M58 F55
Why is with some people !!??
June 08 2019
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naughtytintin
7 years ago
Totally worth ranting about! That is no only incredibly rude but also lame, spineless, and contemptible. As you say at least have the balls to say you can’t make it, even better offer to pay anyway.
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AnnieWhichway
7 years ago
His wife's girls night out was cancelled? Has happened to many of us. Sometimes if there is a long lead in period and all parties talk it up, the 'single male' gets a little concerned that he doesn't have the performance to back it up and ghosts you.
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RHP User
7 years ago
I absolutely agree with you but I have to ask; have you considered that maybe they did it because of one of your rants like this one (this is not the first one I’ve noticed)? Not saying that makes it ok, it totally doesn’t but it’s something worth considering...you give a certain impression of yourselves in rants like this and indeed every time you comment on RHP forums and as we all know it stays there for everyone to see. I hope this one doesn’t do your sex life too much more damage.
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RHP User
7 years ago
That is BS, it happens all too often, I've never stood anyone up without an absolute unavoidable issue. Can you out him or is that going a bit too far.
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justforthefun44
7 years ago
This happens far to much. It has happened to use with men women couples. Don't know why they talk the talk but that's as far as it goes. Remember there is some really respectful and nice pepole on here. Just move on.
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countrytouch82
7 years ago
I've been left with no one at mere coffee dates, but my suggestion would be never to meet for the first time involving a special booking like this, I think everyone is best to meet at least for drinks first. Someone can ghost before a meeting and essentially remain anonymous even to you. Some have more than one phone number too etc. Someone that will turn up to a more casual meeting or drinks, makes it much more certain they will turn up to a second, and you also gain more real information about them, which makes it harder for them (and thus more unwilling) to just disappear.
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RHP User
7 years ago
This does happen a lot. Same as not answering a message sent to you. It’s just good manners and you are more likely to get another invite to meet another time. Don.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Who are just unreliable...always have been,always will be..the way of the world. The best laid plans of mice and men do often go awry, Robert Burns 1759-1796 Hugs Q
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MsSuperFoxy
7 years ago
They are allowed to change their minds and do not have to tell you. As you stated he offered to pay, but something after that has happened that maybe he got turned off. Which does happen. You do not have control over others, especially when you have not met them. They really have no obligation to you. What is rude, is writting a post wanting people pf the forums to validate your rant and your high expectations for him to do as you wanted. That comes from you, no one else. You choose to place yourselves in that position and paid for the accommodation yourselves. Best thing to do is Thank them for their time and move one. You can not change what happened. Just hope you both had a great night. Ms Foxy
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RHP User
7 years ago
Ummm...he could of at least told them..pretty rude
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RHP User
7 years ago
Fair rant it's very rude. A simple sorry can't make it is easy to do. And this is what this forum is for. do not let trolls tell you otherwise.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Where’s the other person’s point of view? One way rants are the furthest thing from fair in my opinion. Do I give a fuck if you want to label me a troll because of it? Nah not really. Rants like this make people look like self entitled brats, sure it’s annoying to get stood up but don’t come here running people down with your one sided story, it’s a terrible look. Questions are always welcome, rants not so much.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Well...someone’s expectations haven’t been met .... Maybe it was his also?? I have no idea why on earth people get so invested both emotionally and financially when it comes first meets... Not only are you deliberately putting yourself in the disappointment zone, but you set bars far too high for future meets.... What would’ve happened had this guy turned up as per the agreement and failed to meet your performance expectations, would we still be reading about it?? In all honestly threads like these are merely a waste of energy and shows just how resilient, casual, good natured people just aren’t despite their profile contents... I hope your very obvious bruised egos don’t suffer for too long and you get your closure....
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Forus1234
7 years ago
We would never tell people we have booked a room or booking room to play. (We haven’t met before). That sets the expectation that it’s going to happen. We always say meet first & see what happens. Yes we have knocked them back at meet up. Unless we are staying in town for weekend or for business, we never book the room in advance, but play in an area where rooms are available & if we are happy, Mr F slips away & organises the room. It has hasn’t failed us yet. Never had a no show! The guy offered to pay for the room, we’ve never had one offer this, there are clever people on this site, but not clever enough. If their profile isn’t validated or verified we don’t chat to them, most get off on the texting, minimal messaging before meeting, even if they provided you a number on their 2nd phone! Always talk on the phone earlier as well, we can usually tell by conversation on speaker phone both of us listening, get a feel if the gent is genuine. If we invite them to play, we pay for the room & have never asked people to pay half. Also no further pics are given via kik, if they are not happy with pgs bad luck! Countrytouch82 that’s shitty, people have actually left you there at coffee meets. It doesn’t cost much to text & say I can’t make it.
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AnnieWhichway
7 years ago
I wouldn't call it a rant, just statement of how a rude person fucked around someone who were prepared to be intimate with a relative stranger. Offering up ones intimacy in those circumstances surely warrants the other party to act in a decent manner and simply letting them know that they wont be attending. Perhaps those having a crack at the OP should deserve a serve of similar treatment and see how they feel. I'm with the OP. No names mentioned and fairly controlled release of their feelings. Can't see why that's a problem.
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RHP User
7 years ago
You booked a room but you haven’t met ? Rookie error right there. Slow down, do due diligence then think about where when who pays etc. Good luck.
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RHP User
7 years ago
One time I was sitting in a pub car park for a lunch meet and was just about to go into the pub and the phone rang, it was the wife asking me to go and pick up my son from school because he was sick. I thought it was my date calling to say she'd arrived, I called her as I drove away and she met me another time. In this case the ghosting sucks and is plain bad manners.
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RHP User
7 years ago
My god! Why would anyone give an opprtunity with a piece of ass like yours!!!
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RHP User
7 years ago
Sorry just saying manner is something I also look for.. If he's lost interest or turned off fair enough, but what stops him from saying can't make it.. I like common decency says a lot about a person. I'm guessing the ones saying why invest your time or expect manners are more than likely the same ppl who don't turn up enexplained..
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Localtradie
7 years ago
What as absolute fking idiot
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MsSuperFoxy
7 years ago
A huge "likely" call there, without backing up of evidence. People are innocent till proven guilty. Just because you like something (as stated "common decency") doesn't mean others do or expect the same. No one got harmed in the opening statement sinario. The only ones suffering is the OP cause their feeling got hurt and rejected. Ms Foxy
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RHP User
7 years ago
Superfoxxxy Sorry you set your standards so low. Just because you don't care about your intereations with others does not mean that others share your view.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Thanks for the feedback.. even the negative lol. I just think it is simply bad manners.. After all, how long does it take to send a text.. AND we had to pay for the room as we had booked it in our name lol.
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RHP User
7 years ago
As a matter of fact super foxy.. It wasnt so much feelings hurt, more so our Saturday night, and $180 wasted, all because he couldn't be bothered to send a simple text.. And no, he doesnt "owe us anything" ..but simple decency and good manners are too much to good for apparently.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Figured it out! if you play the whatever card you get more likes flirts validations from men obviously because they think your easy or easy going.. Water of a ducks back superfoxxxy
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MsSuperFoxy
7 years ago
That you put unknown profiles and strangers from the internet in your reality. It is a jungle out there, so go for it, if it makes you safe. I'm done and going to ignore further posts, as your posts give me the hibby jibbies and are creepy, not just to myself but to other posters in the forums too. Ms Foxy
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RHP User
7 years ago
Funny when the tables are turned. Your now playing the victim with your imaginary followers.
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RHP User
7 years ago
God I hope hibbie jibbies are not contagious with all your follows we might have a apperdemic on our hands..
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RHP User
7 years ago
Well, we all understand. RHP is only just full/riddled with time wasters/bullishiters and shit cunts (so to say the truth always hurts) Iam a real Swinger of 20yrs, alternative sexual lifestyles. Maybe try membership with Swingers Heaven!!!!! Australia’s largest website. And I don’t think many people on RHP should pay for another membership, but all the real alternative sexual lifestyle people here on RHP should get together on forum’s and we create our own RED/BLACK book site. Groups in Facebook/Kik ?????
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RHP User
7 years ago
It is only the net, it is only the net, it is only the net. I think a lot of people on the net just forget that it's real people behind the profile and can't really be bothered to show simple courtesy. It could be worse and people are now happier to be wilfully ignorant, on or off the net. $AUD 0.02
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RHP User
7 years ago
I suppose its nice that some people in here are defending the guy kind of but Islands 'rant' was very specific, they didnt attack all people who cancel for legit reasons or because they lose attraction. As far as rants go it was pretty slack really. The fact is its rude not to send a quick message saying 'nope, bye'. Its totally ok to decide you dont want to misbehave just say so. Ideally before any rooms are booked. Though rooms booked for a stranger is being quite optimistic. Book multiple guys next time, one at 8 another at 11 haha
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Seachange73
7 years ago
No. It's not the same. "This does happen a lot. Same as not answering a message sent to you. It’s just good manners and you are more likely to get another invite to meet another time. Don." Sending an unwanted or unsolicited message to someone and expecting an entitled reply or acknowledgement is different from an agreement or commitment from one person to another to meet for coffee or whatever. It's like me walking down a busy street at lunch time and a stranger from across the road says hello. There's no obligation or expectation for me to reply to such a random interaction. The prominent difference is the level of participation and commitment between two parties to engage in a discussion or meet. In this scenario, both parties agreed to meet, but one was a no show, leaving one party at a financial and even, emotional disadvantage. That is rude and not deserving of any respect, in my opinion. I can't see why don't they even bother calling ahead of time and apologize. Gives the OP the opportunity to cancel the booking or spend the time more constructively.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Thankyou Sea change ...eloquently put.
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Seachange73
7 years ago
What's not to like about it? It is really about the certain level of respect, politeness and courtesy we extend and expect from other people around us living in a civilized community. If you live in a totally bogan or feral world, yes it may be overlooked or even not recognised. But most emotionally intelligent and empathetic humans would think outside their self-centred world and assess how their actions can affect other people they have made agreement with. Are they allowed to change their mind to meet? Absolutely! However, that is not the point, isn't it? It is about courtesy, it is about decency. both commited to meet and there are expenses (mainly on the OP) and precious Time involved. The least a person could do is to call, text Kik his apologies ahead of time so as to leave the other party options. There may be a Next meet or never. I am not privy to the whole story. None of us are, except for the OP and the other party. But the scenario is clear. I'd you don't like the way things are moving, just tell him/her/them ahead of before things get further. Apologize. No need to explain. Common decency. We are all brought up with it. But some choose.not to like it or apply it to their life. Their choice, no problemo. My choice to avoid them. 😊👍
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RHP User
7 years ago
And again.. well said 🙌👍
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Seachange73
7 years ago
It just does not make sense. Care to elaborate? "That you put unknown profiles and strangers from the internet in your reality. It is a jungle out there, so go for it, if it makes you safe." I may be missing the point of even being online (via the internet btw 😏). Isn't it just another medium by which we meet new people (let's call them strangers) and hopefully we meet them face to face (let's call it reality) for friendship or play or relationship. Whatever you are seeking. You are here, on the internet, like everyone else on RHP. You chat to unknowns and Strangers on DM and/or chat room, and they to you (btw a stranger to them too). If you find a connection, you may decide to meet for drinks/coffee and check each other out. If you are both happy, you may decide to play at some later point or just keep it at a social level. It only transcends to reality when you meet face to face with the virtual strangers and it confirms your expectations. What's so unsafe about it? Your statement above implies you don't meet "strangers from the internet" in real life? Do you?
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RHP User
7 years ago
I would have shown up!
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting '3andmore4' Funny when the tables are turned. You're now playing the victim with your imaginary followers. The last time someone accused me of playing the victim things were getting personal, and it's great that things haven't gotten personal and belligerent here for awhile now. Let's keep it like that.Anyway the point is that when accused of playing the victim I pointed out that they did not have my permission to make me a victim so I certainly wouldn't be playing that role... *expletive deleted* I maintain that I can't read minds when I don't have anything to work with, how are you going with that?
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RHP User
7 years ago
Mr mo Jo Not sure if your speaking for yourself or for someone else.. If she's going to post feedback on a topic be ready for the same criticism she hands out. i'm over every forum post being belittled and ridiculed. I read these post not because I'm bored but I might actually learn something new about sex about men about couples about this life style.
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RHP User
7 years ago
My point is that your accusation of Foxxxy playing the victim is pure point scoring on your part. Just because you claim they are playing the victim does not actually mean that they are, or even consider themselves to be a "victim".
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RHP User
7 years ago
Fucking tosser. And loser - no doubt missed out on an awesome time!!
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RHP User
7 years ago
Very rude... he should be respectful and let the other party know if he can’t make it. There are some of us who would like even one opportunity to play, so guys who get them should at least be civilized and show courtesy
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RHP User
7 years ago
That’s a joke he should of at least told you!! His loss your sexy as!!!
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Seachange73
7 years ago
It's OK for people to voice their grievances and point out frailties if this lifestyle. Is it a rant? Who cares. But it matters to the OP. Some people are here to learn and be made wary of the potholes of swinging. If people find they don't like reading about rants, exercise your choice of skipping over these posts. I do. We're all adults. Nobody forces anyone to read anything. 😎 Again, the value of a post is only relevant and pertinent to those who get something out of it. Maybe a rant post helps others. If it's not valid or vilifying, I'm sure the mods will have it deleted before you can say cocksucker!!😋. Peace out.
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LustAndLoveXoX
7 years ago
I had so many people canceling on this website that I just have very low expectations and I leave for a day when I have absolutely nothing on. Most people booke three of four dates and can only go to one, so the rest will eventually be disappointed.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Argh this has happened to me twice! Rant is totally warranted. I find it the height of rudeness. If you are no longer interested or there is a change of plans, it's not hard to msg a quick reply to someone. Ghosting is the worst and I find it gutless. I think it just goes to show that if a person is willing to do that, then their company wasnt worth your time in the first place.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Yeah, that is pretty rude. My guess either he wasn’t who he said he was... surprise surprise, or he flat out got scared to back up the talk and flirting he was probably doing. Either way, definitely not the way to call off and encounter. Wish you guys a lot more fun and hope other meetings go better than that one. Eric
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RHP User
7 years ago
I've had this too way too often. People cancelling at the last minute once so many plans have been made. It's very dissapointing. It's not the fact they cant/no longer want to meet once arranged, it's the fact they say it at the last minute and often you've said no to a few other potential meet ups and then it's too late to organise anything with any of them so you literally end up with nothing for the night.
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wallis4you
7 years ago
The same has happened to me before. I find most people on this site quite genuine. It’s a shame that some people ruin it for us. I’d be pissed too. Good luck in the future 😘
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RHP User
7 years ago
BS person
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RHP User
7 years ago
Island life...I think I have the answer.....well maybe answers.. 1. He had not looked fully at your profile.2. He was completely out of his mind.3. He looked into the sun too long and burnt his retinas out prior to contacting you.4. He was completely out of his mind.5. He's cheese grating his genitals in a mental asylum.6. He's Mrs cancelled her night out.7. He's completely out of his mind.8. He wanted to see if he could get you to tanty in the forum.9. He's completely out of his mind.10. He was Indian, Pakistani, or Middle Eastern and fully read your profile and decided he didn't really like racist, redneck, C*%TS!!!11. Maybe he just wasn't all that into Caucasians..??? Dry your eyes mate, pick one of the other 8,000 barby doll loving meat trays in your inbox....and quit your farking winging and wining!!! Oh and by the way, did they have foxtel and room service? Being that you were so short of "things" to do? A mini bar perhaps? You could have kicked back and eaten stale pringles and drank out of date overpriced coronas and thrown your empties at the Bollywood on the fingerprint covered big screen. What a night out, you'd love it!! Rant over...bah ha ha ha...
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RHP User
7 years ago
Single male here and whilst I can’t speak for the rude people that cancel I can speak for myself. To me, as a single male on here that knows how rare great couples and women are who actually desire, arrange and then do indeed meet for mutually enjoyable fun with me..... no way would I ever cancel on confirmed plans to meet (hopefully more than once as time went on).
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'aleksiii' I would have shown up!
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MissMellow
7 years ago
AHH....big shame ...that people are sometimes very, very empty vessels!!...behind the cloak of anonymity!!! Shallow as .... Leave em where they belong... Better awaits you🌴
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MissMellow
7 years ago
Shane you had a negative experience. Not yours. Pity so many inadequate at...even basic communicating Their transference is all. Say get offline and go get help!!! 😊 Compromise nada.. Leave em in their shallow gene pond and move upwards 🌴
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RHP User
7 years ago
I won’t do that to you!! 😘
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RHP User
7 years ago
Gotta agree with usebi on this one ..always meet first ..x
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RHP User
7 years ago
Mr mo Jo Who's point scoring for who 😂 Please lol.
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RHP User
7 years ago
What if his mother died, or he died? You just don’t know what is happening in another person’s mind so don’t be so judgemental. Maybe you said or did something innocently that offended or hit a nerve. Maybe you didn’t see the warning signs because you were so keen. If it was so good why would he disappear? There is always a reason if you’re listening. Be patient even though your itch is fierce lol. Don’t let this affect your self-esteem.
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AandA26
7 years ago
It is because most blokes are all talk.
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Mask_007
7 years ago
Hi OP. I don't know what goes true some people head's. In saying that, a friend told me once that to some human's is just about the chaise, and as soon as they get. Is releasing time because is no me interest... In the other hand people like us lime the chaise as a build up to a good time... Best of luck, not that you need it...
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RHP User
7 years ago
I had the same thing this weekend. All good Thursday, silence Friday, no show Saturday. These people really take all the fun out of what should be an escape from lifes bullshit and complications, not exacerbating them...
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RHP User
7 years ago
Communication is the key, disrespectful not to advise of change in availability. Then suspicious if no further contact... Always meet publicly first, then book the room.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Im with you guys very rude life happens and yes we change our minds ,but basic manners is to let you know either before or at the least to msg with an explination even if you just got cold feet
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RHP User
7 years ago
Well that was an amusing read. Lol
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RHP User
7 years ago
This happens so often, it's not funny. I do believe that about 90% of people on the site will never meet let alone play. Just 'amusing ' themselves at home . Keep going fun is around the corner.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Zany Swingle... Interesting comment to say the least! Started out mildly amusing.. but then seemed to take a somewhat nasty turn.. By the end I got the definite impression you were telling us to go fuck our selves.. Thanks very much.. Hopefully lots of ladies and couples who could have potentially been a match for you are now dissuaded from approaching you..
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RHP User
7 years ago
Mask.. Yes, we have wondered this ourselves.. Sort of a boost to the ego. And once boosted, they are content.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Last min cancelation Lolsss I heard this alot from couples... I never do that after I make commitment..but there are so many good guys that are genuine and never get chance to play so I think that's what these people deserve when they choose wrong guys.... LOLs...
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up4fun70
7 years ago
Yep...totally agree it is rude. Sometimes a lot of effort goes into organising a night & then you get left out completely. At least if you were told you could have made other arrangements with someone else 😊
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RHP User
7 years ago
There is no manners anymore. I have been sent invites to meet up and after a few messages back and forth and when the time comes to arrange a meet you don't hear from them as though they have disappeared. I have met some fantastic people and had a great time. Same as sending messages, have sent heaps and I say in each one just message back if not interested, it's not that hard, it's not costing you anything as I sent you the message. It's the world we live in now, rude , arrogant and nasty people who have no respect for other people.
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RHP User
7 years ago
That’s crap, so sorry to hear! I’d have flown up from Sydney to see you guys with a profile like yours, god damn. The guy must be a total moron.... Out him I say, lol!
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RHP User
7 years ago
Getting stood up....story of my life lol. One time I got stood up by 5 different women in 5 days in a row. Bad for the self esteem....wasn't a good week lol
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Seachange73
7 years ago
"10. He was Indian, Pakistani, or Middle Eastern and fully read your profile and decided he didn't really like racist, redneck, C*%TS!!! 11. Maybe he just wasn't all that into Caucasians..???" What an angry post. Is there some history between you and the OP? Are you OK? Their personal preference for playing partners should be respected. Why get so worked up for nothing? So if they only prefer to play with bisexual males, will you take offence in that too? Is that sexism? I'm of Asian descent and may not be everyone's cup of tea. Should I be shouting racist? Waste of time. So chill. I have certain preferences in men. I hope nobody persecutes me for my choice of highly intelligent, emotionally evolved, sexy, respectful men.
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RHP User
7 years ago
There are some very rude people on here. Especially ones that stand up for the No Shows.
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Verypicky
7 years ago
What a goose, we would love to play with you guys
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RHP User
7 years ago
It's never good, but I'd love to know the ratio of men to woman that ghost.
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RHP User
7 years ago
I have found it is common for people I have chatted to on RHP to not follow through with agreements. To be honest, it was probably better he didn't show. It just showed his true character and perspective of you to not even get in contact. You dodged a bullet, trust me.
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AnnieWhichway
7 years ago
Bet the OP is glad it wasn't you that was booked for a meet. Guessing everyone else is as well. Guess every site has a few but at least it's one less that we don't know about now
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RHP User
7 years ago
how can some guys cancel a date with you mmmmm stunning and sexy i be on the next flight out of wa see you soon
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Sexypartypeople
7 years ago
That’s just the nature of most people on here. There’s heals of type kickers. For what it’s worth we exchange a few messages with you guys, left you a phone number and never heard anything more either.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Do you not get interest from anyone you liked in the repost of the date?
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RHP User
7 years ago
Sexy party people... Hmmmm... not quite the same though is it.. kind of a mute point.. But thanks for trying 😂👍
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Sexypartypeople
7 years ago
If you say so. 🙄
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RHP User
7 years ago
😂😂
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RHP User
7 years ago
It’s a horrible way to meet others, so many fakes, to sift through and find that special person that you connect with and want to meet. Then the pressure to play straight up... I don’t have any advice. I have friends that I have met with within 24 hours, instantly clicked with and taken it to the bedroom. I have others that I have been chatting with for 2 weeks but they still don’t have the courage to actually meet in person. One guy for 6 months, but jets not talk about him, he is special 😉. Just don’t give up. Don’t take it personally. And don’t waste your time and energy being angry. There are so many amazing people here, and you are both incredibly attractive. The right person will come along. Sounds like you dodged an awkward encounter, I highly doubt it would have been a good night. If they don’t have the courage to be up front and honest, then it’s unlikely they would be comfortable naked with strangers.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Totally understand you're frustration! Single guys have been quite flaky with us too. All talk and no action. The other thing we've found is profile pics where wuiye athletic and toned and then you meet and they are not. False advertising! The single girls have been very true to their word and reliable. So nice when you put in the effort. It is a real let down when you arrange with a single guy and he doesn't show or cancels last minute. Don't even get us started on the time wasters. We have them pretty much sussed out now. Overall though, whinge aside, we have had really positive experiences mostly by just going to parties and meet & greets. Lots of people and way less effort.
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RHP User
7 years ago
It comes down to respect and manners, if I planned to meet or have a drink. I would respect what I had organised and if something truly came up or I had a change of heart. Message and let the other people know, it’s not that difficult. Island_life they lost out, great profile guys.
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RHP User
7 years ago
So sorry to hear that M & T .
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RHP User
7 years ago
That's not fair, many things could happen, but at least say before it that won't be possible to make it.
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RHP User
7 years ago
His loss , I’ve never no showed ;)
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RHP User
7 years ago
Gee never read a forum before probably wont again, like watching grass grow. I bought an item on ebay, never received it, yep thats rude. I ran into a guy on the footpath, too busy on his phone, yep thats rude. Rarely these days do people give up their seat on the train for elderly, yep thats really rude. Of course not being bothered to advise either ahead or even apologise after sux, absolutely. There may be a reason of course, who really knows, but that was yesterday and yesterday is the past, tomorrow is the future, best just live for today.!!!!...... Ok, go for it folks, savage me, i wont be reading it but what the heck, go ur hardest... Only serious, have fun, life is far too short..
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Philauscouple
7 years ago
OP.......had the same experience many times, especially when craigslist was our only contact place. We learned that meeting new contacts at the swingers clubs was a better way. If there was a no show, we then had plenty of options. Thankfully RHP members are much more serious and reliable.
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RHP User
7 years ago
In principle it is very lame and disappointing to be let down like this. And I believe that there was a side ‘to be heard’ from his side, then he would have replied. So to ghost you is never ever acceptable. Having arranges many dozens of play dates, here is what I found: Don’t arrange the date too long in advance. People tend to cool off or the acute feeling of horniness goes away and then they either ghost you or don’t show. It is by far the best to arrange it on the day a few hours before the time. Yes I know the risk of then not getting someone but that’s better than getting a no-show. Don’t chat too much about it. When there seems to be a connection, set up the public meet with the play venue close by. Chatting too much about it over expose you and the other person and the curiosity fades. Don’t exchange too many intimate pics, again leaving the urge to satisfy the curiosity as mentioned above. Have a backup plan. Know what you’re gonna do for the evening if this doesn’t work out. Be prepared to be disappointed. Don’t make costly arrangements that hinges on the reliability of a stranger. It’s mostly possible to call and book a room at very short notice. Happy playing 😉
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RHP User
7 years ago
Good advice Buwana 👍
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like2watchNplay
7 years ago
Yes... it’s almost as rude as people having a good chat with you on here and then they cut off all communication with you after you give them access to your PG’s, it would be nice if people had the decency, or like you said (balls) to atleast say thanks but you’re not what we are looking for instead of just not hearing from them again. These type of people are not worth getting all upset about, we like to think of it as they just showed us their true colours of who and what they are really like, (Not worth knowing). You’re right Island_life, more manners would be great, but that’s life, unfortunately some people are just so effing rude and inconsiderate. Having said all that, it has been sooo worth it when it comes to the fun we have had and the life long friendships we made on here!
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levitation
7 years ago
This has happened to us so many times. It has also happened to my man and myself when playing alone quite a few times. We never really could understand why go to all the trouble communicating and building it up when you can’t as much as cancel. We look at it as there massive loss. Actually we know it is there loss. Have plenty of xxx fun. Bren
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RHP User
7 years ago
I have the same beef with women chat for ages. Then when it gets time they either don’t reply for some reason or block you for no reason. It gets so annoying. Why please if you’re not interested or have no intention please don’t waste peoples time and money. Cheers.
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NortyMan1
7 years ago
I too think is totally rude .... not to at least say ... he lost interest ... or something has come up ... i don’t understand how you would go through all that build up and not show up ... especially after he offered to pay ... hmmm ... did something happen ... maybe I just look for the good in people ... and maybe I’m a little old school where manners and being courteous should be the norm .. On the flip side I guess there are good and bad guys and girls ... who have minimal to no manners
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Offroadfun666
7 years ago
Well, sadly I had a very similar experience where I travelled 1hr 15mins (one way) to meet a female only to have her go non responsive when I announced I was at the location... She’s still on here collecting friends and despite a ‘report’ to admin no outcome to this day.... There seem to be far too many wannabes and picture collectors.... Adelaide is small enough to find suitors without being pissed around!Oh the joys!!!
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