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bad blow jobs??
January 29 2010
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RHP User
16 years ago
i dont think there is a bad bj lol
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RHP User
16 years ago
Some people are great kissers and some are great BJers! Good: - teasing before blowing so I REALLY want it - wet - lots of saliva - sexy eye contact - soft and gentle at first but building to faster and more energetic sucking - additionals: ball licking and sucking, gentle fingering, rimming...
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RHP User
16 years ago
From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia Fellatio, also called fellation,[1] is oral sex performed upon the penis. It may be performed to induce orgasm and ejaculation of semen, or it can be used as foreplay prior to vaginal or anal forms of intercourse. Fellatio is commonly referred to as a blowjob.[2] Fellatio is also sometimes referred to as "giving head" or "going down," although these terms can also both be used for cunnilingus.[3] Other terms include "sucking dick", "sucking cock", or "sucking off".______________________So as far as I am concerned all the woman I have been with have give me FANTASTIC blowjobs. It is like cunilngus (licking a pussy) you have to be aware of what the other person likes and keep doing it. Once you hit the pleasure point nothing keep going!! I think more men are rubbish at cunnilngus than woman at fellatio.ciaoHermes
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RHP User
16 years ago
It all comes down to five things... Real enthusiasm No inhibitions No gag reflexes No teeth One finger in my bum Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
16 years ago
Courses are run once a month at Club Rub. :p Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
16 years ago
We hear so often how so many men just don't know what they are doing when going down, but unfortunately it is the same for a lot of women.There is no one single technique guaranteed to work on all guys, however there are a few pointers which do help.These pointers can also be used for guys going down on women.1. First of all is enthusiasm. If you don' absolutely love what you are doing, you are not going to give it your best. It's been said in the forums before, most guys would prefer to go without, tan to be mauled by someone who is merely going through the motions.2.Have Fun. Pretty much ties in with the enthusiasm bit. If you are not having fun, then you will just be going through the motions again3.Learn the art of Tease. It can start heaps earlier in the day. Do what ever you can to build up the excitement. Then when you get down to business, tease a bit more.These are my 3 pointersStalky has some good points there too, but if you tried to stick a finger up my date you're more likely to get propelled across the room. Jus not into it!Thats just how i roll
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RHP User
16 years ago
If its good or bad.....just read a post on another thread where a man commented that they fib about the bj you give them being the best they've ever had!!
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RHP User
16 years ago
True not all guys are into the old finger on the sphinkter trick! Also, not all guys have sensitive nipples, but playing with sensitive nipples while performing a BJ is also a reasonable approach. BTW... One of her fingers in my bum while she is blowing you ~ is that ok, Rough? :p Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
16 years ago
Mr F here. Some people are just gifted at doing things like going down.....no matter whether its on a male or female. I've had some absolute knee tremblers and I've also had some that just plain sucked (couldn't resist that pun). Its all about learning what your recipient likes and then catering specifically for it. You must enjoy it to excel at it or you're better doing something else. There's nothing better than being someone's guinea pig that wants to learn =) Stay beautiful!
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RHP User
16 years ago
i completely agree with what roughfukr says.but when it comes to actual technique, here's my opinion.teeth: they shouldn't touch the dick at all, it just feels really weird even if it's very light contact.hand: if you're gonna use a hand don't pull down too hard...tounge: don't put it against the roof of your mouth to prevent gagging. it still feels kinda alright, but feels best when it's against the dick.i've never had a complaint about a blow job once a girl has knocked those things were out of the way. hope this helps yummymummy
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RHP User
16 years ago
ROughFUkr got it right.. specially the art of tease part. ... Pretty much works like this: give what you want back. ;)
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'ElleDee'If its good or bad.....just read a post on another thread where a man commented that they fib about the bj you give them being the best they've ever had!! G'day ElleDee! This is one generalization that I believe I can get away with.... as previously mentioned, if the blowER is passionate about the subject at mouth, employs a combination of gentle enthusiasm soft sucking, tantalizing tongue roll, palate control, time mgt & genuine sensuality then its.....
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RHP User
16 years ago
Some years ago after my wife and I went our separate ways and I got back on the dating treadmill, I was pleasently surprised at the number of women who in the heat of passion would perform oral sex on me. I really can't think of any that didn't go down on me, and I say surprised because my ex wasn't that keen and only performed when she lost a bet on some contentious issue or argument, which for me the winning prize was always a BJ. (If you ask I"ll tell you what her requested prize was). I don't recall ever having a "bad one" at all, as all blow jobs are fantastic. However quite often the difference between a BJ and a fantastic BJ is the degree of passion and enjoyment the person puts into it, in addition as to whetherthe person likes cum on their face or in their mouth. Probably by far the best BJ exponent was a lady who sucked my cock with such lusty fervour and passion and then hungrily devoured the juices that I shot my load in record time accompanied by a very intense orgasm. A BJ from her was a life altering experience. I still think of her and reflect back on her prowess in that department, darn well wished I'd married her (not just because of her BJ expertise either). Anyhow in more recent times I have been complimented in my oral skills by both male and females, and I think it is the fact that I enjoy performing oral and pleasing my partner and the passion that I display is as important as technique. And as a final answer to the last part of the original question: "is there a course out there?" Of course there is, and I am more than happy to give lessons, free of charge naturally. LOL! Happy sucking everybody.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Most guys will happily let you suck their cock...even if you're not that great at it...but I've learned the following...Enthusiasm beats technique every time. Same with cunnilingus...if the recipient feels like you just can't get enough of them...it will be much more enjoyable for them as opposed to feeling like you're just going thru the motions.Ask lots of questions...mmm...you like that, baby?....or listen for the sounds and movements that tell you you are hitting a sweet spot....keep doing what gets a positive reaction....skip over what doesn't.Have fun...experiment. Try a mouthful of icy cold coke before slipping his cock in....or a mouthful of nice hot coffee (not too hot though!)...and hard sucking....soft licking....humming....blowing gently on spit wet skin....the list is endless!!Some guys like the bum play...some don't. Tickle your finger down his crack...tease his hole...if he pushes towards it...you can be pretty sure he's willing to try more. If he doesn't...don't force the issue...just move on to something else.Make sure you don't neglect his balls either. Firmly but gently...handling...sucking...unless he says otherwise.I love sucking a guys balls...get them all nice and wet...then blow gently on them and watch the sac pucker...mmmThere is no BJ formula that fits everyone....the only thing the same for all of them is that you use your mouth!!Just my opinion...BJxxx
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DonnaBrett
16 years ago
The main thing (male speaking here) is that the woman in question MUST be wanting to do it....if her heart isn't in it..then neither is her mouth. Generally speaking though most BJ's I've encountered have been good...right up to awesome! I can really only think of once where the girl really had no idea and to make it worse she was all teeth!! Felt like a month full of razor blades...not good! LOL
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RHP User
16 years ago
Interesting post, I have heard alot of guys say some women have no idea about giving a bj.. I, personally feel it is a natural and urging experience to do to my partner and love it... You have to like it or love it to do it good.... Was giving a bj to a fukbuddy once and he liked it and told me to keep going, next minute he fainted lol....spose I was good...lol...was crazy at the time but scary also... I have never had any complaints, only enthusiastics.. I personally love giving head, it's like kissing...adore it. Mexican Wave to BJ's oh yeah... xx
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floyd277
16 years ago
well in all my years I've never had a bad one but some are way better than others - missbj you should put together an instructional video 'cause you ARE the best! lol just my opinion.....
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RHP User
16 years ago
BJ, I want to come visit you! In essense, enthusiasm is the key and communication, be it via "you like that?" or pleasurable groans when you do something yummy is the key, like ass play, everyone is different. I'd argue a bad blow job is one where the giver hasn't modified behaviour to suit the recipient. It is an art, everyone is different and practice makes perfect. For the record, I love my balls sucked, cock stocked as its sucked, tongue licking under the head, rimming and prostate massage. Finish that with looking into her eyes and you see the look of pure lust and desire and I am a done monkey! "A blow job from an ugly person and standing on a cliff have one thing in common. Don't look down!"
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'stalky' Courses are run once a month at Club Rub. :pif that trick works I proclaim you King of the World ;)
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RHP User
16 years ago
lol..... Sydneyboy.. I wasnt ecpecting much response.. but at the very least I thought Jane would get a laugh out of the comment.... hehe. Hugs Gaz
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RHP User
16 years ago
Enthusiasm & adaptability. These are the keys. Each person likes something different. Someone above mentioned a finger in the anus, I personally prefer a little stroking & a hand tightly wrapped around my throat choking me. Some guys like the lollipop thing. You have to be able to read the bodies reactions to truly satisfy your partner. If you listen carefully the body will tell you all its secrets. I usually prefer to go down over receiving oral. It has only been in the last eight months I have actually met some lovely women I would consider masters of oral. One actually looked at it as a continuation of breath play & would get off from gagging on my penis.Also guys you have to consider the size of your penis. I have seen penises on porn that I have laughed at and thought even as a hetro male I could deep throat without even coughing once. Then some of us have large members that can cause even the seasoned pro to gag and suffer from lock jaw. This can reduce enjoyment for our partner & therefor lose the joy of receiving oral as their uncomfort can be felt. Some girls have no gag reflex but from personal experience I would say this is 1 in 100 ratio. Girls watch how the guy wanks and remember this for the act. Try to look at him and maybe talk it up a little bit, this can always help.
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wannabyummymummy
16 years ago
hey thanks for the tips missbj seems i may have misrepresented myself i actually use a lot of the things suggested here and i have been complimented on my skills every time so i am confident that i have it sorted which is why i was so surprised to hear from a few men that this is not a God given talent which is issued to ALL women, (poor things that missed out)Totally agree with the enthusiasm angel though really don't understand women who are not into it what is with that??? i actually have a friend who is so not into it that she doesn't like oral AT ALL to give or receive??????? totally puzzled by that one.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Yeah mate, that works for me
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RHP User
16 years ago
I can feel the flames coming but here goes... I actually don't like blow jobs... have been given them by women who are supposed to be great at it and I just don't like it. Any other guys experience this or is just me? Maybe by listing what not to do would narrow down the answer for wannabyummymummy. Now performing successful cunilngus, that is what I call fun.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Yep, in my experience, most of the women i have had a head job from are pretty average at it, only had three women who were brilliant at it and really rocked my socks off ! One was Kerrie but guess we have had lots of practice with each other. I have to disagree with the "any Bj is a good Bj" statement......if its not great i just wanna move on to a new activity! Cheers Nev....cry me a river, cry me a river of tears " Runnin' Wild " Airborne
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RHP User
16 years ago
when i worked as a techy 20 years ago there was a fella there who had been marriedcouple of years. never experienced a BJ and his wife thought it was digusting to eventhink about. he thought it was the material of porno films or something and couldn'tbelieve it actually went on. we stirred him up for months but when the 60 year old OIC came round the corner and said "Your fuckin jokin. Sack that woman and get anewun" we were in tears for days.personally have never had a bad one and like to return the faver. just been luckyi guess judging by some of the posts.hugs Earl.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I'd have to say that no - not all gals are "born with the skill" or "the passion" to do it.. my wife/ex had issues with giving or recieveing which was a shame... she felt it was "not right"... twas never something I'd been able to get past. What makes a good one... eye contact... taking it all... finding that special spot... ;-) Wayne
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wannabyummymummy
16 years ago
i am curious by this comment not a fan???? really and truly??? WOW that is a definite first for me to hear that but glad to hear that this doesn't mean that you don't like to go down on a girl, interesting points of view really
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'effswing'i dont think there is a bad bj lol my wife gives the best blow job ever, loves it with a apassion, that could be the key?? some women are just entusiastic about it and have no idea.
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RHP User
16 years ago
funnily enough....I love giving BJ's (go figure..lol) but am not a huge fan of getting my puss licked.I would much rather some nice finger work.BJxxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
hi mate what i really like is when the girl cups my balls and runs her fingers around my asshole
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RHP User
16 years ago
I think there is more to this than meets the eye at times. There is enormous pressure on guys to know or learn some technique when giving a BJ to their female partner and that needs to be far reaching because everyone likes it a little bit differently. In short, they need technique but more so use that in a responsive way according to what their partner is telling them with their body and responses. Part of getting a good blowjob ladies is to let go and respond. I am sorry but many women think a bit like you have indicated. A good BJ is a god given talent of women and that all BJ's are gratefully received by all men. Wrong! The same rules apply for both men and women. Flier1961
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RHP User
16 years ago
In relation to lick44's quote: There are no bad BLOW JOBS, some are just better then others and I would luv to get a blow job from your wife.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I am quite sure you would give me a great blow job and I would be only to happy to let my fingers do to working
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RHP User
16 years ago
I have had my fair share of BJ's.... Whilst most of them have been kinda fun... only a few have been ... " OMFG mind blowing shit im going to come down your throat if you keep that up " type of BJ!!! I think it goes both ways though... if a chick is going nuts and its hurting i will politely tell them to take it a bit easier... most chicks from my experience are not aiming to hurt a guy!!!
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RHP User
16 years ago
its not a blow job unless you are american ;) i guess its bad if she doesnt know what to do...some girls are too rough... think of it like your pussy...dont do straight in and start milking it like a plunger :( guys like to be built up (same as girls) cut guys and uncut are different too...ask the guy...easy :>
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'wannabyummymummy'i am curious by this comment not a fan???? really and truly??? WOW that is a definite first for me to hear that but glad to hear that this doesn't mean that you don't like to go down on a girl, interesting points of view really It took years for me to let my fiancee give me a BJ, and I still don't like it. I only let he do it because she gets upset with me if I stop her... maybe something of a rejection thing. My first girlfriend loved that I stopped her the first time... guess she didn't like giving them. Quoting 'MissBJ'funnily enough....I love giving BJ's (go figure..lol) but am not a huge fan of getting my puss licked.I would much rather some nice finger work.BJxxx LOL... two of a kind... we both prefer giving rather than reciving. Interesting thing about the finger work; I've been complemented on the hand(y) work... must be all those years playing the piano and working in IT using the keyboard and mouse.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Stalky love your ability to put it down so succinctly. Made me laugh out loud..yet again. Short and to the point.
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RHP User
16 years ago
mmmmmmm interesting way to distinguish the difference between 'blow job' and 'head job' lol really you NEVER had the blow job version??? is there a reason for this?? that is the best part it lets me know i have done my 'job' properly besides just love to see and hear a guy cum hope you get that mind blowing 'blow job' soon
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RHP User
16 years ago
For my ex the idea of giving bj's was too difficult to swallow (pardon the pun). Whilst the ex had no problem recieving the attention, giving was clearly an issue. After seperating she espoused that she loved it, I couldn't see it but mehhhh. Too late then!! However one night after skulling too many tequilas with friends, our friend left the room to be sick (his partner fiollowed), the ex admitted that she was keen to give me head. Best blow job ever, we got interrupted half way through but the fire had been lit and after we hit the sack she was back on the job swallowing the only load she ever did. I think the difference was a relaxed and enthusiastic frame of mind. I think male or female, releasing the inhibitions and actually enjoying the sensation of giving someone else pleasure is what truely encapsulates great oral sex.I must admit more of a cunnilingus fan as part of foreplay than cleaning up the mess afterwards. But I believe that if you are in touch with your partner and release your inhibitions both will enjoy the experience.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Well i personallyfor me there is a diff between when you get head during the sex...for eg At the start i like a blow job to be a bit of a teez licking the shaft sucking the head deep and soft. this is as much a visual as a great feeling. But lets say its after a good fucking session and she is blowing me so i can cum then a good firm hand grip and sucking hard for me is awesome...
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RHP User
16 years ago
No one has mentioned anything about depth? Which is preferred, Deep throating or hand with a greater sucking pressure? Or is it a personal preference thing? I have noticed there is a point where I compromise my sucking pressure for going deeper down the shaft. I want to know if anyone has mastered the ability to 'deep throat' and maintain the sucking pressure? And how they mastered it!
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RHP User
16 years ago
You know the art of pleasure deliciously sexy lady. Just one thing missing for me.... Love my nipples being tweaked, twisted & pulled nice n hard when my ccok's getting sucked by a sexy lady. Mmm mmmm
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wannabyummymummy
16 years ago
yep I can go deep and maintain pressure, the key is to practice and if you go deep slowly it is easier to maintain suction and so i am told it prolongs the feeling for the guy i love mastering this art form and i like to listen to my partner's reactions to know when i am hitting the right spot for him
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RHP User
16 years ago
Trust me I hve scars to prove it. Yes, scars! Also, you actually have to apply sucking pressure And make sure you watch your teeth!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Aww Crowieee, you have scars?? Ouch, you poor thing! Don't worry, in a few years time all the girls your age will lose the braces and it will be business as normal ;) Quoting 'Crowieee'Trust me I hve scars to prove it. Yes, scars! Also, you actually have to apply sucking pressure And make sure you watch your teeth!
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RHP User
16 years ago
For me it seems to be a trade off. Had one girlfriend who gave amazing hand jobs but refused to do anything with her mouth - that was more like torture than pleasure sometimes. On the plus side she was an animal in the sack itself. Then had another girl who gave head like a cornered samurai, but that was just about all she could do and was rubbish in the sack (plus the gag reflex was a little bit disconcerting) I think for a lot of guys being able to come either on the girl or in their mouth is probably a part of the experience.. thats a 'sticky' subject in itself for some ;) I think that comes down to the fact that there's less worry, and more focus on enjoyment there.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I conceitedly wrote a BJ guide for all the hapless suckers out in sexy land. I started giving out tips and, as is my nature, I figured I should probably write it all down. There are 30 must learn tips, (apart from the whole "slobber, eye contact" etc.) which glue together into about 50 decent combos of varying speed, pressure, technique etc. A Chinese Burn Pulsator with a Slide Grip 4# coupled with Incremental Slide #2 and Tongue Flick 2# which starts off set on Speed 2# or 3# with a Giggle and Smile is really quite hard to master but fuck its good lmao! Want a copy? Random
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RHP User
16 years ago
From my point of view, ( the male ) is that the a good B J happens because the woman likes what she is doing, if she is forced to do it its not worth it as it wont be good. The lead up is also important and erotic. The lady should not be rough, but not soft either, finally- girls please lips and tongue, no teeth. Also we find it works even better if we each take the time to please eachother, a B J deserves a return favour
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RHP User
16 years ago
but then, ended up with a partner who is kinda long and kinda thick and sheesh my jaw aches :(guess I should keep practicing :)llilmiss x
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'stalky' It all comes down to five things... Real enthusiasm No inhibitions No gag reflexes No teeth One finger in my bum Hugs StalkyYou forgot to mention - one finger in my bum - no nail.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Observe your partner(s) technique closely as they play for you and get talked through it especially nearing orgasm. There's a 5- 10 second period just before ejaculation where the frequency gets broken (albeit it briefly)and the "plateau of no return" is achieved. Sometimes it may take several breaks in rhythm to break through what is body pleasure (the stroking) and erotic thoughts and visiualisation (erotic dream sequences). And it is in that one second break of rhythm and the beginning of the next(often seen as a slowing down to an almost stop) triggers the body almost out of control into that wonderful space of release and pain and dizziness. So Oral mastery if you should choose master at it will require an technique and maybe some small variant to specific to yourpartner(each of us is a little different) Good Lube of ample saliva the whole time(paramount) Good firm fluid motion(add wrist twist every now & then...You twist without enough lube !!!!!! Then its down to stroke speed, and grip variants "mix it up" Your partner will mix it up in his head as necessary(another subject entirely). It is not a frenzy - your hand must emulate a wet pussy with its own mind. Your tonge emulate the best Lollipop licking competition on the world circuit( there should be such a thing) Get feedback till you got it and you're there. You gotta time that break mentioned earlier. Thats the physical trigger. Lastly and mostly over-ridded is how to hold during the orgasm. Watch what he does exactly where how and how fast. you get that bit (easier to perform as its not as vigorous but super pleasure zone of the whole thing for him). I hoped that helped in some way. Men teach your women! they will be confident and desire to do it more. My Stats are: 52% women give head readily. Only 3% do it well. (No wonder it fizzles out) Of the other 48%. It may be done grudgingly as a favor, considered distasteful, embarrassing, demeaning or YUK! Usually from bad experiences, peer pressure and other dynamics. It is likely that 48% will not be comfortable and avoid it if possible. And MEN, Yes US! We are to blame. Un Clean, Un Communicative, and awkward in our own rght. Women want to pleasure men by design of nature. We can make it attractive to women - just as they do for us with make-up and beautiful hair styles. I've had outstanding sucess in this area with the most unlikely of women just through seeing from a woman's point of view and understanding. It's all in the realm of Pleasure.
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wannabyummymummy
16 years ago
Quite a detailed response there, even though i dont have a problem in this department ( all recipients have been satisfied and pleased) i think i may still have learned something there................... mmmmm off i go to practice, any takers???
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RHP User
16 years ago
Yes I got that you were a natural talent there. We could probably go on now to another overlooked performance issue - it would be a new thread entitled "Bad Cunnilingus". I think there would be more unsatisfied women in that department than its counterpart. No stats on that. Though I have refined myself by reading and trying techniques which vary greatly from one woman to another. better hold it there before getting into a "Clitoris 101" lesson.
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RHP User
16 years ago
There is no perfect technique, other than starting out slowly, taking your time & seeing what gets a reaction. ( I assume lol) . Women & Men are individuals everyone single person has different likes & dislikes. Put on a great video that you know your partner is going to like, then see if you can distract them
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RHP User
16 years ago
I find putting a great video(like gone with the wind) very hard to distract 'Them' from. lol.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Are there any girls out there who dislike giving blowjobs? My wife hates them and really doesn't want to give me one. She used to only give me them under the shower, but she gagged once and since then hasn't wanted to give me one AT ALL.Would you consider it normal to dislike it?If you disliked it in the past, what made you like it now? Are there any tips you can share?
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RHP User
16 years ago
on a hot day -refreshing-should be licked lots of tongue-lol
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'SWEETIEPIE2010' I used to hate them when i was younger but i think that was lack of experience, guys who didn't take care to be lovely and fresh before i stuck my face down there and guys who grab the back of your head and push (a personal pet hate to this day) LOVE giving blow jobs now, love, love, love them. And word has it i could lecture in them but that was said in the heat of the moment so we ignore lust drunk comments :) As long as my boy is freshly showered and I'M in control i could take a packed lunch and stay down there forever...mmmm......puuurrrrrrr Mrs S xx (kisses on yer pink bits) Hey Sweetiepie,Thanks for that. Do you know what sparked your new found love for giving blowjobs now though? Or do you think it's something that just comes with sexual maturation.I don't expect them, but damn it'd be nice to get one every once in a while Thanks!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'SWEETIEPIE2010' I met a guy who saw it as a power trip in a way to make a girl cum with his mouth, he'd get such a kick out of it and he explained that it was the ultimate high to actually be able to tip her over the edge. He spoke about it in such glowing terms i gained an appreciation for "feeling clever" about such an achievement. Same guy was very gentle, never pushed my head down. Told me what he liked and made lots of entheusiastic noises and said lots of nice things. Didn't cum in my mouth until i gained an appreciation for it and that's where it all began. I do think though that age had a bit to do with it too. Now i just think that it's SO hot to make a guy cum with my mouth and to really lavish the whole general area with lots and lots of TLC. I prefer to do it with the guy laying down and that way i'm in control, between his legs is the perfect angle too and it's perfect to look up at him and flash a cheeky smile and watch his face. Just remember honey, she's VERY young. Mrs S xx Fair enough! Sounds like encouragment and knowing that you were pleasing your man did the trick! Your descriptions sound exhilirating and extremely pleasurable, I'm sure your man really appreciates it =) Thanks for sharing that with me!
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RHP User
16 years ago
You must want to give the Bj cos it's something you like doing. I have had only a few girls give me a BJ whom I can say really lost themselves in the moment, they enjoyed doing it and they wanted to do it. It brought pleasure to them. Like wise if a guy is to go down on a girl...is it cos he thinks it will make her happy or because he wants to make her happy and he enjoys how she wriggles and moves while he is performing oral pleasure on her. Sigh....we should only do things we enjoy, not because we think its gotta be done. Hugs Jules x
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RHP User
16 years ago
i totally agree with bj about the not fussed over getting a tounging i too prefer some taleted finger work .... but bak to the task at hand :P i must say i have never had a complaint in the bj department but then again i dont think ive ever heard of anyone getting a complaint lol.... but i will say its not all just suck n tug ,.. use a little imagination the tongue is an amazing tool and when used in a blow job can change the whole feel for a guy ... or so im told im one of those girls who has been blessed with a long thick tongue and can wrap lick and massage whilst suking on a guy and i love to do it and as mentioned above .... when someone loves too give head it always shows thru and can make it more pleasurable for the guy knowing that its not being done just because its expected :) you watch now ive said that someone ive met will come in and say how shit at it i am lol :P
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RHP User
16 years ago
MY WIFE GIVES A AWESOME BLOWJOB , SHE TAKES HER TIME , LICKING , KISSING AND JUST SAVOURING IT , TO THE POINT WHERE I HAVE THAT TINGLING FEELING DOWN THERE THEN SHE LETS ME TAKE CONTROL ,AND WHETHER SHE TAKES MY LOAD OR I BLOW ON HER CHEST IT'S ALL GOOD , I GUESS MY ADVICE TO GIRLS OUT THERE IS DON'T RUSH IT , AND LIKE MANY OTHER POST ON HERE , NO TEETH , ENJOY PPL :)
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RHP User
16 years ago
Yet I have never had a complaint only told woah never have I had that, felt that, always great compliments though SUCKS when they only wanna come back to me sheerly for ur BJ's!!!!!!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Givng a guy a blowjob is the most amazing feeling....to feel him grow in your mouth and feeling him shudder with pleasure ohhh man.... I get so turned on by sucking a guys cock that I can actually make my self cum in the process, hubby loves it when that happens. Have been told that I give the best blow jobs by many men, when I ask what it is that I do that is so wonderful, they can never say all i get is Fuck it was just amazing, so I must be doing something right. Miss BJ I agree with you...not much into having my pussy licked but give me fingers anyday and a yummy cock. Gotta love men x x
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RHP User
16 years ago
Having always got many compliments for my oral skills in both my personal and professional life, and always overcome the challenges of those who said oh I never come from Blow Jobs - I could not understand what anyone did wrong. So I started asking - what is it other women do wrong? The attitude was an issue and lack of variation or finesse was in there too.Why are you giving head? Because you should? Because they would like it? Because you were asked?WRONGYou should be doing it because you want to. The why you may want to could vary, but for me I like to show off, I like the power trip, I can have a man quivering, staring at me open-mouthed with a mixed look of disbelief, frustration and ecstasy. I know this is my best way to provide pleasure. I feel like the star of the show, I'll make the porno faces and watch him record them for later - I know he will remember how sexy I looked doing that, I like to be remembered.Perhaps a blow job should be foreplay - but I think often for me it is the main course - and the rest an encore, perhaps many curtain calls to a standing ovation that cannot be denied. The Foreplay - To me leads to it, working your way down each other bodies - going toward, but then changing direction. Perhaps a light hand touch, or maybe warm breath or a tiny lick. If he still has pants on - forming a kind of seal against the fabric, and breathing out heavily, a few times in a row can make the area a lot warmer than you may expect. I nice electric blanket wakeup call to his friend in his pants. The Look - Before you even pay it much physical attention when it has been released to the open air, look at it, not like a scientist (unless that's the role-play) but with admiration and lust - you should want it, almost like an animal regarding its prey. It is a tool of power, it is the best control method and pleasure provider you can have access to physically on him. You should be impressed for what you can use it for - even if you not impressed by its stature, shape or colour - those are not it's most important attributes. The Approach - I'm never a fan of going straight for it, but making him think I am, and waiting for the little sigh of disappointment when he realises I wasn't. Ill stop short of it, graze past and be kissing the opposite side of his hip while he tries to make the most out of the contact with my hair or my neck. I like to straddle one of his legs, and rub myself against it, while pouring oil down my front from a great height so it splatters a bit, then rub it all over my breasts so they shine. Keep eye contact, and let him see my wicked streak, as I move very controlled, deliberately and slowly to lower my slippery breasts around his dick. Resting on one elbow, and using the other against my breasts, rub him between them, massage him, slide up and down. Down far enough he can feel my breath on the tip, and up far enough he can almost kiss me as I slide all over his chest, and use the soft part of my inner hip to grind against him. Slide back down and grab him with one hand, rubbing him all over my breasts, maybe a little jerking action, it depends if he needs extra encouragement but at this stage most are standing to attention. The Interlude - We take a short break, for kissing, for him going down on me, for a bit of grinding, all with enough hand action in there to keep his friends attention. The Second Approach - Kissing, nibbling, licking, sucking up his inner thighs, doing tongue circles in the ever sensitive and often ignored legpit, licking and very gently sucking the ball on the same side, maybe taking it into mouth if it will fit comfortably and there is enough give in the scrotum. Repeat on other side, varying the movement and pace. Then I like to sit up sharply, pushing my knees apart, which also forces the legs apart, an evil or devious expression at this point serves well to remind him he is at my will. I love to see him squirm with a mix of fear, anticipation and realising how vulnerable he is to whatever I decide I want to do with him. I use my nails, which I keep long and blunt, to tickle all around his inner thighs, balls and taint. Lick my palm from heel to fingertips then slide it along his length. Sliding both hands, along and down inner thighs, forcing them further apart, I start doing tiny circles on his taint, right along the seam. I continue follow the seam up and over his balls and all the way up the shaft. He should be rock hard, bucking his hips and dripping some precum by this stage, when i reach the tip - I dip my tongue in to the sticky droplet that has formed and make a little string of it stretch to my mouth. Then I dive back in for a second run of tiny circles up, this time maybe adding some other kisses, sucks and licks as I travel. At the top I may make some motions as if I am about to start sucking, taking just the tip in, or moving over it with a wide open mouth but making no contact. Maybe I will go for a 3rd time, or maybe I will do some porno face style licking all the way up on side of the shaft while cradling it in the other hand, never breaking eye contact. Or circle the tip with my tongue and make long wet spit strands, then go the 3rd round of seam circles. The Plunge - Lips thoroughly moistened, a firm but not excessive pressure suction and slide the whole length into the mouth, this is best when he is not sure if you will just tease again or not. Teeth are always covered by lips or tongue, assume he is not into teeth unless he informs you otherwise. I use the tongue to do circles focusing toward the frenulum as I withdraw. Also as I withdraw I twist my neck to make my mouth spiral around the shaft, and then bring my hand into the action, having it spiral the other way. I may then continue with the reverse spiral for a while, moving up and down as tongue and hand circle in same direction with hand lagging just behind in the pace, as head and mouth move the opposite direction. I may change to a fast up and down with a higher level of suction, bouncing his hips on the bed with my hands on either side on the mattress. I may take him in as deep as i can, flexing the back part of tongue and throat muscles around him, before quickly sliding up and then moving my head in figure 8 pattern, swinging my hair wildly before removing my mouth with a pop, as I gasp for air. I may tighten my lips and press them against the tip slowly allowing him entry, emulating a tight never used hole, slowly slide down is length, loosening my lips as i go, then withdrawing without any lip contact at all, just using my tongue along the underside. Then reverse the pattern sliding in with tongue only contact and pulling out with strong tight suction. I may go back to some of the earlier teasing moves from earlier, for a short time or a long time depending on how I feel and how he is responding. The Optional bridge - Switch back to stimulation with oily breasts, the sliding up, far enough for some good deep french kissing, and sliding down and into my mouth in a single movement. Deep suck with some tongue swirling, as I withdraw as quickly as I took it in, moving back to meet his mouth with mine. I keep rhythm with the up and down sliding motion of my body but increase pace until staying down with my mouth where he wants it more. The Ascent - I keep rhythm and build pace slowly, before dropping back to as slow movements as possible, and gradually building pace again. I stick with the reverse spiral technique I described earlier mostly, but vary parts of it, the hand or tongue, possible none of either or just one. If I need a slight breather, switch to some of the teasing moves. I build him up and up switching back to almost stopped as he gets ever closer. The Cycle - I feel his twitches, the pulsing of blood pressure in his cock, his breathing pattern. I study his responses as I pleasure him, I know when he will be ready, when he feels he is starting that final climb and snatch him back from it. I go back, maybe even as far as the first approach, and begin the build up a new, I pick and choose what moves to use, from how he responded before. I always keep a good rhythm regardless of tempo I choose. I work back toward the ascent - this time we climb higher. I drop back to just teasing - maybe I will barely brush his most sensitive areas, I might move up to his neck and ears, hovering my body just above his, so he can barely even get to grind against me, unless I so choose. How many times I go through the tease and ascend pattern will vary on how I feel, and how he is responding. I want to feel he is going crazy, that he can not consider anything else, that he is begging me, that the cycle back to teasing is met with grunts of extreme frustration possibly even a drawn out no of disappointment and frustration. The Final Ascent - He should never know if this will be the final one, or just another tease. I want to feel him urging himself on, trying to hide his responses to trick me into putting him over the edge, to hold himself back to prove he isn't being fooled. I want him lost, capable of nothing but feeling. I start a building race reverse spiral and just keep climbing the pace 'til it is at the maximum practical and comfortable pace. The "oh" should escape his lips at this moment as he reaches the point of no return, if he isn't quite there he will go back onto the cycle - or maybe he will anyway, how wicked do i feel? If he is going to get release the pace remains steady, my other hand explores his balls and puts pressure on his perineum, my tongue works frantically as he releases into my mouth. The Afterglow - I continue to hold the cum in my mouth as I wind down my movements. Sometimes I blow bubbles with it just to show off, or I swallow it down and go searching for any spillages. I move my hand along his softening shaft in a milking motion to squeeze out any remaining drops. This is good for two reasons, one I wont miss out on any, and two it stops him getting the I must pee right now feeling if the tube is cleared. A gentle massage, and a progressive grip adding just one finger at a time to the grab in succession and removing in same order and repeating - the same pattern as when you tap your fingers on a desk while waiting, but instead of a tap it is a gentle grab. If you are feeling particularly indulgent, you may get a very warm -not hot - wet face towel and dab him clean, drying him with another towel. Snuggle up as he recovers, possibly to start the encore.
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RHP User
16 years ago
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RHP User
16 years ago
You went and killed the conversation....
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'WAMvictim' You went and killed the conversation.... Not by a long shot, I'm just waiting until I get my breath back!!!!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Erm ... I mean better!Quoting 'WAMvictim' Having always got many compliments for my oral skills in both my personal and professional life, and always overcome the challenges of those who said oh I never come from Blow Jobs - I could not understand what anyone did wrong. So I started asking - what is it other women do wrong? The attitude was an issue and lack of variation or finesse was in there too.Why are you giving head? Because you should? Because they would like it? Because you were asked?WRONGSo true! I almost fell over at work today when a friend informed me that a girl he had slept with refused him oral sex saying, "Nope, sorry, I don't ever do that". WTF??? Why the hell not???? I give head because I LOVE IT and struggle to relate to those who don't!You should be doing it because you want to. The why you may want to could vary, but for me I like to show off, I like the power trip, I can have a man quivering, staring at me open-mouthed with a mixed look of disbelief, frustration and ecstasy. I know this is my best way to provide pleasure. I feel like the star of the show, I'll make the porno faces and watch him record them for later - I know he will remember how sexy I looked doing that, I like to be remembered.Perhaps a blow job should be foreplay - but I think often for me it is the main course - and the rest an encore, perhaps many curtain calls to a standing ovation that cannot be denied.And I do it for each and every one of the reasons you mention! I don't blow bubbles afterwards (PMSL) and don't often go in search of spillages - I don't spill, I swallow (LOL). Giving oral sex is like performing a very erotic, powerful dance and I loved reading your account of something I'm usually way too lost in the moment of to be able to put into words! You even managed to render the Doc speechless and that is no mean feat! Thanks for posting a written account of possibly one of the most enjoyable aspects of sex there is!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'WAMvictim'You went and killed the conversation.... I think that might've been you WAM... a whole heap of guys are now jerking off over that post. nd t's hrd 2 typ 1 hnded (see)... and there are a whole heap of ladies working out how to write all that on their palm so they can follow it next time they find themselves making their way down a mans chest... past his abs (or kfc gut)... and towards that bulge in his underwear. My advice to them (as doc) would be to write it on your forearm - because your hands should be busy! Of course there are some who would have just enjoyed reading your post, because they already know just how to perform that erotic, powerful dance... they look like they had time to reply.
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RHP User
16 years ago
All this detail in the art of opening ones mouth and doing what is supposed to come naturally is making me hungry!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'Jean_Girard'My advice to them (as doc) would be to write it on your forearm - because your hands should be busy! Of course there are some who would have just enjoyed reading your post, because they already know just how to perform that erotic, powerful dance... they look like they had time to reply. My advice to them is to feel their way!!! Don't write instructions! Sheesh! What happens when things get all hot and sweaty and/or messy???Nope, this is definitely a "make it up as you go along" kinda sex act, I think. It's a performance. You wouldn't want an actor in a play taking their lines on stage for the big show would you?? Some may know how to perform the dance, and thoroughly enjoy themselves in the process, but they should never think they've gotten so good and in sync with the rhythm that they don't need as much practice as possible!!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'Mynameonurlips' All this detail in the art of opening ones mouth and doing what is supposed to come naturally is making me hungry! Not wrongthere sharp teeth - 0ouch too much pressure - but like girls who think they are milking a cow when giving a hand job. licking and sucking the balls - is a big turn on pushing head downm agreed usually a no-no , but i know one lady that gets off on it, likes the feeling of being face f**ked and being able to take it in. :)
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RHP User
16 years ago
Confabulation.....think of it this way...you, the owner/operator (thanks to Christopher)....providing directions. Just as any woman worth her salt would do in the exact same situation. It's not rocket science....for example: He says: easy with the teeth honey...ah yes..perfect...swirl your tongue clockwise...mm...lovely...tease the eye with the tip of your tongue..OH YES..baby...you're doing so well..god that feels great! Apart from letting her know how to get the most out of the experience its a darn turn on when your partner is giving you a running commentary on what a great job you're doing....a little praise goes a long way to motivating the lick, sip and suckerrr
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'WAMvictim' Having always got many compliments for my oral skills in both my personal and professional life, and always overcome the challenges of those who said oh I never come from Blow Jobs - I could not understand what anyone did wrong. So I started asking - what is it other women do wrong? The attitude was an issue and lack of variation or finesse was in there too.Why are you giving head? Because you should? Because they would like it? Because you were asked?WRONGYou should be doing it because you want to. The why you may want to could vary, but for me I like to show off, I like the power trip, I can have a man quivering, staring at me open-mouthed with a mixed look of disbelief, frustration and ecstasy. I know this is my best way to provide pleasure. I feel like the star of the show, I'll make the porno faces and watch him record them for later - I know he will remember how sexy I looked doing that, I like to be remembered.Perhaps a blow job should be foreplay - but I think often for me it is the main course - and the rest an encore, perhaps many curtain calls to a standing ovation that cannot be denied. The Foreplay - To me leads to it, working your way down each other bodies - going toward, but then changing direction. Perhaps a light hand touch, or maybe warm breath or a tiny lick. If he still has pants on - forming a kind of seal against the fabric, and breathing out heavily, a few times in a row can make the area a lot warmer than you may expect. I nice electric blanket wakeup call to his friend in his pants.The Look - Before you even pay it much physical attention when it has been released to the open air, look at it, not like a scientist (unless that's the role-play) but with admiration and lust - you should want it, almost like an animal regarding its prey. It is a tool of power, it is the best control method and pleasure provider you can have access to physically on him. You should be impressed for what you can use it for - even if you not impressed by its stature, shape or colour - those are not it's most important attributes.The Approach - I'm never a fan of going straight for it, but making him think I am, and waiting for the little sigh of disappointment when he realises I wasn't. Ill stop short of it, graze past and be kissing the opposite side of his hip while he tries to make the most out of the contact with my hair or my neck. I like to straddle one of his legs, and rub myself against it, while pouring oil down my front from a great height so it splatters a bit, then rub it all over my breasts so they shine. Keep eye contact, and let him see my wicked streak, as I move very controlled, deliberately and slowly to lower my slippery breasts around his dick. Resting on one elbow, and using the other against my breasts, rub him between them, massage him, slide up and down. Down far enough he can feel my breath on the tip, and up far enough he can almost kiss me as I slide all over his chest, and use the soft part of my inner hip to grind against him. Slide back down and grab him with one hand, rubbing him all over my breasts, maybe a little jerking action, it depends if he needs extra encouragement but at this stage most are standing to attention.The Interlude - We take a short break, for kissing, for him going down on me, for a bit of grinding, all with enough hand action in there to keep his friends attention.The Second Approach - Kissing, nibbling, licking, sucking up his inner thighs, doing tongue circles in the ever sensitive and often ignored legpit, licking and very gently sucking the ball on the same side, maybe taking it into mouth if it will fit comfortably and there is enough give in the scrotum. Repeat on other side, varying the movement and pace. Then I like to sit up sharply, pushing my knees apart, which also forces the legs apart, an evil or devious expression at this point serves well to remind him he is at my will. I love to see him squirm with a mix of fear, anticipation and realising how vulnerable he is to whatever I decide I want to do with him. I use my nails, which I keep long and blunt, to tickle all around his inner thighs, balls and taint. Lick my palm from heel to fingertips then slide it along his length. Sliding both hands, along and down inner thighs, forcing them further apart, I start doing tiny circles on his taint, right along the seam. I continue follow the seam up and over his balls and all the way up the shaft. He should be rock hard, bucking his hips and dripping some precum by this stage, when i reach the tip - I dip my tongue in to the sticky droplet that has formed and make a little string of it stretch to my mouth. Then I dive back in for a second run of tiny circles up, this time maybe adding some other kisses, sucks and licks as I travel. At the top I may make some motions as if I am about to start sucking, taking just the tip in, or moving over it with a wide open mouth but making no contact.Maybe I will go for a 3rd time, or maybe I will do some porno face style licking all the way up on side of the shaft while cradling it in the other hand, never breaking eye contact. Or circle the tip with my tongue and make long wet spit strands, then go the 3rd round of seam circles.The Plunge -Lips thoroughly moistened, a firm but not excessive pressure suction and slide the whole length into the mouth, this is best when he is not sure if you will just tease again or not. Teeth are always covered by lips or tongue, assume he is not into teeth unless he informs you otherwise. I use the tongue to do circles focusing toward the frenulum as I withdraw. Also as I withdraw I twist my neck to make my mouth spiral around the shaft, and then bring my hand into the action, having it spiral the other way. I may then continue with the reverse spiral for a while, moving up and down as tongue and hand circle in same direction with hand lagging just behind in the pace, as head and mouth move the opposite direction. I may change to a fast up and down with a higher level of suction, bouncing his hips on the bed with my hands on either side on the mattress. I may take him in as deep as i can, flexing the back part of tongue and throat muscles around him, before quickly sliding up and then moving my head in figure 8 pattern, swinging my hair wildly before removing my mouth with a pop, as I gasp for air. I may tighten my lips and press them against the tip slowly allowing him entry, emulating a tight never used hole, slowly slide down is length, loosening my lips as i go, then withdrawing without any lip contact at all, just using my tongue along the underside. Then reverse the pattern sliding in with tongue only contact and pulling out with strong tight suction.I may go back to some of the earlier teasing moves from earlier, for a short time or a long time depending on how I feel and how he is responding.The Optional bridge -Switch back to stimulation with oily breasts, the sliding up, far enough for some good deep french kissing, and sliding down and into my mouth in a single movement. Deep suck with some tongue swirling, as I withdraw as quickly as I took it in, moving back to meet his mouth with mine. I keep rhythm with the up and down sliding motion of my body but increase pace until staying down with my mouth where he wants it more.The Ascent -I keep rhythm and build pace slowly, before dropping back to as slow movements as possible, and gradually building pace again. I stick with the reverse spiral technique I described earlier mostly, but vary parts of it, the hand or tongue, possible none of either or just one. If I need a slight breather, switch to some of the teasing moves. I build him up and up switching back to almost stopped as he gets ever closer.The Cycle - I feel his twitches, the pulsing of blood pressure in his cock, his breathing pattern. I study his responses as I pleasure him, I know when he will be ready, when he feels he is starting that final climb and snatch him back from it. I go back, maybe even as far as the first approach, and begin the build up a new, I pick and choose what moves to use, from how he responded before. I always keep a good rhythm regardless of tempo I choose. I work back toward the ascent - this time we climb higher. I drop back to just teasing - maybe I will barely brush his most sensitive areas, I might move up to his neck and ears, hovering my body just above his, so he can barely even get to grind against me, unless I so choose. How many times I go through the tease and ascend pattern will vary on how I feel, and how he is responding. I want to feel he is going crazy, that he can not consider anything else, that he is begging me, that the cycle back to teasing is met with grunts of extreme frustration possibly even a drawn out no of disappointment and frustration.The Final Ascent -He should never know if this will be the final one, or just another tease. I want to feel him urging himself on, trying to hide his responses to trick me into putting him over the edge, to hold himself back to prove he isn't being fooled. I want him lost, capable of nothing but feeling. I start a building race reverse spiral and just keep climbing the pace 'til it is at the maximum practical and comfortable pace. The "oh" should escape his lips at this moment as he reaches the point of no return, if he isn't quite there he will go back onto the cycle - or maybe he will anyway, how wicked do i feel? If he is going to get release the pace remains steady, my other hand explores his balls and puts pressure on his perineum, my tongue works frantically as he releases into my mouth.The Afterglow - I continue to hold the cum in my mouth as I wind down my movements. Sometimes I blow bubbles with it just to show off, or I swallow it down and go searching for any spillages. I move my hand along his softening shaft in a milking motion to squeeze out any remaining drops. This is good for two reasons, one I wont miss out on any, and two it stops him getting the I must pee right now feeling if the tube is cleared. A gentle massage, and a progressive grip adding just one finger at a time to the grab in succession and removing in same order and repeating - the same pattern as when you tap your fingers on a desk while waiting, but instead of a tap it is a gentle grab. If you are feeling particularly indulgent, you may get a very warm -not hot - wet face towel and dab him clean, drying him with another towel. Snuggle up as he recovers, possibly to start the encore. Wow.After reading this, excuse me whilst i go and beat up my dick like it owes me money. Kudos to you WAMvictim. Your attention to detail, and obvious skill and mastery of your craft has left me(and no doubt others) in awe. christopher xoxo
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RHP User
16 years ago
Isn't it like that? My ex provided me with lots of those pleasures, but it was a learning thing, as many previously stated. I, for my part ( or my dicks, for that matter ) love to receive and it comes down to passion. I always came and come, with every hj and bj. Some I did, however, not enjoy as much as others. It is normal to come, but the mood, the season ( winter is not as good as summer ), stress ( for both parties ) and the abillity to relax and lock out the bad things out of your head ( the one with the thinking brain ), that happened earlier that day all influence the ecstasis, with which I cum. Personally, what turns me really on, are those grunting, suction sounds and the look on her face and in her eyes, when I cum in her mouth. Whether she 'spills' or not, is not important to me, but the whole experience is much more powerful, when she's got a beautiful face and soft looking hands. That might even qualify as a 'fetish' of mine. Not surprisingly, with all the exhaustion, I am a one-off, when I am receiving a hj or bj. If we however start the whole show with regular mounting, I am usually ready ( after a short recovery with a smoke and two beers ) to go again, if she is gredy for a hj/bj. I would like to read more comments like this thread, it is all very open and honest. Thanks to everybody, who participated. Oh, and on the subject line 'the grass is always greener on the other side', I haven't really had a relation-ship, since we separated five years ago, and I now have moved to other lands, and haven't had the plesure of senses in six months. Whinge, whinge, whinge, I know. Just wanted to utter my feelings. Cheerio, Frank
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RHP User
16 years ago
u sound like ud do it very well. ;-)
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RHP User
16 years ago
Oh god. No wonder he throws food at you.Random
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RHP User
16 years ago
I am also not sure that I have ever had a 'bad' blow job (no injuries or teeth bites here!) but certainly some women are 'great' at it and some just okay. In my experience a woman who does it because SHE wants to, rather than one who does it because HE wants her to is always much better. Seriously someone who loves their job will always do that job better than someone who only does it because they have to! Enthusiasm is everything! A girl who is 'new to it' but is enthusiastic will very soon improve to become 'great' because she will be keen to learn. As Stalky said there are so many little 'tricks' you can use to enhance the experience and bring the guy to a crazed state!A girl who enjoys the play, asks and listens is my kind of girl.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Had plenty over the years though never had one that made me faint. Please ladies no teeth ever. And dont take a swig of scotch or the like then suck my the achocol goes down the tube and it hurts like hell. Deep throat yes please take me till your lips are hard against the base of me, still dont know how some women do this but it feels fantastic. Dont do hand work like your milking a cows teat it hurts easy does it most ladies dont like to be fingered rough so go easy on my cock. A wet hand job with saliva and suck my knob will drive me over the edge every time. Ladies a good way to show a man that you love and want him is to swallow and every guy that wants a BJ show know how to and pratisce going down on his lady and stayying there till she cums over and over again. There's my 2 cents worth
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RHP User
16 years ago
for me its an art i am constantly trying to perfect..........making a man cum in my mouth/face or tits is an amazingly satisfying experience..... its all definitely about the enjoyment for both.....a man can definitely tell if its something a woman is just doing cause she thinks its expected as opposed to doing it cause she loves it....and its the same as kissing .... sensual slow fast hard nibbling sucking licking pulling............. yum ......... now i want one........sshwammyx
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RHP User
15 years ago
i've had a couple of real bad bj's teeth and all :| i mean you give them an excuse if it's just for a few seconds...but when it continues you just have take over and tell them to cut it out! lol
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RHP User
15 years ago
Seems like you've had plenty of feedback on this topic, your either really confused now or somewhat enlightened :P I imagine asking if there is such thing as a difference between a good and a bad blowjob, it would be similar to the reciprocation. Do some guys go down on you better than others? Ofcourse. I guess if your trying to decipher the ingredients that separate the good from the bad, and the ugly... an influx of feedback from a diverse sample of respondents is a great idea. You just have to look for what answers are common to appeal to the majority and combine that with your own spin and whatever else makes the individual writhe and squirm beneath your administration. In my experience, there are only two women that have ever been absolutely exceptional at sucking cock. The first, was already confident before I met her. She had already come to the realisation that her mouth was designed to engulf cock perfectly, ever so deep and she fucking loved it. That girl had the lips of an angel.... *sigh* Uh-hmm, where was I? Oh yes, the second girl did not believe she had any talent in that particular area. She was also not particularly fond of it either. And yet now, she is and probably will always be the best I have ever had the sheer pleasure of experiencing. The thing with this girl, was she was incredibly keen to impress me. And that she did. She asked, what I liked & how I wanted her to do it. So I told her, I explained in detail and it appears that she had hung on to every last detail. I think looking over these two experiences, there are definitely a few key factors that any woman (or man for that matter) could take into consideration if they felt compelled to be better at giving mind blowing head. 1. Genuinely enjoying the act of it. 2. Asking questions (because everyone in the end is different). 3. Recognising body language as feedback and responding accordingly. As for the bad and the ugly, I have found these experiences usually occur when the other person just really does not enjoy it, there not that into you in the first place or they feel that they are already a grand master and have nothing more to learn. And for the record, many guys comment with a negative tone when the word 'teeth' is mentioned. I for one actually like the feel of teeth, if used creatively. I actually enjoy seeing teeth and being bitten (within boundaries) as it can be a very empowering experience for a woman to hold a man's cock firmly between her teeth. One thing I have learned is, an empowered woman can blow your mind like nothing you have ever anticipated.
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pinkyandthebrain
15 years ago
From what I gather, its all about the enthusiam. What could be more flattering than a woman who is mouth raping your cock? Everyone wants to feel desired and seeing a woman who cant help but go crazy on you is a big turn on. Look up at him occashionally with a "I want your cum" stare. Start slow. In fact start somewhere else. Dont just jump straight in to the sucking. Build up some sort of tension and desire. Men are not as simple as they make out to be. They like to be kissed and caressed too. Work your way down. I like to keep a man guessing. I change my techniques around during my session so it doesnt get samey and also it gives him a break from almost cumming, to light teasing. This process builds him up and he will be begging you to finish him off. You will feel by his reactions what he likes and doesnt like. If he responds well, hang around on that move for a bit and let him enjoy it, then try something else. Fast is not always the answer. Hard is not always the answer. Everyone has different tastes. Why not ask how they like it? Try a little deep too...it takes some practice though! Oh, and use your hands! Good luck. xx pinky
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RHP User
15 years ago
remember that scene in the latest Underbelly??where he asked Kim for a blow job...and she started blowing on his cock??Farkin' CLASSIC!!!JMO...BJxxx
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wannabyummymummy
15 years ago
Yes Miss BJ i saw that and it totally cracked me up, funniest scene in the whole show (particularly since it is not a funny show at all) but yeah definitely a CLASSIC!!!!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Been on a huge learning curve lately...... Glad to say that I have taken helpful hints to a new height.... My BJ's are getting better from the many reports I get....... Time is a factor for me so BJ's are the way to go at times! Just love seeing them go crossed eyed at my efforts. And yes i don't waste a bit! This is a newly found skill...... For me it wasn't a natural skill, but I am a quick learner. And as they say practice makes perfect, love the practice! Go girls! xoxox MRS SRFUN
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RHP User
15 years ago
Honest truth time. Never had one. Ex absolutely refused. She loved it when I went down or let the fingers do the work but nothing in return. Sounds pathetic I know. But is the truth and I hate to admit it.
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RHP User
15 years ago
No teeth!!!
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RHP User
15 years ago
I may get yelled at for this.. HOWEVER..i stand by what i say, If a guy is not happy with a bj it his own fault..Too many people complain about not being happy with sex/bj, yet refuse to tell/talk to the person they are with what they like..And women should do the same. if its some one new, ask them..sex is like ordering a steak...I mean if y ou dont tell them how you want it, they dont know..Had friends bitch and moan to me over the years (good listener) about t he sex life.bla bla she don't know how to do xyz bla bla bla.... I all ways asked "well did you ask her what she likes and tell her what you like??usual response is "NO" with the usual come back of. well if you dont talk to each other about what you like, dont bitch to me about it (spesh when i wasnt getting any)I could go on, but i can feel people getting bored all ready lol lick it and lick it often is my motto :)
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RHP User
15 years ago
You got it spot on Pinky!!! Quoting 'pinkyandthebrain' From what I gather, its all about the enthusiam. What could be more flattering than a woman who is mouth raping your cock? Everyone wants to feel desired and seeing a woman who cant help but go crazy on you is a big turn on. Look up at him occashionally with a "I want your cum" stare. Start slow. In fact start somewhere else. Dont just jump straight in to the sucking. Build up some sort of tension and desire. Men are not as simple as they make out to be. They like to be kissed and caressed too. Work your way down. I like to keep a man guessing. I change my techniques around during my session so it doesnt get samey and also it gives him a break from almost cumming, to light teasing. This process builds him up and he will be begging you to finish him off. You will feel by his reactions what he likes and doesnt like. If he responds well, hang around on that move for a bit and let him enjoy it, then try something else. Fast is not always the answer. Hard is not always the answer. Everyone has different tastes. Why not ask how they like it? Try a little deep too...it takes some practice though! Oh, and use your hands! Good luck. xx pinky
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RHP User
15 years ago
Come on now. Of course there are bad and good methods. The same as a slack F***. Honestly even my teenaged girls found an on line course called Blow Jobs 101 and had great fun giggling over the things I just do naturally. I had to use my discretion and say nothing! Talking to my men friends, they tell me that all the girls say they can do a good BJ but in reality very few can. I am fortunate that I do enjoy doing this for my man and therefore have perfected this art. If you want any pointers Wanna byummymummy, come visit, I believe you know where to find me. And Saeldyn, I can deepthroat while maintaining pressure. It is a trick to opening up the throat muscles and stopping the gag reflex. Simple really.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I have decided( some time back ) that in future I shall only give as much as I feel my partner is giving,,,sooooo fair warning, give poorly receive poorly lolShame really cos it is something that gives much pleasure to give Gourmet
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bondage_reality
15 years ago
you know its great when you gotta pull the sheets outta your arse
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RHP User
15 years ago
lets face it most guys are just happy to have a woman willingly put his dick in her mouth....no guy tells a woman she gives bad head because it means she probably will never do this again. Personally i love giving head......am i good at it?? i dont know and probably will never know for sure.....
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wannabyummymummy
15 years ago
Always happy to learn from an expert, though i can also deep-throat while maintaining pressure as it turns out i have virtually NO gag reflex (what a gift) lolIt is funny how this thread has run, it seems i have given the impression that i need lessons when i was originally asking if there was such a thing as a bad one, oh well never too old (or too good to learn new tricks) been rather educational
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RHP User
15 years ago
Rarely is there a bad blowjob. I love them all !
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RHP User
15 years ago
I'm sure elite sports persons started out with some level of natural ability but with lots of practice and plenty of coaching and a pation for what they do they became very very good at it. Being good in bed (or anywhere else for that matter) is no different. And pleasing a partner orally is definitely no exception. Communicating clearly what feels good (coaching) really helps and adds to the pation and enthusiasm. Techniques are as varied as the things that feel good to all the different people out there. But variety is the spice of life isnt it. And By the way Yummy you do have some serious skills and clearly love your work (I dont think I could complete a sentence for a week afterwards) but remember practice, practice, practice. LOL Mr SRFUN
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RHP User
15 years ago
Not all women are blessed with the talent to be able to give an awesome blow job. I fortunately am but I have experienced a friend (grown man mind you) come to me literally CRYING because the girl he thought he "fell in love with" couldnt suck his dick to save her life. So apparently she is around 28 years old and if you havent bloody learnt how to after 28 years I dont think there is much hope. As for technique? Use your hands, fingertips, tongue, lips, lots of saliva and no gag reflex is a plus but basically you've got to want to do it and love doing it, theres nothing hotter than really getting into it!
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