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Venting
January 28 2015
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Luck_Dragon' Quoting 'CandyDelicious' If only they had mentioned that in their opening post all of the rest of it would not have happened in my opinion. I think people would still have expressed concerns about the airing of some of those details in a public forum, given that there were potential legal issues and apparently a coroner's hearing involved. I believe, contrary to what some do, that it's perfectly acceptable for people to air those concerns on the forum as long as it's done respectfully. People also did privately message the person that the forum was posted on behalf of to discuss it with him. Peachy - yes those are both our opinions and I still think yours is wrong. But, we're never going to agree on some of the issues being discussed here. I note that you have no problems dismissing / minimising the aggressive and bullying behaviour of certain forum members (not just that person), whilst frequently bringing up your disapproval of others who are guilty of much lesser infractions. You can justify it whatever way you want to, the inconsistency doesn't wash with me. I think it would help if you read what I said Luck. The facts are, the first comment was removed, The person who mattered objected to following remarks that were posted again, which were also removed. People ignored him and kept posting again anyway, that is not respectful IMO. One person was trying to shove it on the OP's plate as their responsibility long after they knew the Thread had been requested Candy. Seems as plain as the nose on my face. Good on the people who chose a more respectful approach via PM!!! I can understand and respect your concerns.Your ability to attack my ability to have an opinion because of your judgements of how you see the effects of my posting in the forums hardly bolsters your opinion in this case Luck. Cheers, Peachy
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MsJonesy
9 years ago
I refer you to my post on this thread regarding vexatious complainants. What the Moderators say is the correct way of dealing with the problem has proven time and time again to result in one thing and one thing only... the removal of rebuttal posts. The posts which cause the issue in the first instance are rarely removed and sit there in all their alleged shining innocence with no healthy debate allowed on the content. I for one can live in a world where healthy and robust debate is encouraged rather than stamped out. Pleasantville can be quite yawn inducing.
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RHP User
9 years ago
As far as I can see, the fuss over the few days does not go beyond double figures yet it has effected a whole range of threads that have nothing to do with it, and people who were participating, about to (on a new thread) or maybe even lurking. That is not healthy debate, robust or otherwise and it's not considerate of the greater part of the RHP fora imo. This sort of thing is one of the greater worries people express on the threads that are often started for lurkers when they explain why they don't post in the forums. I'm not even sure there are vexatious complainants, they could well be an urban legend. One of the things that has been a constant on RHP, is complaints about the moderating. Things like, "oh they must know someone" is a favourite that I've said myself, lol. I don't always agree with moderation but have reached a point about being more careful of the battles I take on there. I know I've reported things that I view as nasty and off-topic. A lot less often than some might think. You should see some of the things that still exist about me that I haven't bothered to report. There's plenty of it still in the forum. I feel a lot more comfortable with the forum most of the time these days. Just Peachy :-)... off to explore some of the fun topics...
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'PeachyPearL' Quoting 'Summersolstice' I do love how posts get responded to with quote before the originals are removed, so they remain for all to see. Keep quoting folks. I'll help 'em out. It'll be my pleasure. Peachy I'm sure they'll get it on the return visit. I imagine they do keep an eye on this thread anyway... Peachy
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RHP User
9 years ago
Peachy, you nailed it. Thank God there is one amongst us who saw the real issue and the unsuing attack. To everyone else, go ahead and discuss it to death behind the scenes, but if you insist on keeping this up, this thread will be in danger of being pulled. And I suppose that will also be blamed on someone else? Take your little chat somewhere else and leave this awesome thread alone. I for one would hate to see it go. Moving on now 😃
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Summersolstice'Keep quoting folks. ...''quote you''. Check the Midnight Book of the Kama Sutra...position number 124! Quoting and quoting and quoting more.......fun galore! I know I know already...but ya gotta admit it's just a tad cute? Tag me!!!
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RHP User
9 years ago
I did have a long post about the treatment of posts and debate on this forum - but I deleted it because it's just fucking pointless as the post would last ten minutes before some twat deleted it and couldn't even tell you why.
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RHP User
9 years ago
That post should've probably had a "bah humbug!" at the end ;)
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RHP User
9 years ago
everyone used IMO (or words to that effect) rather than just a select few posters. Seems you can get away with more in the forums? Just my 1ct, 2 cents, IMO, IMHO, JMO, TBH 😝😜😛😋 (don't shoot the messenger, i'm jk)
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RHP User
9 years ago
haha why do your comments always make me laugh, it's your profile pic, funny stuff
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RHP User
9 years ago
I had dinner with friends opposite the local jetty. I kid you not there were at least 200 people at the jetty searching for that bloody Pokemon...People have in my opinion,become more than a little obsessed by this latest craze,and all their data is exposed while they are doing this Q
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RHP User
9 years ago
I had a look to check the thanks and clarify post, seems all good now. I also noticed the kind thoughts posted by 2GuysWithRepespect and Annie who's posts l've always found to be intelligent, articulate, witty, sincere and even a little confronting in the nicest way (just different lifestyle for me) inspired me to add another important and special part of the time and what people do that makes them great. l touched on the folks breeding plants with a close special friend Keith, nothing unusual to me for a guy to grow orchids, my dad dose. Dad went to his nursery to collect some flowers for mums coffin. Dad collected s few and thanked Keith. Keith chuckled and took the secateurs grabbed the buckets asked dad to carry the buckets and follow him, he went all over the place collecting a lot more. So much more that mum's 5ft coffin was covered from head to toe and so high some fell over the sides, just a mass of colour and so beautiful, fitting for mum, l wanted to take a pic but that image is etched into my memory. Keith also brought the supa special ones as a surprise and presented them to my dad, brother and me after the gut wrenching eulogy l gave and ask we lay them with her, the cherry on the cake. The service and after was a blur, so many people and a tough day. l didn't see Keith to thank him, he apparently left soon after. l wasn't comfortable without thanking Keith for doing so much for mum, for us. The following sat morning after work l went to his nursery on the way home. I asked one of his staff if he was in, they knew my connection and took me to house next door and he meet me at the back door. I thanked him for all he done for us, for mum, for being such a great and true friend for them and to them. Took me a while to get the words out but he waited patiently, offered me a drink or tissue, shook hands, knowing enough was said and as l went to leave his partner Dave come through the sliding door and shook my hand to, nicely rubbed my arm and to said l'll be ok, give it time. I couldn't talk, only nod and had to go. l don't have a gaydar, grew up with Depeche Mode singing "People are People" and Molly on Countdown, he was odd but cool, so l can see it with people that are very flamboyant but not generally and does surprise me when I find out as l didn't see it and it really doesn't matter in a way, it's about people being themselves. Around this time the gay marriage discussion was well and truly on. l don't support any form of discrimination against anyone and understood the importance of legally recognising a gay partnership and the discrimination and compilation's endured by not. I just thought there could be middle ground, complete legal recognition, no form of discrimination or difference and the church could perhaps be allowed to retain the use the word or term married or marriage. I was kinda on the fence just looking for middle ground. Driving home after visiting Keith and Dave pushed me off and over the fence. I now understand all that matters is peoples love for each other in what ever consenting form and no one has ownership of something over or from others. The issue wasn't important to me , didn't feel it effected me until l realised it does effect people l know and that are special to me, they just go about it quietly though now l have a say, fully supporting gay marriage and l to want to see it happen. Cheers and all those fighting the good fight, you have my support and blessing's, let's make it happen.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'soretongue' everyone used IMO (or words to that effect) rather than just a select few posters. Seems you can get away with more in the forums? and I often do that....but if you're posting something in here it should be pretty obvious that it's your opinion, so all the fuss that sometimes occurs just because someone doesn't specifically state the words is pretty silly. IMO
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RHP User
9 years ago
I look at the inclusion of IMO as an implicit understanding of the person who is posting, that it is only their opinion. Their opinion does not override or disparage mine, and visa versa of course. IMO is not everything without the proper attitude that it is a 2 way street. So I can't be disparaging someone else's opinion while pushing mine. That does not mean people can't disagree. IMO is not about getting away with more of anything but the approach that comes across and is hopefully displayed with the respect shown as I've posted. IMO, Peachy
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Qefenta1' I had dinner with friends opposite the local jetty. I kid you not there were at least 200 people at the jetty searching for that bloody Pokemon...People have in my opinion,become more than a little obsessed by this latest craze,and all their data is exposed while they are doing this Q I'll be heading back there today with some of the articles and news I've picked up during the week. I've been enjoying excercising my mind on this 'game'. Peachy
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RHP User
9 years ago
Contrary to what many believe, not all opinions are created equal or are deserving of equal air time / consideration. That's also one of the problems with our current media and political environment, too much time is given to people with don't contribute anything useful.
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RHP User
9 years ago
*who don't contribute anything useful
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RHP User
9 years ago
before the usual suspects jump all over me....I'm not saying people don't have a right to express their opinions in a forum like this, of course they do, but there is no implicit right that their opinions be taken seriously by everyone, or go unchallenged.
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RHP User
9 years ago
The previous comments were made in a general sense and not referring to any specific previous discussion on this forum.
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MsSuperFoxy
9 years ago
If you think the jetty is bad....South bank is cazy with 1000's of pokemon players. There is extra police patrolling. Ms Foxy
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RHP User
9 years ago
Any similarities to actual persons alive or dead is a coincidence... Yeah, Peachy
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RHP User
9 years ago
In Perth is the same. Complaints of motorists doing U turns while staring at their phones. I get that its fun, but someone is bound to be injured soon.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Well, I looked back too see how much of the ongoing (*wink wink*) topic remains, and wow, there's heaps. IMO or respect has nothing to do with the survival of posts... you know, IMO. I do understand perfectly that all opinions are not the same... I thought I made that clear in my posts. Persevering Peachy
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RHP User
9 years ago
Think whatever you want. I'm done with this discussion.
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RHP User
9 years ago
I'm not sure why but I respect that we are not achieving a meeting of minds. Peachy
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Seachange73
9 years ago
soliloquy anyone?
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RHP User
9 years ago
Intelligent response... anyone? Might as well be hung for a sheep as a lamb... Peachy xox
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MsSuperFoxy
9 years ago
I really like reading in the forums, posters who stay calm and not respond/react to posts directed or insulting at them. It's not hard to see or notice. So we'll done. :) If I can see it, so can many others who just lurk. In my eyes, a confident, emotional intelligent people does not put others down, nor do they react. :) Ms Foxy
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'PeachyPearL' Intelligent response... anyone? Might as well be hung for a sheep as a lamb... Peachy xox GOCOMICS - Heathcliff - George Gately - 17AUG02 ?
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RHP User
9 years ago
It would be most helpful to be permitted to post links.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'SuperFoxxxy' I really like reading in the forums, posters who stay calm and not respond/react to posts directed or insulting at them. It's not hard to see or notice. So we'll done. :) If I can see it, so can many others who just lurk. In my eyes, a confident, emotional intelligent people does not put others down, nor do they react. :) Ms Foxy I agree. We are of course, none of us perfect, but it wonderful to admire the good traits we see in people. It is encouraging! Myself, I'm learning more all the time. I wrote my post above yours and regretted it while I was out because it was a reaction I didn't put enough thought into, and made something of hypocrisy of my concern for the fuss and bother posters don't want to see in the forums. Cheers n hugs, Peachy xox
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Summersolstice' The media would stop giving those terrorists who commit mass murders names and faces, and even background stories. In my view they deserve no attention, no acknowledgement, and certainly no opportunity to be made into marters by sympathisers. It makes me ill. What of those other despicable, treacherous types who also aid and abet the Terrorists? I refer to those who encourage people to surrender their homes, all of their possessions, their preferred lifestyles and practices, indeed even their entire homelands in favour of those murderous bastards calling themselves ISIS (or ISIL)? You know the ones I'm talking about? Those sneaky treacherous types who claim a humanitarian mandate, but who actually insist that the innocent people (men, women, and children) who refuse to accept and comply with the murderous doctrines and dictates of radical Islamists such as ISIS should surrender everything and instead relocate themselves (or perhaps be relocated) to lives in exile in other nations around the world.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Just ugh ahaha 👅👅👅😂
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RHP User
9 years ago
Don't know, who was that, certainly not me, but I have to wonder why you would feel the need to post a nasty comment like that (couldn't quote but insulting someone from the forum about their pictures, that you said you had to wake up to?) Correct me if I'm wrong but the venting thread is supposed to be venting about stuff, not people on the forum. Following it up with a humanitarian comment, due respect, doesn't make it right 😃
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RHP User
9 years ago
I felt like that might have had to do with another post on the thread rather than pictures. It wasn't clear! Peachy
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'ontology' Quoting 'PeachyPearL' Intelligent response... anyone? Might as well be hung for a sheep as a lamb... Peachy xox GOCOMICS - Heathcliff - George Gately - 17AUG02 ?Quoting 'ontology' It would be most helpful to be permitted to post links.I used to be able to share links quite freely in the past. I'm sorry I can only find 2 results on Gocomics. Peachy :-)
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'PeachyPearL' Quoting 'ontology' Quoting 'PeachyPearL' Intelligent response... anyone? Might as well be hung for a sheep as a lamb... Peachy xox GOCOMICS - Heathcliff - George Gately - 17AUG02 ?Quoting 'ontology' It would be most helpful to be permitted to post links.I used to be able to share links quite freely in the past. I'm sorry I can only find 2 results on Gocomics. Peachy :-) Perhaps another way to communicate/consider it... If you remember to tabulate with a '/', you might attend that same American site (by name), and apply following data string to find the specific cartoon: Heathcliff 2002 08 17 (FYI, the caption was "Perhaps tomorrow she'll be in the mood for an apology".
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Summersolstice' The media would stop giving those terrorists who commit mass murders names and faces, and even background stories. In my view they deserve no attention, no acknowledgement, and certainly no opportunity to be made into marters by sympathisers. It makes me ill. Very careful consideration is warranted here. While I agree with your sentiment vis-à-vis Terrorists and their twisted ideas such as "Martyrdom", and I think our media outlets sometimes (seriously) let us down, I would encourage you all to resist kneejerk reactions. It shocks me sometimes just how readily/easily some people overlook how vitally important Press Freedom and honest media reporting is to the proper functioning of liberal democracies such as ours. Apparently it is not obvious to everyone (including both members and proprietors of media outlets) the more free, full and frank the flow of information to the population, the better placed we all are to make wise decisions. There has been some discussion concerning Freedom of Speech recently in the threads of this forum. I have been astounded how many people apparently fail to precisely or properly comprehend what Freedom of Speech is, and what the implications of Freedom of Speech actually are. I do not suggest it is necessary for all people to become expert in these matters, but it is important to give some reasoned thought and mature discussion of the issues. Sadly (and somewhat ironically), there seems to have been some who demonstrate their lack of understanding by their implied (if not direct) calls for censorship (or in some instances, the equivalent of fingers in the ears and singing of "la, la, la, la, la, I can't hear you!") I agree it is not helpful to be perceived to be promoting the perpetrators of death and destruction. Far from it. However, it is of vital importance that people are informed of what is taking place, and how. An informed and alert population is one of the greatest defences against the sorts of acts which have taken place. A proper functioning media and mature, intelligent discussion and debate may afford the most effective means of countering the narratives which radicalise the individuals who perpetrate these shocking crimes. I do not think it any way wise or helpful to the situation for the media to be silenced from reporting uncomfortable or inconvenient truths. Further, I believe all societies suffer a great disservice by those who would capitulate to the likes of those bastards who have perverted a religious ideology* as excuse (or smoke screen) to perpetrate truly hideous crimes (including but not limited to Rape, Murder, Armed Robbery and Theft). Aiding and abetting these filthy criminals by encouraging the victims of these dreadful crimes to abandon all that they have, and all that they know, to flee and seek permanent relocation/refuge in other nations is not a solution to the problem. In fact, it might reasonably be argued such approach entirely avoids the root cause of the problem and may actually exacerbate the central problem because the Terrorists become yet more emboldened. How many people would advocate such action were their own neighbourhoods invaded by such thugs? How could/Why would anyone think it reasonable to expect others should adopt that stance? Don't you all feel thoroughly exasperated how long all of this has been taking place, and how there appears no end in sight? It is my belief this is precisely because there is a lack of political will to tackle the root causes of such problems. Instead, people seem to always prefer the options which require the least thought and the least effort/action, and the least expense incurred for their own part. This seems to almost invariably mean tinkering at the edges, partially addressing symptoms of problems (rather than completely and thoroughly addressing the causes of said problems), accompanied by lots of hand wringing and giving voice to expressions of sympathy, condolences and/or "tut tut".
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RHP User
9 years ago
...as there's agro in the air and everywhere. I'm starting to think saying hello is enough to start an argument for some and the rest wait until they're safely inside their cars before they start blasting away using their horn. When walking on the sidewalk becomes danger due to the traffic...it's time to stay indoors!
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'ontology' (or in some instances, the equivalent of fingers in the ears and singing of "la, la, la, la, la, I can't hear you!") if by this comment you're partly referring to my recent mention of not reading certain posters' comments anymore. If so that would demonstrate a lack of understanding of freedom of speech. As I mentioned in a previous comment freedom of speech means that people have the right to express their opinions (and not be arrested / persecuted for it, if you want to get into the actual political definition the term originally referred to). It does not mean that people are required to listen to or give credence to those opinions, should they regard those opinions to be full of shit. I consider certain people on here to be full of shit therefore I am well within my right to ignore them, without impinging at all on their right to 'freedom of speech' on the forum.
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RHP User
9 years ago
👉😵👈 (SORRY COUNDNT HELP MYSELF) :p
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RHP User
9 years ago
Absolutely, I agree, so many comments I don't read. Likewise yup 😀
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madotara69
9 years ago
Quoting 'Qefenta1' I had dinner with friends opposite the local jetty. I kid you not there were at least 200 people at the jetty searching for that bloody Pokemon...People have in my opinion,become more than a little obsessed by this latest craze,and all their data is exposed while they are doing this Q On the radio this morning, it was said that the Pokemon thing had overtaken the demand for porn on the www.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'usrightnow' .Likewise, even in this Forum and it's many threads, if comments and parts of discussions are removed, we get an incomplete picture of a profile/person(s). Surely it's helpful to be able to make our minds up regarding who we may wish to meet, message, socialise, play with, with as much of the story as possible?Mr. urn. . I celebrated my 9th year in the forums recently and so it has always been. RHP has commented on the issue many times, I'll have a look for the last one, I think I remember where it is. A lot of discussion went on... Ha! found it, I even remembered the OP, I do miss him in the forum. I bumped it up in off-topic anyway if you'd like to take a look and/or get involved in the discussion. RHP posted on page 1, Cheers, Peachy
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RHP User
9 years ago
... would have shat himself. ''Say what you mean...mean what you say''. Jimmie Buffet
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Luck_Dragon' Quoting 'ontology' (or in some instances, the equivalent of fingers in the ears and singing of "la, la, la, la, la, I can't hear you!") if by this comment you're partly referring to my recent mention of not reading certain posters' comments anymore. If so that would demonstrate a lack of understanding of freedom of speech. As I mentioned in a previous comment freedom of speech means that people have the right to express their opinions (and not be arrested / persecuted for it, if you want to get into the actual political definition the term originally referred to). It does not mean that people are required to listen to or give credence to those opinions, should they regard those opinions to be full of shit. I consider certain people on here to be full of shit therefore I am well within my right to ignore them, without impinging at all on their right to 'freedom of speech' on the forum. Luck_Dragon, I was not referring to you. It would seem you have not noticed I have posed the very same argument in other posts/other threads. You would be aided by full context. It seems currently the capacity to review prior posts by username/handle is revoked (or at least non-functioning) - even for reading of own posts. Anyway, I was referring to those who claim to espouse values such as freedom of speech, whilst they simultaneously make calls/pass comments in favour of censorship, and/or offer recommendations to others as to what forum contributions to read or to consider. Certainly, withdrawal from discussion and debate is one way one might choose to cope with views with which they disagree, but then some issues bear such significance it might be deemed worth persevering. (?)
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RHP User
9 years ago
I found Heathcliff! I hope they were edible flowers... Lol, Peachy Quoting 'usrightnow' Have been involved in a discussion, go back a few pages. If I get a chance, I'll hop in the DeLorean and check it out. Only been here four months and just so hate evolution, 😊😊😊😊😃😃😃😃 .Mr. urn. . I thought as a part of your discussion, you might be interested in RHP's take considering you are addressing questions in their direction. Cheers, Peachy :-)
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'MidnightCruisin'It must be the weather... ...as there's agro in the air and everywhere. I'm starting to think saying hello is enough to start an argument for some and the rest wait until they're safely inside their cars before they start blasting away using their horn. When walking on the sidewalk becomes danger due to the traffic...it's time to stay indoors! They're driving everyone ~crazy~... We're coming up to a full moon in a couple of days. Peachy ... these tags are too funny...
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'RHP_Editor'There appears to be a lot of assumptions about moderation and RedHotPie's management. Firstly, RedHotPie is indeed a business but that is not to say the owners are not a part of the community (did you think they randomly decided to start RHP up?) and enjoy the various discussions that have taken place over the years. We (as an operational body) are however, mindful of topics that may have a negative effect both on the website as well as the community. Our preference is to exclude topics that are considered 'triggers' for some people. These may include topics such as suicide, sexual assault, mental health issues and other traumas. We have no doubt that the majority of posters have the capacity to keep discussions about these topics civil but it only takes a a word or two to bring up bad memories for some people, or for a topic to simply go wrong. No one should be, or feel responsible for another person's well being. Yes, we appreciate that the support of fellow posters may be beneficial to many people under some circumstances but the opposite occurring is just as likely with so many strong and conflicting personalities coming together. We also prefer to exclude or limit the discussion of illegal activities for common sense reasons. You may wish to have a thought-provoking debate about medical marijuana but we know from past experience that a couple of posters will (sometimes inadvertently) spoil the fun by discussing how they smoke it, grow it, distribute it. Most such posts are removed before view naturally, but if a topic invites that sort of response regularly, we'd rather pull it. Unfortunately aside from ensuring content is relevant to a topic and adheres to our Terms of Use, moderation is largely us being school teachers. If someone whinges to us about a topic, we sometimes dismiss the whinge or if the whinging is loud enough, we try and find a solution. Sometimes we just don't have the time or inclination to find out 'who started it' or what exactly someone said that offended someone, so a topic dies or gets frozen. We try and avoid it but if a topic has run its course and no one seems to be staying on topic, that's a solution. We're looking forward to upgrading various features on RedHotPie in the New Year and Forums is indeed one area which we hope to find new ways to ensure that contributing to it is fun. This may even include getting the original poster to help moderate their own replies and manage what goes in it. To be honest, we can only work with words sometimes. We don't always know if what seems like an insult is actually an insult to the recipient or not but the original poster may be a better judge of that. To wrap things up: * We actually do appreciate feedback but Forums isn't where to post it if it is regarding concrete issues with the website or suggestions for RedHotPie that you'd like to see taken on board. That's what our Help section is for. * If you have an issue with RedHotPie, then once again, take it to the Help section. If you think someone at a party has bad breath, you usually discreetly take them aside to tell them, not announce it to the whole world or get a whole bunch of people to agree with you. * Don't open a can of worms. If you know a topic is likely to, then please word it differently, or stress in your original post that replies *must* stick to the topic. I think that's it. Have a great Christmas and look forward to seeing what you get up to in 2015 :) Ed.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Stick to the topic and vent about anything (anything), except other lovely forum members.
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RHP User
9 years ago
👲 Confucius says "Pass de listerine on de left han sye"
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RHP User
9 years ago
And I am just not ready to go back to work yet. 🙃😫😩😤😲😴😡😣
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RHP User
9 years ago
Can not get the Airdrop function to work. Not on my iPhone nor on my iPad Pro. SO ANNOYING! Can anyone help with that? 😇💋
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'CandyDelicious' Can not get the Airdrop function to work. Not on my iPhone nor on my iPad Pro. SO ANNOYING! Can anyone help with that? 😇💋 between the iPhone and Ipad, or to a Mac? My macbook air looked like it would allow you to airdrop - you could open it from Finder, but it's older and needed a Continuity patch applied because Apple in their infinite wisdom decided that even though the hardware supports it, they'd not enable airdrop as standard on mine. What generation mac is it? (I'd completely forgotten about airdrop till your post, I just dropbox sync everything between my devices/computers)
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RHP User
9 years ago
Talking about one of Luck Dragon's secret loves, yay nsw won a game. My vent is, if only qld would let us win 2 games in a series for once. I wouldn't have to suffer so much ribbing each year. Yes, i realise I go for nsw but have always lived in qld. I'm crazy like that 😛 Sorry to spill ur secret LD as well 😝
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RHP User
9 years ago
Between my iPhone6s and my new iPad Pro. Both on IOS 9.3.2 and on same wifi. Have tried everything even reverting back to network factory settings. When I try to share something the airdrop option is there but no contacts come up. I have tried from both devices and it doesn't work. :-/
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MsSuperFoxy
9 years ago
A man (from GC) urinating in a prayer mat, inside a prayer room (apparently in Move World theme Park) and sharing on social media. It's one thing to openly discuss cultures etc, it's another to deliberately vandalize, then share on social media. :( Ms Foxy
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'soretongue' Talking about one of Luck Dragon's secret loves, That's so secret that even I didn't know about it...
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MsSuperFoxy
9 years ago
Thank you, very kind of you. However, I can speak up for myself. :) Ms Foxy
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MrFit71
9 years ago
CandyDelicious make sure you have both wifi and bluetooth enabled, airdrop i believe uses both.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Summersolstice' Clean-up again after a fellow forumite got called a name. Don't we have enough of that in the world right now? Last night, I requested two of my own posts be deleted from the "Political Correctness Police" thread. This morning I noticed not just my own two posts, but that entire thread appears to have been removed! I wish to make it clearly known, I have not and did not request anyone else's posts be deleted/censored/moderated in any way. Is this the "clean-up" to which you refer?
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Seachange73
9 years ago
Did I miss out on the shenanigans again? 😁 hmmm
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'CandyDelicious' Between my iPhone6s and my new iPad Pro. Both on IOS 9.3.2 and on same wifi. Have tried everything even reverting back to network factory settings. bluetooth enabled as well as wifi, and both set to "everyone"?
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RHP User
9 years ago
obviously I missed something, not sure what happened. Summer, I did misread your other post, I'm sorry. It wasn't quoted so I didn't know who you were talking about. But I get what you mean now. As for what else happened, I haven't been on here all day so no clue
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RHP User
9 years ago
Yep.
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MsSuperFoxy
9 years ago
Summer, is it your post, you are talking about? If it bothers you that much , why don't you ask the mods, rather than putting out there to shame again? You did shame another. I for one, read and ignored. As for the person who reported it, obviously they didn't like it, so reported it. I know, it wasn't me. Ms Foxy
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Seachange73
9 years ago
I did read your post on the hypocrisy of it all. Yes I hope people read and remember the comments made by people who say they don't insult and put people down but do it just the same. Their nasty comments are deleted after their views are contested by a lot of people and they come out smelling new and innocent again. I am pretty outspoken about discrimination and censorship as you know. We have seen seemingly 'nice' people who disrespect people for their sexuality and lifestyle get away with it as traces of their thoughtless ignorant attacks disappear into the ether. Then back to being mother Theresa again. The inconsistency of their behaviour makes me wonder...
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RHP User
9 years ago
I have seen a few comments by Lily which shocked me by their bluntness and the way they made things personal.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Who could ever say anything against such a lovely arse. 😘
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MsSuperFoxy
9 years ago
I have no idea about SOTL post. Ms Foxy
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RHP User
9 years ago
we get it, seriously, we get it, but by constantly posting comments like that one, are you any better? You and others also assume that posts removed are removed through someone is sitting there with their finger on the trigger reporting them. That's quite often not the case, the mods do it, particularly when the onslaught starts. So the only ones to blame are the ones posting those comments. If the comments weren't personal or offensive, they wouldn't be removed. So the constant narky remarks about censorship, which seem to be aimed at individuals on here, is senseless and ignorant in itself IMHO
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RHP User
9 years ago
and one wonders how long that comment will stick, let's see who the real hypocrites are
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Seachange73
9 years ago
I never said I was a saint. I have been here long enough for people to recognise I am very outspoken and sometimes blunt specially to people who are two faced and hold discriminatory views and flog it to all as though these views are acceptable. It is an insult to my intelligence and ethical beliefs to accept such ideas sitting down. I have never said image saint. That would be fucking boring and totally pretentious and totally goes against my tenacious nature. I am no shrinking violet. 😉 When friends of mine or people I consider good are belittled or lambasted by ignorant and delusional people, I really don't have time for their shit and i will rightly call it as it is. Loyalty. Friendship and honesty are virtues I value and fiercely uphold. My friends here can vouch for that. Is that frigging shocking enough for you? 😉
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Seachange73
9 years ago
I for one would like the comments to hang around. Would not want those deleted, by the mods or the usual suspects. If one is big enough to post their thoughts in the forum, they should be big enough to wear the consequences of it, good or bad. Just wear your big girl or boy undies when walking into past forum doors. Of course you would recognise what narky comments are, we all post them, one time or another. Some more than others. 😉
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RHP User
9 years ago
Really who needs to be reminded what happened a few floors up ? Why is it that the person always have a stir the pot ? I had some very good advice from a lovely poster who stated ignore her she doesn't like it . I have never asked for posts to be removed I own what I write and if the person doesn't like it go to mods then. Lily you have had your digs at me in the past which was hurtful as I have met you IRL , I thought you knew me better than that . Disappointed in you and the other person could be so catty at least your conscious got the better of you and you texted me with a apology. IMO stay to your happy self and try not to fight other people's battles . BTW I'm a outsider looking in which the above was yesterday's news . Don't know why Summer has to go on about it ? Sticking up for her friends? Maybe she should let her mates stick up for themselves . I wonder if my post will stay I doubt it though.
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RHP User
9 years ago
I am very direct and blunt myself and appreciate that in others. Unfortunately with no IP my comments are restricted some what. I was referring to personal attacks and insults designed to belittle people. Comments that are quite frankly totally out of order. I will let you know the next time I see it. So everybody wins. 😉 Lovely that people stick up for their friends but insulting others takes it back to the school yard and doesn't reflect well on those people.
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Seachange73
9 years ago
do that and I shall return the favour.
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Seachange73
9 years ago
Quoting 'Pink_Sprinckles' Really who needs to be reminded what happened a few floors up ? Why is it that the person always have a stir the pot ? I had some very good advice from a lovely poster who stated ignore her she doesn't like it . I have never asked for posts to be removed I own what I write and if the person doesn't like it go to mods then. Lily you have had your digs at me in the past which was hurtful as I have met you IRL , I thought you knew me better than that . Disappointed in you and the other person could be so catty at least your conscious got the better of you and you texted me with a apology. IMO stay to your happy self and try not to fight other people's battles . BTW I'm a outsider looking in which the above was yesterday's news . Don't know why Summer has to go on about it ? Sticking up for her friends? Maybe she should let her mates stick up for themselves . I wonder if my post will stay I doubt it though. I have no idea how you have made that leap that I was attacking you with regards to the deletion of the posts? How did you come to that conclusion? You were the furthest in my mind with regards to those who vexatiously ask for post deletion. so you lost me there. I thought you also knew me better with regards to attacking you. The only time I commented about you personally was when you and your ex, my good friend, had a fallout for the last time. I regretted the reactive comment I posted and apologized to you personally, as an adult would have done. I have my big girl's pants, always. I am surprised and disappointed with your comment above as I have not attacked you before, aside for that misguided comment above, even if others did when your laundry was aired on the forum. You should know. We talked about it and advised you guys to keep your private life off forum. I also was supportive of both of you, in the background, regardless of how other people perceived you trying to encourage and empathize with you and advised you sort things out amicably. I have tried to be impartial and compassionate to your issues. Have I not? That is because I saw you are a good person and potentially a good friend. Well, I thought that was the case. So you can see how disappointed I was to read the above. You know I am not a nasty person but I am quite strong minded and vocal in my opinions, but I am also don't take shit from anybody. In the forum or in real life. Consistency is what I am all about and have been honest to you from day one. I will leave it at that as I think all has been said. I said my piece. Cheers and take care.
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sweetgem
9 years ago
The hospital had warned me about the side effects of walking too much and too far after having a lumbar epidural procedure done! They did warn me about the side effects of having a lumbar, but not what would happen if I wandered off too far away from my bed! 😕 now I'm learning the side effects myself! 😠 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
okay now it's clear to me who pink_Sprinkles is. thanks LO. Typical gas lighting behaviour I think. Interesting forum.
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RHP User
9 years ago
hearing my neighbour get off just makes me more frustrated Only 2 more sleeps God I hope she doesn't read this, if you do, go for it, sounds like you're having a whole lot of fun
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RHP User
9 years ago
actually 3 more sleeps
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RHP User
9 years ago
I've become aware that IT has copped some "shit" over the thread she started for me at my request. I did that as I was unintentionally hi jacking the other thread and wasn't sure how to start 1 myself. "Ryan's Story" now appears to have been deleted, but I still thank everybody for there kind words and for reading my story. It was never meant for sympathy, nor to start a "bun fight" but to merely help ppl understand the sort of situations our kids can get into unwittingly & the dire conciquences that can follow. I truly hope my story was read and accepted in the vain it was meant be. The main reason I missed all of this & didn't respond, was I had prostrate surgery last Weds & wasn't very active on RHP for a time. Thx & Cheers Paul.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'ontology' Quoting 'Summersolstice' Clean-up again after a fellow forumite got called a name. Don't we have enough of that in the world right now? Last night, I requested two of my own posts be deleted from the "Political Correctness Police" thread. This morning I noticed not just my own two posts, but that entire thread appears to have been removed! I wish to make it clearly known, I have not and did not request anyone else's posts be deleted/censored/moderated in any way. Is this the "clean-up" to which you refer? The abovementioned thread has reappeared, and only the two posts (of my own) which I requested the Mods delete, have been deleted.
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MsSuperFoxy
9 years ago
What do you mean by "typical" gaslighting behaviour? Are you a doctor or trained professional as psychologists or psychiatrist? I only ask and am curious, as I didn't like that comment, as I think sometimes people do self-diagnose others on here, a little too much. I believe it undermines the role of a doctor or trained professional in human behaviours. Ms Foxy
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Tall74nHard9
9 years ago
Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' actually 3 more sleeps that your previous 'issue' had been resolved. Is there now another one ???
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RHP User
9 years ago
Huh? Same guy different day lol I'm just impatient. I want it and I want it now 😜😁
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Seachange73
9 years ago
Quoting 'CandyDelicious' okay now it's clear to me who pink_Sprinkles is. thanks LO. Typical gas lighting behaviour I think. Interesting forum. No worries.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Of course. I am not one for all those self help books like some. ;-) I felt LO's comment was designed to make PS feel bad. From where I sit it appeared manipulative. Please note- this is not a doctors opinion. 🙄
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'PL1963' I've become aware that IT has copped some "shit" over the thread she started for me at my request. It wasn't because she started that thread, people were aware that was done at your request.
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AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
Im with Foxy on the gaslighting comment. I cant see it. Define it for us, the definition versus Pinks post.....
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RHP User
9 years ago
Your thread is in off topic. Peachy xox
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Seachange73
9 years ago
Quoting 'CandyDelicious' Of course. I am not one for all those self help books like some. ;-) I felt LO's comment was designed to make PS feel bad. From where I sit it appeared manipulative. Please note- this is not a doctors opinion. 🙄 I think you are making a mountain out of a molehill.... Or shit stirring. You read too much into things for whatever motivation....Slow day? Lol. You have no background on who i am and my history with PS. My previous comments on censorship were general, not directed at anyone but PS seems to have taken it personal. Not intended to target her or anyone in particular. It seems your attacks on me of late, which is nasty and personal, is ironic and out of order, IMHO. Just pointing it out... However, I am so glad I occupy your consciousness and interest you... I'm flattered.
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MsSuperFoxy
9 years ago
I believe I did ask a fair question, out of curiosity, and rits been edirect. I believe my question has not been answered. Who are the "some" you are refering too? I didn't mention a thing about self help books, so unsure why you mentioned that for. My question still stands and what I last posted. Ms Foxy
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MsSuperFoxy
9 years ago
Been redirect.
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MsSuperFoxy
9 years ago
His drill or the account. 😫 Ms Foxy
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RHP User
9 years ago
Haha yes it's me that had a realtionship with AnnieWhichway so I just want to set the record straight for you or anyone that wants to read or believe ? I was a lurker for a long time and reading Annie's posts and i would laugh and really got her . I messaged her one day and said she is a delight to read , messaged a couple of times to catch up which we did and immediately fell for each other . We have that many great memories that I will never forget . What upset me the most was when Annie mentioned that I called her a freak on this thread and a lot of people were upset for her which I totally get , a big but was the ones that kept the cattiness going eg Lily and Summer with I can't quote as I have a I phone ... " Summer There's still a stubborn stain on your profile hands Nappisan " Lily. But mould killer would be better Yep I retailiated buy stooping to there level and I was disgusted by myself for doing it and I'm sorry . Ok I would never call Annie a freak in how you comprehended that I feel in love with Annie / him . I spent a lot of time together with Annie , Out to dinner heaps , shopping partying and mets off RHP . Thanks for the great guys we met for TVMF you guys rock 👍 My point is why would I call her a freak , I fuckin love tvs cross dressers i get them with Annie having 2 personalities btw I loved being her girlfriend and with him as well imo we had more fun with Annie lol Annie and i know that we will always be there for each other . So Lily that's why I was upset and I will never share TMI in the future so can we just move forward and forgive . Lily you misunderstood me I never even think who deletes posts i always thought RHP did it I learnt something new
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RHP User
9 years ago
I am with PinkSprinkles on this one and my gaslighting comment was not directed at her comment. I didn't realise only men can display manipulative behaviour? Doesn't say that when I looked him the defintion. In relation to other comments above there is always two sides to every story which is why I wouldn't say anything hurtful about a person's ex. I support my friends of course but you can do that with about defaming somebody else. Pink Sprinkles I can totally understand how upsetting it would have been. Dare I say, how betrayed you would feel. And I am aware my comment will not endure me to some. But I don't give a rats. Have a good day everyone. :)
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RHP User
9 years ago
Manipulative behaviour as in gaslighting I mean above.
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AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
My point is why would I call her a freak , I fuckin love tvs cross dressers i get them with Annie having 2 personalities btw I loved being her girlfriend and with him as well imo we had more fun with Annie lol I'd better not tell my male half to head on over here to have a read............LOL.His first hint of a validation is a dud. I think I might have to
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