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Ice Breakers

August 03 2018

So you’ve been through all the preliminary chats, swapped pics, flirted, built up suitable tension, discussed dos and don’ts and established boundaries... You’ve come time to meet. You’ve had dinner, drinks, cocktails whatever it may be so that you’ve had the chance to make sure they match their pics and personality match in reality to what was shared via screen.. It’s time to progress further... How do you take that first step? What’s your favourite ice breaker that never fails. The one that initiates that first physical contact (aside from the preliminary hug and kiss at drinks). (As a disclaimer if your icebreaker is something rather physical please ensure you advise that permission for this was given in prior conversation... just so that you don’t get an earful from people. Also as a disclaimer remember people have different fantasies and desires and if an ice breaker isn’t your cup of tea please don’t dismiss it or the poster but move on to the next comment. ) Ok... I don’t have one yet - hence the reason for asking lol So.... Go ☺️ - Posted from rhpmobile

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AnnieWhichway

7 years ago

Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' I find Antis posts kinda funny......... so to me he is kinda funny Also helps when you've met people which l have met him along with many regulars. It helps to get it

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RHP User

7 years ago

Why did you give her massages in your car?

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RHP User

7 years ago

Glad you have met anti and understand him better! Not all of us have that luxury of knowing someone to get their sense of humour. If you say he is funny then he must be as you would know!

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RHP User

7 years ago

Call me overly confident or even simplistic but I think just rely on good old fashioned intuition. If one feels madly attracted to someone, generally it’s because that someone is at least moderately interested and you’ve been picking up their interest on a subliminal level. When we are nervous the resulting biological display very closely mimics attraction anyway....... after all, that’s why we are nervous...... because we think the other person ( or people) are hot !!! Pluck up the courage if you feel inclined, just use some cheekiness and say something like I’d really love to kiss you right now, would that be ok ? Has usually worked for me anyway. - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

7 years ago

Seems very interactive and inclusive of all parties... Who wants to teach me how to play poker? My problem is I’m an over thinker, I’d over analyse the subliminal messages and miss body language cues... I need to stop thinking I won’t be good enough for people and start thinking that I bloody well am good enough - I need to own what I have, go with the flow. Stop thinking and maybe get a bit more primal. - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

7 years ago

I totally agree, just let go of the hand rail and jump..... a massive part of sex appeal is loving yourself first and projecting honest confidence......it takes practice but it’s true......... - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

7 years ago

Yes went out in a date sweetjen and I was driving. After dinner, i offerred her a massage which she couldn't refuse. So we went to a secluded spot, parked our car, moved to the back seat and the massage and other things followed. The massage acted as the perfect ice-breaker as she allowed me to touch her everywhere leading to her orgasm and an amazing hand and blow for me. - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

7 years ago

I now need another option for an icebreaker as I've had two lovely ladies turn down my massage lol... I didn't know that was possible but each to their own... If a massage is offered to me I'm in all day long... strip poker or the dice game may be the go 😂😂😂😍😍 Ms sweetnsensual - Posted from rhpmobile

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AnnieWhichway

7 years ago

I've experienced this If you are a single, or couple, and you either go to a public place, ie bar or cafe, to meet others, you sit with a signal system consisting of coloured cards or hankies. They are red, green and white. You are seated with white showing. During the course of the initial meeting, you can change the color to your feelings. If you are a go, change to green, stay white until you get your final feeling. Rules are, there is no obligation to explain. You all have green, you are good for play. If a couple have 1 green, 1 red,......well you get the idea. It works well.

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AnnieWhichway

7 years ago

If you have trouble aligning greens, order another bottle of wine. That works in conjunction. Funny to watch the late deciders......

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Seachange73

7 years ago

God help me if I'm colour blind?😎 I'll never get lucky.... 😥 What if just flash my titties! That may be an easier way to get my message across that I'm 'ready to go'!!! 😉😘

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tcm70

7 years ago

Run similiar to Annie’s advice. Green-your free. Yellow-let’s wait and see. Red-fuck off until I’m drunk and get a green glow stick on my head. It’s funny watching the dynamics change throughout such an evening. Card games, strip poker etc are good, but someone still needs to instigate them. Seachange, I wouldn’t complain if you flashed your titties, but if I’m still trying to shuffle cards for strip poker that might make me drop the lot in a flummox of “shit, fuck, ok, titties, cards, still don’t know them titties, shuffle cards, do we still need strip poker, your titties are out already, is that cheating? Omg. Do I need a green card now? Lol. Confusion is fun. 😂

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RHP User

7 years ago

Your massages are divine and had never experienced anything like what you both gave me I had to come back the next night! Your ice breakers are gold! - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

7 years ago

I’m back in the game! My ice breakers worked on Friday night Must have been a QLD issue lol

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