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the under 30s Male
February 07 2013
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RHP User
13 years ago
Sorry guys but that is my experience If their not married, they are single and bitter and when It comes to sex they are the same as your under 30's scenario Tuscan. Of course I am only speaking of my own personal experience and naturally there are exceptions but I haven't met one in a long time The age that I'm enjoying is between say 35-40 which kinda makes me cringe as ordinarily I would not find these guys the least bit appealing but they are Guys around my age do so appeal until we start chatting and then the truth is revealed .....ultimate time wasters .... :( I have a sweet little stalker (not from here but from the beach) but only 28 ... Oh way too young, but so Devine and gorgeous eye candy .........sigh
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RHP User
13 years ago
I cum as fast as they do when Im with them. Mees not expecting anything but a blow and go.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I much more prefer 50 plus men. So, I am a rare breed? I don't know.I think men around my age are sweet and fantastic. Ok, I don't need a marathon fuck or 10 orgasms one good one is fine with me and stay, they do and cuddle and talk, all what I like.It just doesn't impress me all the talk and promise it get boring after a while......and the question what will you do....I think ohh not again....what will I do.....come over and we see my mind goes.Give me a break.Yes tried a younger man but I am not happy how they think, I feel not happy after, and for me happy is most important after sex.....Its a long way to come from Perth to Bunbury, and I tell you men come, and I am proud of them to trust in me to make the long drive, even they don't know who I am in sex. I treat the men with Breaky or dinner.lol Its fun for me to do. Some come back and others not. The game we play. I smile when I think how lucky I am. Cheeers
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RHP User
13 years ago
I don't sleep with men under 30. No. Nope. Nein. Never.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I'd agree :) Disclaimer: complete self interest given ages fit right into the appropriate ages described here
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RHP User
13 years ago
Have to agree with you here Tuscan - with the one exception of a recent young guy , I've found a lots of empty promises and no substance to the sex . Rushed, slightly boring , almost unwilling to go down on me for a length of time - despite all the bravado , it's been a real let down. Give me a man of physical substance , over 30 , had some ego knocked off from life's experiences , eager to just be with me and let the night happen . I doubt ill do any more young ones ...... Men my age seem to appreciate and enjoy the night much more .........
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RHP User
13 years ago
Well Tuscanred, it's up to you and your friends to find young men who want to learn. They are out there, you see, those other boys who think they know what they are doing have never had anyone show them any different. Its your social responsibility to teach them the right way. ;-) Was only saying the other day, young guys... See a hole... Must... Put ... My dick in....it! Unfortunately the young girls don't know any different. A we age our sexual needs and sensuality matures. Thank god! Lol. You can train them! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
I don't do under 30's either because I find all they want is just a quick shag that is over before you can undo your bra.Many send messages telling me how good they are , or how much they want a mature woman and what they want to do to me but honestly I tend to either send the generic response "sorry your not what I'm looking for" or if I can't be bothered replying to yet again another one who didn't read my age preferences then I just delete them.Guys take note: If you are not in our age preference range....then don't bother knocking.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Do you think men want to be selfish lovers? Do they really want to be thought of as a dud root? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
l found the opposite with females. Most giving are the 25 to 35 age group. After that they tend to get moody and opinionated. Of course there are the exceptions.... Funny that ?
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On_Safari
13 years ago
My profile says thank you but no thank you to under 35's. A certain lack of manners and chivalry if I may quote Twisted Mister from another Forum. Having said that there is one young man on this site I would (but for geography) like to sample. A young gorgeous relaxing chill who has the makings of a fine strong man someday......
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RHP User
13 years ago
Who doensy want a raw pounding. Throw me around and fuck me hard sex. Young guys can do it. I like it t quick and fast
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'EuropianBliss' Who doensy want a raw pounding. Throw me around and fuck me hard sex. Young guys can do it. I like it t quick and fast More than happy to give a raw pounding as well, honestly all depends on what you women like and want....exceptions to the rules everywhere and all about what does it for you. Just happy to help in any way :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
I find is a common thing with them...talk the talk but can't walk...chivalry... well they are from a generation where it can be far and few between. ...quick to send a picture if thier dick too I find! Only last night while talking to a 26 yr old (after a week of dirty/flirty messages) on the phone it dawned on me that he wasn'tprepared for my forward talking about something as simple as asking himwhat he liked done to he's hard cock. Alas I haven't heard from him all day.....- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
I may be just under 30, but I, ummm... read... like a 36 year old.Actually, sometimes I feel a bit like a 60 year old trapped in a 29 year old's body. Not yet been a 29 year old though in a 60 year old's body...Tuscan...?
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RHP User
13 years ago
Being that we are both 30, I'd have to say that the under 30's probably need to get a little more experience under the belt before they can be classed as excellent lovers.Tuscan, you have at least 30 years on them and 30 years more experience with the opposite sex could only teach you a hell of a lot about all that good stuff. Personally, I have found the men of my generation appreciate being shown what to do, told what to do, being "trained" if you will. I think perhaps this is a generational thing with young women having to be more assertive in the bedroom to get what they want as we can't expect the guy to lead all the time.
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RHP User
13 years ago
well i must have an exception then, am seeing an under 30s guy from on here ( hes taken himself off now) and he is gorgeous!! Cant do enough for me, lasts forever, wants to please me before himself, massages, kisses carresses for hours, even cooks for me!! He is funny, intelligent, talented, and I certainly dont feel my age when im with him , nor does he give it a second thought....so yay me!!! :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Cause here I'm thinking "I'm married with kids, I bearly have sex with my wife time wise. I don't get to pratce endurance wise. What could I really offer a woman on here compared to a young guy with fuck all responsibilities and all the time in the world to fuck as long as he wants, when ever he wants, and also all the time in the world to work out and make his body look hot" Yet, they are fucking up their good oportunity. Isn't it obvious. Pleasure your women well, and the word will get around. Pleasure your women poorly, and the word will get around! Secrets
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RHP User
13 years ago
Tuscan says over 30 only... Shines is for under 40. Ladies, I am in my prime, come and get...what was the question again? I'd agree. Tricks. Ponies. We do learn a fee things over time. But who are these gobby, lazy men you all talk about? There's a difference between in being a bit experienced and just being a dick.- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
* difference between being a bit inexperienced and being a dick.- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
or any men actually....so I couldn't say.....But I know that I have learn a thing or two with experience.....and mostly woman are happy by the time that we depart....That is good enough for me ...It is good to have a bit of confidence and experience.... But not be too full of yourself...
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RHP User
13 years ago
But without any embellishment IMHO I am far better in the cot at the tender age of 42 than I ever was at 35, or 25 let alone 15! I remember being a young buck at the pubs and clubs in my teens and early 20s, and no matter how much I thought I knew how to please women ultimately it was all about me. The anecdotes above are hauntingly familiar 'Yeah, I can last all night, yeah I'll blow your mind etc etc'. none of that happened, except once or twice by a lucky accident. The reason it didn't happen is that no matter how hard you spruik, you will NEVER know your way around a woman's body until at least 35. Don't care who you are or how hard you tell, it's a fact of life. If you have the capacity to properly turn a lady on, and you know she's got the 'turned on' knob up to 11, THAT is what fires you up and lets you turn a maybe 2 rounder into 4 or more. It's about validation from the lady, not purely your own sensory input. Confession over, young players take note - and thanks for the tag Safari!
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RHP User
13 years ago
'Don't care who you are or how hard you YELL' not tell... Never get undressed and post at the same time :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Europian, Yes - young blokes can do it quick and fast, and bounce you off every wall in the house doing it - but that's generally it. That might be fine for the first round or two, but following that - if you'd then like what's been described to me as a 'long, luxurious fuck' when you may well have to look elsewhere. Hey, I just realised I'm the first man on this thread! Where's my backup? Wingman? Guys? Guys...
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RHP User
13 years ago
persons is an under 30 man from here,he has really challenged my view about age.I never really thought I could have so much in common with a 25 year old man. I hate to be catergorised and labelled but I do understand that when you have had a bad experience it is easy to judge others in that age group, based on that or those experiences. We are all unique,age does give us some common experiences,but there is so much more to factor in to the equasion than years. A wise woman once told me it was the duty of older women to educate young men in all things sexual, perhaps there just need to be more educators.I wonder if we could get funding for that TR?
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RHP User
13 years ago
Young ladies haven't learnt that men of a certain vintage have gone off... And are completely predictable. :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
I will autocorrect your ass bebe. Just coming over here and touch your toes... Oooh yeah Mama likes it like that! :p
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RHP User
13 years ago
Jay_Me.I have never met a woman over 35 who had an opinion or wasn't moody...oops I meant I have never met a woman over 35 who didn't have an opinion and who was moody because she was married to an older man,over 50 that is...confusing really
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avidmale
13 years ago
under 30 post.. There really isn't much I can 'say' in our defence. Except perhaps keep your expectations low, then be surprised when something good comes along. Or maybe your own choices are at fault. Does every guy promote himself in an egotistical way? Meeko said it too. Willingness to learn.. and learn 'your' ways. OK. maybe you dont want to have to teach. But it may be worth it after 1 training session. If not. Discard.Now. I think its been mentioned before. Lads our age would be used to being with ladies our age. Perhaps they are different to an 'experienced' one in expectations.Experience is what I think is key here though. Not every young guy is a Casanova and may only have had a few encounters sexual experience. Anyway. Thats my input. TTB (aka malestudent)NB. I tried to cover most things so no presumptions could be made to me personally. You'll have to 'find me out' yourself.
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RHP User
13 years ago
The 20 yo I fucked wasnt that crash hot but the 32 yo was great. But then the 26 yo girl was even better than the 32 yo guy. Then again the couple in their late 30.s was just divine. But I love and want to meet up with the 48 yo guy again. mmm love the way he used that coat hanger on my bum. I give up mees doesnt know what my age range is. :P
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RHP User
13 years ago
Now will be Jay_Z_A bcdefghi... lmnop :P
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RHP User
13 years ago
for me used to be a good starting point. But IMO, 45 and up now that's where all the experience, experimentation and OMG's come from. They have been my best lovers. Especially the ones that have taken the time to master the art of seduction, mental stimulation, sensory titilation and have that mature masculinity and worldliness that is so sexy. Many men in their 40s+ are physically very fit and can give the younger guys a run for their money when it comes to stamina. In fact, because of their experience they know how to keep their bodies going for longer. SFxx
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RHP User
13 years ago
I think that the woman of the west might make an exception for you.... Should you come here or we go there....just as an exception to the rule test....not for our own gratification at all..
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RHP User
13 years ago
in the defence of the few under 30's guys that arent 2 minute wonders or the blow and go guys. there are guys that enjoy getting girls off more then getting themselves off.about all i have got to say on here is for people to go off of the validations, its here so might as well use it.if a guys got good report cards from others then im sure he has got some idea on how to please a women.thats my 2 cents worth anyways
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RHP User
13 years ago
now I know I maybe just shooting my self in the foot here but here it goes.personally I believe that it depends on the chemistry and level attraction, the lust and desire and also the style/type /sexual compatibility of the woman for a man who can simply pick up easily to want to put in effort "as he has to enjoy doing that"now with my ex wife I cant ever remmeber going over 40 minutes - 1 hour a round and never over 2 rounds without a break.. this was due to me not being that attracted to her and her not really having a clue onto how to please a man sexually etc.. however with other woman that i have been with if they are able to handle and they are turned on and turning me on they would be lucky if I leave them walk away after 6 hours of constant play of one sort or another.. now I know that is a little extreme and out of the norm "from what I hear.." but most women after the initial shock and surprise come back for more and more and get addicted to it however I do not like to put that performance on unless I am personally enjoying the fact they are enjoying them self and Im very attracted.. in other words if they arnt really what I want or thought Ill be in for ill just blow and go soon.. simply because I can easily get it else where.. that being said if a girl knows she has the guy hypnotized and lusting her big time and he doesn't put on a good performance then I guess the guy is all talk/under performer .. some of the older ladies here are very sexy, elegant, wild and naughty so much so as they may even be better than the 20 year old wild naughty girls.. "yet to meet one but I'm still new here and picky I guess" so for them to not get a proper fuck from an under 30 year old is kind of strange to me..!! maybe just maybe the men over 30 find it a little harder to just walk in a club and get 3 or 4 numbers and walk out with a girl or two.. or think its hard so they dont try.. !! so thats why they put in more effort to build that good rep inhope of repeat business or word of mouth etc.. please be nice women I was just being honest about my opinion.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Lucky lady, wish I could find one like that. My problem is, I Have a son in his mid thirties, so I feel kinda funny fuckin someone younger than him. All in my head? You betcha. Will go a little younger but not much.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Dear OPIt is a shame that most are not up to the task. It is a shame that many let ego talk. Good sex is so hard to find. What happened to imagination, what happened to staying power, what happened to hard cocks and what happened to coming again and again. Well i try for the sake of the game. The old adage, "if you ask 100 people for a fuck you will get at least one", has now been modified for me to "If you fuck 100 people you will find one good good one"Under 30's have no clue, Have yet to meet one that does it for me. Young men why do have to blow so fast.Young men why cant you get horny again.Why do you have to be so standard.Why do you have to be so selfish.Why do you freak at my imagination.The young are a necrotic mess. Shame they waste such sexy bodies.Over 40 provides good odds.Over 40 know how to indulge.Wisdom with lust, playful and controlled is what does it for me.What I find most sexy is in the mind. If I am not sore in the morning it was but a waste of my time. Fuck I am a hedonist, stop wasting my time. BTW nice body and cock, shame you cant play it.Totally agree OP
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RHP User
13 years ago
definitely no Q
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RHP User
13 years ago
Freya im with you totally!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
when i was about 26 i was seeing this woman that was 41 for about 4 months and i loved it because she was that good she made me feel like a virgin all over again, one night she even made me cum 3 times off the one horn and thats no joke. i don't know how she did it but to this day she is still the best i ever had. im so glad that an older woman took the time with me because she was really patient and was more then happy to teach me on how to do things that a woman likes. i just wish i could get in contact with her again so i can thank her for all the things she taught me because they have really helped me with being able to please my partners better in bed.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Messolonghi' * difference between being a bit inexperienced and being a dick.- Posted from rhpmobile the way smart phones can make the most intelligent people Illiterate with the push of a buttonTo the OP... i have found the same pattern of behaviours. Chatting to them gives me that De Ja MOO feeling (not a typo)I have heard that Bullshit before.That's why i support bacteria, they're the only culture some people have!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'On_Safari' My profile says thank you but no thank you to under 35's. A certain lack of manners and chivalry if I may quote Twisted Mister from another Forum. Having said that there is one young man on this site I would (but for geography) like to sample. A young gorgeous relaxing chill who has the makings of a fine strong man someday...... That gorgeous young Man you're referring to, has messaged me previously and I totally agree, he could teach this age group a thing or two.I asked him how he came to be so well mannered and thoughtful & his reply was "it's my parent's fault, it's the way I was brought up..."There are a few of them that are the exception and they know who they are, however this generation are in general, selfish and thick, more so than any other... The English cylabis must have been dropped during their educational years, as most of them can't spell or construct a decent sentence.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'hot_fantasy' now with my ex wife I cant ever remmeber going over 40 minutes - 1 hour a round and never over 2 rounds without a break.. this was due to me not being that attracted to her and her not really having a clue onto how to please a man sexually etc.. however with other woman that i have been with if they are able to handle and they are turned on and turning me on they would be lucky if I leave them walk away after 6 hours of constant play of one sort or another.. Hot_fantasy - why would you marry someone you are not that attracted to? Shot gun wedding perhaps? SFxx
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RHP User
13 years ago
dont paint all men under 30 with the same brush ladies :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
year old women aren't that much different, they are so beautiful and you should be so grateful to be in their presence. Pffft !Just to add another broad sweeping massive stereotyped assumption.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'neptune_drift' I may be just under 30, but I, ummm... read... like a 36 year old.Actually, sometimes I feel a bit like a 60 year old trapped in a 29 year old's body. Not yet been a 29 year old though in a 60 year old's body...Tuscan...? You are definitely the exception...
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RHP User
13 years ago
Stop being so touchy.. I just stated that the most giving are the 25 to 35 age group.. Yes ? Then I added, after that they tend to get moody and opinionated.. Yes ? Then I said.. Of course not all ... Yes ?What I had to say was bought about by life experiences, not as a backhander to any woman past 35 yrs. Im sure theres plenty 35 plus who can keep up with the best of them.. All of the girls Iv'e had the pleasure of over the last 10 years have been between 25 and 38.. with 90 % 30 plus.. I find they are more likely than not to just get on with it ? Is that wrong ?
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RHP User
13 years ago
And I dont believe every woman over 35 with a chip on their shoulder has to be married...
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'hot_fantasy' now I know I maybe just shooting my self in the foot here but here it goes.personally I believe that it depends on the chemistry and level attraction, the lust and desire and also the style/type /sexual compatibility of the woman for a man who can simply pick up easily to want to put in effort "as he has to enjoy doing that"now with my ex wife I cant ever remmeber going over 40 minutes - 1 hour a round and never over 2 rounds without a break.. this was due to me not being that attracted to her and her not really having a clue onto how to please a man sexually etc.. however with other woman that i have been with if they are able to handle and they are turned on and turning me on they would be lucky if I leave them walk away after 6 hours of constant play of one sort or another.. now I know that is a little extreme and out of the norm "from what I hear.." but most women after the initial shock and surprise come back for more and more and get addicted to it however I do not like to put that performance on unless I am personally enjoying the fact they are enjoying them self and Im very attracted.. in other words if they arnt really what I want or thought Ill be in for ill just blow and go soon.. simply because I can easily get it else where.. that being said if a girl knows she has the guy hypnotized and lusting her big time and he doesn't put on a good performance then I guess the guy is all talk/under performer .. some of the older ladies here are very sexy, elegant, wild and naughty so much so as they may even be better than the 20 year old wild naughty girls.. "yet to meet one but I'm still new here and picky I guess" so for them to not get a proper fuck from an under 30 year old is kind of strange to me..!! maybe just maybe the men over 30 find it a little harder to just walk in a club and get 3 or 4 numbers and walk out with a girl or two.. or think its hard so they dont try.. !! so thats why they put in more effort to build that good rep inhope of repeat business or word of mouth etc.. please be nice women I was just being honest about my opinion. Hmm...and did you actually try and teach your ex wife how to please you sexually? Maybe she wasn't attracted to you either.IMO this little spiel of yours is simply further evidence to back up what tuscanred is saying. Over-inflated egos and selfishness when it comes to sex and pleasure....the 'it's all about me' attitude....is rife among men in their 20s. Not appealing at all.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I can understand that some guys under 30 are lazy in bed. My experience is when I'm with sexy mature women I'm soooo turned on by them that I just want to keep going with the sex or just going down on them for as long as they want. Love giving oral to a sexy lady. Putting there needs before mine. Europeanbliss you are one very sexy lady that I would like to meet!!- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
nah,as I said you are tooo funny Jay and soooo predictable with your antique fishing tackle and rod
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RHP User
13 years ago
The initial comment and catalyst for this topic is generalising all men under 30, while Tuscan Red does mention that she acknowledges that all under 30 men don't fall into the category it doesn't necessarily change the fact.Age definitely plays a part in maturity and I won't deny that, however I've met countless people over the age of 35 that make me think "really? That's your decision?" or that lack common sense even with mingling with the opposite sex/effort. Saying that men under 30 don't put in the effort and time is once again a wide generalisation, where it is truly an individual's choice. I can easily say with conviction that older men don't put in as much effort and time because once they cum it's out the door to meet the mates at the pub or need to be home to the wife for dinner. Then there's the issue that older guys don't try harder with younger girls because "she's ticked off the list".As for the generational entitlement beliefs I can say that women over the age of 40 believe that because they are older have more "worldly experience" that they can pick, choose and be more critical because of their age, almost as if it's expected that they get exactly what they want because of their age and thus it is owed to them. I call it Mother hen syndrome.What I'm covering here is that anyone can make sweeping generalisations about a gender and age, as proven in my examples. I understand that my comments may offend some but that is intended, why? Because a generalisation groups individuals and singles them out based on the actions of a few. So try and see it from my point of view as an intelligent, driven 23 year old...Just because you are older than me makes you no better than me, you cannot say that because of my age I put in less effort than, or that I know less than a 35 year old that's looking for a quick fuck. If you single out an entire generation based on assumptions than you are missing out, and that statement is true if said by anyone.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Yes there are shit lays under 25s in both sexes, like there are shit lays in over 25s....... Most of the woman I have been with have been older than me and we continue to be in touch I have had some really shit lays with girls my age and really shit lays with woman older......This isn't completely an age matter....its the ability to read that gets in the way. If a guy is more interested in your vagina, than he is you head and heart, of course he is going to be shit, because he will get what he wants and leaves......If a guy is interested in how you tick more than how much shit he can talk, he will do whatever it takes to please, because he values your needs equal if not more than his...The other fact is you are on a hookup site....surprise surprise ....people can sign up in 5 mins and be exposed to hundreds of potential mates quicker than you can blink......We are all guilty on this as we want convenience, but with all things in life like food, furniture, what is ready quick and easy is never as satisfying as something that has had time and effort put into it. So before you decide to label realise that it is your choice to be on a site where there is a lot of shit as a result of the convenience, but you have chosen to be a part of this convenience instead of going out and getting to know people the old fashioned way.
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RHP User
13 years ago
bold post Ms Tuscan...I think you just posted it to get out the under 30's with the big cocks and stamina It's the fiery ones I know your looking for xxx
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RHP User
13 years ago
one for the grammar natzi's
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RHP User
13 years ago
quote.. ' touchy moi ' yes' affraid so. chill out, such a silly thing to take to heart. Dont hear any complants from cougars getting some young meat, so whats the difference...? Cmon now, lighten up..
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RHP User
13 years ago
You're a very wise woman Sensory......I think as we mature and gain more experiences along the way most of us blokes should be more in tune with a womans mind and body. As I get older I realise that the quality of the sex that I have is in direct proportion to the level of attention I place on the woman's needs both mentally and physically before I even start thinking of my own. From a purely physical standpoint the longer I hold off the better the end result so what better way to prolong my pleasure than to wrap myself up in pleasuring someone else and believe me if you look after your lady she will take care of you and then some.
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RHP User
13 years ago
well 1st of all I did not marry the woman for sex or looks, I did because who I thought she was etc.. her attitude towards it consistently was what made it hard.. she thought I have a problem and she thought once a month is a normal number to go by.. and of course I tried and for the 1st time in my life I couldn't train a person !! as some people are just not alive sexually and view sex as a bad chore etc no matter how much and how you try to help. you can not help someone that can doesn't want help them self's. i mean she wouldn't even wax her self etc.. I even bought her an IPL machine ...one way of looking at it is ego but not every successful and extraordinary person is egoistic, some may just be confident and able to back it up very well "walk the walk" but I guess those who know, know..personally iv onlly come across 2 women that could keep up with my drive, stamina and energy level.. its a scarry thing but deffenatly worth knowing that there are other freaks out there that can go that long and love to please and play etc.. till they are basically beyond pain and hunger..
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RHP User
13 years ago
this is a classic thread. :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Any group is going to have wide variety of different people, branding someone as being a lousy lover based on their age is a pretty poor generalization. If this is something you feel is true than okay, but some people are going to take exception to it. Side note: When I told a close friend about the age difference between myself and my FWB he assumed it would be a "wham, bam, thank you Ma'am" situation, in a mindset similar to the guys mentioned in the OP, and I asked him why. He thought it was all part of the "cougar/toyboy" dynamic and that it's all about sex and nothing else; because of the age gap there's no possibility of anything serious happening. This is something I have always wanted to quash, and I was the first person to ever talk to him about it (young guys don't talk about it much with other guys besides insecure bragging, and so the rumours never get corrected) but I don't think he understood the situation. Maybe it's a dumb misconception or a lack of communication, I have no idea.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Wunfa'You're a very wise woman Sensory......I think as we mature and gain more experiences along the way most of us blokes should be more in tune with a womans mind and body. As I get older I realise that the quality of the sex that I have is in direct proportion to the level of attention I place on the woman's needs both mentally and physically before I even start thinking of my own. From a purely physical standpoint the longer I hold off the better the end result so what better way to prolong my pleasure than to wrap myself up in pleasuring someone else and believe me if you look after your lady she will take care of you and then some. Well I can certainly vouch for your honed skills. You are a prime example of what I was talking about. Keep up the good work... SFxx
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RHP User
13 years ago
Message me I'll prove you wonderful ladies wrong. Cause I believe sex is always more about the women's pleasure. Honestly if u like toys and Beeing licked out for a long time without feeling guilty! Because it would be my pleasure to give you pleasure! Plenty of it !- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
What a load of codswallop. I have had slow sensual times with younger men and wham bam crazy times with 40+ men. I have met older men who were fresh out of unhappy marriages and therefore relatively inexperienced, and younger Casanova types with perfect bodies and an equally perfect understanding of the finer points of female anatomy. However, I can somehow understand a condescending attitude making some want to finish proceedings sooner rather than later. *throws petrol on the fire and runs away giggling* MsK x Ps I could now go into an extended diatribe on the overly developed sense of entitlement uniformly exhibited by much younger females (particularly of the submissive variety), but I'll hang onto that for another time...- Posted from rhpmobile
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Playful2looking
13 years ago
I prefer the older bi men too they are much beter at sucking your cock. When it comes to the ladies I am with Jay_me the 30 to 40 are best. Oh the occasional 18 teen is hot as well. When you can get them away from their phone. The older single gals seemed to think you are going to be like their ex. boring and a chauvist. Ok can be the same for the guys they carry way too much bagage and have a chip give me a bi guy or a young woman. Some straight guys are weird
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Jay_Me'l found the opposite with females. Most giving are the 25 to 35 age group. After that they tend to get moody and opinionated. Of course there are the exceptions.... Funny that ? we are moody an opionated, but thats out of bed were just fine in the sheets where it counts
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Tit_Tap_Blow'under 30 post.. There really isn't much I can 'say' in our defence. Except perhaps keep your expectations low, then be surprised when something good comes along. Or maybe your own choices are at fault. Does every guy promote himself in an egotistical way? Meeko said it too. Willingness to learn.. and learn 'your' ways. OK. maybe you dont want to have to teach. But it may be worth it after 1 training session. If not. Discard.Now. I think its been mentioned before. Lads our age would be used to being with ladies our age. Perhaps they are different to an 'experienced' one in expectations.Experience is what I think is key here though. Not every young guy is a Casanova and may only have had a few encounters sexual experience. Anyway. Thats my input. TTB (aka malestudent)NB. I tried to cover most things so no presumptions could be made to me personally. You'll have to 'find me out' yourself. I am not saying all young men are like this, its just been the experiences that some of my friends have had. I do not have that problem as like Meeka said I am prepared to show them..............but most do not want to know, they just want to get their rocks off and if the same young man has three of my friends in a row and still does not make any effort then the word gets around Perth is very small and no not all young men are the same, but the odds are not in their favour due to the selfish nature of the beast. they talk up a storm about what they can do, but many will not go down on a woman, not kiss a woman on the lips and want their cocks sucked and thats about it
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting '50zcool'year old women aren't that much different, they are so beautiful and you should be so grateful to be in their presence. Pffft ! Just to add another broad sweeping massive stereotyped assumption. Its just a topic on my experiences, and friends of mine I am not saying ALL men under thirty are like this sorry if you read it that way that’s the thing about a topic , if you start a new one its about a subject ,and relates to what I may have come across I was a shit fuck( I may still be a shit fuck) as well when I was young, because nobody took the time to actually notice I was not really into sex I was a star fish, because men did not give a shit about poking the star fish so long as it had a good body and tits So yes I do feel for guys that want to get experience with older women but most bullshit they want to learn, and they just don’t If they don’t want to learn and take note, then its not good for them in the future. Sex is about MUTAUL satisfaction. The problem is you don’t know if a man is selfish till the dead is done, no matter how much you vet them. one guy I refereed to came in , yes he got her turned on and then got the blow job and said, sorry I have to go to the gym now but will be back at six. I think she is still in bed hearing crickets chirping. and that guy is a hottie with a great body and cute face but like many he is full of shit when it comes to women. We are talking about being selfish and yes its a bit of a generation Y thing at times. The land of instant gratification. My friends are not on RHP , some of these men I do not meet myself. But the feed back from my friends is please no more under 30 year old men. So that cuts out the ones that may be nice and give it their all. But my friends have been burnt to many times , and they are in it for their pleasure and not to be an unpaid hooker. One guy on here said, if he was not really into the woman he would blow and go. just dont blow in the first place, just leave would be the right thing to do
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Mr_Eez'The initial comment and catalyst for this topic is generalising all men under 30, while Tuscan Red does mention that she acknowledges that all under 30 men don't fall into the category it doesn't necessarily change the fact.Age definitely plays a part in maturity and I won't deny that, however I've met countless people over the age of 35 that make me think "really? That's your decision?" or that lack common sense even with mingling with the opposite sex/effort. Saying that men under 30 don't put in the effort and time is once again a wide generalisation, where it is truly an individual's choice. I can easily say with conviction that older men don't put in as much effort and time because once they cum it's out the door to meet the mates at the pub or need to be home to the wife for dinner. Then there's the issue that older guys don't try harder with younger girls because "she's ticked off the list". As for the generational entitlement beliefs I can say that women over the age of 40 believe that because they are older have more "worldly experience" that they can pick, choose and be more critical because of their age, almost as if it's expected that they get exactly what they want because of their age and thus it is owed to them. I call it Mother hen syndrome.What I'm covering here is that anyone can make sweeping generalisations about a gender and age, as proven in my examples. I understand that my comments may offend some but that is intended, why? Because a generalisation groups individuals and singles them out based on the actions of a few. So try and see it from my point of view as an intelligent, driven 23 year old...Just because you are older than me makes you no better than me, you cannot say that because of my age I put in less effort than, or that I know less than a 35 year old that's looking for a quick fuck. If you single out an entire generation based on assumptions than you are missing out, and that statement is true if said by anyone. I think this post may be a good way to troll for the smart cookies under 30 like you and that young pup Neptune Drift
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'inspirit'bold post Ms Tuscan...I think you just posted it to get out the under 30's with the big cocks and stamina It's the fiery ones I know your looking for xxxyou got me
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RHP User
13 years ago
your right Quoting 'Jay_Me'l found the opposite with females. Most giving are the 25 to 35 age group. After that they tend to get moody and opinionated. Of course there are the exceptions.... Funny that ? we are moody an opionated, but thats out of bed were just fine in the sheets where it countsAs long as you know yourself and what you're capable of' ' that's all that matters.... never mind what I or anybody else says , if you got it flaunt it... right ?
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RHP User
13 years ago
Reading all this makes me think the "problem" is the type of person not the age of the person... Kinksters alluded to it, and a couple of young, but considerate and considered lads above demonstrated it - age isn't a barrier to being interesting, interested and engaged, and age isn't a guarantee. Quite choosing puffed up, mouthy, wankers (of any age) and let the good times roll.- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
And while I have a bit more experience now I think I still have a lot to learn. I do like to think I was and still am an unselfish lover but every person is different regardless of age.. A selfish lover under 30 is still likely to be when they are over 30 as well. That being said there is always going to be a generational thing that determines a generation of lovers but I am sure for every wham bam type there is someone who wants to learn.
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RHP User
13 years ago
after Not comming back at 6pm like he promised my friend she tried to stop him from blowing his load by the way, she said wait up kid you have to consider me but he just had a wank and left he then sent a text today that said I am flying out this morning, and wonder if I can come over and you can blow me she said....well you can imagine what she said Is he really that dumb or really just a selfish twit?
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RHP User
13 years ago
after Not comming back at 6pm like he promised my friend she tried to stop him from blowing his load by the way, she said wait up kid you have to consider me but he just had a wank and left he then sent a text today that said I am flying out this morning, and wonder if I can come over and you can blow me she said....well you can imagine what she said Is he really that dumb or really just a selfish twit?
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'tuscanred' after Not comming back at 6pm like he promised my friend she tried to stop him from blowing his load by the way, she said wait up kid you have to consider me but he just had a wank and left he then sent a text today that said I am flying out this morning, and wonder if I can come over and you can blow me she said....well you can imagine what she said Is he really that dumb or really just a selfish twit? I'd question who was dumb and selfish here !And who was inflating who's ego, yeah blame the kid too easy !It's called judgement or discernment.
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avidmale
13 years ago
On earth did you find this idiot.. *facepalm*
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Tit_Tap_Blow'On earth did you find this idiot.. *facepalm* yep my bad, he wanted to meet me but I was busy so handballed him to a female friend and he seemed ok when she met him, but once the play was on the way she found out the hard way. and 50 cool, is it dumb and selfish to want MUTUAL satistifaction? you have no idea what is going to happen, and yes she could have said no to him but he did all the right things up till he pulled his selfish cock out. she was not inflating her ego, she just was looking forward to sex, what the hell has that got to do with her ego? and even his for that matter.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'tuscanred' Quoting 'Tit_Tap_Blow'On earth did you find this idiot.. *facepalm* yep my bad, he wanted to meet me but I was busy so handballed him to a female friend and he seemed ok when she met him, but once the play was on the way she found out the hard way. and 50 cool, is it dumb and selfish to want MUTUAL satistifaction? you have no idea what is going to happen, and yes she could have said no to him but he did all the right things up till he pulled his selfish cock out. she was not inflating her ego, she just was looking forward to sex, what the hell has that got to do with her ego? and even his for that matter. No it's not, but I know that you understand men very well and with a lot more insight and empathy than most.So given that, all I'm saying is you should know better.What was the selection criteria apart from cute, abs and a pulse.You want young'uns go girl, but that shit goes with the territory.You know it.
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RHP User
13 years ago
As a 25year old female, I have been with a lot of men under the age of 30 and whilst it isn't always the case, the majority are very selfish lovers.I feel that is all comes down to THEIR self confidence. They rush through things or skip things because they aren't confident in their own ability, and how are they ever going to learn if they don't have ample practice.I rarely meet men under this age as a lot are emotionaly retarded (no offence!) and love playing mind games.As for not delivering what they advertise I totally agree. I have had SO many young guys say they will go down on me for hours and not do it once, say they will make me squirt and haven't even fingered me. It is all about giving them head and if they don't cum they get sex until they do. BORING. In this case I am the one to leave afterwards, I refuse to stick around in the company of a selfish dick, funny this is they always contact me for more. Dream on buddy!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Wooohooooo.... ive hit the over 30 mark now ... That means im in the good crowd...Lets see what happens from here
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RHP User
13 years ago
Well Op .. I think you are generalizing your rules for the mass population of men under 30. You take everyone as an individual. Some understand your needs and others don't. Its the same with women.i was in a relationship with a woman15 years more my age.. and sometimes she acted as if she does not know what to do with a dick. I would make her climax again and again and she couldn't make me blow even once in a whole night.Sometimes it takes a couple of goes before you start to get it right. Younger men are good learners and so are men in general.It pleases me when i give multiple orgasms to my partner. i feel good about it.I think you just need to be more open and tell him what you want and how you want it. And just express emotions more dramatically when you enjoy something. expressions like "thats it baby" help. ;)
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RHP User
13 years ago
By excluding a large number of under 30's, you're actually just creating 30 year old duds. I'm not saying that because I'm under 30, I'm just making a logical point. If a 25-29 year old is a dud for whatever reason, with a lack of practice and not having someone to show him that he doesn't have to carry on like a bull in a china shop, he'll never know any better. Food for thought???
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RHP User
13 years ago
The same often holds true for women as well. Just part of being human I guess. Find someone fun and enjoy :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
I hate that I get tarnished with the same brush as these selfish 25 year olds I constantly get knocked back. By older and younger women either I'm heinous looking or get stereo typed because some obnoxious immature fool is crude to a women be her age 25-55. How about women of all ages give each younger guy a chance to ruin it for himself rather then deciding when you see his age. BUTTSYLICIOUS: Reply to my MSG and give me a chance to prove all 20-30 olds are not useless - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
There's hope for me yet 😅- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
given up on men over 50,and believe me over the last three years I have met and talked to quite a few. There is not one man from that group that was in my opinion really interested in pleasing me,they were without exception selfish. For a long time I wouldn't even consider a much younger lover,now that has definitely changed.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Did we really expect this topic to go any other way?
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RHP User
13 years ago
is there a cohort that hasn't been trashed yet ?
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad'Did we really expect this topic to go any other way? or closed like a lot of other posts these days.
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RHP User
13 years ago
The point of my comment is.....1. Person X pakes sweeping generalisation stating that men under 30 are shit lovers2. A parade of men under 30 in here, feeling challenged and that their sexual potential in RHP has been tarnished, come forth to defend and promote themselvesI wonder... similarly, how a topic such as... "women over 40 arent worth the effort" may run DG
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RHP User
13 years ago
I'm lucky...mines under 30 and a definite keeper...some of the best sex ever...thanks very much.Men under 30, men over 30...older men....I'm not sure. Its all the luck of the drawer....its people....some are great in bed, some are shit...some care, some don't....some I'm glad I haven't even tried with.From what I've heard....some men get a raw deal when it comes to women too...not knowing what they're doing...or doing the starfish....or being lazyJust people......we're all different
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' The point of my comment is.....1. Person X pakes sweeping generalisation stating that men under 30 are shit lovers2. A parade of men under 30 in here, feeling challenged and that their sexual potential in RHP has been tarnished, come forth to defend and promote themselvesIndeed the knives would be out......Get bored of men bashing...take the good with the badWe women aren't all 8 out of 10's like me pmslI wonder... similarly, how a topic such as... "women over 40 arent worth the effort" may run DG
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RHP User
13 years ago
I never said ALL men under 30 are shit lovers I have a couple of lovers under 30 , and that same woman as a lover who is 20 and she is fifty so go for it, write one how women over 40 have dry cunts and are not worth the effort to stick your dick in. for heavens sake, its getting to be that each topic has to be sooooooooooo insightful , important and mind blowing stuff sorry I am all out of rocket science material as you should be all out of Manup or fuck off posts just saying... tr grumpy old menopausal beyond fucking cow
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RHP User
13 years ago
I disagree with what you said. My problem with older woman is that they mainly go for that Australian beach bum. Have you ever considered expanding your horizons. Try some young guy that in't from Australia. You might be surprised. By the way cause I am young, that doesn't change what I said.- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
For as long as I can remember I have been a generous Lover I'm the bedroom it is the giving of pleasure that turns me on most if you are going to cum earl pull out and use your mouth and hands tease them make them want you back in. Perhaps it's not their age maybe you just are attracted to the selfish ones which can be either man or woman. I won't say if I'm awesome in the sack,But by the sounds of it most of you will never find out due To my age,Guess i will be improved even more in 7 years but.- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
Just had a rethink, If you void men under 30 because you Generslise us all. You are not worth my time. Your loss. Damn I wish I could delete that above post via phone and from now on not reply so fast.- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
Other than the long term girlfriends I've had & one or two other special cases in the FWB group I've found that a lot of women are pretty lame ducks in the sack. Clueless on what to do & under the impression that the man's equipment should just stand to attention with no effort on her part. I wonder how many guys have felt pressurised to cum as quickly as possible during a blowjob as within 2 minutes their lover asks, "Are you close?" Are you serious? You literally just began! Then of course we're expected to return the favour for the better part of half an hour - whilst all the while making sure that you never feel rushed or under pressure lest we ruin that delicate mindset some of you need to be in order to orgasm - have you ladies ever asked yourselves: If you had to give a guy a 20min blowjob EVERY time you had sex just for him to cum, how long would you put up with it before you just thought, "Fuck this, I cum to quick? You cum too slow!" Perhaps it would be different if you were all the same, then it would just be something that we would have to get used to, but fact is you ain't, some of you cum very quickly & multiple times in the first session (good on you girls by the way, you're a god-send). Now, it's true that with time you can help a particular woman "practise" her way to being able to cum quickly with you, you can learn all the little personal foibles that allow her to get her rocks off ASAP. You can do that. OR, if you're young & pretty, you can just get your rocks off, call this one a dud & move on to the next one. I'm not saying it's right, personally I like to give a girl a chance to settle in, but it's definitely an option & let's face it, that's what you ladies are doing when you drop guys for being "duds". We're just following your lead after all; find one that doesn't require as much work :-P- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
clealry there cums a time when an individual presents himself on this earth every millennia, that puts all others to shame. Has this time cum yet again? pleae-or, passion extraordinaire.... the list goes on.. beautiful ladies of this forum, mmm clearly you have been with the wrong person. ;)- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Primal_InstinXXX'Just had a rethink, If you void men under 30 because you Generslise us all. You are not worth my time. Your loss. Damn I wish I could delete that above post via phone and from now on not reply so fast.- Posted from rhpmobile I am not worth your time...dodged a bullet there
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Primal_InstinXXX'Just had a rethink, If you void men under 30 because you Generslise us all. You are not worth my time. Your loss. Damn I wish I could delete that above post via phone and from now on not reply so fast.- Posted from rhpmobile It's not their loss as they never wanted you in the first place! I never understood that saying "Your Loss"...How can you lose something you never wanted found? xFunlovingx
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