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Venting

January 28 2015

I have read a few posts and noted that some people occasionally like to vent (fair enough and probably good for the constitution). My vents are that the last 4wks I have had to work 10-12 hrs days, due to the industry I work in and the weather, also because of the weather, the grass is growing way to fast and I therefore need to mow the damn lawns more often than I have time What are your "Vents", if any, or are you happy with everything in life. (just fun general vents and complaints about life in general, not serious), Could be Politics, sex, partners, weather, work, kids, parents, friends (or lack of), the cost of beer, wine, or salami !!!! anything.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Can somebody please tell me why I don't have instant posting like so many others do. I only use my computer as my phone is not compatible with the RHP phone app. My profile has also been verified from the first day I joined. Cheers

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    11 years ago

    You need to ask customer service very nicely. Dont hit em up for a root though, at least not at the same time.....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Appreciate that very much Any. I'll be nice and promise I won't hit them up. Cheers

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    11 years ago

    Then there will be the challenge a few of us have. Keeping it!

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    11 years ago

    Who was the Dimwit that came up with that! Beautiful sunny day down this way. Lol.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    It's because you are new,..thecustomer service people might monitor your posts for a while...just to make sure you ain't a rabble rouser 😁xx Freya

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Freya79' It's because you are new,..thecustomer service people might monitor your posts for a while...just to make sure you ain't a rabble rouser 😁xx Freya to figure that out though... I was given instant posting within a week if I recall correctly.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Two things and I will try to keep it short and calm. My mother told me of this at our Sunday coffee catch up as I choose not to watch news or read it in papers as I don't like that it comes from one perspective only. Perhaps I was told this a bit out of context and I do so hope I was. 1. A new life has come into the world and a beautiful one but no more important than any other. Yes I speak of the new royal. An ignorant piss ant of a journalist has written that with the birth of this child perhaps it shall ease some of the pain from the Nepal disaster. Let me see this person and slap some dickhead out of them. 2. Another topic going about after the sad Nepal tragedy is about with the loss of so many Nepalese women how difficult it may be for some to find surrogate mothers for those who need this.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I know that I posted something where I mentioned a particular dating website. Only after it had been removed did I realise that it was in breach of the terms of the forums. I was not particularly nice about that said site. So I figure that is probably the reason.Thanks for the feedback Any, Freya and KIS

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Damn good game, but I was hoping the Kiwis would win by more

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    11 years ago

    Your posts have all been respectable as far as I've seen. Dont think you have any probs. I dont think they give it to you without asking. I had to ask for mine but then i did have an occasional questionable post in my history that were removed. But then if you dont, are yiu going hard enough....

  • MissBishere

    MissBishere

    11 years ago

    excruciating back spasms. I can not move without assistance and lots of swearing. My 15 year old just learnt some new words. At least I'm expanding her vocabulary. 😩😰 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Missb72' excruciating back spasms. I can not move without assistance and lots of swearing. My 15 year old just learnt some new words. At least I'm expanding her vocabulary. 😩😰 - Posted from rhpmobile There's not much worse... hugs xxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Missb72' excruciating back spasms. I can not move without assistance and lots of swearing. My 15 year old just learnt some new words. At least I'm expanding her vocabulary. 😩😰 - Posted from rhpmobile Two weeks ago, I was in a similar position, my poor girls were left to assist me out of bed and to get me dressed (Hubby at work early) I did make a right fuss, swearing & shouting, scared the living daylights out of them and probably ensured they don't enter into support work or nursing careers.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Missb72' excruciating back spasms. I can not move without assistance and lots of swearing. My 15 year old just learnt some new words. At least I'm expanding her vocabulary. 😩😰 - Posted from rhpmobile And I feel your pain. I have had 3-4 issues now (luckily not for the past 18-months, with severe back spasms. Could not even move without pinching a nerve and causing severe spasms/pain, had to get taken to hospital twice as I could not even roll over in bed without excruciating pain. Learnt that it was something to do with a past motorcycle injury, plus not using my core muscles. Feel for you as it is not nice :-( Get well soon.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Have had the most miserable day today, I couldn't even face work!! I'm just so sad right now and I hate feeling like this. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'sammyfunxo' Have had the most miserable day today, I couldn't even face work!! I'm just so sad right now and I hate feeling like this. - Posted from rhpmobile Big hug for you. Hope it is better tomorrow.

  • MsJonesy

    MsJonesy

    11 years ago

    gentle ones for the sore MissB, and healing ones for sad Sammy. I hope tomorrow brings improvements for you both.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Why do some people never try anything different, never venture out of their comfort zone, never think outside the box, be constant pussies.......... then whinge that what they are doing isn't working for them. FFS. Make an effort will ya! Grrrrrrrrrrrrr

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    11 years ago

    Douche bags who post with the appearance of wanting to self improve but who accept only positive reinforcement of their current disposition. It will be a very long and smooth road. People who accept the criticism and negative opinions can expect a short but bumpy road. I would choose the later But i never asked for the journey. Happy with what/who i am. Need to take a break from here. Not sure how long. Ill be amazed if i last a day but will see. Maybe see you all sooner rather than later.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I am well aware of the phenomenon of one person being the straw that breaks the camel's back, but please don't let that ignorant fool chase you away. We all know that bigotry is a sign of low intelligence...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    See you tomorrow x

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Love you xo

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Every other new member has fake pics and it's my butt that gets restricted. Grrrrr.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Meander' Every other new member has fake pics and it's my butt that gets restricted. Grrrrr. I can see your butt. It is probably restricted for the app only.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Never let Meander's butt, get "restricted". Cheers P.L.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    is a thing of absolute beauty.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Meander' Every other new member has fake pics and it's my butt that gets restricted. Grrrrr. thankfully showing up for members ;) it looks fine on my end

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    It seems I'm allowed to show my butt again, on the app too. My pic got restricted 30 seconds after I put it up as my main one, and an annoyed message went to customer support within another 30. Maybe one of the work experience kids couldn't quite handle the sight of it. ;-)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Just 😝xxFreya

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    My butt looks fine one your... end? You wish :-P

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I'm sure if a work experience kid saw that it would be burned into their memory and they had themselves a great night with that image

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    11 years ago

    Hello, my name is Annie. I have a problem. It has been 25 hrs since my last post. And i cant go any longer. (sighs) Fuck..............

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Welcome to our strange addiction 😘xxFreya

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    RHP says: "the photo is only unable to be viewed via the mobile app. Apple's content guidelines prohibit the display of images that contain any explicit imagery - which in this case includes visible buttocks." Sheesh, I'm wearing undies. The Victoria's Secret models show more on the runway.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Wouldn't be the same without your posts and are you testing out the mobile app and the apple guidelines meander is speaking of with your latest pic or is there some sort of buttathon happening I don't know about.

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    11 years ago

    Since we had an arsathon.....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    This one's for Google.

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    11 years ago

    Lookin like it. Had to check her page to see how many more she has. Think i have enough to cover her.....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    In the words of Bruce Springsteen, "That's what we're lookin' for". Cheers P.L.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I get so distracted and confused when profile pics look so alike.I have poor bum recognition😘😘a pogue for both mahones xxFreya

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Freya79' I get so distracted and confused when profile pics look so alike.I have poor bum recognition😘😘a pogue for both mahones xxFreya Nearly made the mistake of checking out Anywichways butt. Not that there is anything wrong with it if you are into that, I'm just not. Now, back to Meanders

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Thanks gods you took the phone number out, but names too please! :-/

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Why, on the "My Stream" do I get messages / profiles come up saying there is a new member looking for me, and when I look at the profile they are anything but looking for me. I have even had quite a few that are looking for woman or couples only, obviously not me as I am a single guy ??

  • MissBishere

    MissBishere

    11 years ago

    is I had a dream about that particular pic of yours last night meander. Not even sexual it was just there as art work on the wall - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I have no words! :-D

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Get used to it man, RHP do it too keep us guys payin' our $54 a mth. Do a search on ladies profiles that match your needs, 80% are "dead in the water", most come on once, get overrun with "filth" msg's and disappear. It's no easy street for us genuine guys over 45. Cheers Man. P.L.

  • ToThickToThroat

    ToThickToThroat

    11 years ago

    I am rendered speachless by your current profile picture Meander I mean that is ...........well..........ummmm.......phew........ hmmm let's just say that is Art, and very erotic, I am a red blooded male and that picture (after seeing your other beautiful shots) stunning! I don't know who you are trying to attract but I think you will get and do get a full message count with pics like that. Thank you for sharing that on here it is a very sexy photo :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'PL1963' Get used to it man, RHP do it too keep us guys payin' our $54 a mth. Do a search on ladies profiles that match your needs, 80% are "dead in the water", most come on once, get overrun with "filth" msg's and disappear. It's no easy street for us genuine guys over 45. Cheers Man. P.L. Especially where I live in a small rural type community. Zero people interested. But heh, some of the forums are good fun :-)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Yeah, I'm hearin' ya to man, I've had a few sucess's on RHP, but it's hard work & a lot of msg's. Yes, the forums are a lot of fun and a good insight into ladies minds. Keep tryin' man, perhaps put up a "traveller profile" to the "big smoke" now and then?

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    11 years ago

    Moderators are a tad sensitive about comments on membership fees. Strange yours stayed and mine went pffft..... And i was promoting longer term memberships. Maybe i didnt post properly but either way, ill move on.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Do men send messages calling me darl...makes me feel like the dead galah in Neighbours 😒xxFreya

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Do men send messages calling me darl...makes me feel like the dead galah in Neighbours 😒xxFreya

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Freya79' Do men send messages calling me darl...makes me feel like the dead galah in Neighbours 😒xxFreya Babe, sweetie, cutie.... I can't stand any of them. Call me KIS/Keepit/Simple until you know my name and then use that! Pet names are something that come with intimacy, don't try to give me one until we have shared it...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I got a message this morning that started with "Hey hottie". 😒

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Do any of you find that some young women serving in shops call you darling and sweetheart? I find it really weird, like I am a child or something. Oh shit. Is it because I am short?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    What's with some of those counters that are so tall I can't even hand my money over to pay. I mean what the fuck!!!!!!!!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Why do some bus drivers drive like friggin maniacs. Do you know how hard it is to stay on your seat when your feet don't touch the floor! Seriously, sometimes I feel like exiting the bus from the front and vomiting in the bus drivers lap on the way past. That will learn him.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Shop girls like to call me sweetie. I mean, what the hell?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Little Meeka doll. 😂

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    11 years ago

    That Meeka is 3'6".......

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Meander' Shop girls like to call me sweetie. I mean, what the hell? Sometimes shops have jars with them in, maybe they were offering you one

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Meander' Shop girls like to call me sweetie. I mean, what the hell? Sometimes shops have jars with them in, maybe they were offering you one

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    For the laugh ladies. And yes I do cop darl myself and the occasional sweetie. And I love dahl one of my favourite things to make and eat.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    In first messages I've been called sweetie, sexy, hottie, babe, dear and beautiful Angel. Worst ever: hun (except from female for female forumites I've actually met).

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Tablet has a mind of its own.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Brrrr (need to find me a bed (and body) warmer :-)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Some people just blow my mind.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I love glitches, sometimes they allow me to see far more than I should be able to.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Cyber Bullying and the refusal of people to recognise their part in it. Or to excuse it by putting the onus on the bullied.

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    11 years ago

    People say things that you cannot walk away from. It part of being human. Of recent times i refer to a male troll. We all showed restraint. I think that worked well. But it wont always work. You yank a dogs chain enough and it will bite.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I'm talking about cyber-bullying which is completely different from being trolled. :-)

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    11 years ago

    Of another male with subs when you say that. He's not as stupid as he makes out. He loves the role he has on here and the banter that he direcyly makes and absorbs. That's my take on it. Just the way he is. And what he gets back is not malicious. Might be borderline but hey, we are not angels here. h ljke your good self Peachy. Xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Adult cyber bullying often takes the form of “trolling.” The word comes from a reference to the method of catching fish by trolling a baited line in the water and waiting for a fish to bite. In the same sense, the Internet troll tries to “catch” an unsuspecting victim to demean and humiliate. Trolls are an annoying problem for those who use the Internet regularly. They are present on social media and in the comments sections of various websites, articles, blogs, and other online forums. . Cyber bullying in its simplest form takes place between two people through email, instant messaging, or phone texting. But to be fully satisfying to the genuine bully, there has to be an audience; thus, he elevates the bullying to social media, Twitter, or a comment forum. In this way, the humiliation is public and twice as shaming. And the bully can perform at his sadistic best (or worst) before like-minded aggressors.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Any_Whichway' Of another male with subs when you say that. He's not as stupid as he makes out. He loves the role he has on here and the banter that he direcyly makes and absorbs. That's my take on it. Just the way he is. And what he gets back is not malicious. Might be borderline but hey, we are not angels here. h ljke your good self Peachy. Xx To be blatantly literal, no one on Earth is an Angel Annie. . My post though is about cyber bullies. It's come up more than once lately and many times in the forums over the years.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I sometimes do not understand why some threads and posts are allowed and others are not. I have posted a few things that have been removed yet others I have read on the same thread are 100% more full on. My friend just put a thread up that was a really good question but was refused and was very harmless, not derogatory or offensive in any way. So I am wondering what are the rules and guidelines and why are some that obviously cause offense and are derogatory allowed to stay. Is it to do with being in the in crowd and who you know. I am so confused

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    11 years ago

    Yes and some of us are guilty but not intentionally i dont think. Its a little bit the same as a normal conversation but as you might remember, a missed comma, a missed grammar error and people take it the wrong way. You cant stop that, the same as you cant stop the sun from rising......

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    11 years ago

    Give an example....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    why is it so hard to meet a nice guy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    You'll be right. . It's the Vent thread, not Ask "Annie".

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I have put up new topics and they haven't appeared,so I send the mods a message..the reason is usually a whoops sorry,can you put it up again..Recently a few threads have appeared only to instantly disappear.put your posts up again if they disappear,unless the whole thread is at issue they should appear again...also some times posters request for threads to be shut down and the mods usually comply xxFreya

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'TisonlyI' I sometimes do not understand why some threads and posts are allowed and others are not. I have posted a few things that have been removed yet others I have read on the same thread are 100% more full on. My friend just put a thread up that was a really good question but was refused and was very harmless, not derogatory or offensive in any way. So I am wondering what are the rules and guidelines and why are some that obviously cause offense and are derogatory allowed to stay. Is it to do with being in the in crowd and who you know. I am so confused I think you'll find you're part of a large group there. . There are 'guidelines' over on the right of the forums under "Forum Help". . Forum Boards Stay ON Topic Hasn't That Topic Been Posted Before? Where the heck did that Topic go? RedHotPie Forums = A Big Party . Guidelines were requested for many years with questions like yours but they didn't help . But REALLY, once a topic or post hits the forums, anyone of us can act as a censor by reporting to the moderators. RHP has, of course, the last word. Not that I haven't tested them over the years.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Any_Whichway' Give an example.... Since part of Mrs Peachy's last comment on the Sexpo thread showed up on my feed I think this might be about Chev being bullied, but don't quote me on that.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    For your words Freya and MrsPeachy. Much appreciated

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Missed your post on the last page about said forum.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    you reckon Annie??

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    11 years ago

    Surely not????Maybe the little head is in charge there.......

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    11 years ago

    If I can stop laughing for a moment at the situation, I sort of feeling sorry for him. Obviously the little princesses are taking advantage of his addiction to sex and sucking him dry. But then when I think about that part, I no longer feel sorry for him. My head spins.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'TisonlyI' I sometimes do not understand why some threads and posts are allowed and others are not. Who knows?Life has its little mysteries

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Any_Whichway' Yes and some of us are guilty but not intentionally i dont think. Its a little bit the same as a normal conversation but as you might remember, a missed comma, a missed grammar error and people take it the wrong way. You cant stop that, the same as you cant stop the sun from rising...... You are right. Got to give a bit of benefit sometimes (me included)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Single_Guy4U' Quoting 'Any_Whichway' Yes and some of us are guilty but not intentionally i dont think. Its a little bit the same as a normal conversation but as you might remember, a missed comma, a missed grammar error and people take it the wrong way. You cant stop that, the same as you cant stop the sun from rising...... You are right. Got to give a bit of benefit sometimes (me included) This was the venting thread... and if people were giving a bit of a benefit sometimes... maybe I wouldn't be venting about bullies.

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    11 years ago

    If you lived over here, maybe i could give you a bit of a benefit and you wouldn't have to worry about triviality....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'MrsPeachyPear' Cyber Bullying and the refusal of people to recognise their part in it. Or to excuse it by putting the onus on the bullied. I have all the benefits a girl could ask for right here at home. . With all due triviality...

  • Lovinit28andKC72

    Lovinit28andKC72

    11 years ago

    I dropped my phone and smashed the screen..... Not a happy camper.....

  • Seachange73

    Seachange73

    11 years ago

    half my clothes pegs are missing? what is going on? Where have they gone? Is there a clothes peg fairy? Will I find gold coins under my dryer? has the fairy discovered pegging? off to Aldi afterwoek to buy more pegs. sigh...

  • Seachange73

    Seachange73

    11 years ago

    A geniune question as we all have different levels of sensitivity and just trying to understand the level of tolerance of some people. Not an attack, but an enquiry. If I question a person about the real account in his/.her story or disagree in essence with their behaviour without the name calling or derogatory name slanging and attacks, is this considered cyber bullying? Are we allowed to comment on a behaviour, not the person, that may not sit well with us. Is this acceptable or are we not allowed to comment in the fear we will be sent to the naughty corner? Just curious.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Cheeky, the naughty corner is full !

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Are your pegs wooden ? if so they have been stolen by the fairy doll maker..the next sunny day,check out the bottom of your garden xxFreya 😘

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    My dogs steal them and leave them around the house in tiny bits. I think I need to buy some more too.

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    11 years ago

    Its only me in the naughty corner. Cheeky can come sit on my knee for a bit

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