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What's with ...?
October 26 2012
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RHP User
13 years ago
Unlike us women, we like to see a face. your face is optional extra on here, just so it looks good when they brush your hair away while they watch you suck cock. Men are visual and usually not lateral in their view. You have a nice bum you have good tits you have a Y The come to dinner is the hook to get you to at least see them. I think the answer to all your questions is Yep
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RHP User
13 years ago
I guess some have a crack hoping for a reply..aimlessly perhaps..could you imagine the conversation if you took the offer up !! I do agree with Tuscan..Brave_Heart..your pics are very hot .. One good thing is , you have an instant feel for the person..NEXT ..
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RHP User
13 years ago
Mayb they just want a friend, companion, someone to go out with and enjoy life n stuff, mayb even get to no the girl. I no I would rather go out with a girl sometimes for company n just chill rather than just fuk. It also builds up tension and passion if its mutual that way the fucking is a lot better
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RHP User
13 years ago
i recently met a lady who was talking about this...has guys asking her torso out to dinner,,,or looking at an ass pic inviting it out to dinner?...talk to the ass...:)
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RHP User
13 years ago
they just don't kissx R
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RHP User
13 years ago
It is possible that it's the Woman described in the profile and not Her Pics that has grabbed attention....
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RHP User
13 years ago
Guys messaging asking to take a girl out, when all they've seen is a pic of half her bum and some cleavage? Hahaha, I hear you!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hi! Brave-Heart..Thanks for the Topic.. Oh! I do feel for you and DeviousmissM ha!ha! Oh! You Poor dears.You do have a Dilemma..Is it your sexy Butt or you they want to date..Haaaaaaa! Now Girls what you need to do is what I have done ..Place a very wholesome Fav Pic up...It keeps them guessing If I'm wholesome or Naughty..Ummmmm! I get dates because they like the Woman I know both of you have the Kosher admirers too which is cool but this is about the others.. The reason I never will have My Butt or Breast Pics up is ..If Guys saw My Big Sexy Butt etc It would be Too much of a good thing for them.. I'd have to insure My Bits and I'd and fighting them off with a stick. Just incase you're not aware this is all said in a Tongue in cheek way ..or Tongue in Butt cheek way since it's the Topic he!he! Cheers Lu :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
For some men, me included, life's got more to offer than an orgasm. He may only see half your arse, a bit of boob, but he may see the tone in your profile. He may see the intellect you possess through posts here, or he just may WANT to see the you, if you give him half the chance. Just my thoughts.
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RHP User
13 years ago
...and I can't speak for all the guys but personally, I'd crawl naked across a red hot bed of coals to sink my teeth into your bum. You too, MissM.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'hardtruckin2011'For some men, me included, life's got more to offer than an orgasm. He may only see half your arse, a bit of boob, but he may see the tone in your profile. He may see the intellect you possess through posts here, or he just may WANT to see the you, if you give him half the chance. Just my thoughts. There are men like that on this site. And they are the ones I will gladly communicate with, whether there is a chance we'll ever meet or not.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'jensman1903'...and I can't speak for all the guys but personally, I'd crawl naked across a red hot bed of coals to sink my teeth into your bum. You too, MissM. You're all talk, Jman.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I should show half my arse on here?mebee not:S☺
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'hardtruckin2011'For some men, me included, life's got more to offer than an orgasm. He may only see half your arse, a bit of boob, but he may see the tone in your profile. He may see the intellect you possess through posts here, or he just may WANT to see the you, if you give him half the chance. Just my thoughts. Darn it, what else is on offer then , mutter mutter , kick the can up the street...god dang it I am only here for the big OOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'jensman1903'...and I can't speak for all the guys but personally, I'd crawl naked across a red hot bed of coals to sink my teeth into your bum. You too, MissM. Man, I think that'd take bowtox to a whole new level lmfao!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Watching me prance around in pink Lacey knickers apparently :p
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'tuscanred' Unlike us women, we like to see a face. your face is optional extra on here, just so it looks good when they brush your hair away while they watch you suck cock. Men are visual and usually not lateral in their view. You have a nice bum you have good tits you have a Y The come to dinner is the hook to get you to at least see them. I think the answer to all your questions is Yep Tuscan, you've done it again. Taken the words out of my mouth! Love your replies, as always it's honest and spot on :) HBxo
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RHP User
13 years ago
Men by nature are about everything visual. Show them skin they will think sex, they will make all kinds of offers to get sex. Men cant help drool at magazines, do a head spin when walking through the shops, have a huge porn collection. Men are visual creatures, they love to admire the female form, they love to see some skin, some want more than others. Brave_heart your pic is hot, even from a womans point of view, your g-string gives your arse an awesome shape and emphasises your feminine curves. Guys see a pic like that they are thinking with their small heads. They want to fuck you, thats the bottom line. They are going to cut to the chase because their first intention is sex and 2nd is conversation but willing to take bad looks or bad personality to have a piece of that arse! I think their offer is sincere although their main aim is to get you in bed. Honestly, pictures showing cleavage etc on any adult site is appealing to the visualisation of men and is going to get that response, they cant help themselves, they have a cock!!! #1 if you dont like it, show a more clothed pic and lock those more sexy pics. #2 screen the messages and take up the offer and get yourself a free meal every night of the week LOL #3 enjoy the praise of how sexy you are and just leave it at that :) I am sure your as pretty as the rest of what is seen on your profile, although, when it comes to looks, if a guy hasnt seen a womans face before meeting him for dinner, he may still very much want your body anyhow, doggy means not seeing your face and having hot sex with your body... think like a man LOL
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad'See.... this is what makes me shake my head about too many guys. They've been trained by media, movies magazines and TV shows that show the bumbling nice guy getting the girl .... after first making a total clumsy bumbling girly-man dick of himself. Guys are dulling down their inherent masculinity.... trying to fly under the radar by suggesting "around the periphery"of what they really mean.... and he doesnt mean to ask you to dinner..... .... he doesnt even know you well enough, to think that committing to an hour of full sit down face to face meal time is a good idea. Now Im not suggesting the extreme flip-side that says "hey, lets fuck"..... but please.... guys.... women are designed to be receptive to masculinity.... so man the fuck UP and communicate LIKE a Man!!! DG There, there...
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RHP User
13 years ago
I disagree with mischeviouslad... :| not all men want sex, albeit it's a nice ending. However, it's not something I seek here, as I can only speak for me of course. I talk to many people on here, be it in these forums, or in chat, but have met very few off here face to face, and the intention of the meet was never for sex. I've enjoyed just a coffee, a few games of pool and a couple of bourbons. It doesn't make me any less masculine.
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RHP User
13 years ago
... for a start you don't need to have seen their face, not yet at least. The asking out to dinner is really just asking to start a conversation. I don't think any guy seriously expects a woman to agree to meet for dinner without knowing what each other look like, how on earth would you know who to look for? Would you be sat in the restaurant wearing nothing but that g-string to identify you? He's going to want to see a face pic before you get to the meeting stage, I'm quite sure of that. Guys JOKE quite often about how the face doesn't matter ("not if you do her doggy", "put a hood on her", "other misogynist bullshit remark"), but I think you'd be hard pressed to find a man who honestly, and I mean really honestly, like when his mates aren't around and it's just you and him - and sex between the two of you is definitely not on the cards - wouldn't say that an unattractive face doesn't ruin a woman. An ugly face be helped a bit by a cracking body, but an amazing face can make you forget all about the body entirely.Not all men are visual, we go a lot on feel too and if it feels good and you've got a pair of pretty eyes to look at set in a fine featured face then it's like 99% feel. Saying men are all visual is ludicrous, if that were true we wouldn't be able to do it in the dark, some of the best sex I've ever had has been in the dark
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RHP User
13 years ago
brave heartjsk6767 makes a good point,your looking for more than just casual sex or one night stands but you have hidden your face and show off your sexy bum and amazing boobs,but then when a guy invites you out to dinner or wants to meet you for a drink you still get suspicious,your making it for the genuine guys that want the same as you..p.s..im positive if you agree to a date face pic will come up before you meet!!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'DeviousMissM' You're all talk, Jman. I wouldn't blame you at all if you were to make an example of me by placing your delectable body on the far side of a bed of burning coals and saying, "I dare you."
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RHP User
13 years ago
Come and get me, shorty.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'hornyguy4xxxfun' brave heartjsk6767 makes a good your looking for more than just casual sex or one night stands but you have hidden your face and show off your sexy bum and amazing boobs,but then when a guy invites you out to dinner or wants to meet you for a drink you still get suspicious,your making it for the genuine guys that want the same as you..p.s..im positive if you agree to a date face pic will come up before you meet!!! I'm not looking for anything on this site, to be honest. I'm a voyeur and an exhibitionist, so I enjoy posting naughty pics and looking at the same. I'm open-minded about what I might find on here, but I'm not looking for that, as such.To put it simply, I find it odd that a man would message asking for dinner, without seeing my face. I agree that face pics would no doubt be swapped before said dinner, but how awkward if he then discovers I'm an ugly cow. Ouch! Surely the right order of events is to swap face pics first, then consider meeting?
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'brave__heart' Quoting 'hornyguy4xxxfun' brave heartjsk6767 makes a good your looking for more than just casual sex or one night stands but you have hidden your face and show off your sexy bum and amazing boobs,but then when a guy invites you out to dinner or wants to meet you for a drink you still get suspicious,your making it for the genuine guys that want the same as you.. You are quite right brave_heart - face pics first then take it from there. Asking for a date straight outta the blue is a bit keen I think.... At least coffe maybe? xp.s..im positive if you agree to a date face pic will come up before you meet!!! I'm not looking for anything on this site, to be honest. I'm a voyeur and an exhibitionist, so I enjoy posting naughty pics and looking at the same. I'm open-minded about what I might find on here, but I'm not looking for that, as such. To put it simply, I find it odd that a man would message asking for dinner, without seeing my face. I agree that face pics would no doubt be swapped before said dinner, but how awkward if he then discovers I'm an ugly cow. Ouch! Surely the right order of events is to swap face pics first, then consider meeting?
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RHP User
13 years ago
I know nothing of the invitations you've had or who sent them but I know you are a person I'd enjoy having dinner with. Sure, you and I have had opposing views on various subjects but you've always expressed yourself admirably and I've respected your opinion. Without seeing your face, I know you are an attractive girl and an evening with you would be an interesting and probably challenging time. Have the invitations you've received been from other persons familiar with your forum posts?
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RHP User
13 years ago
i think i would thoroughly enjoy an evening with you... im betting you are great company .....beauty is in the eye of the beholder and is more than skin deep.....and that last PM i sent you was related to this forum not feeling blue....
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RHP User
13 years ago
I'm more interested in a picture of your brain.. But I’m happy to settle for half an arse...Now where's my treat?
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RHP User
13 years ago
Completely in agreement with HT!!! Brave__heart, I've had a few conversations with you, and I must confess to wanting to meet you. I haven't seen your face, but I have found our conversations to be stimulating, and more than enough to want to take you out for dinner just to meet you. If something else occurs afterwards then great, but having sex is not my intention. jensman...you can crawl across hot coals, I'll just jump them and sweep MissM off her feet :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Oh there are a lot of strange things that guys do on here.My pet hate is telling a guy thanks but no thanks and them trying to argue the point. It's like, I was polite enough to reply to you, can't you just accept that I'm not interested and move on? God knows I won't tell them why I'm not interested because then they become abusive or try to convince me that I should like those certain traits about them. According to them my personal preferences are not valid and I should just like them for who they are. ARRRGHHH!Rant over :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Spot on Tuscan! There are "some" not all..that are here just for the specific purpose of getting a lay ( FANCY THAT!!!) Anyways as Tuscan desribed it to a tee its not about the face baby but the body! Had this very conversation with someone recently and he was like the head can be "mehhh" It's all about the body...He's not into a relationship on here merely for fun and pleasure. To say I was intrigued/ shocked that for guys its not all about a pretty face was understatement. Ive learnt so much about how the male mind works since being on RHP..it's fascinating!
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RHP User
13 years ago
This particular guy says in his looking for section in his profile: "fun like minded girls who no how to have fun and satisfy my sexual needs":|
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RHP User
13 years ago
No J, if they were forum peeps it might have made sense. They were first contacts from random guys. I'm not bothered by it on a personal level but I admit I'm a bit fascinated by it :) The various views I'm reading on here are shedding some light, thanks peeps x. Jensman, Coasteride, Anything, thanks for the compliments, much appreciated, and right back at you :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'hardtruckin2011'I disagree with mischeviouslad... :| not all men want sex, albeit it's a nice ending. However, it's not something I seek here, as I can only speak for me of course. I talk to many people on here, be it in these forums, or in chat, but have met very few off here face to face, and the intention of the meet was never for sex. I've enjoyed just a coffee, a few games of pool and a couple of bourbons. It doesn't make me any less masculine. Well said HT :) I don't agree with DG on this one, or the punching thread.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'tuscanred' Quoting 'hardtruckin2011'For some men, me included, life's got more to offer than an orgasm. He may only see half your arse, a bit of boob, but he may see the tone in your profile. He may see the intellect you possess through posts here, or he just may WANT to see the you, if you give him half the chance. Just my thoughts. Darn it, what else is on offer then , mutter mutter , kick the can up the street...god dang it I am only here for the big OOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!OOOOOOOOOOOOOOThere you go Tuscan
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'anythingjustnow' jensman...you can crawl across hot coals, I'll just jump them and sweep MissM off her feet :) Gazumped again.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'jensman1903' Quoting 'anythingjustnow'jensman...you can crawl across hot coals, I'll just jump them and sweep MissM off her feet :) Gazumped again. Maybe you made a lucky escape.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'brave__heart' "To put it simply, I find it odd that a man would message asking for dinner, without seeing my face. I agree that face pics would no doubt be swapped before said dinner, but how awkward if he then discovers I'm an ugly cow. Ouch! Surely the right order of events is to swap face pics first, then consider meeting? Knight_of_Heat.......... Men are generally seeking adventure.....so they will venture out try a dinner date .....as a "hit and miss" opportunity to meet a woman, even without seeing her photos (and even though they are visual creatures). And yes it can be awkward if one discovers the person is in fact ugly! Personal experience here....lol. With all due respect, I find that showing a profile either a face pic or a body pic......to me is always only a guide! So coffee first.........then dinner maybe........before anything else??????? One really has to meet the person to decide whether there is attraction and whether they are going to get along....let alone end up in the bedroom! I have found that meeting a person does authenticate the profile , face pic swapping and body shots, given that anyone can put up flattering photos to sell oneself....lol. Brave_Heart ...... I"'m not looking for anything on this site, to be honest. I'm a voyeur and an exhibitionist, so I enjoy posting naughty pics and looking at the same. I'm open-minded about what I might find on here, but I'm not looking for that, as such." Knight_of_Heat.......... as a voyeur and exhibitionist on this site, Brave_Heart.....you probably spare yourself the "shock horrors" and save yourself the trouble of actually meeting some individuals who may not be as authentic as you may be.....in more ways than one .....lol. But do agree with you that being open-minded is the key in the RHP adventure!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Whats with a women that come on dateing sites and starting a forum complianing about guys or people asking them out , first the application of your pcs is sugested by rhp no faces as there a lot of undersirables out there ladies secone my face is shown as i have nothing to hide and im not afriad of the udersirables , third if i see a profile i maessage and indroduce myself tell who ever it mabe a bit about me and ask them for a reply to start a conversation about having a date seeing where it gos , four thing what the hell are you doing on here if its not to get new friends and liad , fifth thing if this affend any body stiff shit
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RHP User
13 years ago
Daslikewise, with grammar and punctuation like that, do you ever get any responses? I freely admit that people are allowed to voice their opinions on here, but what the fuck happen to your manners.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Is that nappy of yours full??
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RHP User
13 years ago
my profile state im hredrosexaul , striaght as a new ruler so please if you have a comment or somthing to say about me or you might want to ask me out the answer is fuck off hiary legs as im hedro , so why am i putting it on a forum for every one to see , well your fucking profile is locked , otherwise i would be sending the same fucking maessage but in private ok ps pionts for pic of face if i was bi or gay mabe dude lol
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RHP User
13 years ago
get well and trully fuck , i hope your wind sheild breaks and you cant replace it for a week and realy have get your truck to a destination pronto on a time limit and get bugs in your teeth , my nappy is not full as im now wareing grownup pants dude sometime no unerware or on a special day a g banger , why do you askr do you need a nappy
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'MrsPeachyPear'Maybe they've messaged all the ladies with face pics... and got no reply... so now they're moving onto the boobs n bums. ;-D xoXox And probably too true!! :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
mabe you should go out on dates anystead of starting senseless forums about complianing about geting ask out om dates on a dateing site ..das
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RHP User
13 years ago
keep up the good work......,your inbox must be flooded ..i mean ...Braveheart i cant see your profile...is it a glitch or have i been a naughty boy?
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RHP User
13 years ago
Does that mean you do have a nappy??
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RHP User
13 years ago
Don't feel bad Jman, at least you were going to put in the hard yards, clearly Justnow was looking for thepath of least effort.The greater the effort the tastier the reward!Cheers Felonious
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RHP User
13 years ago
Well brave_heart I get more views and messages and flirts when I have bum pic up, followed by upper body shot.... If I have a face pic up my views take a dive. :( Might put my face back up now actually. :p
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RHP User
13 years ago
But I reckon I might get lucky if I wear a nappy! Lol. Funny comments boys.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Since there are not a lot of women with pics (about 50%) the ones with face pic are far and away unusual, we guys are left with whatever shows up on the search engine as "compatible". So as we are desperate enough after paying good money to send messages I am of the opinion that most guys will just send messages to whoever takes their fancy, so even if you don't have a face pic we don't really care because we just want to go out with some(bloody)body. Besides how can we get a feel for things like compatibility and chemistry if we don't get a chance to meet you in person were we can talk uncensored by typing. I dunno its still the same old thing just a bit more complicaetd by crossed signals and poor typing. Mike
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RHP User
13 years ago
Myself I would rather see face pics, andthere aint nothing wrong with yours Meeks!Cheers Felonious
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RHP User
13 years ago
I just had to see if you for real. Sadly you were. I'm putting this out in public because I find you offensive. Its blokes like you that give the rest of us a bad name. If you can't treat any one with respect then don't expect mine. HT, if your windscreen breaks like DAS says it may, give me call, I'll help you out.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I have been out and met women with face pics that I would never have realisedit was them if the meet was in a public place.Just lucky I was going to their houses.One woman didn't even have a pic, butshe promised I wouldn't be dissapointedmannn she was smokin hot! of course Iguess it could have gone the other way as well.Sometimes you gotta go with your gut feelingand take a chance.Cheers Felonious
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RHP User
13 years ago
Meeka I had not seen a face pic of you before and didn't really feel the urge to look at your profile as you live in NSW so are not high on my priorites. Seeing a face pic doesn't change my opinion of you (you naughty girl) but it has proved to me that a good face pic is better than a bum/boob pic. All that said you are a lovely looking woman in any form. Mike
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'feloniusfossil' Don't feel bad Jman, at least you were going to put in the hard yards, clearly Justnow was looking for thepath of least effort.The greater the effort the tastier the reward!Cheers Felonious Thanks felonius, i'm just eager is all, but now I just feel silly *hangs his head in shame and gentle places MissM back on her feet*
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RHP User
13 years ago
LOL.... I was just reading your comment and I haven't met anyone off here yet, I'm partially scared that they will say, "oh my god, you are nothing like the person in your profile". Not that I have deliberately placed any misleading photos, but lets face it, most people only post their "better" pictures don't they. So the woman that you met who promised she was "smokin hot" - was she? or was that just her promise?The thing is, I am finding, that everyone has completely different versions of hot lately.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Seems like some of us men are being lumped together in the visual think sex basket by some of the ladies here. Sorry to say but we are not all like that.Looking into someone's eyes, listening to their conversation over a great meal does a whole lot more for me. If a girl can't hold a conversation sorry all the tits and bums won't do it for me.If some one would like a real country gentleman then let me know. I will cook you a meal which we can enjoy while looking out over paradise and chat the night away. Desert would be up to you.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Guys messaging asking to take a girl out, when all they've seen is a pic of half her bum and some cleavage? Are they desperate? Are they pretending to want to take her out for dinner/a drink but really hope she'll just write back and say 'let's f**k'? Are they just saying whatever they can think of to get her attention on here? Why would a guy want to take a girl out, or f**k her for that matter, when he hasn't even seen her face?! I'm thoroughly confuzzled - what am I missing here, guys? Well, i messaged you as a newbie without any suggestion of a date, dinner or a fuck, trying to engage you in conversation, yet did not get a reply, and seem to have been blocked. There's some irony there!
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RHP User
13 years ago
You're adorable......then you opened your mouth :-(
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100'Well brave_heart I get more views and messages and flirts when I have bum pic up, followed by upper body shot.... If I have a face pic up my views take a dive. :( Might put my face back up now actually. :p I'm game. (For a little while)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Meeka, I love your face pic!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Thanks MissM and Mike and Felonious. All the friends that I have shown those pics too say that they don't recognise me! One "friend" said... that must be you on a good day. BIATCH! lol Okay obviously I am made up to the nines.... and this was me before going to my 40th party... where all my friends were! Weird huh? Maybe its my sexy look they are not used too. hehe xxMeeka
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RHP User
13 years ago
DeviousMissM you look so demure and rosy cheeked... bet you are are naughty girl though! lol
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'anythingjustnow'I just had to see if you for real. Sadly you were. I'm putting this out in public because I find you offensive. Its blokes like you that give the rest of us a bad name. If you can't treat any one with respect then don't expect mine. HT, if your windscreen breaks like DAS says it may, give me call, I'll help you out. lol ajn, if Das was anything to worry about mate, there'd be alot of lonely women herein. lol
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100'"...........I get more views and messages and flirts when I have bum pic up, followed by upper body shot.... If I have a face pic up my views take a dive. :( Might put my face back up now actually......" Hey Meeka, I find it difficult to believe that your profile views plummet by showing a face pic??? I would say the contrary :-) Your face pic is very appealing! Your follow up of your body just complete the beautiful picture !! The profile content closes the deal ....lol.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Lovesharepinv' The thing is, I am finding, that everyone has completely different versions of hot lately. Of course gorgeous... it's all in the eye of the beholder, or how much alcohol they have consumed or how horny they are...
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RHP User
13 years ago
I think women are just as visual as men. In the first initial moment of course. But i know women(being smarter) look below the surface alot faster than men. But men do look below the surface. It just takes alot longer for us men to process. But as previously discussed, yes, certain qualities can definitely be more appealing than just visual assets. But it just takes time.I don't think meeting straight away is a good idea. But communicating for a while(chatting) is definitely appreciated by anyone. At least that way you get to know the person or get a feeling of what type of person they are before you would meet.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I think I have just been Bedassled....thank you for that,best laugh of the day babyx R
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RHP User
13 years ago
Yes she was, absolutely gorgeous. Undersold herself if anything.Beautifull face, beautiful personality, smokin hot body,She was 29 and I was early forties at the time.Was just lucky I was offering the right kind of experience.There was no alcohol involved Meeks, I was stone cold sober. lolNone the less I will remember her till the day I die.Cheers Felonious
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RHP User
13 years ago
Your post here is off topic and has little (nothing?!) to do with men arranging dinner dates based on bum pics ... but, as you've thrown down the gauntlet I shall respond. There is no irony, really, or at the least it would be a stretch to call such a claim ironic. Further, I did respond - unless the Gods of RHP were not on my side that day, you would have received my auto-reply. I have that in place so that ALL messages get a response (and still, complaints!) and I make it clear within it that if I'm interested in further contact I'll be in touch. If I wasn't, then I wasn't :) You're not blocked. I've hidden my profile for a while, because it suits me to do so. Everyone who clicks on it will see the same thing that you do. Hope that clears things up :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'brave__heart'Your post here is off topic and has little (nothing?!) to do with men arranging dinner dates based on bum pics ... but, as you've thrown down the gauntlet I shall respond. There is no irony, really, or at the least it would be a stretch to call such a claim ironic. Further, I did respond - unless the Gods of RHP were not on my side that day, you would have received my auto-reply. I have that in place so that ALL messages get a response (and still, complaints!) and I make it clear within it that if I'm interested in further contact I'll be in touch. If I wasn't, then I wasn't :) You're not blocked. I've hidden my profile for a while, because it suits me to do so. Everyone who clicks on it will see the same thing that you do. Hope that clears things up :)
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Hanna_ybbn
13 years ago
Animale - bad form on your part to have made that a public comment but thanks for showing the kind of 'man' you are :)As for the topic - for me it comes back to the same conclusion that I seem to come to with a lot of topics raised on here;This is not a site on which you should be if you are primarily seeking a meaningful, longterm and committed relationship - yes it happens and it IS the exception not the rule!Half the stuff that gets posted on these forums would be a mute point if people here actually SOLIDLY knew what it was they wanted and just what it is they expect to get from a 'Sex' site.I am not trying to be mean at all when I say what I have - just realistic.I think that if you are a demure, sensitive soul looking for you life-mate, then this is not the place for you.Why? Because of exactly what the OP has written in her opening post.Sorry, but I think you should save RHP for times when you are feeling a little fun and naughty and perhaps join an actual known 'Romantic Dating for Love' web-site for the balance of your online 'dating' experience.My opinions as always :)Hanna xx
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100'DeviousMissM you look so demure and rosy cheeked... bet you are are naughty girl though! lol This photo was taken during a very hot and sexy day in a gorgeous hotel, with someone very special. Definitely a post-coital glow happening there!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Hanna_ybbn'Why? Because of exactly what the OP has written in her opening post.Sorry, but I think you should save RHP for times when you are feeling a little fun and naughty and perhaps join an actual known 'Romantic Dating for Love' web-site for the balance of your online 'dating' experience. Hi Hanna :) I agree - I think everyone agrees - that this is (in the broadest possible terms) a sex/adult site, not a relationship/dating site. I'm not interested in casual sex but that doesn't mean this site is the wrong place for me to be. While I'm not here for casual hook-ups I'm most certainly here for sexy times - camming, perving, chatting. That's my thing, that's what I want from the site, that's what floats my boat. I make it pretty clear I like to indulge my voyeuristic and exhibitionist tendencies here. My OP was unrelated to casual sex or reasons for being on the site etc. My issue/question was simply what goes through a man's mind when he effectively asks a random stranger who he's never messaged before to go on a proper-ish date even though he's only seen her half-naked ass. Based on the replies on this thread, I've come to the following conclusion. I think he probably hopes to get laid, is willing to get laid based on the body he says, and will take his chances on the face. It also seems he asks her to dinner because he thinks she might be more amenable to that than just a 'wanna fuck?' message. Exceptions to the rule of course - the men who said they'd have dinner with a faceless women based on what they've learnt about her in the forums etc. The difference being, of course, they've had a chance to learn a bit about her. I think the question intrigues me because I'm greedy - I want the face, body and personality! :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'brave__heart' I'm greedy - I want the face, body and personality! :)I miss out again.
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cbdlivin
13 years ago
I have had woman suggest the dinner thing straight off before even a little conversation seeing if we hit it off. I could not think of anything worse than having dinner with someone where there is no connection and conversation is limited by lack of common interests.Though the guys asking woman out for dinner with only a picture of a torso etc, well that is just obvious, they are thinking of desert.B
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RHP User
13 years ago
the pics of Meeka and the divinemsM are grand and I honestly can't believe you ladies don't put up face pics all the time. But then I suppose being a little mysterious and just showing a nice curve or two can be equally enticing. It is a fairly public place on here, so you may not want your workmates knowing all. Go with what you are comfortable with I reckon... Mike
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RHP User
13 years ago
So DAS this thing with you being HEDROSEXUAL is that where you really like HEDgehogs or is it that you sit in HEDgerows wanking a lot? Therefore your baggy undies that I think people are mistaking for a nappy are really protective clothing for those really heavy sessions in blackberries? Mike
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Hanna_ybbn
13 years ago
Brave Heart, thank you for taking the time to respond to me - greatly appreciated as I now feel I might have incorrectly interpreted what you were asking!Your post makes sense, thank you.Hanna xx
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'miketheduc' the pics of Meeka and the divinemsM are grand and I honestly can't believe you ladies don't put up face pics all the time. But then I suppose being a little mysterious and just showing a nice curve or two can be equally enticing. It is a fairly public place on here, so you may not want your workmates knowing all. Go with what you are comfortable with I reckon... Mike Thanks Mike! I am a bit concerned about someone recognising me, I must admit. So the face pics will mostly stay in my PG, only to be viewed by invitation.
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RHP User
13 years ago
or he needs you to feed him
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RHP User
13 years ago
Okay my profile views have dropped by around 400 views for the last month in the three days I have had my face pic up. So.... I will put a booby shot up and see how that goes. :) Meeka
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100'Okay my profile views have dropped by around 400 views for the last month in the three days I have had my face pic up. So.... I will put a booby shot up and see how that goes. :) Meeka I had the same amount of views with a face pic, but more emails. Then again, half of those were from lovely regular posters, commenting on me putting up my face.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I was so mesmerized when I finished gazing at my screen, I got up, turned around and walked casually into the door on the way out..~puts beef on eye~ Quoting 'miketheduc' the pics of Meeka and the divinemsM are grand and I honestly can't believe you ladies don't put up face pics all the time.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'LittleRedEngine'I was so mesmerized when I finished gazing at my screen, I got up, turned around and walked casually into the door on the way out..~puts beef on eye~ You give me your meat and I'll kiss it better
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RHP User
13 years ago
I got nothing.. (only butterflies)~sighs~
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RHP User
13 years ago
okayyyy... so if ladies put up pics of their bits their views go up... if guys put up pics of their bits then would the same thing happen?
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RHP User
13 years ago
You're not a Leggo set, you don't have bits. Lol but put your "bits" up and see what happens. Or if you like, which is my favourite, dress up in a smurf outfit stand on the busiest road with a sign reading "smurfette??? Where are you smurfette??" :p
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RHP User
13 years ago
To be honest I don't think it matters a great deal what any guy says. One woman will say it's too forward, one will say not forward enough, another will say he didn't punctuate well enough, another will not like that he enjoys giving a woman anal sex because she thinks he will insist on it, most will suspect he's married and pretending to be single and the rest won't reply because he either doesn't have a face pic or the pic of his knob doesn't display 12 inches of perfectly buffed penis. For an average man of average looks, average socio-economic demographic and average communication skills these sites are russian roulette. I don't say average as a derogatory term either. With the quantity of information offered in the "average" females profile it's near impossible to make a highly accurate assessment of compatability so the "average" guy may as well play the numbers game with an approach he's comfortable with.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Dirtynaughtysex' To be honest I don't think it matters a great deal what any guy says. One woman will say it's too forward, one will say not forward enough, another will say he didn't punctuate well enough, another will not like that he enjoys giving a woman anal sex because she thinks he will insist on it, most will suspect he's married and pretending to be single and the rest won't reply because he either doesn't have a face pic or the pic of his knob doesn't display 12 inches of perfectly buffed penis. For an average man of average looks, average socio-economic demographic and average communication skills these sites are russian roulette. I don't say average as a derogatory term either. With the quantity of information offered in the "average" females profile it's near impossible to make a highly accurate assessment of compatability so the "average" guy may as well play the numbers game with an approach he's comfortable with. over here , and thats all a woman needs to be on RHP to go from a 2 to a 10. I have no idea where to see how many guys rate me hot or who looked, computer blonde all I know is this site is the same as working in the male prisons anything female is fucking hotttttttttttttttt. When I walk through those gates I go from 2 too 22 and thats just the blind guys
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'DeviousMissM' There are men like that on this site. And they are the ones I will gladly communicate with, whether there is a chance we'll ever meet or not. Could you please point me in the right direction?I think my profile is pretty clear about what I am looking for...... and yet all I seem to get are guys wanting me to "come fuck" them.And I no longer even have a pic up!I have lost almost all hope.Boo
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RHP User
13 years ago
I'm surprised you ask that question ?
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'feloniusfossil' I have been out and met women with face pics that I would never have realisedit was them if the meet was in a public place.Just lucky I was going to their houses.One woman didn't even have a pic, butshe promised I wouldn't be dissapointedmannn she was smokin hot! of course Iguess it could have gone the other way as well.Sometimes you gotta go with your gut feelingand take a chance.Cheers Felonious Precisely !
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Coldvine' Seems like some of us men are being lumped together in the visual think sex basket by some of the ladies here. Sorry to say but we are not all like that.Looking into someone's eyes, listening to their conversation over a great meal does a whole lot more for me. If a girl can't hold a conversation sorry all the tits and bums won't do it for me.If some one would like a real country gentleman then let me know. I will cook you a meal which we can enjoy while looking out over paradise and chat the night away. Desert would be up to you. Would you cook me dinner ? Just kidding, thanks for pointing out or reminding the ladies that there is variety if you look for it.
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boots_69
13 years ago
Brave-heart, some of us would ask (nicely) if there was a picture or not depending on what is in the profile. (some will just ask)If I don't ask you cannot tell me no and would never know if there was any possible connection and the worst you can say to me is yes - (I still get nervous about going on a date)To tuscanred - your pictures always send my mind a dreaming of what a meeting with you would bring.Cheers Boots
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RHP User
13 years ago
Well I would think that is most guys intention they dont actually care as long as they can see u got a nice bum or boobs they will go in for the kill :p
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RHP User
13 years ago
missopenminded , I do agree with you on that comment, most guys do think and act in that way. But I have come across a few ladies just as bad as the guys lol
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RHP User
13 years ago
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