arent fully reading my profile where it says multiple times that im a married man, and when they find out after talking to me they shy away and say they cant do that. My question is, why do you think people dont actually read profiles? I thoroughly read profiles before making any sort of contact with the person(s) - Posted from rhpmobile The same reason no one reads the instruction manual ... cause it gets boring and we all want to get to the fun bits it would seem. We have the same issue with people sending friend requests even though our profile clearly states that we need to actually meet to become friends.
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Sawadee
9 years ago
Maybe you can tell me... is this site the right one for Jonesy ? I don't know ? All l know is what I read but seems my understanding is in question. But no worries , I'm quite happy to be educated... so please enlighten me with some of your insider knowledge. ? Did I miss read Jonesys post ? 😳 If so , I'd like to know where..
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sweetgem
9 years ago
That the author of this thread doesn't even care to make any acknowledgment (good or bad) about what he has read, and that his profile is unavailable, yet the topic still remains active 😁 I am starting to think that this is actually one of the Mods' stirring games in the Forums 😄 - Posted from rhpmobile
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MsJonesy
9 years ago
When I make a post which is direct and to the point and expresses exactly what I thought, I am being insulting and having an angry rant? I'm terribly confused. As a friend often says when he is perplexed, please explain it to me like I am a two year old. 🤔 I must be losing something in translation.
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sweetgem
9 years ago
Is it really your problem what other people say or think about you? 😜 - Posted from rhpmobile
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