RHP

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Alarm bells..

June 30 2018

Curious as to what sets off alarm bells in your head when chatting to people... you know the ones that start to chime in saying that these people / this person may not be the ones / one for you... For me when I hear “She likes women, but loves cock’ you that’s an immediate back off signal as the level of interest in fem fem play isn’t the same as the level of interest in male female play. What are your alarm bell comments? - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • sunnyfun

    sunnyfun

    7 years ago

    Our profile states that if you contact us open your face pics, so many dont, every so often you get the old "you dont need to see our face pics we look better in real person" maybe so but we are not meeting you to find out. Also so many guys out there with couples profiles we are getting better at picking up the signs - best to ask that the two girls chat on the phone shuts that one down quick.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Couples advertise for couples to play but they change when you chat to them they are really only unicorn chases alot lead on but change when they chat thats when you realise they are only time wasters - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Hoorah Kashran , my sentiments exactly . - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    That I don’t give it up because a msg hits my inbox that expresses interest. I don’t want to be a notch on a bedpost and I don’t want exponential validations. I choose quality over quantity. I choose connection over mindlessness. That’s my choice - sorry - our choice.. I tell you that there are a lot more pickier less genuine people out there who won’t be upfront with you. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    No we don’t. Our profile doesn’t state it so don’t ask it. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • taurusgal72

    taurusgal72

    7 years ago

    Dont understand how kik can be a turn off/red flag. As a single woman im not about to give my mobile out to just anyone and talking on kik is a good starting point. Also when chatting to couples using kik is good for both to use it and be in a group so i know who im talking to. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • taurusgal72

    taurusgal72

    7 years ago

    Raises questions Pictures of Pictures including screenshots This is so true. Chatted to a couple on another site. Asked for pics of them. Got pics that were of them but they had them on a laptop and used their camera to take a pic and send to me. And they were sex shots of her and him. Hardly what i was asking. Not hard to take a selfie - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Even not being a single girl I don’t give my mobile out to anyone!! I have once and then attempted to be ‘arranged’ to do a phone call so as to be able to talk to her but it was only when it suited them, never any consideration for asking when it might suit me... - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Even not being a single girl I don’t give my mobile out to anyone!! I have once and then attempted to be ‘arranged’ to do a phone call so as to be able to talk to her but it was only when it suited them, never any consideration for asking when it might suit me... - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    When the female is never involved in the chat and I ask to speak to her on the phone prior to meeting up. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    I don’t understand why a couple like us who are genuinely seeking an ffm fantasy is seen as an alarm bell. It’s a genuine fantasy. It may not be yours but it’s no reason to put people down and call them out as being an ‘Alain bell’. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • KingnQueen1

    KingnQueen1

    7 years ago

    We’d love to see more pics of you both!! No we have face pics up happy for the girls to chat and meet to see if we all click, but not giving pic collectors any material. We’re looking for ongoing friendships, taking it slow and getting to know people. Definitely quality over quantity. Also use protection people so many people on here seem happy to play Russian roulette, that’s baggage nobody needs and in this day and age prolific. Pushy people also let’s fuck etc we want nude pics bye bye. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • KingnQueen1

    KingnQueen1

    7 years ago

    Im very bi and love going down on women and them going down on me nothing like a woman’s touch. Everybody’s different but we like slow sensual play lots of kissing, touching, building the excitement and not rushing to Fuck. We want quality over quantity and want to connect with people and have a really intimate connections, with people we can see again. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Alarm bells and straight NO When you take the time to be straight up with what you are looking for and state it clearly on your profile. Example I don’t post face pics on my profile for safety and personal choice however I am happy to send if there’s a cool flow of conversation to then see who I’m engaging with. When it turns into a pathetic game -it’s just lame, time wasting and futile. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Well said countrytouch. Seems I would be automaticlly ruled out.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Quoting 'crono_4968' I think the profile you were taking about earlier was Gracie and mine. That profile was changed to just mine as we had split up.. It was not a fake profile. You do the right thing and change the profile back to how it is and people think you are fake??? Dave - Posted from rhpmobile Yes but when you messaged your profile said you were a couple and the messaged eluded to that!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    that ain't got no time for you until they want to prove you wrong... Peachy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Quoting 'Redmustang'Quoting 'crono_4968' I think the profile you were taking about earlier was Gracie and mine. That profile was changed to just mine as we had split up.. It was not a fake profile. You do the right thing and change the profile back to how it is and people think you are fake??? Dave Yes but when you messaged your profile said you were a couple and the messaged eluded to that! It is from a couple of weeks ago, took me ages to go back and find the actual post. Peachy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Quoting 'PeachySxynIknoIt'Peeps... that ain't got no time for you until they want to prove you wrong... Peachy When I say 'peeps', I mean people (plural)! Peachy, half left...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Life’s busy don’t always have time to check RHP

  • justforthefun44

    justforthefun44

    7 years ago

    They tell you one thing then next time you talk to them they tell you something different. we have very good memories of what is said. lots of men saying they are a couple. "sorry wife is out or at work" that the most conman one

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Thanks - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Always playing the victim.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    You fit everything it say's in their profile and they make strange reasons why their not interested. It's happened twice to me and they both turned out to be fake accounts.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    So many of them! Nothing like fitting all the boxes and having some f$&ing tosser think it’s fun to mess with you and your life.... I’ve never done it - never will and have a serious disregard for anyone who does! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • playfulminx

    playfulminx

    7 years ago

    I've been around long enough to only engage with people who match what I want so my BS alarm system hasn't been activated in a long time. Having said that, I still drop the ball here and there. Call me shallow, but sometimes I can't resist certain assets so I agree to meeting. Anyway, I met an inexperienced guy recently for a coffee, and well, I got what I got. Shiz got too real for him and voila, Ghostville. Fortunately I didn't invest that much time and energy in him but I can see how others might keep persisting with a guy/girl/couple who seem perfect but can't quite close the deal and play. I think in this situation, an alarm bell would be the sudden change in sexual banter as if to try and discourage you from pursuing them. *goes back to finding experienced Bulls*

  • Pervertedsuit

    Pervertedsuit

    7 years ago

    People that are disingenuous. Takes two seconds to spot. - Posted from rhpmobile

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